Between what Covid did to them (no school, increased crime, etc) and the level of degeneracy in society, I really regret having children. Most parents today are shit parents, providing no structure or guidance and as a result, my kids friends are crappy people themselves and hurt my children in various ways. I hate that they are going to grow up in a world with satanic symbolism, outright degeneracy and pedophilia as a norm. This is just not right. When will good prevail over evil?
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It's your job to guide them through the darkness and provide them the tools they'll need to thrive as adults. Keep your head up and do what you know is best for them.
Not the Government, not anyone else.
This will not stand fren. God wins and the world ahead of us will be much better than the world that we had.
I understand all to well how frustrating it can be when we see the world so bleak. This should be encouraging as it means you are not alone. Be scrupulous about who you and your children associate with. Consider homeschooling your children so you can spend more time with them. Find a congregation of people that have sincere beliefs in good and you can allow your children to associate with. Keep in mind this is why tribes existed previously is for the commonality of beliefs. it has been an unusual events in the last 150 years that people have been able to generally trust people not of their tribe/clan.
All of this to say do not regret having children. Regret the state of society and regret the way things are going. Use it is an opportunity to point out to your children the problems and raise them to not be a part of it and to start new societies. At the same time restrain the cynicism and instead focus on encouragement to do what is right. This is a time of winnowing at the end those who are righteous will remain righteous and those that are wicked will remain wicked. Set your sights on those things that are righteous and never stop leading your children to it.
Try listening to Owen Benjamin. Victim mode is a democrat characteristic, try talking full responsibility for where you and your family are at. It's easy to play victim but the future is going to be great for those who accept responsibility for their own fate. Ultimately you have exposed your children to these troubles. It can be your opportunity to shield them from it in the future. The savior everyone is looking for is simply hiding within themselves waiting to emerge through responsible action. The leaves are on the trees the same now as they were long ago. We can't depend on the beast to educate our children then cry when they are exposed to this nonsense. We as a culture have chosen convenience over self responsibility. The time is now to move towards complete responsibility for our well being. That's a step most are unwilling to take. We like our principles but not enough to give up our treats. God bless and God speed.
I feel you. I don't regret, though. It is tempting to have regrets, but I encourage you to see the other side of that coin: opportunity.
Your children will grow up as shepherds among sheep. They will learn fromyou to find a balance between finding joy and calling out evil. We need such youngsters, so stay the course, keep your faith, and try to replace negativity with the beauty that God puts in our path every day.
You're doing great, simply by the fact that you see what you're up against. This is yours to do, for that simple reason. Carry on, fellow realist and optimist!
Don’t ever regret having kids. God put them on this earth in this time for a reason. Raise them up right and trust in the Lord and they will be a shining light in your life and the lives of others. It’s hard not to be scared for them, but God put YOU in this time for a reason as well. You are their parent for a reason. He will be with you and give you what you need.
The future belongs to whoever shows up! Your kids are going to learn to overcome adversity and win, and you're going to teach them. Yes, it's a burden, it's a lot of work, but you can do it! And when your strength runs out, God's grace is there to make up the difference.
Time for you to step up, your children can make the difference for the better in other peoples lives. But thats up to you …. Children can be a blessing to all! No matter the times and social struggles.
Doesn't sound like you have a heart of stone at all. I never had children, mainly for variations of the very reasons you note. Of course I never dreamed things would ever get as bad as they have.
Even given that, sometimes I regret not having any children. At this point, I'm not really sure whose regrets are stronger. I would have to admit however, that I certainly don't have to deal with the worries you have to. And what-ifs don't help either one of us. Live life my friend.
I like thinking that my children had a hard time and will grow up and be much stronger then I was. It's already true of my oldest he is much more mature and capable then I was as a child. It's sad that they didn't get the nice life and to just worry about birthday parties and vacations but it will be worth it in the end.
I don’t regret having kids (5 & 2 yrs old) but I have decided to not have anymore until this shit is better. My husband and I have definitely acknowledged just how proactive we must be to ensure these kids know how to stay strong in their faith and learn how to be in the world without being of the world. All of us parents have our work cut out for us but if we’ve made it this far without falling for the bullshit, we can handle it.
Fren, you have to adjust your ways of thinking. There have always been struggles. Having children is the biggest blessing we can have. I will pray for you! God is with you and your children.
I feel you. I struggle with my feelings for the world they have to live in. But I would never take it back. I try to focus on the fact that I've added better quality humans to the pool of humanity and I hope things will turn around before they have to become parents and struggle with the same feelings we do.
I understand where you're coming from, because I feel the same but in a different direction--I'm glad my parents aren't alive to witness the current insanity in the world. But the thing is I could never live their lives for them so if they were alive I'm sure they would just deal with things as they are. And the way to deal with it is to focus on your own day to day lives and not worldly concerns. Be grateful for what's good in your life right now. And the thing about crappy friends, that's always been the case. I remember when my nephews started school, this was in the 1970s and they went from being the sweetest kids to wanting to conform to the lowest common denominator of their schoolmates, Doesn't make it right but you are not alone with those thoughts. I don't know if you're Christian but if you are you know that Good already overcame evil.
Believe me, you would regret it far worse if you hadn't had them and aborted them.
Get your head on straight. What your children are influenced by the most is your attitude and statements. You think they can't pick up on this negativity coming from you?
All the more reason to have kids and train them up right to fight this crap.
I feel you, I got a vasectomy and I'm still young enough to have it reversed and sell unvaxxed sperm. It's been fun tossing out two different women that came to me and said they were pregnant!
I have a pile of nieces and nephews to help make into strong intelligent adults. It takes a village, start getting them better role models and distance them from unhealthy people. I teach them to build stuff, fish and shoot and explain that their friends drinking soda all day watching a glowing screen are going to drag them down from their own accomplishments and goals.
Understandable, and likely worse than you are thinking. Regardless of the good/evil twist, earth and sun are at the end (and new beginning) of a cycle. I'm convinced 90% population reduction will happen wither by design intent or cosmic intervention. We are already in the process of a magnetic reversal, so "if and when" are off the table. I would bet the next Carrington level event...and larger,...will happen early in cycle 26... 2030 to 2033 time period. This will pretty much wipe out all power grids and plunge earth into irreversible darkness for the last 15 years or so. In the developed western world this may result in an 80% to 90% pop reduction prior to nova event. Unfortunately, NCSWIC. Worse case, tranny's and fags are the only survivors left to repopulate.
Heavy burden but definitly worthwhile. Fight like hell. No regrets. Love your chlidren. After we win, teach them to fight so that when you're gone America stays free.
Our children are our future. Show them how to be the light.
Be honest with them. Educate them and encourage discussion. Let them make their own decisions, but show them how to look at all sides instead of jumping to conclusions. Teach them to have an open and honest conversation. It's ok to disagree, but respect is huge.
Before you know it, you'll have great human beings ready to stand with you. When you've shown them how to be that light, it helps expel the darkness.
Most importantly, strive to be the person you want them to be. Nobody succeeds every day, but they need to see us try. They are our future and our light, but we are their world.
Best of luck, Fren.
If people didn't have children until the perfect time, humans would have gone extinct long ago. Study history. There were always bad influences. There were always oppressive governments. There were always false gods. There were always plagues and drought and famine and war right around the corner. Be consoled by how much you know that your forefathers didn't. They struggled for their future and here you are, in spite of all the problems of the past, you can do it too.
That fear is like a demon, get that shit out of your head. God gave his son to the world bravely. The Father knows, and the Son knows, and the Mother knows, that life is full of suffering, betrayal, torture, and death. Jesus knew he would suffer, be betrayed tortured and then die. And yet they still have their son to the world.
Jesus, the son, goes forward with faith, love, courage, and honesty. Don't regret your children's existence. Have confidence in mankind's ability to prevail. Have faith in your child! He or she can choose to overcome the hardships of life with courage kindness wisdom strength and honesty. Just like you can. What is religion after all if not an undying faith in the sacred goodness?
If you regret your child's existence, you will only create another unnecessary burden that he or she will the have to overcome. Instead help your child learn the value of being a good person.