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bojackjohnson 1 point ago +2 / -1

Thank you! Gonna talk to my broker tomorrow and possibly scoop some up!

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bojackjohnson 20 points ago +21 / -1

I’m going through a divorce and learning how to co-parent with a malignant narcissist, and the possibility of having to do this has definitely crossed my mind. Idk what I’d do if she got our kids the clot shot

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bojackjohnson 1 point ago +2 / -1

I’m considering the warrants, but am I understanding it correctly in that if the merger doesn’t happen then you just lose the warrants outright?

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bojackjohnson 28 points ago +28 / -0

The fact they admit to voting for a bill that they don’t know the contents of should be enough to kick them out of office, or at the very least change how these things are done.

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bojackjohnson 4 points ago +5 / -1

210 million my ass. And I thought it wasn’t “fully vaccinated” anymore, I thought they changed it to “up to date on your vaccines.”

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bojackjohnson 2 points ago +2 / -0

Seat-level is only safe in restaurants. It’s definitely unsafe in schools.

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bojackjohnson 40 points ago +40 / -0

Founding Fathers were fed up with giving 2 weeks of their annual income to the king. We give fucking 4 months + of our annual income to the government.

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bojackjohnson 6 points ago +6 / -0

CPS strikes just about every single year, claiming they’re trying to get resources for the kids. Yet, every time they strike they also demand a pay raise, increased healthcare benefits, and ridiculous amounts of PTO. If it were really “for the kids,” then they would remove those demands from the table so that they could strike a deal sooner than 2 weeks later, but they never budge at all.

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bojackjohnson 31 points ago +31 / -0

As a plumber, I spend probably half my days covered in 10-80 year old, literal shit. I’m pretty sure I’d survive the plague if it came back around.

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bojackjohnson 2 points ago +2 / -0

It turned out her mom was in on it. She was the senior branch manager for the title company we were using when we sold our IL house. She absolutely knew there was no reason why my name couldn’t be on the new house. She also tried to get me to sign the documents before the closing, in a parking lot, on a weekend. She said the proceeds were going to be put into escrow until the divorce was finalized. I told her I wanted my lawyer to read the documents first, and I wasn’t signing anything unless there were 2 checks at closing, each for half of the proceeds. One for me and one for her. She lost her shit on me over wanting my lawyer to read the documents first. She finally caved the day before closing.

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bojackjohnson 2 points ago +2 / -0

While I completely agree with you, I don’t think she was a gold digger. She used our finances as another form of control over me. She wouldn’t let me pay any of the house bills, insisted on separate credit cards, and would constantly buy expensive stuff we didn’t need, keeping us in a perpetual state of debt, rather than allowing us to get ahead. She also sabotaged my business, and then my parent’s business when we both worked for them, so I couldn’t take over their business like we had planned either. She’s just straight up evil and selfish.

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bojackjohnson 2 points ago +2 / -0

Thank you for the advice. I’m not even remotely interested in dating. I’m just trying to get my old house back, or at the least my own house again so the kids can have their own house again. I’m going to be starting therapy as well to work on myself, and hopefully that will help me avoid attracting/falling for someone like that again. Wishing you well!

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bojackjohnson 2 points ago +2 / -0

Thank you for the kind words. I’ll never understand people like her, but I guess I don’t want to either. I hope all is well with you and your family.

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bojackjohnson 5 points ago +5 / -0

Thank you. She did a lot of things that didn’t sit right with me, but I didn’t realize they were considered abuse until after. This last year she had me doing just about everything for our kids, our pets, and around the house, and she had me feeling like I was an inch tall. Plenty of other stuff before like sabotaging my business, my parent’s business, isolating me from my family. The manipulation occurred over almost a decade, so I was way too slow to realize.

And the G.A.L. basically investigates who the primary caregiver of the children was, amongst other things, and then makes recommendations to the court based on what is best for the kids.

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bojackjohnson 34 points ago +34 / -0

Oh man, story time. My wife and I, and our two young kids were supposed to move to TN (get out of IL) to start a small family farm in mid August. She had convinced me my name couldn’t be on the new house since I had been unemployed for a bit. Made sense, and I didn’t question it, even though we had over $100k equity in our current house we were putting down on the new one. Her mom got the new mortgage for us, because my wife didn’t make enough money on her own.

At the beginning of June we had gone on a 3-day trip to a ranch in Wisconsin. In mid July, she went back there for a “school project.” Turns out that she had an affair with one of the wranglers from the ranch, and she was planning on leaving me once we got to TN and my name wasn’t on the house, essentially leaving me homeless and penniless. Luckily I found out before the move. I told her mom about the affair, and she stopped the purchase of the new house. In retaliation, my wife took the kids from me.

Unfortunately I wasn’t able to stop the sale of our house in IL, the house my kids grew up in, but I did get my half of the proceeds. I also had a G.A.L. appointed, and she saw what my wife was doing/had done and gave me more time with the kids temporarily.

Now we go through court. I’ve got a ton of evidence of the fraud she tried to commit, and I’m almost positive through recent research and 9 years of marriage that she’s a malignant narcissist, so I’ve got work to do to make sure my kids are safe and taken care of.

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