I'm lucky all I got were spankings because the alternate would have been death playing and tempting life the way I did as a kid. Frankly, I feel the good Lord saved me in certain death scenarios so that he could watch as my parents shredded a hole in my jean bottoms with their belt.
It is no accident that I rolled off my skateboard while flying down an East LA hill right before it deviated into a busy street only to get devoured by a passing truck. It is no accident that a branch broke my fall as I lost my grip 20 or so feet above it. Many, many other close calls where those story's came from.
A kid at that age does NOT connect being saved by a branch or a "lucky" roll off a death board with a life lesson. Nope. What made the connection was a stern consequence laden tirade from my father followed by the "if you ever do it again" fire of a well crafted leather belt.
I got spanked so hard the sound of my crying left the human auditory spectrum. There was a pause between sound of about 8 seconds. All the visuals were there. The face of horror, the tears, the wide open mouth but no sound. I remember it even made my father hit the pause button on the ass whooping as he hadn't encountered an "ass whooping" scenerio that had so much return on investment. Once he realized I was simply catching my breath and that the action simply created a black hole where not even sound could escape he finished the job.
The honest to God truth is that I probably would have loved my father less should he have not disciplined me. No one should respect a wet noodle. My father is no wet noodle.
HS Coaches would use the WONDER PADDLE...damn thing had holes in it and when you bent over the table, the paddle would whistle through the air...AND THEN BAM!!! Feet would actually lift off the floor...
Had, my kid EVER gotten paddled, I'd have broken that thing across the teacher's/coach's/dean's/principal's skull and put them in the hospital. God as my witness.
You DO NOT EVER HIT MY KID FOR ANY REASON. I will discipline my child myself, with NO help from any other. My discipline will be just as harsh, or worse, and will be rightfully administered ... AS A PARENT IS DUTIFULLY BOUND.
I am the parent, no one else. I need NO ONE ELSE'S HELP disciplining my child. ABSOLUTELY tell me in great detail everything my kid did wrong in my absence ... but leave the actual discipline to ME. Keep your F`ing sense of authority to yourself.
Now, that being said ... little liberal princess needs a reality check, definitely.
I am a GOOD parent, thus my kids will never be disrespectful to a NON-Family authority figure to an extent where physical discipline would be considered.
Rest assured, you have stepped WAY OVER THE LINE if you physically assault my kid ... and I will be legally within my rights to defend them to the extent I will. I may spend time in jail awaiting trial, but not longer: jury or judge will side with me.
I can believe you got downvoted and he got upvoted, smh. This people are really trying to justify and cope with the smacks they got, and are jealous and upset that these people didn't have lives like them.
There is no justification for using paddles drilled with holes on children, none, I don't care what they did.
I agree, there is NO REASON for an adult to paddle any child that is not their own, be it AT SCHOOL or anywhere. If A PARENT uses a paddle as a form of punishment AT HOME, that is COMPLETELY DIFFERENT. Parenting techniques can be way different from family to family, but it is up to the FAMILY to choose what works best. There are always limitations, of course: "abuse" has a WIDE OPEN definition.
Abuse from a parent is WAY DIFFERENT than "abuse" from an adult NOT OF THE FAMILY. If I slap my kid for being disrespectful or rude or for vulgar language, that is A PARENT DISCIPLINING THERE CHILD. If another adult slaps my kid, that's ABSOLUTELY ABUSE (legally defined as ASSAULT) and I will protect my child from the abuser and retaliate to ANY EXTENT I FEEL IS NECESSARY at that time.
Yall understand where Im coming from, now?
I stand by what I said: touch my kid and I will F your shit up. Assign them to detention for the rest of their life .... fine. Kick them out of school... ok. But leave the physical discipline up to the parents.
Bunch of fragile snowflakes on here, truly. I’ll tell you one thing—the paddles worked. Proof: they’re here (and I’m here) and not on some libtard forum.
Yeah it straightened me up too, but only a certain percentage of the population responds this way to spankings, and usually with traumatic side effect that people will deny because their parents loved them and don't want to accept that their punishment methods actually were damaging psychologically...
The issue with my generation isn't a lack of spankings, it's a lack of fathers and strong males growing up. Men don't have to hit children to teach them because children aren't animals they are small humans, so we should use the same methods we use with other humans.
"Damaging psychologically"? Yes yes, that's right. Sometimes when walking the hallway at work I'll pass co-workers up that will randomly flinch while cowering and looking up at me like Smeagol from Lord of the Rings. Then as I apprach a bit closer I can hear them say......"no,..no... papa! I didn't take any candy from the forbidden sugar jar! Please..no more spankings papa! Your going to give me psychological damage up until my 40's!"
They usually come to after I gently tap on their shoulder and tell them everything is gonna be ok. I tell them that life is gonna be fine and full of fucking gum drops and hello kitty shit. I tell them how they'll never encounter pain and trauma but if they ever should feel any fear that they should drop a little gum drop in their yapper and they will come back to "Unicornia" where a fucking unicorn will promptly wisk them away into the rainbow but not before giving them a tour of the hello kitty factory where all workers are 18 or older and suicide nets bounce you up like a trampolin into a ball pit made of warm Smores.
Fuk-outa-here Silo! We're talking about spankings not beatings. You need to Amazon yourself some testosterone, a Penthouse and a pack of reds and man the fuck up lol.
Fuk. I can hear Silo now.."Penthouse objectifies woman and you should really start looking and appreciating them for their barf..(whimpers)...blah..(crying)..blah..(lispy words)..blahh..blah.."
Thank you!. Getting my ass whooped saved me A LOT of trouble. Taught me manners and respect. Granted, my dad's old and frail now, so we are polite towards one another, and everyone else. Kek.
Fuck off, kids don't need to be slapped into submission to turn out right.
If your parents needed to slap you because you didn't know right from wrong, maybe you should learn where you picked up the behavior that got you spanked.
Right because kids know right from wrong before they know right from wrong.
What in your estimation gives gravity to wrong? We know what gives "right" its meaning but what gives "wrong" it's meaning? Words, a talking to? Na. Words and a talking to are simply the warning sign. If one doesn't heed the warning sign than one does not get another warning sign. What happens in the real world is that one carelessly runs into oncoming traffic. If one were to be lucky enough to survive that screw up than consequences of that screw up have to follow. You don't get to walk life without some sort of consequence to bad actions even if one escapes death.
Part of parenting and yes part of being a good parent (IMO) is loving and part of loving is dealing out punishment even when it also hurts oneself to do so. One doesn't get to "parent" the easy way. Parents don't get to play with kids, take them on vacation, ball games and teach them to learn but then delegate the punishment to "life" or for the world to teach ones kids the lessons that should have been taught by the parent. Parents don't get to simply reap the rewards of the good times without also dealing with the agony of punishing our kids when it needs to be done.
With every spanking a parent gives it not only teaches the lesson but also indirectly teaches the kid that life is sometimes not fun but the job has to be done regardless of one's wants. Spanking is a purely selfless act. It ONLY benefits the child. The parent gets no future rewards for such an action. In fact the parent has to live with that decision in agony for ever. The parent caused pain to someone they love more than their own life. Do you realize, I mean really understand the gravity of such action? Parents take on the burden with no return other than the fact our agony will help the very thing we love more than life itself.
You are not only wrong but lack depth of thought and consequence. Your thoughts and words even deceive you.
So many people downvoting you and upvoting those talking about the abuse they received like it was this great normal thing.
They are coping so hard, because they are jealous they weren't treated like kids today..
You are 100% right that it is damaging psychologically, and they are deflecting so hard, and coping that beatings are what turned them into good people, and not good roll models.
My brother is a wonderful child, who has never been beat, and is the sweetest thing in the world. He cries horribly when he's in trouble, because he knows he did wrong and feels guilt. We did not need to slap that into him.
He has had strong male role models in his life, and had people around him with good morals, that is all that is needed to raise a kid right.
You lost me at "coping so hard..", "deflecting so hard.." and "coping that beatings.."
Come back to us StanceDancing. Your words wreak of too much time on the 'LibNet'. The fact that your on this forum gives hope that your still salvageable. Don't fuck it up. Come back to the light StanceDancing. Fight the dying of the light! Come back damnit!
That’s not how I remember it. Straightened my ass up quick.
I remember, "Stop crying or I'll really give you something to cry about!" as she bare-handed spanked my little girl thigh.
I remember one time she hit me so hard she broke a vein in her hand.
She'd also say, "This is hurting me more than it is you."
You too huh. :/
Me three
Hijacking’s to warn everyone of this fake video. This is actually footage from NY’s new immigrant housing facility…lol.
I remember running in circles to avoid the belt! I even put a magazine down my pants once. Those were the days.
Brother is that you?
Your telling the story of my childhood. 😆
I'm lucky all I got were spankings because the alternate would have been death playing and tempting life the way I did as a kid. Frankly, I feel the good Lord saved me in certain death scenarios so that he could watch as my parents shredded a hole in my jean bottoms with their belt.
It is no accident that I rolled off my skateboard while flying down an East LA hill right before it deviated into a busy street only to get devoured by a passing truck. It is no accident that a branch broke my fall as I lost my grip 20 or so feet above it. Many, many other close calls where those story's came from.
A kid at that age does NOT connect being saved by a branch or a "lucky" roll off a death board with a life lesson. Nope. What made the connection was a stern consequence laden tirade from my father followed by the "if you ever do it again" fire of a well crafted leather belt.
Simple.
My parents would use a fly swatter.
Mom had a swatter!
I got spanked so hard the sound of my crying left the human auditory spectrum. There was a pause between sound of about 8 seconds. All the visuals were there. The face of horror, the tears, the wide open mouth but no sound. I remember it even made my father hit the pause button on the ass whooping as he hadn't encountered an "ass whooping" scenerio that had so much return on investment. Once he realized I was simply catching my breath and that the action simply created a black hole where not even sound could escape he finished the job.
The honest to God truth is that I probably would have loved my father less should he have not disciplined me. No one should respect a wet noodle. My father is no wet noodle.
Sounds like a parent who loves you and just wants the best for you.
Yes, but also one who had never learned any other method to respond.
HS Coaches would use the WONDER PADDLE...damn thing had holes in it and when you bent over the table, the paddle would whistle through the air...AND THEN BAM!!! Feet would actually lift off the floor...
Now, ask me how I know!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😁😁😁😁😁😁😎😎😎😎😎
That business is the gayest shit ever
lol
I remember those. I remember one guy who had no padding on his bottom (super skinny). I think the teach got his tail bone because he was hurting.
... and broke the paddle. Breaking paddles on someones butt is a special frat practice.
Had, my kid EVER gotten paddled, I'd have broken that thing across the teacher's/coach's/dean's/principal's skull and put them in the hospital. God as my witness.
You DO NOT EVER HIT MY KID FOR ANY REASON. I will discipline my child myself, with NO help from any other. My discipline will be just as harsh, or worse, and will be rightfully administered ... AS A PARENT IS DUTIFULLY BOUND.
I am the parent, no one else. I need NO ONE ELSE'S HELP disciplining my child. ABSOLUTELY tell me in great detail everything my kid did wrong in my absence ... but leave the actual discipline to ME. Keep your F`ing sense of authority to yourself.
Now, that being said ... little liberal princess needs a reality check, definitely.
You plan on visting the kiddos in prison?
I am a GOOD parent, thus my kids will never be disrespectful to a NON-Family authority figure to an extent where physical discipline would be considered.
Rest assured, you have stepped WAY OVER THE LINE if you physically assault my kid ... and I will be legally within my rights to defend them to the extent I will. I may spend time in jail awaiting trial, but not longer: jury or judge will side with me.
I can believe you got downvoted and he got upvoted, smh. This people are really trying to justify and cope with the smacks they got, and are jealous and upset that these people didn't have lives like them.
There is no justification for using paddles drilled with holes on children, none, I don't care what they did.
I agree, there is NO REASON for an adult to paddle any child that is not their own, be it AT SCHOOL or anywhere. If A PARENT uses a paddle as a form of punishment AT HOME, that is COMPLETELY DIFFERENT. Parenting techniques can be way different from family to family, but it is up to the FAMILY to choose what works best. There are always limitations, of course: "abuse" has a WIDE OPEN definition.
Abuse from a parent is WAY DIFFERENT than "abuse" from an adult NOT OF THE FAMILY. If I slap my kid for being disrespectful or rude or for vulgar language, that is A PARENT DISCIPLINING THERE CHILD. If another adult slaps my kid, that's ABSOLUTELY ABUSE (legally defined as ASSAULT) and I will protect my child from the abuser and retaliate to ANY EXTENT I FEEL IS NECESSARY at that time.
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all understand where Im coming from, now?I stand by what I said: touch my kid and I will F your shit up. Assign them to detention for the rest of their life .... fine. Kick them out of school... ok. But leave the physical discipline up to the parents.
Bunch of fragile snowflakes on here, truly. I’ll tell you one thing—the paddles worked. Proof: they’re here (and I’m here) and not on some libtard forum.
Silo is talking about narcissist parents that beat the shit out of you for asking a question.
Yeah it straightened me up too, but only a certain percentage of the population responds this way to spankings, and usually with traumatic side effect that people will deny because their parents loved them and don't want to accept that their punishment methods actually were damaging psychologically...
The issue with my generation isn't a lack of spankings, it's a lack of fathers and strong males growing up. Men don't have to hit children to teach them because children aren't animals they are small humans, so we should use the same methods we use with other humans.
"Damaging psychologically"? Yes yes, that's right. Sometimes when walking the hallway at work I'll pass co-workers up that will randomly flinch while cowering and looking up at me like Smeagol from Lord of the Rings. Then as I apprach a bit closer I can hear them say......"no,..no... papa! I didn't take any candy from the forbidden sugar jar! Please..no more spankings papa! Your going to give me psychological damage up until my 40's!"
They usually come to after I gently tap on their shoulder and tell them everything is gonna be ok. I tell them that life is gonna be fine and full of fucking gum drops and hello kitty shit. I tell them how they'll never encounter pain and trauma but if they ever should feel any fear that they should drop a little gum drop in their yapper and they will come back to "Unicornia" where a fucking unicorn will promptly wisk them away into the rainbow but not before giving them a tour of the hello kitty factory where all workers are 18 or older and suicide nets bounce you up like a trampolin into a ball pit made of warm Smores.
Fuk-outa-here Silo! We're talking about spankings not beatings. You need to Amazon yourself some testosterone, a Penthouse and a pack of reds and man the fuck up lol.
Fuk. I can hear Silo now.."Penthouse objectifies woman and you should really start looking and appreciating them for their barf..(whimpers)...blah..(crying)..blah..(lispy words)..blahh..blah.."
Thank you!. Getting my ass whooped saved me A LOT of trouble. Taught me manners and respect. Granted, my dad's old and frail now, so we are polite towards one another, and everyone else. Kek.
Yeah, because now he's old and you could be the one doing the spanking.
Did you have narcissistic parents? If not, be grateful.
The problem isn’t with the narcissist parents. It’s with the fragile snowflake kids.
Fuck off, kids don't need to be slapped into submission to turn out right.
If your parents needed to slap you because you didn't know right from wrong, maybe you should learn where you picked up the behavior that got you spanked.
Right because kids know right from wrong before they know right from wrong.
What in your estimation gives gravity to wrong? We know what gives "right" its meaning but what gives "wrong" it's meaning? Words, a talking to? Na. Words and a talking to are simply the warning sign. If one doesn't heed the warning sign than one does not get another warning sign. What happens in the real world is that one carelessly runs into oncoming traffic. If one were to be lucky enough to survive that screw up than consequences of that screw up have to follow. You don't get to walk life without some sort of consequence to bad actions even if one escapes death.
Part of parenting and yes part of being a good parent (IMO) is loving and part of loving is dealing out punishment even when it also hurts oneself to do so. One doesn't get to "parent" the easy way. Parents don't get to play with kids, take them on vacation, ball games and teach them to learn but then delegate the punishment to "life" or for the world to teach ones kids the lessons that should have been taught by the parent. Parents don't get to simply reap the rewards of the good times without also dealing with the agony of punishing our kids when it needs to be done.
With every spanking a parent gives it not only teaches the lesson but also indirectly teaches the kid that life is sometimes not fun but the job has to be done regardless of one's wants. Spanking is a purely selfless act. It ONLY benefits the child. The parent gets no future rewards for such an action. In fact the parent has to live with that decision in agony for ever. The parent caused pain to someone they love more than their own life. Do you realize, I mean really understand the gravity of such action? Parents take on the burden with no return other than the fact our agony will help the very thing we love more than life itself.
You are not only wrong but lack depth of thought and consequence. Your thoughts and words even deceive you.
I can recognize when someone is talking about their own narcissistic "parents." I unfortunately know exactly what the deal is, fren.
So many people downvoting you and upvoting those talking about the abuse they received like it was this great normal thing.
They are coping so hard, because they are jealous they weren't treated like kids today..
You are 100% right that it is damaging psychologically, and they are deflecting so hard, and coping that beatings are what turned them into good people, and not good roll models.
My brother is a wonderful child, who has never been beat, and is the sweetest thing in the world. He cries horribly when he's in trouble, because he knows he did wrong and feels guilt. We did not need to slap that into him.
He has had strong male role models in his life, and had people around him with good morals, that is all that is needed to raise a kid right.
You lost me at "coping so hard..", "deflecting so hard.." and "coping that beatings.."
Come back to us StanceDancing. Your words wreak of too much time on the 'LibNet'. The fact that your on this forum gives hope that your still salvageable. Don't fuck it up. Come back to the light StanceDancing. Fight the dying of the light! Come back damnit!
I'm surprised you came back after getting SPANKED so hard for your comments.
Sorry, couldn't resist. (Yeah, maybe it doesn't work for you... that's okay fren)
Violence is the only language some people understand. Thats why cops carry guns.