That answers your question then fren. Listen to Atlas_One.
Right now you are thinking with young affection/passion and that is normal. But think of 10, 20, 30 years from now. What Atlas One is getting at is, would you consider this person a trusted friend? Once the flames of passion/affection go out, that's what you're really marrying...a friend. And if you're gonna live under the same roof with that person the rest of your life, you have to be able to get along and be ideologically compatible (or close to it).
People don't change much after 21 or so. You won't be able to change her, nor do you sound like a man willing to break for her. And there are other lives here beyond the 2 of you.
If you have a child someday, who's gonna get the final say in what that child reads, learns, vaccinates, eats, watches, etc etc. Wife may want child fully vaxx'd. If you disagree on that topic or any other, expect some major blow-ups between the two of you.
Trust your instincts. The fact that you posted and have doubts about even kissing her or having sex should probably tell you everything.
P.S. Don't feel like an "asshole" or insane. Whether its the vaxxx or anything else, people SHOULD give relationships this much thoughtful consideration because there are short-term and long-term affects/consequences. You dedicating this much critical thought to something this important shows how awake you really are.
You should have pity for her, but some people are too far gone for the “average” person to be able to break their conditioning, not lumping you in with the normies or anything but if you can’t get her to come to common understandings on world views the relationship would never work, but fren I know how you feel, it almost feels noble or like there is a duty to wake every ailing person but when that person is so heavily enthralled, you begin wasting so much of your own energy which otherwise could have been put elsewhere to advance your own life and personal growth
First off you are not insane she is. We know that the poison shot is delivered with the promise of life long health issues if not outright death. This is immutable fact at this point.
Second, Ive been married for 37 years. My experience tells me a marriage can not last into maturity without sharing things in common. You must have shared interests and friendship to survive long after the heat of youthful passion fades. If you disagree on fundamental issues you are doomed to grow apart and be unhappy. That is not fair to either party.
Save yourself and her a lifetime of pain and regret.
If she was a dude, would you have this person as your friend?
That answers your question then fren. Listen to Atlas_One.
Right now you are thinking with young affection/passion and that is normal. But think of 10, 20, 30 years from now. What Atlas One is getting at is, would you consider this person a trusted friend? Once the flames of passion/affection go out, that's what you're really marrying...a friend. And if you're gonna live under the same roof with that person the rest of your life, you have to be able to get along and be ideologically compatible (or close to it).
People don't change much after 21 or so. You won't be able to change her, nor do you sound like a man willing to break for her. And there are other lives here beyond the 2 of you.
If you have a child someday, who's gonna get the final say in what that child reads, learns, vaccinates, eats, watches, etc etc. Wife may want child fully vaxx'd. If you disagree on that topic or any other, expect some major blow-ups between the two of you.
Trust your instincts. The fact that you posted and have doubts about even kissing her or having sex should probably tell you everything.
P.S. Don't feel like an "asshole" or insane. Whether its the vaxxx or anything else, people SHOULD give relationships this much thoughtful consideration because there are short-term and long-term affects/consequences. You dedicating this much critical thought to something this important shows how awake you really are.
Break it off. Every conservative I know with a liberal partner is miserable.
You should have pity for her, but some people are too far gone for the “average” person to be able to break their conditioning, not lumping you in with the normies or anything but if you can’t get her to come to common understandings on world views the relationship would never work, but fren I know how you feel, it almost feels noble or like there is a duty to wake every ailing person but when that person is so heavily enthralled, you begin wasting so much of your own energy which otherwise could have been put elsewhere to advance your own life and personal growth
First off you are not insane she is. We know that the poison shot is delivered with the promise of life long health issues if not outright death. This is immutable fact at this point.
Second, Ive been married for 37 years. My experience tells me a marriage can not last into maturity without sharing things in common. You must have shared interests and friendship to survive long after the heat of youthful passion fades. If you disagree on fundamental issues you are doomed to grow apart and be unhappy. That is not fair to either party.
Save yourself and her a lifetime of pain and regret.
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