I'm kind of at that age now that I need to have kids if I want them. My wife wants kids. It's just hard for me with everything going on and the state of the world ... I've been telling her we'll see what the world looks like in 2024 and decide lol. I mean I've always wanted kids at some point and I feel it's important for based families to raise based and free thinking kids.. but right now I fear nothing, if I had little ones that would be very different.
Do it now. Don't wait. Worked hard, made money, got the big house, and waited to have them at at 34 and 37 (I'm female). I wanted another one, but felt it might be too much to afford and pushing it at my age.
Now I regret I didn't have more or start earlier. I didn't know then what I know now. Minimum two kids, have them close together 1-2 years apart, raise them together, it will be hard, but so full of joy, especially as you get older, you will be glad they are there for you.
Just go for it. The younger you are, the more they will enjoy you. You will never think you have enough money, but God provides. You know about the vaxxes and public school so you'll be able to bring them up happy and healthy. God bless!!
Its a good idea but the jewish money trap makes this impossible in most countries. I am living alone with my wife and we both earn on average a higher income than most couples in our age. We just bought our first house and are really struggling with the costs.
People who have 5 + kids in my country all live on welfare.
I think governments worldwide would love to have a large population of tax slaves being raised for free. Since people aren't doing that, they bring in immigrants to make up the difference.
I'm one of the sad bastards for whom it's most likely too late. I'm 40 now and spent my 20s and 30s basically brainwashed that it wasn't good to have kids, or I wasn't worthy, or I didn't want them, wouldn't be a good father, there are no good women anymore, blah blah blah, now in these last few years coming to my senses, it hurts to realize I let the prime years slip away.
40 is too old for a woman to have kids, or at least it starts to become high risk for down syndrome and birth defects, which means I would need to find a younger woman, which is a) unlikely to happen in terms of me finding one who would have me and b) likely that we would have very little in common if I did.
I am like you (42, unmarried). I have been very careful selecting a wife. As the saying goes: "Find a woman you can't live without, not the one you can live with."
My older brother got burned when he married at 24. He met his wife (27). She had a child from a previous relationship. Very soon, my brother became a total cuck. The wife gave birth to 5 children. Now she is totally lazy: constantly on social media, shopping and traveling with friends. I suspect that she is also cheating on him with their piano teacher.
Meanwhile, my brother is working full-time (solid income), cooking meals, raising kids and maintaining the house. He privately told me: "I have sacrificed my life for the kids. I will raise them until the youngest one is 18 and off to college. My dream is to divorce the wife."
Yeah, but the woman needs to be younger or else the risk for down syndrome gets too high, and I'm not really the kind of guy who is blowing any skirts up.
I am a female and had mine at 34 and 37. I was ready to have another, too, at 39, but hubby was trying to change jobs and it seemed risky financially. Now, I wish I had had that third one. Both of my kids are very smart, healthy and wonderful people. No regrets on having them.
For you, I think you should consider getting yourself in the best physical shape that you can (if not already), splurge on yourself and hire a good personal trainer and nutritionist, get shredded, get some new, better fitting clothes, go lay in the sun and tan a bit, do some teeth whitening, go get a pedicure and a massage and a high-end haircut and beard shave. Stand up straighter.
Have someone help you take some nice photos of yourself to put on a few decent dating sites and say this: "Ready to be a dad," "Nice ladies with kids who need a solid husband and willing dad candidate, swipe right" or something like this. Lots of single or divorced younger or mid-30's women with children need a good man, but find on the dating sites most won't even date a woman who already has kids. You are not that guy. You are perfect for this. You are not too old to sire your own, too, with that same woman if you decide to.
Thanks for the input and advice, but there's probably not much hope for me in terms of self improvement because I'm not tall, in fact kind of short, and there's no amount of improvement that can fix that. Also, I wouldn't go for someone divorced with kids because I wouldn't want to raise kids that weren't my own and a divorce is a strong indication that the woman cannot make a relationship work.
Ok. I don't know you, but I think you've counted yourself out unnecessarily. There are plenty of petite women, especially of certain ethnicities who might be perfectly happy with your height and be glad you are not a stunner, as they've had that and they don't want the narcissism that sometimes comes with it. Just don't be too harsh on yourself. Just be kind, interested and open when meeting women when out and about and let them do the deciding. Just keep your eyes peeled for opportunities.
Large white families......triggering leftists world wide. That's an awful lot of white supremacy right there, lol.
Someone should drop this MOAB into a Reddit subgroup and watch the fireworks. You have my blessing. :)
Need to make a burner account first, lol.
Yeah, those assholes perma-banned me back in 2020
I'm kind of at that age now that I need to have kids if I want them. My wife wants kids. It's just hard for me with everything going on and the state of the world ... I've been telling her we'll see what the world looks like in 2024 and decide lol. I mean I've always wanted kids at some point and I feel it's important for based families to raise based and free thinking kids.. but right now I fear nothing, if I had little ones that would be very different.
Do it now. Don't wait. Worked hard, made money, got the big house, and waited to have them at at 34 and 37 (I'm female). I wanted another one, but felt it might be too much to afford and pushing it at my age.
Now I regret I didn't have more or start earlier. I didn't know then what I know now. Minimum two kids, have them close together 1-2 years apart, raise them together, it will be hard, but so full of joy, especially as you get older, you will be glad they are there for you.
I think you are right. Thanks for sharing!
Just go for it. The younger you are, the more they will enjoy you. You will never think you have enough money, but God provides. You know about the vaxxes and public school so you'll be able to bring them up happy and healthy. God bless!!
I think you guys are right lol thanks for the input!
Lmao sounds like a good time... sort of.
not worth the trouble to me. I'm not a sadistic democrat, but they're not for me. good luck if you do
You need to do it. You don’t get a second chance at having children.
Dude ppl had kids during ww2 when their cities were firebombed. You got it lucky at the moment so get gooin
Fair point.. lol
Birth control pill didn't exist in 1940.
5 kids and 11 grandkids. All families still married. Did my part!
Agree
WOW LOOK AT ALL THOSE WHITE PEOPLE I BET THERE'S A NAZI FLAG JUST OUT OF FOCUS
Sex between a husband and wife is not a sin, its fun, and you get babies, whats not to like?
I created this meme based on idea from u/Turbotron
Cool! I approve!
I would if I could.
And you should. Perhaps later when you could?
Its a good idea but the jewish money trap makes this impossible in most countries. I am living alone with my wife and we both earn on average a higher income than most couples in our age. We just bought our first house and are really struggling with the costs.
People who have 5 + kids in my country all live on welfare.
I think governments worldwide would love to have a large population of tax slaves being raised for free. Since people aren't doing that, they bring in immigrants to make up the difference.
If I could have more… I would. I am homeschooling the ones I have. They are smart :)
I'm one of the sad bastards for whom it's most likely too late. I'm 40 now and spent my 20s and 30s basically brainwashed that it wasn't good to have kids, or I wasn't worthy, or I didn't want them, wouldn't be a good father, there are no good women anymore, blah blah blah, now in these last few years coming to my senses, it hurts to realize I let the prime years slip away.
40 isn’t too old at all.
40 is too old for a woman to have kids, or at least it starts to become high risk for down syndrome and birth defects, which means I would need to find a younger woman, which is a) unlikely to happen in terms of me finding one who would have me and b) likely that we would have very little in common if I did.
I am like you (42, unmarried). I have been very careful selecting a wife. As the saying goes: "Find a woman you can't live without, not the one you can live with."
My older brother got burned when he married at 24. He met his wife (27). She had a child from a previous relationship. Very soon, my brother became a total cuck. The wife gave birth to 5 children. Now she is totally lazy: constantly on social media, shopping and traveling with friends. I suspect that she is also cheating on him with their piano teacher.
Meanwhile, my brother is working full-time (solid income), cooking meals, raising kids and maintaining the house. He privately told me: "I have sacrificed my life for the kids. I will raise them until the youngest one is 18 and off to college. My dream is to divorce the wife."
I have the feeling at most women now would be this way.
Yeah, but the woman needs to be younger or else the risk for down syndrome gets too high, and I'm not really the kind of guy who is blowing any skirts up.
I am a female and had mine at 34 and 37. I was ready to have another, too, at 39, but hubby was trying to change jobs and it seemed risky financially. Now, I wish I had had that third one. Both of my kids are very smart, healthy and wonderful people. No regrets on having them.
For you, I think you should consider getting yourself in the best physical shape that you can (if not already), splurge on yourself and hire a good personal trainer and nutritionist, get shredded, get some new, better fitting clothes, go lay in the sun and tan a bit, do some teeth whitening, go get a pedicure and a massage and a high-end haircut and beard shave. Stand up straighter.
Have someone help you take some nice photos of yourself to put on a few decent dating sites and say this: "Ready to be a dad," "Nice ladies with kids who need a solid husband and willing dad candidate, swipe right" or something like this. Lots of single or divorced younger or mid-30's women with children need a good man, but find on the dating sites most won't even date a woman who already has kids. You are not that guy. You are perfect for this. You are not too old to sire your own, too, with that same woman if you decide to.
Thanks for the input and advice, but there's probably not much hope for me in terms of self improvement because I'm not tall, in fact kind of short, and there's no amount of improvement that can fix that. Also, I wouldn't go for someone divorced with kids because I wouldn't want to raise kids that weren't my own and a divorce is a strong indication that the woman cannot make a relationship work.
Ok. I don't know you, but I think you've counted yourself out unnecessarily. There are plenty of petite women, especially of certain ethnicities who might be perfectly happy with your height and be glad you are not a stunner, as they've had that and they don't want the narcissism that sometimes comes with it. Just don't be too harsh on yourself. Just be kind, interested and open when meeting women when out and about and let them do the deciding. Just keep your eyes peeled for opportunities.
Good luck to you.
Except don’t do the cliche everyone wearing same color pics
EXCELLENT IDEA! THE ARCHITECT APPROVES