We're at the end game, you won't be able to wake anyone up
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Amazing time for this post to show up.
It's almost 1am here. I'm sitting here at work (which has been closed all day; I needed to escape to clear my head/think things through and am the boss, so here I am), dreading going home to my asleep (physically, as well as mentally) family, and thinking about how emotionally drained I am about trying to wake them up. She's been wondering why I haven't been close to/with her, and has been for months now. She refuses to see the evidence or even comprehend what is about to happen, and attacks me for the way I tell her, rather than taking the information in. I'm going to have to explain why I didn't get home until after 2am, and I'm just going to tell her how numb and dead I am that she refuses to consider the truth. I have the perfect preface and everything, as well as a rebuttal to the inevitable "Trump" blah blah blah that I'll hear (as in, I won't even mention him). I'll most likely end up in a hotel somewhere for a bit until I find an apartment, but I just don't care anymore. I'm ready to move on if this last ditch effort fails.
I'm glad we haven't gotten married...
Tough situation. I am sorry you are going through that.
The best position from which to negotiate is when you can live without that for which you are negotiating. That's almost a contradiction.
But... if you perhaps start with the "I have arrived at a fork in the road" speech, it sends the message that you're walkin'. Will she then listen? Or not? If not, then she never would have.
So... "down the left fork is the path where I leave, we break up, and I wish you well. It's not my first choice. The other side of the fork is where you make an effort to understand the truth that has been hidden on many things, and we stay together and endure together. Which do you choose?"
Best of luck.
Thanks fren.
I'm pretty much coming from the place that you've described. I'm going to start explaining how I've got to hand it to them- they've managed to hide the truth in plain site for many decades, and convince people that those who have seen and understand the truth are nothing but "conspiracy theorists, crackpots, wackjobs, nuts, etc", and how they've conditioned people to use their emotions to attack and destroy any chance of getting the message out. From there, I'll explain that, in this age of instant information, they can can no longer hide the truth. If they censor, another avenue pops up in its place. If they attack and take down that avenue, another appears. They can no longer hide the truth. I'll go on and explain that I'm just emotionally numb and almost dead that I either cannot explain it to her, or she's unwilling to even understand what is coming, explain that this is why I've been pulling away and haven't felt anything lately, and then put the ball in her court.
Due to her marriage, she's emotionally crippled, and for the longest time, I was sympathetic to that. No longer, however, as I feel now that I'm the one who has to pay for the sins of her ex-husband, and I constantly have to hear about him and his "whore", which just adds to my numbness.
I'm heading home now. Thanks to all frens here, who have kept me from losing it over the past few years. I'm not one who operates on "feels", but in this case, the human instinct cannot be suppressed. It's not misguided in this case, though.
Oh man. She's got baggage if she dumps on you about her ex-husband's new woman. She shouldn't care about that if she has you, but apparently that's not enough. Do you have children with this woman of yours? If not, you are in a better position to split.
I agree, and I'm going to make that perfectly clear to her. We have no kids together, but she has her two teenaged boys (one is a sailor; the other in high school) and I have my adult son from a previous marriage. Just going to have to see how things go tomorrow evening, but it's stay or go for sure.
Wow... well, good luck to you, anon. I feel fortunate that my wife of many, many years, is at least somewhat receptive to these things. She constantly tells me, "I'll believe it when I see it," but when she DOES see it, at least I have prepared her for what is coming. I suspect our conversations will then take on a much more serious tone... she's a pretty smart cookie, and I'll try to answer her questions as best I can, when the time comes.
I won't presume to give marital or relationship advice, as each relationship between humans is different from all others. Best of luck to you in coming days.
I'm glad you haven't (yet) gotten married either as I'm thinking that would be even worse. It's been so hard to see people we love refuse to see what's right in front of them if only they would truly listen. Initially I was stunned, in disbelief when I would send people info on the dangers of the jabs and they would refuse to read it, some saying it was "from a partisan source". They've been told to refuse to consider anything but the carefully curated information put together to deceive them and they're fed a constant diet of fear porn. WE had to be shown this or we could not have otherwise believed it possible. It shouldn't be this hard for them to accept truth.
I spoke with two close friends this past weekend, guys I've known for decades, both adamant vaxxers. One was describing all the recent health issues he's been having including heart problems, the other depressed because a good friend of his just died suddenly, funeral this week. Both of these guys I've tried to warn in the past, both snarl and scorn and dismiss my urgent pleas - just like other loved ones have done. Another one, relative, now has heart issues, another friend's son has heart issues, another friend shingles and neurological problems, another had SADS, just dropped dead where she stood, another "having health issues" and their family has been grinding through the health wringer, some deaths there, various people they know dying "suddenly" who were previously healthy and some of those not elderly. And on and on.
We cannot "reach" them. Like all of us, they've been given free will, but they've made bad choices with that blessing. We cannot, in our own power, break their programming and make them listen with an open mind. So my heart sinks, the feeling of dread starts creeping in and I just turn to Christ, turn it over to God. I can't reach them, only He can. I pray for them daily and understand that I don't know what the larger picture is, what the Lord has working in the background or why this is all happening the way it is. I have to trust that, come what may, if I'm still here after the storm passes, I can just move forward in life in faith and with the Lord as my guide.
By the time you see this you'll most likely be home and in the midst of your conversation with your SO, so I hope everything goes well. I'll say a prayer for you that you can find some peace with this, perhaps even make some progress.
Bless you fren. The conversation won't happen tonight, as she's fast asleep, but I'll get all sorts of questions about why I came home so late tonight, in the morning. The door bell camera always gives the time away. We'll have the convo tonight when she gets home from work. Your prayers are appreciated. Thank you.
Keep us updated on how it goes.