Breathe deep. Reflect on the years you were a defenseless child and your parents took care of your clothing and food while asking nothing in return. Forgive them for being stupid; truly they know not what they do.
They sound like a difficult case, but even they will wake up eventually. Don't give up on them, but don't forget that they have been brainwashed for decades longer than you have, and so be kind as their recovery will be harder.
Definitely find a way to earn money before moving out. Whether it's a gig job on Upworks or fiver, or a bus ride to a job at a store, you need a source of money to live on your own. A roof and bed, and daily meals should not be taken for granted. Prayer will help, too; God works in unexpected ways. Good luck and God bless
I would say the worst part is those sort of parents don't teach you the value of hard work and overemphasize school. You need to teach yourself discipline. There is a shortage of people willing to work hard.
I live on a farm. We like to get 18-20 year olds to stay for a while in exchange for some amount of work. It's funny to listen to young people whine while not doing nearly enough to pay for food and electricity. But after a few months they normally work out. They start to see how good it feels to finish something or how nice it is to walk around and see how you are improving the place.
It's hard to grow up, especially when you've missed important lessons. Staying with frustrating people who will pay your way is better then being homeless. Improving your self so you can be self supporting should be the goal.
It must be the food and water, because there are so many people in that age group who, in the peak of their life, cannot do 8 hours a day with just one or two days off. I don't get it. At 73 I still work, I would go crazy with nothing to do.
It is something. With the new labor laws lots of farmers want new workers to just do two days a week. two ten hours days of mostly driving a tractor slowly in circles. That would pay enough for them to rent a room and be independent. And I've learned we can't just throw a new kid out there. They won't make it. They have never done anything for that long. It's weird how many young people have never tried to do anything besides go to school and memorize.
Not at 22. And honestly even under 18, if they truly don’t want the responsibility and give no fucks about you, they could just put you up.. (for adoption - which is not age restricted). I met someone in life that actually happened to.
Psychic energy vampires, yes, and subs people seem to be able to shake it off more easily, but deep wounds remain and take time to heal. Praying for you
Breathe deep. Reflect on the years you were a defenseless child and your parents took care of your clothing and food while asking nothing in return. Forgive them for being stupid; truly they know not what they do.
They sound like a difficult case, but even they will wake up eventually. Don't give up on them, but don't forget that they have been brainwashed for decades longer than you have, and so be kind as their recovery will be harder.
Definitely find a way to earn money before moving out. Whether it's a gig job on Upworks or fiver, or a bus ride to a job at a store, you need a source of money to live on your own. A roof and bed, and daily meals should not be taken for granted. Prayer will help, too; God works in unexpected ways. Good luck and God bless
I would say the worst part is those sort of parents don't teach you the value of hard work and overemphasize school. You need to teach yourself discipline. There is a shortage of people willing to work hard.
I live on a farm. We like to get 18-20 year olds to stay for a while in exchange for some amount of work. It's funny to listen to young people whine while not doing nearly enough to pay for food and electricity. But after a few months they normally work out. They start to see how good it feels to finish something or how nice it is to walk around and see how you are improving the place.
It's hard to grow up, especially when you've missed important lessons. Staying with frustrating people who will pay your way is better then being homeless. Improving your self so you can be self supporting should be the goal.
It must be the food and water, because there are so many people in that age group who, in the peak of their life, cannot do 8 hours a day with just one or two days off. I don't get it. At 73 I still work, I would go crazy with nothing to do.
It is something. With the new labor laws lots of farmers want new workers to just do two days a week. two ten hours days of mostly driving a tractor slowly in circles. That would pay enough for them to rent a room and be independent. And I've learned we can't just throw a new kid out there. They won't make it. They have never done anything for that long. It's weird how many young people have never tried to do anything besides go to school and memorize.
Not at 22. And honestly even under 18, if they truly don’t want the responsibility and give no fucks about you, they could just put you up.. (for adoption - which is not age restricted). I met someone in life that actually happened to.
Psychic energy vampires, yes, and subs people seem to be able to shake it off more easily, but deep wounds remain and take time to heal. Praying for you
He’s in his 20s, it’s not illegal for them not to provide him with food lol