I’m like 5 or 6 years in. I feel like the best route is to not make a big deal about it. If you turn it in to a whole thing... you are just opening yourself up to excuses. The same seems to go for narcotics. I can always tell when a friend is going to relapse... it is preceded by lots of talk about sobriety.. focusing on days... etc... you will kick it for good once it becomes something you don’t want to do.. instead of something you can’t do. I had trouble separating alcohol and fun. It was all I did recreationally from 14-25ish. The thing that helped was focusing on the hangovers. I would lose at least a day to them. I started to enjoy waking up not feeling like shit... and not wanting to kill myself. I have tried a glass of wine since... it just made me feel gross.
I guess I should say this is just my viewpoint... I do not wish to shit on anyways journey towards a better life.
Ohio has pockets of tards as well. My daughters kindergarten teacher last year did a mock segregation and had the class be shitty to blue eyed kids. Up until that point my daughter had no idea there was a difference between our black family members, and friends. Phew glad that fresh out of college cunt told her there was a difference.
Step daughter... people keep forgetting that he married his dead brothers wife and fucked his daughter.