An unwarranted and completely false accusation was made against my family to CPS, and now we have someone who wants to question my family. I have 5 wonderful children, and the very thought of someone threatening my ability to be around them is absolutely terrifying. We have never had any issues, and we have many friends and family that can account for how we treat our children. This whole thing has turned our lives upside down just thinking about it. I need your prayers for strength and peace and for blessed and good results to get this agency out of our lives quickly. Thank you.
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Holy Father, please bless our Fren with vindication and Truth, have the libel exposed and keep the happy Family together.🙏🏻
Thank you
I believe in Prayer. I have your back.🙏🏻
Thank you for this.
A most excellent stand on the.word.
Make sure you have some witnesses present, especially a lawyer, or a family doctor whom you trust. Grandparents would be useful too. They are your support people, which you have a right to have present.
Are they coming to your home? Try and meet them on neutral ground - e.g. somewhere else. Maybe a church, or a library, or something. It's not supposed to be a hygiene check, but just for reference, one woman asked us if we had a broom (we did) - after which she said that that question was her personal marker of 'bad' parents, - if they had no broom they would fail the 'test'. [scratches head]. Since then, we have always met this type of intrusion on neutral ground.
It happened to us: the bad-faith narking to authorities - we had five kids at the time - it was a false accusation from someone who was frustrated because they thought they could break us up, and get off with my partner. We met the peeps from the agency and talked as long as it took to make them go away. Patiently refuting every accusation, until they realized that it was a utter falsity they were dealing with. We sat at a picnic table and fed the (10 mo - 7 years) kids some dates. They were sweet as pie, because we met them with smiles and not ignoring the kids, so we had to stand up and check on them frequently, etc.
On the one hand: Realize that the people coming to see you, are just doing their jobs, and filling in a pile of paperwork. It's scary, but at the end of the day they want to go home and put their feet up. So be nice to them, and everything might go well. In favor of this: It's the first 'incident' so to speak - and they don't even know if the complaint has any basis.
Are they intending to do some sort of wellness-check on the kids? Might want to find out. If so, then definitely have your own doctor present if possible, or at least a have a wellness record from the doctor. I know this costs money, but some of these types, despite having to do their job, do it over-enthusiastically. They are social workers, but some are self-proclaimed diagnostic merchants and proclaim that a kid's head is deformed or something - nek minit, one has to argue with higher ups, make expensive scan appointments, and have a record with those people - and endless trouble. So forewarned is forearmed - shove them a piece of paper, that they need to file.
You might find they come out with a bunch of cute surveys with pictures on cards for the kids, asking prying questions. Prepare your kids for some shocking questions with globohomo art - or refuse to partake in the charade. Up to you. Any of these cockameemee tests they roll out on this type of interview is essentially worthless, IMO. Like a bunch of tarot cards if you ask me. Such a 'reading' is flawed because of the power-dynamic which, as you say, stresses the whole family out, so obviously the kids won't be calm and friendly, the young ones might even choose to play trampolines on the couch. prepare for questions like and 'how does it feel to xxx' which the kid will find hard to answer, because they have never thought about it; or they may find the person asking, simply too rude. (One lady had shit on her shoe, and my daughter was horrified - too horrified to read out loud in a 'spot' check.
My recommendation on that score, is to keep them talking to YOU - keep your kids out of it as much as possible, if you can. Don't let them 'interview' them, or 'test' them one-on-one, there really is no need. Set the kids a task, like finding a book they want to take out at the library, or finding the right kind of dog-shampoo on the internet (wow -we are allowed on the computer), because, ... and feed them beforehand.
I do not trust the h & w social workers at all. I used to have to meet them at homes when I was LE. I had to testify against one of them who was lieing about the circumstance this family was in and thought she could order me to seize the child. I ordered her out of the house and when she refused I told her I was leaving. The dumbass didn't know my recorder was on the entire time. And her excuses as i challenged her recorded. Her report contradicted rhe tape and she was fired. I really loathe those types as it makes it hard when a kid really needs rescuing. Out of the entire office in the city I worked i only trusted one of those H n S workers.
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The above is correct. Keep your fear and temper in check. Let them see you are friendly, peaceful and understand they are just doing their jobs. Never ever show irritation or anger. Be baffled by the idea that anyone would make a report on you.
Praying for you, fren.
We had false accusations from a doctor, of all people. He had made a diagnosis we didn't agree with and recommended we follow up with a couple of specialists, which I didn't do. The next time we were in the office, he said he was going to send the referrals for the specialists again, so I let him know we had no intention of taking her to those doctors, so following our appointment, we received a letter stating that we had thirty days to follow up with those specialties or his office would be notifying CPS. On reading the letter, my husband panicked and made plans to comply, the sweet man. I just laughed and said there was no way I was going to comply under threat.
I immediately took my daughter to an independent lab for blood work which proved she didn't have what he diagnosed her with. Then we happily spoke to the friendly CPS case worker for two hours in our home with our children and adult children present. They make you listen to the allegations without comment, then they give you all the time you need to refute it. I asked if the doctor had given them any of my daughter's medical history that causes her "red flags" he reported us for--he had not given them any of that information. Be careful with this--it opens up their need to access health info. In our case, my daughter's medical history is extensive and CPS was most likely overwhelmed with data from her multiple surgeries, specialist visits, and diagnoses. We gave the case worker the lab work showing she didn't have what he claimed, then she sat with us and chatted while petting our dog.
It turned out that our case worker was familiar with the birth defect my daughter was born with (the one the doctor didn't report), and based on what we had told her, she recommended a family doctor who allows parents to advocate for their children. I scheduled a visit with that doctor for me personally before taking my daughter to see her, and we both love her for her gentle ways and for listening. She even showed us a pic of a friend's baby who was born with my daughter's condition and knew all the "red flags." We asked that she remove the diagnosis, which she did on the spot.
Having adopted four kids through foster care, we knew how things worked. Not all case workers are as amazing as the one we had, but they are legitimately there to get your side of the story. My best advice is to always remain logical while advocating for your child and your family. Keep your kids close and remain in the space together. God bless the case workers who are being distracted from real needs in the community in order to deal with false accusations.
Some very important information.
Especially about keeping together in the space. Good battle tactics.
Thanks fren.
Hi there. Prayers for you, of course. But this:
I have been down this road..my husband and I raised a blended family of 8 kids. At one point early on, my ex husband (pedophile, wife beater, general bad dude) had got his rather ultra-churchy mother on board to make ridiculous accusations against my present husband involving one of my youngest daughters, totally unfounded. In the end we were ok, cops came, as did cps, checked the kids, their bodies for marks and general health, separated them all for questioning, and checked on the safety of our house, including pets. We had shot records, we had witnesses. But the most important witnesses are the children. Be honest with your kids, and demand their honesty. Explain to your kids the importance of what could happen if they "tell stories", as kids do. The other most important witnesses are you and your spouse. You're nervous. I know. But remember to STAND IN YOUR TRUTH. If you are good parents, any state official worth a shit will see that. Clean house. Well cared for pets. Food in the fridge. Safety. Kids who love their family.
Togetherness. You're a team. Impress that upon everybody you all see. They won't break up a known team. They're trained to find the truth, and they are very used to receiving and sniffing out bullshit accusations. Don't be surprised if they want a follow-up visit. Head on a swivel. But lose the nerves, or you won't think properly. You've got this.
Prayers on the way fren.
Stay strong.
Thank you
God Bless you.
I think leftists use calling CPS on people like they do when "swatting" people. I hope they catch whoever initiated this and punish them. Prayers out to you and family from me.
Indeed there is an element of swatting, and jealousy. If the family is obviously well-knit and even has the audacity to laugh and play in public, or even sit raucously in the car, while dad gets a treat - then jealous demons come and pay them out.
Anything to deprive 'those people' of what they themselves don't have.
Spiteful mutants enter the chat.
Lord, please protect our fren and his family on their 3 month camping trip across the USA.
I did. This is horrible. May God's justice see you through.
The truth will prevail. They will come ask questions and see a sound home. Case closed. 🙏
If you are in CA, contact Audra Morgan, who is a journalist who is actively exposing crimes by CPS: https://rumble.com/v6tdifl-eye-of-the-storm-podcast-live-s3-e4-051425-with-hope-beryl-green.html?utm_source=newsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Eye%20of%20the%20STORM
If you are in WA, contact Kat Espinda, who is a journalist exposing that is also exposing CPS crimes in her state: https://rumble.com/v6tdj2b-ep.-7-whats-up-now-with-kat-and-junique-the-changing-face-of-earth-realm.html?utm_source=newsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Kat%20Espinda
If you aren't in either state, you may want to reach out to them anyways because they likely know who is covering the CPS crimes in your state.
This is very much a spiritual battle. They need our children to win this war. Now that we are starting to win battles and are making real progress in defeating evil, evil is doubling down with the blatant kidnapping of massive numbers of children via CPS. Put on the armor of God and fight back with all your might. Fear not; God is with you and you will succeed. And, when it is all over, you and your children will be blessed for your fighting.
I'm in Oklahoma
It's the same playbook for CPS all over the country. Trump closed the borders so they aren't getting migrant kids anymore. They were always getting some from CPS, but now CPS has become a bigger player and CPS is desperately grabbing children to meet the uptick in demand. I think you should still reach out to Audra and/or Kat as they likely know journalists in your state to contact.
Bring justice, Lord.
Amen
We are praying for your complete justification on this, this is one of the things that comes from both the increase in laws and the decline of morality.
If you have a personal physician, dentist or other medical advocates, you want their input and support for your case, as well. If at all you can have their word on your care for the children, or on health it will help you.
Prayers on the Way!
One more thing: The government agencies utilize a playbook for these unlawful schemes. Please read this so that you know what dirty tricks are coming and can prepare accordingly: https://gwsandiego.net/blog/?p=938.
Lord care for this family. Strengthen them and guide them as only you can. You have said to lean on you in good times and in bad. We call on your strength today to help this family clear this trouble. In Jesus name we pray. Amen