After 10 months of prayer, my daughter has finally contacted my mother for the first time. She walked away from our family, because she’s been indoctrinated by college, and brainwashed by the LGBT community.She will be meeting with my mother and me on Friday afternoon, because she wants to talk to us about something ‘important’!
Through other avenues of communication, I know that she is considering changing her gender from a woman to a man. She wants to have a full mastectomy, and has Buzzed her beautiful long hair off. The last time she met with my mom, she asked her if she would introduce her as her grandson if she transitioned.
I’m hoping and praying that she will not make this life-changing decision, because she already suffers from severe depression, and is suicidal. I fear that if she goes through this transition, she will become one of the 43% of transgender community that commit suicide.
She was raised Christian, went to Christian schools for grade school, and has walked away from The Lord. Please pray for her, that God will work a miracle in her life. Pray she will give up the cult that she’s entered, and finally looked to Lord for peace joy and love in her life.
This whole experience is just heartbreaking, because I know I have to be the voice of reason moving forward. I must tell her the truth, and that what she wants to do is not God’s will for her life, and she is fearfully and wonderfully made in his image. There is nothing that she needs to change about how she was created by God.
I know that in so doing, she will reject me finally - for the last time, and walk away from our family for good. But I cannot validate her mental illness, and must be the voice of truth crying out in the wilderness.
Please and thank you in advance for your prayers and support.
Prayer sent my fren. This is heartbreaking.
I hope you mention to her that 43% of transgenders commit suicide because they realize they made a mistake and cant change back. Also I hope you mention to her that she has been indoctrinated by evil people. On the other hand maybe she is coming to tell you she finally realized it was all bs and she is not going to change her gender after all. I pray that is exactly what she is coming to tell you. Keep us informed.
To be quite honest, I’m going to be asking her or telling her that if she decides to go through with the surgery I’ll be getting a life insurance policy on her. That’s how messed up the situation is. Maybe then she’ll understand believe me when I say 43% of transgender community will commit suicide.
Fact is she wants to meet her grandmother and yourself to get ...
a) attention
b) approval
c) confrontation
So what will she do, if she gets none and you cancel the date?
If something would be so important to me, that I would cut off my breasts, I would do it without having the opinion of my family.
Probably she is insecure with her decision or she has already done it and wants you to swallow it.
If she is insecure, what will happen when she gets no approval and no confrontation - just nothing - no attention - no discussion - nothing = no date!
Then she has to face her insecurity herself and probably will sense that she can not decide on her own what is right or wrong.
Allmighty God please send all your love, clarity, truth and wisdom to ThisIsHowItsStarts daughter. Bless her with all the information and help to choose wisely for a healthy, happy and prosperous life that will satisfy her soul.
Please strengthen her soul to distance herself from all negative, harming and evil influence which has not her highest good in mind and help her see and feel the highest truth and consequences of her decisions for her life, so that she will be able to listen to your wise voice and follow your guidance.
Also help this family to trust you, to feel your peace, love and forgiveness and therefore also to give away these gifts to everyone in need of it.
Thank you father for your help, guidance and love whereever we go even in the darkest places you are there for us. All Glory to God and God's blessings to all!
Very interesting observation! Attention, very interesting. I’ve gotten a lot of great comments, I’m going to write things down and highlight the ones that I think are key to a successful meet up. My mom has an account here as well, so she can view the comments herself. She is 82 based!
What would your daughter think or do, if you would cancel the date?
"Sweatheart we love you, but at the moment we have no time, so much going on. Let us meet next month, we are always there for your."
And when she then replies that she wants to cut her breasts off tell her ...
"You are a grown-up and you have your reasons for this heavy decision and probably thought this through very thoroughly. It is your life and it is you, who will live that way, with all consequences for the rest of your life. Soon we, your grandmother and I, your friends, your colleagues will be gone, but you will have to live with this for the rest of your life. We love you with or without legs/arms/breasts, do what you think is reasonable and be ready to bear the consequences for 60 years, Sweetheart. We will pray for you to get God's support in this, that is all we can do."
And when she really goes on to do it, perhaps it would be helpful to think that she got cancer and lost her breasts due to this disease. Your love will not end, if she looses her breasts or will not be able to raise kids. You love her anyway, so does God with us.
God bless you with strength, clarity and peace of heart, dear fren. It is hard, to see family members make stupid decisions and we can do nothing, can only be there to be helpful and loving after the mess unfolded - it is very hard. Stay strong.
I haven’t seen or spoken to her in 10 months, so I won’t be canceling that appointment. I just wanna see her beautiful face. I don’t care what news she brings, I just want to see her.
That is great, my dear. Love will conquer ALL. God bless and protect you, your daughter and your family with peace, love and happiness. I strongly hope and wish that everything will work out for good and that it will be good as soon as you can hug her, kiss her and enjoy a wonderful meeting with her.
I'm so sorry for the situation you're in.
I was the first in my family to discover that my nephew was gay. He had polluted the family computer with several viruses and I was asked to fix it. The viruses were embedded in several gay sex videos. I never outed him since he was also very depressed, but I did share my discovery with my wife. He found comfort in my wife and I and even brought his boyfriend over to our house a few times.
Unfortunately he's now estranged after he "borrowed" a lot of money from us to pay his rent. Sadly he doesn't communicate with anyone now and nobody knows where he is.
There might be treatment methods to get your daughter back on a healthy path. I wish I knew about this document before the situation with my nephew deteriorated. I can't verify that everything in it is accurate, BUT a lot of this makes perfect sense.
Parasite Pill 👈 Don't read this is you have a weak stomach.
Oh yeah I’ve watched some documentaries about this, and I do believe 100% that it has something to do with parasites. Unfortunately, I’ve been on this path for a long time with other general illnesses, but she thinks I’m a nutcase. I even have a Rife frequency zapper. I will definitely review the document that you gave me, but I already agree with you 100%.
Best of luck Fren.
I'll keep praying for you and your daughter.
Righteous, true and eternal Father in heaven, Your child calls upon Your name and I join him in this call. Place upon the heart of the daughter Your loving Spirit and in her father's mouth Your spirit of wisdom. Deny satan this young woman as it is well within Your power to do, as You will it. We beg you of these things in the blessed name of Your Son Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, amen
I am so sorry your family has to go through this. These things have touched our family as well and is all too pervasive in these times.
Lord I pray that you will pierce the heart of this daughter with your truth and may she feel the love of her family as they try to speak this truth. I pray that you will break the chains of bondage and free her from her deception and brainwashing. I pray that you will free her from her depression and that she can return to you like the prodigal son when he realized that everything he ever wanted or needed can be found in you. We ask this in the Holy Name of Jesus Christ who has defeated sin for all time for all people through His sacrifice on the cross. Amen
Thank you for your beautiful prayer. It uplifted me.
In Jesus' Name I pray for this young woman to be delivered from the lying demons that are tormenting her and leading her to even grater darkness. Dear Lord, please restore her to her rightful mind, her loving family and to you. May she be healed and released from everything that is keeping her bound physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. May your Kingdom come and your perfect will be done in her life. Amen.
Prayers up for all of you.
Many prayers for you all. I am estranged from my daughter too. She was also indoctrinated in college. She is a harsh liberal but has retained a normal sexuality. Our issue is the man she married. I can't stand by when he hurts her and she refuses to have a relationship with me until I accept him. It's a terrible place for a parent to be in. Just surround you're daughter with a hedge of thorns so the she is uncomfortable with her decision. Try your best to stick with your faith. Remember that she was God's child before she was yours. That if she is of age, your responsibility to her is technically over. Her choices are no reflection on your love of her. You'll love her no matter. Tell her that ever as you disagree with her choices. We have to learn new ways to parent once our kids are not children. God knows our heart and he will help you chose the right words. God bless!
I will pray for you. We are going through the same thing in our family with my youngest daughter. Almost every sentence in your post could have been written by me. It breaks my heart and Jesus is the only one strong enough to fight these demons possessing our children. Keep the faith - that is all He requires to win this battle.
Wow. I’m so sorry to hear that. I’ll be praying for you as well. I send a message to my pastor‘s wife today. She said that there are several of other families going through the same thing at our church. We’re a congregation of 300 people tops, in a very red area east of Mesa in Arizona. But my daughter went to ASU, and I think that’s a very demonic stronghold. We can only hope and pray that Jesus will answer our prayers before they do anything dramatic.
Yes! We used to live in California and my daughter went to San Francisco State. "Demonic" is a good way to put it. I wouldn't send her to college if I had it to do over. I am now in Tennessee (thank God!) but this daughter lives in Vermont, which I'm sure is not helpful. Only prayers will work at this point. God bless you!
Prayers for you and your family. I'm sorry you all are going through this.
Praying now, fren.
She may be gay, and leaning toward being a "man" exactly because she already has a background that frowns on homosexuality. If she were my daughter/sister I would not get into her morality. She is already depressed and suicidal. Work on that. If she kills herself you won't have anything at all, unless you can rest on some smug self-righteousness. Try to give her hope instead of a lecture. I'll pray for both of you.
I’ve always been supportive of whatever choices she’s made in life. The one person in our family that’s been supportive of my gay cousin pretty much most of his life. I’ve never looked down on him, and we’ve been the best of friends. One of my best friends is a lesbian, and our family has never been judge mental. Heck - I have blue hair, but I’m not a liberal. it’s a very dark blue but it’s done tastefully. Actually I get compliments on it all the time. Anyway, I understand where you’re coming from, and that’s what puzzles me the most. In the past she’s mentioned being attracted to women, and other things - but I’ve never pushed her away. Whatever her decision is, of course I will love her unconditionally. But until that happens I must be truth in love. This has nothing to do with me being smug, because I’ve been waiting for two months to finally hear from her. I am grateful for that, but I’m very nervous to find out what she really wants to tell us. Thanks for the advice
There are tranny regret sites you might learn something from, why they did it. I'm not suggesting those as scare stories but examples where you might see a parallel and have a point to start exploring. The first concern is to keep her from hurting herself
, I have watched a few documentaries and listen to some podcasts, but I haven’t gone that deep cause it’s been so depressing to even imagine that she would go there. But I will definitely consider doing something like that. One of my suggestions to her would be to at least for you a few de transition stories.
Well, depressed people generally feel things are hopeless, something (and it might not seem that important to others) is eating on them, being the focus of why they can never be happy/rich/successful/whatever until the pain makes them feel like dying is the only way out. Look for that and take it very seriously even if it seems ridiculous. There was a post here about two regretful girls who were just lonesome, having some high-school blues about their social life. The alphabet people made them feel loved and welcomed into their tribe. All the "stunning and courageous" crap made them want to be stunning and courageous too--who wouldn't?
Man, I will pray for you and your family!
Maybe this video can help... https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=JWUi9inEVKs&feature=youtu.be
I just took a sample, and that looked great. I’m gonna watch it or listen to it what I’m doing some cooking or baking today. Actually, right now I’m making peach ice cream and pineapple ice cream. It’s just a long process.
Although none of my business, try accepting her choice. Wouldn’t you rather have her in your life than not? You might end up being riddled with guilt and regret if you disown her. In the scheme of things, who gives a shit if she transitions — she’s alive! Every child needs a mom (and grandma)! Prayers sent!
I hope I’m not sounding judgmental or sanctimonious. You are not going to change her mind, so why not try to support her? Plus, there’s a thing called detranansitoning.
You’re not being judgmental at all. I would never disown my child, I’ve already accepted other things in her life that I don’t agree, but I’ve always loved her unconditionally! She knows that. It’s been her choice to walk away from our family, we’ve never asked her to go away. I think about her all the time, and I hate that she’s causing this division. I can still speak the truth and love to her, and still love her unconditionally whatever choice that she makes. So thank you for pointing that out.
I’ve never been a judge mental parent, and have my own idiosyncrasies that some Christians or conservatives would think not in line with the norm. I have blue hair, and I’ve had colored hair for 15 years. I was doing it long before the liberals were. My Fred is a hair technician, so we’ve been able to have fun with it and do it in a matter that it is tasteful, and I get so many compliments on my hair.
The interesting thing though, is that sometimes they think I’m one of them, it really does open the door for me to have conversations with people who normally would not even talk to you. During the pandemic I was treated differently by left leaning liberal store clerks, regarding masks. They do ask other people to put their masks on, but because I had blue hair, they wouldn’t ask me. It was just a really weird experiment I was doing walking around out in the world with my blue hair. During Covid! Of course cause my best friend is a hair technician, my hair always looks great during Covid. I think people were a little pissed off at that point in time because so many people couldn’t get their haircut or colored.
Anyway thanks for your advice. I would never turn my back on my own child, but she’s turned her back on me, and there’s nothing I can do about that. That’s the part that sucks the most.
Oh I’m so sorry. I really hope I didn’t sound so harsh. She is lucky to have you as a mother!
I don’t think you sounded harsh at all. I’ve tried to be open minded to everyone’s comments, and suggestions. It’s in this way that the Lord could be speaking to me, something I may have not even thought of. I appreciate every bit of his comments and prayers.
Dear ThisIsHowItStarts — No need to respond, but just wondering how your reunion was with your daughter? I hope all is well on your end! 🙏🙏🙏
I made a post about it but you must’ve missed it. But it was wonderful. I’ve got to hug my daughter for the first time in 10 months. Things went really well, she’s still confused about her sexuality, but she’s not planning on being a man or cutting her breasts off so far! We talked a lot, and she’s willing to try and be a part of our life again. She’ll be moving out of state, but I’m kind of glad about that because she really needs to get out of this one. Thank you for asking. I’ve been pleased as punch the last few days. We have a long way to go, but I’m just grateful for the little bit of time we did have she stayed for three hours I was shocked ! My gratitude to everyone is tremendous, and I told everybody this is a huge family, and it’s a big win for all of us.
What a wonderful outcome! Thank God she still wants to be a part of your life! The power of prayer works miracles. She is lucky to have you and your mom in her life!
Please keep us posted. We are all praying for you and your family.
Thank you I will keep you guys posted tomorrow after she leaves. She’ll be here at 12 noon. Mountain time
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Praying for you and your daughter. God can change any heart no matter how hopeless it seems. You’re a great parent for telling her what she needs to hear rather than what she wants. May God continue to give you strength.
In a similar situation with one of mine. Not a transgender issue, but renouncing their faith and turning socialist, blaming us personally for the world being how it is because of "how we voted " all these years and our stupid beliefs.
I'm sorry you're going through this, too. Here is the promise I am hanging onto and declaring:
Though hand join in hand, the wicked shall not be unpunished: but the seed of the righteous shall be delivered. Proverbs 11:21 KJV https://bible.com/bible/1/pro.11.21.KJV
Praying for you and yours.
Your family will be in my prayers.
I pray that your daughter makes the right decision-to put her hands in God’s as opposed to the evil cultists in her life. I also pray for you as a family-to give you strength to support her in the right path despite putting your relationship with her in jeopardy. God is merciful and he will support you through this difficult time.
I pray, fren, that the Holy Spirit will come upon you and your mother with the words your daughter needs to hear to avoid this mistake. May God's blessings flow through all of you. God is good and His will shall be done. Love is the answer. Your daughter is desperate for it.
Please keep us updated.
Showing how regretful some trannies are might backfire if she really wants to hurt herself, although EagleEyes could be right about the attention need too. Even attention seekers could kill themselves accidentally, before they get the attention or revenge or whatever they are after. Here's another approach, show her who is pushing the tranny movement, more properly the Synthetic Sex Identity way of life. Point out this is the authority and money behind transgenderism. Is this who she wants to follow? https://www.lifesitenews.com/blogs/billionaire-pritzker-family-pushing-synthetic-sex-identities-on-americans/ Here's the same story in a non-religious e-zine: https://www.tabletmag.com/sections/news/articles/billionaire-family-pushing-synthetic-sex-identities-ssi-pritzkers
Here's the monster who thought it up: http://www.shadolsonshow.com/2019/04/04/dr-john-moneys-genderless-world-and-the-twin-boys-who-died-to-kill-his-theory-of-gender-neutrality/#:~:text=Dr.%20Money%20was%20beyond%20eager%20to%20prove%20the,the%20crowning%20test%20case%20of%20his%20beautiful%20theory. Complete with a scare story that is well verified. And told in video form by a lefty source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t66X0DdNvNs&t=1136s+
"Father God, in the Name of Your only Begotten Son, I ask that You would be glorified through the ministry of your 'angels' (disguised as people) - even now - as You were glorified by Your 'angels' who ministered to me, so long ago. May they lovingly reach out to this precious, lost child, just as beloved Father Sterling McGuire and Steve, Priscilla, Sharon. Beth, Mary and so many others gently coaxed me back into the path of life when I was maybe even more lost than this precious daughter for whom we are praying. We don't have to know her name, Lord. YOU know and You already know what needs to be done."
"Almighty and Sovereign Lord, I never deserved the mercy You poured out onto me - and maybe this girl also does not deserve mercy. But those who love this girl deserve Your mercy because of their love... and because of the Love of Your Merciful Son. So, in Jesus HOLY Name, we pray for Your intervention through Your LIFE GIVING Holy Spirit. Be Glorified in this hour of renewal for this beloved daughter. Be GOD in this situation, Lord! Be GOD and may all of us give You PRAISE and THANKSGIVING for all that You're going to do in the Healing, MIGHTY, LIFE CHANGING Name of Christ our Lord!" AMEN! AMEN! and Amen!
I came back because you need to see this, fren:
https://greatawakening.win/p/15JAF2dz98/checkmate/c/
Thank you for sending that to me, it made me cry. I really needed to see that, and you really helped me this morning because I’ve been feeling very down. Yes the king does have one more move doesn’t he!
Just love her, fren, and give her a big hug. Tell her you're glad to see her. Something is telling me this is all she really needs.
Thank you for reminding me of that.
You're welcome, fren. Remember that harsh words repel, and loving words attract. Be like the Good Shepherd who carries the wayward sheep home. Show her a different, and beautiful path back to life.
Thanks appreciate it I’ll watch it later.