A week after we all celebrated his grandchild's first birthday, Bobby was at work and collapsed in front of his coworker. Fortunately his coworker was able to start CPR until the EMTs arrived.
He was life-flighted to Boston and promptly placed in ICU with respirator as his brain activity was minimal. MRI didn't detect any blockages in his heart, lungs or brain. Doctors said the sudden loss of oxygen to his brain could take a long time to recover. For about a month he remained comatose and then slowly started moving and making noises. I believe he got the covid shots since he's a truck driver and travels across state lines.
It's been a few months since the incident and he's now able to have brief conversations and has regained full function of his body.
Unfortunately, he has very poor short term memory and gets angry if he doesn't get his way. Bobby was perfectly normal before this and had NO signs of Alzheimer's / Dementia.
Bobby is over 6 feet tall, late 50's and a strong active guy. He has gotten physical with medical staff which is NOT like him at all. They had to put a police officer outside his hospital room to help restrain him due to his outbursts.
His family is at a total loss as they do not know what to do. He can never drive trucks again and he was the family breadwinner.
Please consider him in your prayers.
Thank you. WMW
I pray that he can recover, whether he is able to drive truck again or not!
As a former SLP who dealt with cognitive issues I will note that your friend has had a significant brain injury from anoxia to his brain. This is not dementia, but brain damage can cause personality changes and short term memory is usually the first thing to go.
He may continue to improve over time. But there may be some permanent damage. I will say a prayer for him that he continues,
Prayers sent π
Lord God thank you that you love Bobby. I know that you hate what their illness is doing to them/me. I ask, in the name of Jesus, that you would heal this disease, that you would have compassion and bring healing from all sickness. God, I thank you that Bobby belongs to you and that you are in control of everything that happens from our first breath to our last sigh. Amen.
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Lifting Bobby and his loved ones up in prayer as they navigate this healing journey.
Lord, your Word tells us in Psalm 139:1-16 (BSB) "O LORD, You have searched me and known me. You know when I sit and when I rise; You understand my thoughts from afar. You search out my path and my lying down; You are aware of all my ways. Even before a word is on my tongue, You know all about it, O LORD. You hem me in behind and before; You have laid Your hand upon me. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too lofty for me to attain. Where can I go to escape Your Spirit? Where can I flee from Your presence? If I ascend to the heavens, You are there; if I make my bed in Sheol, You are there. If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle by the farthest sea, even there Your hand will guide me; Your right hand will hold me fast. If I say, βSurely the darkness will hide me, and the light become night around meββ even the darkness is not dark to You, but the night shines like the day, for darkness is as light to You. For You formed my inmost being; You knit me together in my motherβs womb. I praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Marvelous are Your works, and I know this very well. My frame was not hidden from You when I was made in secret, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed body; all my days were written in Your book and ordained for me before one of them came to be."
Lord if you are with us wherever we are, you are with Bobby right now. Please draw him to salvation through Christ Jesus. You can make him understand even in the state he is in. Fill him with your Spirit, Love, & Peace. Let him feel that peace and give you the anger that is affecting him. Let him know you can make a way where he can't find one. Drain the anger from him. Send health & healing to him. Provide the necessary people & resources he needs to recover and his family needs to survive & thrive, giving you all the glory. Thank you for his co-worker, EMT's & Medical staff for all their training & skill that has brought Bobby through this. You are such a good & gracious God to provide for us before we even need it. Thank you & Bless your Holy name. I ask all this in Jesus' Holy & Mighty name. Amen
That was beautiful.
Thank you very very much for your remarkable words! π
To God alone be the glory! From Philipians 2:13 (BSB) "For it is God who works in you to will and to act on behalf of His good purpose." God loves Bobby and is drawing people to lift him up in prayer. Bobby is not alone, and he is loved. β€οΈ
Prayers on the way for Bobby
Lord help Bobby recover fully, in Jesus name AMEN.
Is Bobby being given Ativan?
I'm not sure. I'll have to ask.
Why? Sounds like you know something.
My FIL developed fronto-temporal dementia, due to a lesion caused by a TBI.
He ended up hospitalized, due to heart issues. While in the hospital, he became increasingly paranoid and violent. They had to call in police because he threw a nurse against the wall. He ended up tied to the bed for two weeks, constantly thrashing and fighting.
I finally got a handle on what they were giving him and did some research on how some people react to Ativan.
Lo and behold, we convinced them to stop the drug and within 24 hours he was back to his mellow self and never had another episode for the duration of his illness.
Thank you. This is tremendous information! Sorry that your FIL had to suffer for a bit, but glad you did your homework and fixed it.
Bobby is restrained during the night as he keeps trying to leave the hospital and will fight to get out. During the day, the police & security have to escort medical staff into his room.
I'll certainly look into it.
Thank you and God Bless! π
You are welcome and so sorry for what Bobby is going through.
I would almost guarantee that he is being given Ativan (lorazepam). Definitely worth getting the list of his drugs and reading up on the side effects.
There is a terrifying case study of what happened to a person who was given it for claustrophobia during an MRI.
I had to fight the doctors to get them to stop the drug.
Prayers Sent Fren
Prayers up now for Bobby and his family! Have faith... healing can take time. I believe he needs to detox from the vax.
Praying for Bobby and all with brain injuries.
MY reply to all the ABOVE INDIVIDUALS...this is why I stay with you is because of you're VERY DEEP FAITH IN SOMETHING GREATER THAN YOURSELVES...
And for the Man we do not know, Grant Our Prayers to Heal him and be with him as he goes through his journey and be at his side...
Grant unto them O' Lord the wishes of the above and let the perpetual light sign upon them. Amen
Prayers for Bobby
Prayers sent, fren.
prayers for Bobby and family, and peacefulness
Prayers for him and his family - may God deliver the means for a comfortable living and care for Bobby to them! And also a complete curing of Bobby's brain damage.
π GOD please BLESS this family amen
Iβll be praying π. Maybe Check into a newer technology called Genesight a DNA test is done to see if his body is ok with that drug. The test will show red, yellow or green. If itβs red then it wonβt work on him. A friend of mine daughter was on 6 different meds, she was depressed, cutting herself, violent at times. They found out about Genesight testing and 3 or 4 of them showed red. The meds were changed and sheβs doing great even going to college now. Iβll pray itβs not brain damage causing the issue.
Thank you. I'll certainly look into it.
Lord God, Please heal Bobby completely. Please bring into his life the help that is needed and protect him from all harm. Guide and direct the medical staff. We ask for a miracle for him Lord, and grace for his family. We pray this in Jesusβ holy name. Amen.
Prayers on the way! Iβm not sure if anyone can get him micro doses of psilocybin or if heβs able to get time in hyperbaric oxygen chamber but both have shown great success at reversing (retraining?) anoxic brain injuries.
Iβm so sorry for his family. π€ May the Great Healer begin working His magic on Bobby! π
Praying for complete healing and restoration for Bobby.