We are retired and debt free. However had two daughters (and a grandchild) lose jobs and relocated home to get back on their feet. The added groceries, electricity and water are hurting.i typically only buy what's on sale and build meals around it. Getting the ground ready for a garden now. Might need it to be a prayer garden since I'm not good in that regard. At least we are all redpilled...even our 6 year old. When I talk of the high costs, she does a tsk task with an eye roll, and yells "thanks a lot sleepy creepy Joe". she is fun to go shopping with tho. Especially in the checkout line.
If she didn't have the courage to tell you herself and instead went through your husband, chances are she won't have the guts to confront you face to face. Unless she does, I would go about normal new grandmother business and have your plan in place if you even have to cross that bridge. New mothers need help, advice, and want their moms gushing over their new babies.
My hubs still watches fox. I have refused since election night. He will share something reported, and since I read up on the topic two weeks earlier here, I kinda cut him off and tell him when it's bs and why. He got tired of having to ask me to explain stuff all the time and got his own account here. But it's been a long process. I just act like I don't care what he does or does not know...
Dave