Same, former Dem here -- the product of a blue state education.
The turning point for me was the primaries for 2016, when every candidate in the first debate except Jim Webb seemed to be running solely on how oppressive their gun control platform would be. And then Jim Webb dropped out. At that point I realized I was probably more libertarian than liberal, and definitely not a modern Democrat.
Yeah I hate voting blindly along party lines, but it's hard to imagine ever filling in a bubble with (Dem) next to it ever again after living through 2020-2021 in a blue state. Got a nice mix of (Rep) (Lib) (Ind) on my ballot this year.
Better than actually getting the jab, but even submitting a fake card sends the message that it's okay for your employer to coerce medical decisions. And it weakens the position of any other holdouts in the company.
Same, former Dem here. I'll be dead and gone before they get my vote again.
In addition to all the points in the OP, they lost me forever with months of unconstitutional lockdowns, followed by vaccine requirements in violation of the Nuremberg Code, all allegedly to stop a fucking cold virus with a 99.98% survival rate.