Love is not a feeling it's an act of your will, which requires a much higher degree of control over the will that to not. Same with sin it's easier to give into sin than to resist which takes mor effort.
2 Corinthians 10:4-6
For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ, and being ready to punish all disobedience when your obedience is fulfilled.
Believe I mentioned this before on a separate thread a long while ago, but a therapist from a channel I follow on YouTube (Cinema Therapy) once gave some insight on hate and love, that Love and Hate aren't opposites, but that Hate is born from love, either that someone is threatening the people you love, is threatening the trust you have in the people you love, or is someone you once loved and feel betrayed by.
1 Corinthians 13
New International Version
13 If I speak in the tonguesa of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy(B) and can fathom all mysteries(C) and all knowledge,(D) and if I have a faith(E) that can move mountains,(F) but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor(G) and give over my body to hardship that I may boast,b but do not have love, I gain nothing.
4 Love is patient,(I) love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.(J) 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking,(K) it is not easily angered,(L) it keeps no record of wrongs.(M) 6 Love does not delight in evil(N) but rejoices with the truth.(O) 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.(P)
8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies,(Q) they will cease; where there are tongues,(R) they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part(S) and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes,(T) what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood(U) behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror;(V) then we shall see face to face.(W) Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.(X)
13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love.(Y) But the greatest of these is love.(Z)
Matthew: 18:1 At the same time came the disciples unto Jesus, saying, Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?
18:2 And Jesus called a little child unto him, and set him in the midst of them,
18:3 And said, Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven.
18:4 Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
18:5 And whoso shall receive one such little child in my name receiveth me.
18:6 But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.
Because we have deep emotional traumas that have been programmed into our subconscious [demons]. Find out what triggers you and changed your beliefs [perspective].
Hate is based in fear. Learn to overcome fear, learn love.
Indeed.
Loving others requires being able to love yourself. Those who do love themselves find it very easy to love others.
Love is not a feeling it's an act of your will, which requires a much higher degree of control over the will that to not. Same with sin it's easier to give into sin than to resist which takes mor effort.
2 Corinthians 10:4-6 For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ, and being ready to punish all disobedience when your obedience is fulfilled.
Believe I mentioned this before on a separate thread a long while ago, but a therapist from a channel I follow on YouTube (Cinema Therapy) once gave some insight on hate and love, that Love and Hate aren't opposites, but that Hate is born from love, either that someone is threatening the people you love, is threatening the trust you have in the people you love, or is someone you once loved and feel betrayed by.
Hate is a trigger emotion. Love requires thought and follow through.
1 Corinthians 13 New International Version 13 If I speak in the tonguesa of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy(B) and can fathom all mysteries(C) and all knowledge,(D) and if I have a faith(E) that can move mountains,(F) but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor(G) and give over my body to hardship that I may boast,b but do not have love, I gain nothing.
4 Love is patient,(I) love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.(J) 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking,(K) it is not easily angered,(L) it keeps no record of wrongs.(M) 6 Love does not delight in evil(N) but rejoices with the truth.(O) 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.(P)
8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies,(Q) they will cease; where there are tongues,(R) they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part(S) and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes,(T) what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood(U) behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror;(V) then we shall see face to face.(W) Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.(X)
13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love.(Y) But the greatest of these is love.(Z)
Because hate is an emotion, while love is an action.
to give in to hate is easy.
Path of least resistance.. giving in to hate is easy, yep. You have to "work" to stand against hate from with-in and with-out.
For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of Violence by Alice Miller
Ghosts from the Nursery: Tracing the Roots of Violence by Robin Karr-Morse and Meredeth S. Wiley
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Matthew: 18:1 At the same time came the disciples unto Jesus, saying, Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?
18:2 And Jesus called a little child unto him, and set him in the midst of them,
18:3 And said, Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven.
18:4 Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
18:5 And whoso shall receive one such little child in my name receiveth me.
18:6 But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.
One takes effort
Love requires committment and a connection to source that is still intact.
Because we have deep emotional traumas that have been programmed into our subconscious [demons]. Find out what triggers you and changed your beliefs [perspective].
Because people are jerks!