Was just publicly accused of being a racist because I refuse to judge people by the color of their skin, and bluntly stated you can’t shoot at police officers.
My accuser was highly offended, and now I need to deal with the person in charge who wants to know why I made such offensive statements.
I am still rather bemused that stating “shooting at police officers is bad” is considered a racist belief, but crazy town has gotten to this point, and I need to figure out my next steps. I need patience. I need wisdom. And I might also need an attorney for the slander suit.
Was I slandered? Is being publicly called a racist an actual bad thing anymore?
Speak to the person in charge that they want you to speak to, clarify everything you said, and make sure that you clear your name.
It doesn’t matter what anyone thinks about you who you are what your beliefs systems are. Do not let them get out of your skin, and do not let them denigrate you.
Once you get things straightened out, I would leave that place that you don’t need your time. That person is not going away, they’re going to hold a grudge against you, and you don’t have to put up with being treated like that. Find somewhere else where that you’ll be appreciated, and respected for your own beliefs for being an individual.
The time and effort that anybody puts into having to be around somebody who makes you feel in adequate, is not worth it. This situation may never go away, and it’s better for you to leave on a good note with the person that’s in charge, and hold your integrity and refuse to work with people who are racist and who will denigrate anybody they feel like.
You can’t reason with an unreasonable person. Sociopaths have no remorse, and this person will never change their mind, and they’re crying in front of others and denigrating you in front of others is just to bring you down to lift themselves up, move on
Who gives a shit? Isn't giving a shit racist?
Mean words can't hurt deplorable nazi wackadoodle tin foil conspiracy tards.
Back to work faggot. There's red pills to hand out.
I was asked to leave the place where I volunteer my time. The person in charge wanted my accuser to be heard, and let them say “mean words” in front of my (former?) colleagues. Still trying to decide if I want to walk away, or make a point (hence the need for wisdom).
Sounds like time could be better spent elsewhere. What type of volunteering? What else would give the same sense of satisfaction? Can't be the only gig in town.
F'em, they don't deserve free help would be my thought.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qIqeXSYc8nE
Don't cast your pearls before swine. Maybe that helps.
My accuser cried actual tears at my racism (very dramatically). I am still ... confused?
In all fairness, if it works, then the crybaby is going to do it again. One day everyone will reject them when they realise they are dealing with a gas-lighting narcissist. People like that often cannot last when their game is transparent. Document what is happening, write scrupulously clean emails, and forward them to important people, so that they know. This is not narkery, it is exposure to light. Crocodile tears can only convince some of the people all the time, or all of the people some of the time. Those tears should be savored.
Unfortunately, this is true and even if you are able to clear your name, I think the volunteer environment has been ruined by the crybaby who is going to hold a grudge. Document as suggested and if you have an attorneyfren, cc them on the correspondence. Let them know you take character assassination seriously.
The curious thing about narcissism is that it spreads like a disease. There is a psychological term called induced narcissism. Human Resources Management academics talk of culture, and how that affects the business. One narcissist on a winning streak is like infecting the whole organisation.
To fight against it you have to behave better than Ceasar's wife: be polite, when you are angry speak more softly. Document it by writing. You can write personal diary entries or keep a code. You can just update a word file, and save any emails.
I advised to leave the organsiation but If you care for the organisation, because the stakeholders that you deal with need you or the publc service motivation that is often the case for people working in non-profits, start networking inside it. Become the font of information from how to deal with people to how to file a tax return. Know your way around the screen, and find the loopholes.
The reason I say that is that us pedes can turn our backs to the gaslighting sustainability goals that spring from the WEF. This sort of marfinilised victim role nonsense is part of the divide and conquer that is a globalist agenda. In reality we live in local communities, and have communities online fro support. networking and qualitative communications is our strength.
Will keep you in my prayers for strength, the perfect words to say and above all, God keeps you safe. Just because they say something, doesn't make it so. I can say the grass is always purple, but it isn't. Police departments have every race and creed working for them, so that clown that called you racist is just that a clown.
O Kay, So I'm an un-collage educated old man. {Before we got woke.} I was taught about mental health. I learned that what you think of me is none of my business. If I was abscessed with what you thought about me, I had a problem. Needing this outside approval was call names like, "Paranoid"," grandiose", or maybe, "hallucinational". Today It's , If you do not bow down to my emotional problems you are a beget racist. Chin up my friend, Stay true to yourself. A wise man that was here long before me said, "I have had many fears, many which have never came true". Stay true to yourself and ignore the opposition.
Take a page from Trump: Go full on Honey Badger—be super pissed off, go on the offensive and do not stop until they ALL apologize and rescind the accusation. Call them dirty, filthy, liars who are projecting their own racism and that you demand an apology immediately. That’s how you handle these people—be more outraged than they are.
What I see everywhere is that if in a discussion 1 person makes a point and the other can't respond logically they turn to name calling. Not sure what your situation was but I have said "gotcha, you cant respond to my last statement so you have nothing else but to resort to calling me names. I won this conversation"
You are included in my prayers. I also echo much of the advice given by others, mostly to stay true to who you are, and if you leave the place, then do it while keeping your integrity, which will preserve your honor among those who matter.
So, inversely, "shooting at a cop is good" must be not-racist? Show me where race is a part of either statement, rofl. If the answer starts with "well it's black people..." then ding ding ding!, you found the person who is the racist.
I specifically stated at one point that it didn’t matter what color you were, if you shot a police officer, it was not good. I also said that “firing a warning shot at police officers” is Not Acceptable. Apparently in the new world order, I’m a Racist for these view points.
lol this is absurd. But I guess this can mean only one thing... Welcome to the club, fellow racist?!
Tell them you judge someone by the content of their character. Always
Then apply a Paddington bear hard stare!
That came up in the conversation. Apparently being “color blind” makes me a racist since it negates the black experience.
if its this bad you are talking to brick walls. take your free services else where and write a review about your exp there on yelp or something similar
Yes! I have heard this too- that saying “you don’t see color” is racist. Good luck with crazy town and prays sent. I would look for another place to volunteer that will appreciate your Christian values.
It's racist in itself - reducing all black peoples' experience to "black experience" "Black experience" being so special that the principle of equality must be suspended for it.
You have told them specifically that you are not racist because you treat people the same regardless of their ethnicity.
This person treats people differently because they've decided that people they classify as black are suffering from "black experience"
Do you think some black people might feel patronized by your colleague's attitude?
I don't suppose any of this logic would help, because admitting you are being reasonable goes against this person's core beliefs .
I wouldn't worry about it.
You didn't say anything wrong.
I'm praying for you fren. Yes, I think you were slandered but most bullies use that tactic. They cannot feel good about themselves if they don't put you down, That person needs prayer, surely they are not happy. Pray that their anger or pain heals and turns them into a better person. When God hears us pray for someone who hurts us it's powerful. Also, I will tell you what I always told our children when they were growing up. You can't hide who you are. When you are a good person it shines out at people. If you are a bad person it shows even more.
If that is all that was said consider it a bad of honor. This is the grassroots fight that has started to turn things around. Good luck!
*badge
Person in charge? Isn't that you?