It's interesting that you mention that because my dad wasn't an Obama fan and was actually able to engage with me when I supported Ron Paul. But then something changed, Trump came along, and now we don't talk politics at all.
At least him and I can still get along on everything else, but it's very odd how the shift happened like it did.
After Trump came along my family said I needed psychiatric intervention. My vax warnings have been ridiculed and laughed at. The brainwashing has been very effective, satan knows his business.
Because they've literally sold their souls to their party. So, the energy vampires have to suck the spiritual life out of you. It happens just by being around them because it's spiritual osmosis. The devil is working through them, using them to get to you.
Well put. It is through my nearest and dearest that most of the attacks come, they are not even aware of it. Be sober, be watchful: your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walks about, seeking whom he may devour. The best thing you can d is pray for them.
For the same reasons, I've neither seen nor spoken with my parents and one of my sisters for 20 years. I had to eliminate another sister 11 years ago. Fortunately I have one very sweet sister who's cut from the same mold I am, who understands why I did what I did and doesn't judge me, and she and I interact several times a week.
Oh, what a horrible thing to experience and I'm so sorry for your 14-year-old self.
I was 28 when it dawned on me that as long as I engaged with my family, the unpleasant experiences I had with them would continue, but I've always been very family-oriented (it's just who I am), so it took me another 20 years and a really huge simultaneous metaphorical slap in the face from my parents and one sister for me to walk away, and it didn't even bother me to do it. The last 20 years of my life have been the happiest I've ever known.
Well done. Nothing worse than being controlled and made to feel guilty. I spent years thinking I was to blame for being abused, then realised it was a satanic lie. Forgave, prayed for my mum and step-dad and got free and happy. Got the chance to reconnect with them years later, treasure the way she said she was grateful I'd forgiven her. God is good.
So do it because Jesus said we should, out of respect and obedience to Him. Or at least ask for the grace to do it. It is important: there is a passage in the Bible about God being hindered in His ability to bless us. Obedience is better than sacrifice, its to benefit us and help us grow.
Most people do not have the life skills to contain psychopaths. Some people refer to these toxic individuals as "energy vampires" because the toxic individual is always sucking energy from people. When I realized this, I started developing strategies to nullify them. This is the biggest trigger for them cut off from their energy supply
I feel for you, and am with you friend. I am pretty well in the same boat. My sister, put masks on her kids outside, told me i was trying to kill them (i WONT get the jab),and even would not attend, or let my nieces attend our cousin's funeral (outside), because some family wasnt jabbed, but did make it a point to drive by and tell the whole family how they are murderers. I realize i cant save her, but I love my nieces and want to see them.
I think it’s what you said first, it’s taxing to keep up and bite your tongue.
That said, I also would agree there’s something spiritual about their mindset and worldview. It’s terrifying to behold because we know the logical end of their viewpoints, even if they haven’t gotten there themselves.
Yes, which is why they need prayers. Whenever people (sometimes strangers) are nasty I lift them up to the foot of The Cross and plead the Blood of Jesus over them - best weapon and defence we have: pray for those who despitefully use you.
I've experienced what you describe two different ways. One is the energy vampire thing and the other is someone directing their negative energy at me. Both are draining, the first because your energy is being actively depleted and the second because you have to use your energy to offset the attack.
Best advice I can give you is to just stay away from them, don't even talk to the on the phone. Sounds like they are sucking all your good positive energy away from you, and that's not good. They are so brainwashed that they may never wake up from it, if they do they will seek you out for answers, that's when you can interact again slowly to make sure they are actually wanting answers.
Either stay away from them or let it all out on them. Just let loose and tell them they are wrong with all the facts and knowledge you've accumulated, and when your done speaking walk away. Hopefully you will shock them all into silence for you to have time to leave before they try to debate you. You will feel better for getting it all off your chest and walking away leaving them stunned is a bonus. And don't contact them again, let them contact you. If they have nothing nice to say hang up.
I'm sorry you have to deal with people like that, and to know that they are family is worse.
I just flat out said .....I'm never getting the jab! This is the hill I'm willing to die on. BUT....when the things I have told you of come to pass, i will be here to help you understand, show mercy for you and will forgive.
Finally the other day one called me crying asking me if I "could talk to God and ask him to hurry this shit up cause she can't take much more"....My response? I talk to God everyday, all day...He's been waiting for you to contact Him directly and ask Him yourselves, get on those knees and cry out to Him, He will love you better so.....
It's interesting that you mention that because my dad wasn't an Obama fan and was actually able to engage with me when I supported Ron Paul. But then something changed, Trump came along, and now we don't talk politics at all.
At least him and I can still get along on everything else, but it's very odd how the shift happened like it did.
After Trump came along my family said I needed psychiatric intervention. My vax warnings have been ridiculed and laughed at. The brainwashing has been very effective, satan knows his business.
Time to put Satan in the broom closet.
Because they've literally sold their souls to their party. So, the energy vampires have to suck the spiritual life out of you. It happens just by being around them because it's spiritual osmosis. The devil is working through them, using them to get to you.
Well put. It is through my nearest and dearest that most of the attacks come, they are not even aware of it. Be sober, be watchful: your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walks about, seeking whom he may devour. The best thing you can d is pray for them.
You are not alone. I tried to tell mine about fake anti-Christ pagan catholicism and got shut out. Can't say I miss them.
For the same reasons, I've neither seen nor spoken with my parents and one of my sisters for 20 years. I had to eliminate another sister 11 years ago. Fortunately I have one very sweet sister who's cut from the same mold I am, who understands why I did what I did and doesn't judge me, and she and I interact several times a week.
Oh, what a horrible thing to experience and I'm so sorry for your 14-year-old self.
I was 28 when it dawned on me that as long as I engaged with my family, the unpleasant experiences I had with them would continue, but I've always been very family-oriented (it's just who I am), so it took me another 20 years and a really huge simultaneous metaphorical slap in the face from my parents and one sister for me to walk away, and it didn't even bother me to do it. The last 20 years of my life have been the happiest I've ever known.
Well done. Nothing worse than being controlled and made to feel guilty. I spent years thinking I was to blame for being abused, then realised it was a satanic lie. Forgave, prayed for my mum and step-dad and got free and happy. Got the chance to reconnect with them years later, treasure the way she said she was grateful I'd forgiven her. God is good.
So do it because Jesus said we should, out of respect and obedience to Him. Or at least ask for the grace to do it. It is important: there is a passage in the Bible about God being hindered in His ability to bless us. Obedience is better than sacrifice, its to benefit us and help us grow.
Most people do not have the life skills to contain psychopaths. Some people refer to these toxic individuals as "energy vampires" because the toxic individual is always sucking energy from people. When I realized this, I started developing strategies to nullify them. This is the biggest trigger for them cut off from their energy supply
Sounds like narcissists.
Your secret word to piss them off while keeping your cool and sanity is "Whatever."
I feel for you, and am with you friend. I am pretty well in the same boat. My sister, put masks on her kids outside, told me i was trying to kill them (i WONT get the jab),and even would not attend, or let my nieces attend our cousin's funeral (outside), because some family wasnt jabbed, but did make it a point to drive by and tell the whole family how they are murderers. I realize i cant save her, but I love my nieces and want to see them.
I think it’s what you said first, it’s taxing to keep up and bite your tongue.
That said, I also would agree there’s something spiritual about their mindset and worldview. It’s terrifying to behold because we know the logical end of their viewpoints, even if they haven’t gotten there themselves.
Yes, which is why they need prayers. Whenever people (sometimes strangers) are nasty I lift them up to the foot of The Cross and plead the Blood of Jesus over them - best weapon and defence we have: pray for those who despitefully use you.
Amen, sir! Love thy neighbor does not only refer to the ones who are nice and friendly.
Ahem, I'm a girl. :)
Yes, Jesus said being nice to people who were good to us is nothing much, its being nice to the nasties that makes a difference.
Whoops apologies for the misgender! XD
No worries :)
I've experienced what you describe two different ways. One is the energy vampire thing and the other is someone directing their negative energy at me. Both are draining, the first because your energy is being actively depleted and the second because you have to use your energy to offset the attack.
Best advice I can give you is to just stay away from them, don't even talk to the on the phone. Sounds like they are sucking all your good positive energy away from you, and that's not good. They are so brainwashed that they may never wake up from it, if they do they will seek you out for answers, that's when you can interact again slowly to make sure they are actually wanting answers.
Either stay away from them or let it all out on them. Just let loose and tell them they are wrong with all the facts and knowledge you've accumulated, and when your done speaking walk away. Hopefully you will shock them all into silence for you to have time to leave before they try to debate you. You will feel better for getting it all off your chest and walking away leaving them stunned is a bonus. And don't contact them again, let them contact you. If they have nothing nice to say hang up.
I'm sorry you have to deal with people like that, and to know that they are family is worse.
Sadly I've experienced fake interest that suckered me into conversations that ended with me getting punched when I least expected it. Be careful.
I just flat out said .....I'm never getting the jab! This is the hill I'm willing to die on. BUT....when the things I have told you of come to pass, i will be here to help you understand, show mercy for you and will forgive.
Finally the other day one called me crying asking me if I "could talk to God and ask him to hurry this shit up cause she can't take much more"....My response? I talk to God everyday, all day...He's been waiting for you to contact Him directly and ask Him yourselves, get on those knees and cry out to Him, He will love you better so.....
Blessings frens....
are you a third child?
Interesting question, I was.
were you close in age too?
My bros are a little older. Not sure, 4-5 years.