I found out I was pregnant back on January 15th, I had a miscarriage at 11 weeks, apparently it was an atopic ectopic pregnancy and the baby died inside me at 9 weeks, but my body started reacting 2 weeks later. Because it was "early" during the pregnancy my doctor gave me a pill to induce labor aka abortion to clean my uterus from the baby's body.
It was the most painful (physical and emotional) experience in my whole life and while I was at home suffering the pain and expulsing my baby in chunk of blood, I couldn't understand how there are women that willingly go thru that. I was devastated and my husband didn't know how to help me, but being there.
Oh I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you will be able to carry another baby to term.
As a woman who did everything to get pregnant I know your pain. Back in the day no Dr. could figure out why I couldn't get pregnant. I think I was having miscarriages VERY early after insemination. I never got pregnant but ended up adopting a 5 week old baby from Catholic Charities back in the 1980's. She is my only adult child now. Just wish she would settle down but I have already come to the conclusion I will never be a grandma.
I'm currently pregnant again. It is an emotional roller-coaster for me and my husband as we are giving all we can to protect this one. I was able to see the baby and the heart beat.
How exciting! Prayers for you and your baby that s/he is delivered healthy at full term. I know the emotional roller coaster you are on. It was something both my husband and I put past us but it was so hard to get through at the time. And what really hurt badly was my sister and other friends kept having kids throughout the time we were trying to get pregnant. Once we adopted my daughter I did try again another time when she was 3. I went to a different fertility specialist just to make sure. But it just wasn't meant to be. It took a long time but we both came to terms with it over the years. There is still some heartache over the loss we endured and I will never get over not being able to go through my own pregnancy.
Because it's part of the whole pseudo-independent narrative. It also pisses off daddy.
Sorry you had that experience. It must have been tough.
Most libs are so bra8nwashed they think they have to, so they can still fit in with the crowd. Others just dont want to have kids
I am So sorry for your loss. The one's who argue for abortion have not thought about the realness of the life of that baby even at an early stage in the pregnancy. I hope people wake up to the evil of abortion. Prayers for you and your husband.
Most liberal women will take it the day after, that’s why they have it. I’m not saying it’s right, but that’s the reason why they call it the day after pill. If there’s any doubt that your birth control is not working, or a condom ripped, or you weren’t taking birth control, you can get a prescription from your doctor and take it to make sure. I don’t think they actually prescribed a pill for what happened in your case, except for what happened in your case, that the baby was already dead. But I’m not 100% on that.
I think my daughter is actually used it before, but she doesn’t want to have children and she never has. But at least she takes the precautions needed to make sure she doesn’t get pregnant. So I’m not exactly sure why she had to do that. But to be perfectly honest, she is a diehard liberal, we sent her to college, and unfortunately she’s a socialist commie now and it breaks my heart. But to be perfectly honest… It’s so much better for these people to not have children. We would both be at each other‘s throat‘s on how to raise the child, and I would be teaching that child about Jesus just like I did my daughter. My only hope is that she will return to the ways of the Lord. I keep praying for that.
But as for you, I am so sorry that you had to go through that. That is a horrific experience, and because you actually love your husband and you love to hear baby, it was heart wrenching and a horrific experience for you. I’ll be praying for you and hoping that the Lord will bless you with a child again and it will go for full-term.
On a sidenote… I knew a girl, and she was pregnant, and she said she was having a bunch of pain and stuff. I drew a bath for her so she could go in the bathtub and just try to relax and think everything was going to be OK. She actually passed the dead baby in our toilet. I had to scoop it out and put it into a Tupperware container and take it to the hospital with her. It was one of the most horrific experiences I ever went through, and I had to well meant to the Lord because I was freaking out. But I did what I had to do for my friend to make sure everything was OK with her after that happened. The people at the ER you’re heartless, we stood there with a bag with a dead baby unit, and nobody even took it until we asked them to. That’s how messed up up The medical industry is.
I still remember that to this day, and it’s been over 12 years ago. And just think they’re abortion clinics that do this every day hundred today, and they go home and make dinner and eat and sleep and come back and do it again. We are in big trouble as a nation, and I’m not surprise things have turned out the way they have. How can God bless the country when we’re murdering children like we do every day.
May God fully bless you with a full term baby, and whatever you do don’t send your child to college, because I’ll just indoctrinate him or her.
In high-school the morning after pill was a staple sadly. I was close to a chick that went for the pill weekly. They eventually wouldn't give it to her because they said it would cause permanent damage. She had an older boyfriend for years and I think he was doing it on purpose to try and keep her. Piece of shit wouldn't even take her, she would call me (her best friend was my girlfriend.) Even the teachers made it seem like no big deal. They promoted it instead of telling her to stop banging that dirtbag. Yea I regret it but I was also young and dumb.
First, my respects for your baby. You're an angel mom now. Look for the term.
Now, about your question, some are fooled into thinking they have no chance but aborting the pregnancy, some are too irresponsible and think the baby will get in the way of their hedonistic lifestyle. Some are pure evil and want to murder their own offspring just for political points.
(hug) I am so very sorry for your loss.
I don't know how they can, either.
Because liberal women and young girls think only of themselves is why they don’t view conception as life. They view it as an inconvenience. They don’t see the fetus as part of them. They are amoral, don’t see the abortion pill or abortion as murder. I hope these women never become pregnant because God help their children when mothers put themselves first. When you have sex, you should view the result as a possible pregnancy. If you aren’t prepared for a pregnancy, don’t have sex or put yourself in risky situations. I am so sick of hearing, “My body, my choice!” Well that went out the window with the Covid shots, lockdowns, and mask mandates. We see how well you stood up for your rights then, didn’t we.
It doesn't matter when... losing a child is second only to losing your spouse.
My sweet second was stillborn. It was the worst thing I've been through in my entire life.
In sorry about your little one.
(((Big Hugs))) I am sorry for your loss. Like many here, we understand the pain you are dealing with having a miscarriage. The emotional pain is worse than the physical. May the Good Lord bless you with an uneventful pregnancy, followed by an easy delivery with a healthy baby.
This "abortion pill" is a real curiosity to me, for the following reason.
Mrs Puffitt has been diagnosed with Cushing's Syndrome - an endocrine condition where overproduction of the hormone cortisol in the adrenal glands causes a number of cascading dysfunctions of other endocrine systems and nasty side-effects. So far, doctors have not determined the cause or improved her condition.
The latest twist was prescribing a drug called Mifprestone - aka the abortion pill aka RU486 aka Korlym. The part that I find incredible is that when this drug is used by a woman with a pregnancy that she wants to go away, she is charged $80 for a single dose; the same drug prescribed for Mrs Puffitt was priced at $550 per dose, 1 per day for the foreseeable future, or north of $200,000 per year. The same fuckin pill with the same exact chemicals in it, simply because it is the only drug that company makes, and some sort of agreement with the FDA. That we found a program which somehow reduces the price to $33 per month is another puzzlement for me, but we will take it. I could afford to get these pills at full retail price to treat her for about 4 years before our savings is depleted.
Did I mention that Pharma is a commie rat fuck outfit with the soul of a fuckin pig?
I’m so sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and husband ??
I am so so sorry for your loss ??
Wicked evil women don't feel the kind of anguish and physical pain you feel....let them have their abortions and their pills. We have a country to save. And people who are that evil don't deserve to breed.
The morning after pill has to be taken within 120 hrs of having unprotected sex This is a very personal experience you have shared. Perhaps too much detail. Sorry for your loss but this bares no resemblance to what happens taking this pill as a precaution to an unwanted pregnancy. Probably will get some downvotes for this but don't care, this is way off topic for this forum.