I'll add an analogy I thought about this morning...I think everyone here is or has been experiencing difficulty, no matter what - physically, financially, emotionally, mentally - it's been hard "being you" in any number of ways....but that's par for the course when you're being upgraded... and ascending...
Think about when you're either building something new or repairing something. The work area or work bench is completely covered in tools, materials etc UNTIL the job is done. THEN it's time to clean up, organize and square everything away where it belongs.
Chaos is part of the process.... Although it may not seem like it, it's par for the course. Think about that as it relates to what you're experiencing...then toss all self judgement in the trash, because it's completely unwarranted and is only hurting you, unnecessarily. Stop and think about that for a second. We're all our own worst critic.
And...I want you to get this:
You're enduring the pain, confusion, etc right now so that you will be there for others who are still deeply asleep when the big changes come. You might still feel fear and confusion to a certain degree, but you'll be the ROCK that the others hold on to when things get scary. There's a reason God chose you to be here now.
With the loss of my 30-year spouse/darling/other soul I have found it so hard to even care about "being upgraded...and ascending." (Which used to be what I, and both of us, lived for, all our lives, even prior to meeting.) I literally feel like I died, holding and kissing those precious hands as the last breaths sighed out. Marriage is a sacrament, making two people one...and what am I, with my entire 2=1 self amputated?
So thank you. Literally the only thing I've had to hold on to is that I would rather be the one suffering like this, than to have had it be me going first.
That's a tough one...I know the emptiness. That's the hardest part of death for me. And the dreams with that person I projected into the future no longer a possibility.
Yes. I felt the change and 2:1 when I got married. It really is a sacrament.
May God comfort you and may you feel his love for you during these hard times.
And I extend a prayer and a hug to you in your loss.
It's the loss of dreams...but also the loss of someone who made me a better person, day after day, just by existing/interacting. The "boot camp" of marriage.
Seems to me the "youth culture" focus of the MSM/entertainment/etc. industry has completely ignored all these essential things. Marriage, life, death, working it out. Instead: perpetual consumerism.
I celebrated my 56th anniversary five days ago. I am still married to my husband, but he is on the other side waiting for me. Life never really ends; it just changes. He is free of all the illnesses and pains of this life and is with family and friends. I do not believe that those who have passed spend their time in anxiety to see us. Rather, their perspective is entirely changed by literally seeing God's will at work. Be happy for your loved ones who have gone before. God knows and loves each of us individually and knows when it is our time. He is our Savior and best friend.
Thanks for the reminder! I forgot about this.
I'll add an analogy I thought about this morning...I think everyone here is or has been experiencing difficulty, no matter what - physically, financially, emotionally, mentally - it's been hard "being you" in any number of ways....but that's par for the course when you're being upgraded... and ascending...
Think about when you're either building something new or repairing something. The work area or work bench is completely covered in tools, materials etc UNTIL the job is done. THEN it's time to clean up, organize and square everything away where it belongs.
Chaos is part of the process.... Although it may not seem like it, it's par for the course. Think about that as it relates to what you're experiencing...then toss all self judgement in the trash, because it's completely unwarranted and is only hurting you, unnecessarily. Stop and think about that for a second. We're all our own worst critic.
And...I want you to get this:
You're enduring the pain, confusion, etc right now so that you will be there for others who are still deeply asleep when the big changes come. You might still feel fear and confusion to a certain degree, but you'll be the ROCK that the others hold on to when things get scary. There's a reason God chose you to be here now.
Thank you for this.
With the loss of my 30-year spouse/darling/other soul I have found it so hard to even care about "being upgraded...and ascending." (Which used to be what I, and both of us, lived for, all our lives, even prior to meeting.) I literally feel like I died, holding and kissing those precious hands as the last breaths sighed out. Marriage is a sacrament, making two people one...and what am I, with my entire 2=1 self amputated?
So thank you. Literally the only thing I've had to hold on to is that I would rather be the one suffering like this, than to have had it be me going first.
You're welcome.
That's a tough one...I know the emptiness. That's the hardest part of death for me. And the dreams with that person I projected into the future no longer a possibility.
Yes. I felt the change and 2:1 when I got married. It really is a sacrament.
May God comfort you and may you feel his love for you during these hard times.
God bless you and thank you.
And I extend a prayer and a hug to you in your loss.
It's the loss of dreams...but also the loss of someone who made me a better person, day after day, just by existing/interacting. The "boot camp" of marriage.
Seems to me the "youth culture" focus of the MSM/entertainment/etc. industry has completely ignored all these essential things. Marriage, life, death, working it out. Instead: perpetual consumerism.
I celebrated my 56th anniversary five days ago. I am still married to my husband, but he is on the other side waiting for me. Life never really ends; it just changes. He is free of all the illnesses and pains of this life and is with family and friends. I do not believe that those who have passed spend their time in anxiety to see us. Rather, their perspective is entirely changed by literally seeing God's will at work. Be happy for your loved ones who have gone before. God knows and loves each of us individually and knows when it is our time. He is our Savior and best friend.
Via reassurances, explanation, material resilience, all, or something entirely different? Hm.
Whatever God tells you to do or be... You'll know when the time arrives
Beautiful, thank you.
Amen dear TaQo! Wise words fren..✨