Give them something. Send them a copy of your receipt from another, non-cucked vendor enclosed in a letter stating EXACTLY why they missed out on your business.
Wedding planners are a dime a dozen....go find some less "woke" outfit who is not a moron. Hint: The older the person is, the less likely he / she will engage in such idiocy.
EDIT: I also noticed at the bottom it says "STAY SAFE"....meaning this planner will demand masks be worn by everyone, from the initial meeting to the rehearsal to the wedding itself.
BONUS HINT: Years ago, the job of "wedding planner" was very rare; mothers and daughters (and sisters and aunts of the bride) loved to plan the daughter's weddings. It was a rite of passage and they LOVED doing it. So why patronize someone of a pretty useless "profession", which requires zero survival skills, and deprive the ladies of doing something they used to enjoy doing?
So it appears that in our country, we have produced such a bounty of food and resources that we have become an indulgent, pampered society.... and that gives rise to "influencers" and other such useless people and their useless "skills" that have absolutely zero survival purposes, Her is my partial list of such useless breathers, feel free to add your own.
Hair stylists;
Pet psychiatrists;
Interpretive dancers;
Fashion critics;
Music critics;
Critics of any kind;
Astrologers;
Life coaches;
Motivational speakers;
Clothing fashion designers;
Equality and Inclusion Specialists;
I agree with all but the Hair Stylists. They do provide a valuable service, especially to the little old ladies. Women feel better (for real) when their hair looks good.
Not all ladies enjoy planning weddings, which can be quite involved. If you want a standard modern wedding that looks good and flows smoothly, there's a lot to coordinate: venue, caterer, band or DJ, flowers, cake, dresses, invitations, transportation, etc. Back in the day, weddings tended to be simpler affairs and the women helping to plan them didn't all have full-time jobs.
Point taken; however, with many different people having many different situations, I threw that out there as ONE possibility. My wife and her friends planned our wedding, but it was a very simple affar. But we were young and not wealthy then.
The main thing I was trying to tell the OP was to steer clear of that particular wedding planner, because as sure as I was born, he/she would try to impose some woke PC nonsense on the proceedings. It's the curse of the Left; they insist that everyone bend to their twisted view of the world.
What garbage. The left and their virtue signaling is disgusting. "Look at me, I'm a good person! Look at me, look at me!" Everything they support politically is garbage virtue signaling. They believe it because they're a good person, you don't because you're a bad person. Mental illness.
Weddings are supposed to be a celebration of love, not a lesson in critical race theory, I bet everyone who uses their services ends up divorced. Congratulations on your wedding, I hope it's beautiful!
"Vote with your feet". Dont fund the bullshit and boycott it when you see it.
Also, an odd correlation as an aside, but the higher the cost to a wedding the greater the probability of divorce. A quiet ceremony of loved ones however seem to work well.
I totally agree! I’m so done with this virtual signaling! And I’m in the wedding industry. We need to get back to focusing on God and Marriage. Do you think people would be into that?
I'd take it one step further and express to them that they lost your business because they feel the need to inject their political views into what should be the happiest day of your life
BLM can say whatever they want to KoolAid the masses, but they don't give a crap about Black People.
They're a Saul Alinsky tactic of The New World Order to divide us and make us weaker.
Right now in Africa, blacks are being bought and sold in the slave trade. Does BLM care? No.
Uuuugh, I feel you lady pede. Going through the same myself. Makes it easy to cross vendors off the list....
I also had to exit every single wedding Facebook group (which was supposed to be fun wedding owning and ideas), bc every group turned into mask debates and "omg we're having a small backyard wedding instead" and NO.
It's your wedding, make it as big, small, glamorous or not as you want. The political flag waving ppl just make it easier to say no to.
Let them lose out. Call ones that aren't so upfront and just causally ask if they have any political leanings as a business and if they tell you the truth question why they would support a movement like that and if not then check their social media and call them out if they lied.
Make sure they KNOW they would have had you but lost you because of their hateful beliefs.
I would write back that “including “”blackness”” into MY wedding day will be at MY discretion and I don’t appreciate nor need any help from a venue I am paying to give me any help or suggestions to be “inclusive” on our special day. Are you asking BLM members to include other races in their events? If not SHUT UP and move along!”
Yes, dismantling oppressive systems like the Central Bank is exactly where we are headed. BLM and the rest will fall flat in the ash heap of political BS history.
First off, congratulations! Second, woke will always be a thing with these people until they realize it's not profitable. I suggest sending them a message about your ire just as you stated. You don't want to be reminded of the country's division on your day of unity.
So if you hire a black guy to serve snacks, will that help their movement? Will that "honor black life" in your ceremony? This mental illness has infiltrated nearly every facet of society at this point apparently...wow.
So yeah people that complain that politics are being pushed too far seldom seem to see that it is entirely one side that has decided to insert itself into our lives this fully. For instance an add came up for "Young Rock" which actually looks kind of funny but the overlay quotes were like "So funny, so diverse" and something stupid like "so representational" or whatever, and now I don't want to watch it.... cause lefty buzzwords...I would just explain to them why they lost your business as suggested here.
I guess you know who not to deal with already then.
I don't know what kind of planning you're doing, but when I got married just a few years ago, we were married in a church (free), held our reception in another church (also free), and paid $1,000 for decorations to an outside vendor who, incidentally, ran a themed B&B where we stayed for our first night. We didn't spend much, it was tasteful and surprisingly nice, and it was a good time.
Sure, I was criticized by one of my wife's rich, rich friends who had dancing at her wedding reception and did a full meal and stuff (all on daddy's dime), but I've literally never been to a wedding like that. It's always been a reception at the nearby church with light refreshments. Nothing too fancy. Of course, I had to pay for virtually all of my wedding and reception, too.
Of course, go with what you want, but just know you don't have to spend much or hire a million woke weirdos in order to have a wonderful and memorable wedding.
Congratulations! Marriage is great! You'll love it too.
So that would be a vendor I would scratch off my list. Congrats on your upcoming wedding!!!
Now you know who exactly not to give your business to!
Give them something. Send them a copy of your receipt from another, non-cucked vendor enclosed in a letter stating EXACTLY why they missed out on your business.
This is a good idea. I should keep track of vendor like this for mine.
Wedding planners are a dime a dozen....go find some less "woke" outfit who is not a moron. Hint: The older the person is, the less likely he / she will engage in such idiocy.
EDIT: I also noticed at the bottom it says "STAY SAFE"....meaning this planner will demand masks be worn by everyone, from the initial meeting to the rehearsal to the wedding itself.
BONUS HINT: Years ago, the job of "wedding planner" was very rare; mothers and daughters (and sisters and aunts of the bride) loved to plan the daughter's weddings. It was a rite of passage and they LOVED doing it. So why patronize someone of a pretty useless "profession", which requires zero survival skills, and deprive the ladies of doing something they used to enjoy doing?
Divorces where everyone took a side, so soon no one has many relatives on their side, too many factions.
So it appears that in our country, we have produced such a bounty of food and resources that we have become an indulgent, pampered society.... and that gives rise to "influencers" and other such useless people and their useless "skills" that have absolutely zero survival purposes, Her is my partial list of such useless breathers, feel free to add your own.
Hair stylists; Pet psychiatrists; Interpretive dancers; Fashion critics; Music critics; Critics of any kind; Astrologers; Life coaches; Motivational speakers; Clothing fashion designers; Equality and Inclusion Specialists;
Social Media Influencers, I think it's called fands only where people pay for exclusive content of gross people.
I agree with all but the Hair Stylists. They do provide a valuable service, especially to the little old ladies. Women feel better (for real) when their hair looks good.
That's how we did it in the '70's. LOL
Not all ladies enjoy planning weddings, which can be quite involved. If you want a standard modern wedding that looks good and flows smoothly, there's a lot to coordinate: venue, caterer, band or DJ, flowers, cake, dresses, invitations, transportation, etc. Back in the day, weddings tended to be simpler affairs and the women helping to plan them didn't all have full-time jobs.
Point taken; however, with many different people having many different situations, I threw that out there as ONE possibility. My wife and her friends planned our wedding, but it was a very simple affar. But we were young and not wealthy then.
The main thing I was trying to tell the OP was to steer clear of that particular wedding planner, because as sure as I was born, he/she would try to impose some woke PC nonsense on the proceedings. It's the curse of the Left; they insist that everyone bend to their twisted view of the world.
Let them know why you chose not to use their services.
Tell them to Foxtrot Oscar.
by "all in this together" do they mean every race or just every race except whites.
Hmmm, I can't read that clearly..what does it say?
All I can see is "Don't give us your money."
Am I reading that right?
What garbage. The left and their virtue signaling is disgusting. "Look at me, I'm a good person! Look at me, look at me!" Everything they support politically is garbage virtue signaling. They believe it because they're a good person, you don't because you're a bad person. Mental illness.
It's all bullshit.
Congratulations on getting married!
The good thing about virtue signaling is that it lets you know they're jerks, without even having to interview them to find out!
Explain to them, succinctly, why they lost your business.
Hoping their windows won't be smashed during the coming riots?? Not gonna work.
Weddings are supposed to be a celebration of love, not a lesson in critical race theory, I bet everyone who uses their services ends up divorced. Congratulations on your wedding, I hope it's beautiful!
"Vote with your feet". Dont fund the bullshit and boycott it when you see it.
Also, an odd correlation as an aside, but the higher the cost to a wedding the greater the probability of divorce. A quiet ceremony of loved ones however seem to work well.
I totally agree! I’m so done with this virtual signaling! And I’m in the wedding industry. We need to get back to focusing on God and Marriage. Do you think people would be into that?
do the virtual meeting in black face! its time to be offensive as possible.
Remind them that leftists had no problem with RBG supposedly attending a wedding last year with no mask and no masks on the bride and groom.
I'd e-mail them and say they lost my business just because of that message on their website.
I'd take it one step further and express to them that they lost your business because they feel the need to inject their political views into what should be the happiest day of your life
Every time I see this crap I see, "We just now started believing that black lives matter."
BLM can say whatever they want to KoolAid the masses, but they don't give a crap about Black People.
They're a Saul Alinsky tactic of The New World Order to divide us and make us weaker.
Right now in Africa, blacks are being bought and sold in the slave trade. Does BLM care? No.
Uuuugh, I feel you lady pede. Going through the same myself. Makes it easy to cross vendors off the list....
I also had to exit every single wedding Facebook group (which was supposed to be fun wedding owning and ideas), bc every group turned into mask debates and "omg we're having a small backyard wedding instead" and NO.
It's your wedding, make it as big, small, glamorous or not as you want. The political flag waving ppl just make it easier to say no to.
F them and their BLM crap. I hope they go out of business.
Let them lose out. Call ones that aren't so upfront and just causally ask if they have any political leanings as a business and if they tell you the truth question why they would support a movement like that and if not then check their social media and call them out if they lied. Make sure they KNOW they would have had you but lost you because of their hateful beliefs.
I would write back that “including “”blackness”” into MY wedding day will be at MY discretion and I don’t appreciate nor need any help from a venue I am paying to give me any help or suggestions to be “inclusive” on our special day. Are you asking BLM members to include other races in their events? If not SHUT UP and move along!”
Yes, dismantling oppressive systems like the Central Bank is exactly where we are headed. BLM and the rest will fall flat in the ash heap of political BS history.
First off, congratulations! Second, woke will always be a thing with these people until they realize it's not profitable. I suggest sending them a message about your ire just as you stated. You don't want to be reminded of the country's division on your day of unity.
I know where you ain’t having your first dance.
It's a no from me dawg
So if you hire a black guy to serve snacks, will that help their movement? Will that "honor black life" in your ceremony? This mental illness has infiltrated nearly every facet of society at this point apparently...wow.
Good luck!
At least they make it easy for you to not choose a virtue signaling bunch of fags.
So yeah people that complain that politics are being pushed too far seldom seem to see that it is entirely one side that has decided to insert itself into our lives this fully. For instance an add came up for "Young Rock" which actually looks kind of funny but the overlay quotes were like "So funny, so diverse" and something stupid like "so representational" or whatever, and now I don't want to watch it.... cause lefty buzzwords...I would just explain to them why they lost your business as suggested here.
Go woke, go broke. Sick of these companies pushing their political agenda and fake wokeness.
I guess you know who not to deal with already then.
I don't know what kind of planning you're doing, but when I got married just a few years ago, we were married in a church (free), held our reception in another church (also free), and paid $1,000 for decorations to an outside vendor who, incidentally, ran a themed B&B where we stayed for our first night. We didn't spend much, it was tasteful and surprisingly nice, and it was a good time.
Sure, I was criticized by one of my wife's rich, rich friends who had dancing at her wedding reception and did a full meal and stuff (all on daddy's dime), but I've literally never been to a wedding like that. It's always been a reception at the nearby church with light refreshments. Nothing too fancy. Of course, I had to pay for virtually all of my wedding and reception, too.
Of course, go with what you want, but just know you don't have to spend much or hire a million woke weirdos in order to have a wonderful and memorable wedding.
Congratulations! Marriage is great! You'll love it too.
I would (and do) interpret this as a self-disqualifying statement.
What losers. No one is marrying an SJW, so it’s retarded to pander to them
Better move on frog.