My girlfriend was recently vaccinated after I told her not to get it, could someone please give me a reason not to end the relationship immediately? I love this girl but she still got the vaccine after I showed her everything that could go wrong. Am I at risk? If we stay together and have children in the future (if even possible still) would they be affected?
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The long term effects are unknown. The "shedding" theory is unproven. If it's any consolation, my wife just joined the experimental injection club. She's an idiot but I'm not abandoning her.
Y'all are already married tho, it makes sense to not abandon her.
It appears she is not on the same level as you.. she does not 'have ears to hear and eyes to see' what you see. people on different wavelengths are not going to have a good relationship. Different priorities means a constant struggle... This will show up more when childen arrive. it is very important to be with someone on the same page as you are.
I seriously doubt shes capable of having kids anymore.
Before you dump her for possibly damaging her fertility why don’t you go get a sperm count done. Many young men today have had their testosterone levels damaged by the amount of plastics that touch our food and sometimes are in our food.
It seems like the reason you want to dump her is that she doesn’t respect your opinion. Well why don’t you wait and see if she starts having menstrual problems and then you can at least say I told yourself before you dump her.
But the better choice would be to let her realize you were right and be silent like a real man. Taking things personally is a sign of low testosterone, go get it measured too.
That’s fair. Not sure if you’re being genuine about getting tested but I would genuinely like to thank you. It’s not that she didn’t respect my opinion, it’s that the ability to have kids is a must for me, and so without that I don’t see a point in continuing the relationship as awful as that sounds. The worst part is that she didn’t want kids at first but now after a few long talks about how we see our future she does want them. I hate everything this world has become over this past year or so.
I wasn’t joking about getting yourself tested. If the two of you ended up having reproductive problems it’s just as likely that your low sperm counts would be responsible. There has been a very very serious drop in sperm counts in western men. Additionally, due to plastics and some foods there are a bunch of artificial estrogen’s floating around that are getting into men’s bodies and killing their testosterone production.
The globalist don’t need a vaccine that sterilizes men because their industrial poisons have already cut male virility by about 50%.
She wants you. Wouldn’t be the first time a woman pretended to get a husband. Just sayin’.
If a couple is so far apart in their ideals and beliefs it will be hard maintaining a relationship, especially if/when raising children.
Bingo.
Children aren't everything. This isn't the donald where we shame people for not having kids or not fitting the perfect conservative ideal. So i wouldn't leave someone you actually legitimately love over it, because truth be told actual love is rare. Plenty of successful marriages out there, but absolute real love as God intends it? Rarer than rare. Trump went through 3 wives and several kids before he found it, so if you have it right now on try one don't let it go.
That being said I would wait. If she doesn't pressure you or nag you about getting the vaccine yourself, it may be a sign she does respect you. If she starts shaming you for not getting it, tell her outright it's a deal breaker and you'd leave.
The biggest metric for your relationship will be her reaction to the truth soon. The stolen election is about to be fully revealed and even MSM will have to acknowledge the reality of it.
That is where you will find her true colors!
And if it goes poorly, dating will be a lot easier in a post Q world.
Wait. If the theories about the vax causing reproductive harm turn out to be true, then you can worry about that later, after proof exists. Right now, it's just an unproven theory, and it's not worth changing your life for, nor stressing over.
Sorry OP, but time to GTFO for your own physical and mental health.
It's a roll of the dice for the future. Couples are allowed to disagree on things. She, for example, might think you're being overly cautious or paranoid but she hasn't dumped you yet.
Relationships are a series of obstacles and events that try to get in the way of your relationship success. If you can keep clearing these obstacles and moving forward together, you'll find little issues like your positions on the "Vax", won't stand in your way.
Conversely, she could be sterile or birth flipper babies but you won't know until you go down that path together.
Sounds like you two don't really talk. Try laying out these difficult feelings on the table.
We did talk about this, and we are quite open and honest about everything with each other, I just can’t see myself with someone that I wouldn’t be able to have children with in the future. (She is aware of that last bit)
Then you have your answer. It is unacceptable to you that the potential mother of your children would risk her health. What's holding you back?
I’m worried she’d hurt herself if we broke up, she’s not in a stable place at the moment due to some family issues. I still love her it’s just the fact that she saw everything and refused to care about even her own future
This is a bigger red flag ? you cannot fix her she needs to be willing to fix herself regardless of family issues. Scared to leave because she might hurt herself is a big flag. Easier to leave now than if you were married and had children. These are all symptoms of a much bigger problem. I mean this with respect and sincerity.
I agree. You shouldnt be with someone because they might hurt themselves. You are not her keeper, and honestly if she really wanted to, you couldnt stop her. It sounds like she needs professional help, which is a good thing but it is a journey that can be emotionally exhausting. Will your future children be affected? Who knows? But it sounds like with everything you told her she still didnt care, knowing how serious and worried you were about her health and the health of your future children. You can love someone but not be the right fit, it happens in life. Everyone deserves happiness and nobody should sacrifice theirs out of loyalty, guilt or even love. Being healthy mentally and emotionally as an individual is important before you become a couple. Maybe you both should work on that first or maybe you take what you learned from this relationship and leave. Either way, God bless you and good luck.
It sounds as though you are in a relationship simply due to guilt, fren. I’ve been in similar situations. I see some big red flags in that you have reason to fear for her well-being if you leave her. You are not solely responsible for the entirety of her happiness. You’re supposed to make her happy as her boyfriend, sure, but it’s not supposed to all hinge on you.
If you truly love her then I’d say to stay until things become more clear regarding the jab. But if you’re only with her due to fear of her well-being then my advice is to leave and let the pieces fall where they may. That is a sign of toxicity
Modern women rebel against their fathers, boyfriends, husbands, and most importantly our LORD God. Leave her. Do not date or waste any more energy on her or other women. Focus on your spiritual health and pray to escape this matrix we are trapped in.
When 2 people love each other, they care for the welfare of each other. Since she put your health at risk shows her concern for herself only. I would separate. And if you have kids, planned or not, you just dont know what might happen.
Is it so different from living with a physically abusive partner? Risks are the same.
Leave immediately. Shedding is real. That's why they don't need to make the vax mandatory.
Since you are not married, I consider this a deal breaker. I have been married to my husband for 42 years. We are on same page and it is teamwork. This shot would be a deal breaker for me. Find a way to let her go, don’t look back