And stop bringing up politics to people who dont want to discuss politics. Thats pretty confrontational. If its causing problems at home its likely because youre spending too much time/obsessing over it. Give it a rest for a while, you wont miss anything.
If it helps, me and my wife just had a very explosive argument over the weekend for simply talking about the truth. Our relationship is walking on very thin ice and it hurts me to say we could be finished. All because MSM brainwashing has "enlightened" her so much to the point that she's become a very toxic and aggressive individual. Not the woman I remember from pre-Covid times. Sad.
Not that that necessarily makes you feel better but just know others are going through the very same thing right now and you aren't alone.
My entire extreme liberal family moved out in the middle of the night! Just packed and left. No warning. I’m over the initial shock but have to admit it’s peaceful and I finally feel safe.
Husband, step son, biological daughter. All are extreme left. I mean EXTREME!. step son is the worst, he’s confrontational, vicious, he has list of acceptable terminology we are supposed to go by. I’ve watched them morph right before my eyes into people I don’t even recognize. I was told that if I wanted to be included in the family I needed to lower my moral compass! They boycotted me for 2 months hoping I would “wake up” when I didn’t they all left.
Wow, again I'm sorry. Isn't this so crazy? Watching our loved ones turn into these beasts? You know part of the reason I fell in love with my wife is because she was more conservative than all my friends and exes. Catholic, no tattoos, anti-feminist, mocked socialism, etc. Now she's turned into some firebrand leftist who doubts her belief in God and mocks and insults her own husband, just for presenting an alternative opinion.
It's scary. This Great awakening needs to happen soon, I feel many of us are being pushed to our extremes.
Ditto-I need to talk my wife down from the proverbial ‘q tree’ nowadays. Even though I read, and conveyed a little bit, since 2017 and she didn’t seem interested - but not averse. She would simply observe that justice never comes. Ever since she went to DC with me on Jan 6, she can’t get enough Q. Hard to bring someone up to speed.... I married her partially because she is 100% based. Something for you singletons to consider when selecting a partner.
PS - I had a practice marriage before her (no kids, no harm) so I learned how to select a bit better. Also want to make sure you have someone of same religion.
Yes, I know how you might feel. It happened to me too. I lost my wife after 12 years and her whole familiy, also our neighbors, they are all asleep and cannot imagine, that evil and an evil cabal is ruling the world.
But once you wake up you cannot go back.
Damn that sucks man. My wife doesn't follow Q, doesn't want to. She is a Trump supporter and she's pretty based and redpilled so we don't have too many issues. We both know COVID is a scam.
I think there probably several of us that fit into this category. It's hard, but maybe she just has to see it happen. Be ok with that, and try to rebuild your connection. She will need you when the time comes. They all will.
My partner and most people around me are the same.
I think they know subconsciously and are scared of taking a peek behind the curtain.
That the world is not a friendly place and that authority figures are out to get you is a huge and horrible thing to take on board.
In addition, my partner is a leftie and big government lover and her ego is tied up with equality of outcome. Peeling the layers off all of that nonsense is going to shake her to the core. I know I have to not push too hard. It's very hard when it's about an emergency like vaccines and masks and you have to tiptoe round their egos.
Some tips on how to compartmentalize your beliefs and interact successfully with everyone else :
Learning to communicate your points effectively and in a concise manner whilst demonstrating your knowledge in a persuasive, but unemotional way, is key.
It's like being a lawyer or on a debate team.
Learn to frame your beliefs and reasoning in a manner that is healthy and non-intrusive.
You don't have to win the argument. You just need to have a strong message, belief and justification for why you believe those things. You don't need everyone to be on board. You don't need to win them over all in one go or even at all. Some people can't be won over. You need to learn to pick your battles and with whom.
Win them over with positivity, not negativity.
Remember, you need your friends and family.
Don't talk about Q or conspiracies non-stop. Take a break. Focus on what is important.
If all else fails, don't talk about politics with them. Compartmentalizing can help with that.
I've been riding in the Q car of the Trump train since 2017. The signs of Trump not being done yet abound, the non-presidential treatment of the pedophile, the hints and clues are everywhere, and the volume of all the things Trump is NOT saying.
But really, what's there to talk about regarding Q lately with people who hate you? "Listen! Some anonymous guy online who used to drop classified intel by the boatload about dismantling the Deep State hasn't seen fit to post since last November, though strangely some posts from three years ago seem to line up with today's events; and he has assured the world that a small group of patriotic military intel insiders has waited for YEARS to have a guy like Trump for president so they could finally execute the plan they're now executing without him"?
Just talk about everything else except geopolitics and the state of the world and the Wuhan flu. Let Q do whatever and whenever and to whomever Q is gonna do it.
I don't know - I mean everything seems very normal to me, that that respect.
I think a lot of people are over analyzing it and some of it is down to circumstances.
The car he arrived in, wasn't a "clunker" like people kept saying, he was riding in a smaller aeroplane - AF1 and 2 designations aren't tied to the plane, they're tied to the cargo - ie, President in any other plane is AF1. Planes aren't going to be designated as a flight as AF1 and 2 either, they're going to run on ICAO or military designations, depending on their intended flight plan.
He's in the white house, not on a movie set. He's got the military standing down to enforce their communist agenda. He's signing executive orders.
The left aren't "waking up", they are having a field day of smugness. For all intents and purposes, the left has won.
The people paying the price are those who have stuck by the "plan" and supported Trump. It's open season on us. People can say "it has to be this way", but how long will they stick to that for? Do they have to take gun rights away? Does it have to be 10 years, 1000 years before it turns around? The only people suffering are supporters and lovers of freedom. For those on the outside looking in, they see this as pure denialism and fantasy.
There was a post yesterday about "why haven't these successful business people returned to their jobs running their companies if it's over". It was stupid, because it's circumstance and confirmation bias.
I can understand why people think it's completely insane. Yes, I know some things are happening, but a lot aren't and they're being derived from confirmation bias, as above.
My point being, that this is probably how OP's family and friends view it and they aren't totally wrong either.
Well this is what it means to know the truth..Im not even American and in my country its the same thing, the same dynamic between friends and family between does who are red pilled and not. Dont push them, ignore it for now. They know what you think and belive, let them now see it for themselfs. Beacuse NCSWIC.
I cant even talk slightly right leaning now without being called a qtard. So I just play their game back and call them pro pedophiles since they are attacking a group of people trying to uncover the truth behind child kidnapping network.
dont be bitter about the truth towards them, be happy and show them through action, dont let them ruffle your feathers juts keep praying for them and searching. make sure to balance your life too and not always talk about this with your family.
never stop fighting. remember they are brainwashed more than you think. if they are not upset at the fraud committed in the impeachment then they are far gone. savable. but far gone
Think about this approach. First, not everyone is open minded enough to swallow a huge red pill. So you have to come up with a lot of tiny red pills to use and hope one will eventually be the straw that breaks the camel’s back. Now, if there was only one message from Q that you could discuss what would it be? For me it would be the exploitation of children/human trafficking. I count those as one thing since one feeds the other. Still, that is a heavy subject so how do you get people who are not ready to wake up listen?
Now this might be the hardest part, but it will work to get people to listen to something they normally will not. Again, please give this some thought before you dismiss it. What if you apologize for being so assertive since you were red pilled? And your apology has to be sincere. You are’t apologizing for knowing the truth, just for trying to push it on them. Here is the kind of sneaky part. If they are open to accepting your apology, you could say something like:
When I saw the statistics on human trafficking and child sex crimes it just was hard to take. I mean thinking about innocent children being exploited would make anyone angry, you understand that. Thinking about how the whole open borders thing makes it easier for human traffickers, it just got to me. And it’s a big problem. They just arrested a Republican staffer for crimes against children and then there is the whole Epstein thing with powerful people, so any reasonable person can see its really a big problem. I guess knowing I can’t do anything about it made me angrier, I hope you understand.
And leave it at that. Through a sincere apology you have exposed them to the most important truth that should unify all people. Not everyone is ready for the whole truth. But they don’t need it to wake up enough to see who promotes policies that enable this exploitation and who had policies to fight it. Not sure if this entire approach helps in your specific situation, but at the very least, I think apologizing for being pushy will help you and your family heal.
The best way to argue anything with people that are resistant to such things is with as few words as possible and short open ended observations and rhetorical's that forces them to fill in the blanks and think, making them do the arguing work for you by causing them to ask themselves questions.
Other than that I have long since found that you can't really talk sense with the senseless so trying to force it will only make them try to ree you to death.
As much of a fan of the sledgehammer approach as I may be, sometimes the quiet drip drip drip is the most effective and least traumatic option for everyone involved...
Hang in there, brother. There's a whole bunch of us in the same boat or close to it.
Aside from my son and a couple life long friends I stopped talking to anyone about any of the things I read online when my wife said her friends had approached her worried about me.
My family are primarily Minnesota Democrats so I don't need to explain that further, do I?
I keep to myself, lift weights, run, hike and mountain bike. It's easier for me that way.
And them!
I can still enjoy my life as long as I don't talk about politics or mention President Trump by name or call him President Trump or ... you know the deal, you're living it as well.
I choose to believe I'm the mentally stronger one in the family and someday, they're either going to see I shared the truth or they're going to chisel IDIOT on my gravestone.
Obviously, I am hoping for the first outcome, but if it ends up the second I can accept that.
Best advice EVER. Read every Q post real time since 2017, I have discussed Q with exactly 4 people over these years. Best to just drop hints and keep mouth shut
Nor I. My husband turned on League of Their Own the other day which was one of my favorites and I lost my shit. u/lrad i understand. My husband is ready to leave me, too but, in my heart and head, I know I’m right.
Sorry ... there are few good movies anymore. And while I can watch the beginning, the end and parts of SPR anytime, it does have a pedo in it ... don’t forget
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or, being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise;
If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;
If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with triumph and disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to broken,
And stoop and build ’em up with worn out tools;
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: “Hold on”;
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings—nor lose the common touch;
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run—
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!
Sorry to hear that. I'm dealing with the same thing with my family. I refuse to discuss with my family because I'm not going to change their minds for now and you probably won't either. Just keep the faith and keep loving your family. Remember they are where you were once were. They are still in the dark. Soon everyone will see the truth. Try to be kind and remember they are brainwashed the same way you and I once were.
LRAD, you are not alone. My son (disabled Marine Iraq vet) and I are awake and 100% behind POTUS Trump. My wife and daughter will mimic MSM all day in between playing online games. They do not see what is really going on. Our arguments are very heated and I just have to walk away.
This has gone on since POTUS Trump decided to run in 2015.
When the truth really comes out, I hope they understand that I tried to warn and alert them. So I understand there are people out there that do no want or can handle the truth.
It’s tough- but you can’t talk about it all the time. It’s like religion- no one but the people at your church wants to discuss it. My husband sees my points & son - but they don’t dwell or want to talk about it. My daughter wanted to have an intervention last year with me and an ex-Q person. I’ve now switched tactics tbh - I’m on Gods side - good vs. evil - there are no Rs/Ds. I’ve done the same with older siblings- they now see my point in abortion. The election being stolen has helped actually- little by little. But you have to discuss other things or not point out every pedo thing. They openly call me a conspirator & I say yep! I am! I’ve lately been trying to do 1 thing for my soul & 1 thing for my body every day and it has helped keep things on an even keel & given a sense of peace in my heart.
For me it’s my daughters. Two are so far into the MSM and liberal narrative it’s a fight about everything...Why aren’t I wearing a mask, it’s selfish to endanger my grandchildren...why aren’t I getting the vaccine, it’s selfish to endanger my grandchildren.....It’s selfish to attend any meetings or gatherings with people I don’t know spreading the killer virus. My supporting Trump, who is a racist is hurting them. They don’t like Biden but hated Trump. Ugh. Of my other two daughters, one couldn’t care less what’s going on and the youngest is pro-Trump but has just been trying to hide her and her family away from all media and Biden crap since he lost. It’s hard.....
Sending love. I completely understand. I finally stopped talking to my spouse about anything important to me. We have a truce of sorts but it’s only because he has bullied me into silence by telling me to “stop all this nonsense”. I’ve lost friends. I’m not sure I want them back. Not bitching, just trying to put some meat behind my statement that “you are not alone”
No one said to stop living your life in the manner that restores balance. Define your Faith/Spiritual values (or develop these) and the world won't swallow you... Q is not your only hope, only an ally/movement. Salvation/sanity is only granted by One!!
90 percent of the issues in our society can be mitigated by the restoration of the family. So preserving your family is the most important thing you can do now. So concentrate on that. Turn off all news and spend the time and effort with them.
I've cut the disrespectful ones off. I'll let reality hit them in the face and take another look if and when they come crawling back. You want to support child abuse, communism, mandatory face diapers and experimental gene therapy for a flu, take it somewhere else. This is the information age, ignorance is not an excuse.
My family and friends were upset when I told them I wasn't getting the vaccine when they asked. Ive gone down the rabbit hole far enough that I don't even talk politics anymore unless it's on here.
I started an attempt to red pill my family and friend years ago. I realized quickly that they were not ready. I can’t force anything on them without doing damage to our relationships. So I had a choice: lose these people in my life or let them see for themselves. I would say about half of them have figured it out the past year. Once they come to me with their new found perception, I just smile and let them rant. I never break out “I told you so”. That accomplishes nothing.
I know the feeling. My husband is furious that I am “constantly looking at your phone! What are you reading that is so important?” If I told him he would call me crazy, so I take a lot of baths and soak in some nice hot water with bubbles and read everything I can thats posted here. Best hour of my day! Can’t wait till he can travel again for his job or at least be able to go to his office!
Interact with them about family matters. You have us to talk to about things which cause them confusion.
You need to take a break.
And stop bringing up politics to people who dont want to discuss politics. Thats pretty confrontational. If its causing problems at home its likely because youre spending too much time/obsessing over it. Give it a rest for a while, you wont miss anything.
We’re your worldwide Pede network, we won’t let you down.
If it helps, me and my wife just had a very explosive argument over the weekend for simply talking about the truth. Our relationship is walking on very thin ice and it hurts me to say we could be finished. All because MSM brainwashing has "enlightened" her so much to the point that she's become a very toxic and aggressive individual. Not the woman I remember from pre-Covid times. Sad.
Not that that necessarily makes you feel better but just know others are going through the very same thing right now and you aren't alone.
My entire extreme liberal family moved out in the middle of the night! Just packed and left. No warning. I’m over the initial shock but have to admit it’s peaceful and I finally feel safe.
Damn, that's rough, I'm sorry to hear that. Do you mind me asking what the family consisted of?
Husband, step son, biological daughter. All are extreme left. I mean EXTREME!. step son is the worst, he’s confrontational, vicious, he has list of acceptable terminology we are supposed to go by. I’ve watched them morph right before my eyes into people I don’t even recognize. I was told that if I wanted to be included in the family I needed to lower my moral compass! They boycotted me for 2 months hoping I would “wake up” when I didn’t they all left.
Wow, again I'm sorry. Isn't this so crazy? Watching our loved ones turn into these beasts? You know part of the reason I fell in love with my wife is because she was more conservative than all my friends and exes. Catholic, no tattoos, anti-feminist, mocked socialism, etc. Now she's turned into some firebrand leftist who doubts her belief in God and mocks and insults her own husband, just for presenting an alternative opinion.
It's scary. This Great awakening needs to happen soon, I feel many of us are being pushed to our extremes.
God bless sister
Thank you. Good luck to you
Ditto-I need to talk my wife down from the proverbial ‘q tree’ nowadays. Even though I read, and conveyed a little bit, since 2017 and she didn’t seem interested - but not averse. She would simply observe that justice never comes. Ever since she went to DC with me on Jan 6, she can’t get enough Q. Hard to bring someone up to speed.... I married her partially because she is 100% based. Something for you singletons to consider when selecting a partner.
PS - I had a practice marriage before her (no kids, no harm) so I learned how to select a bit better. Also want to make sure you have someone of same religion.
Yes, I know how you might feel. It happened to me too. I lost my wife after 12 years and her whole familiy, also our neighbors, they are all asleep and cannot imagine, that evil and an evil cabal is ruling the world. But once you wake up you cannot go back.
Truth!
Wow, you would rather focus on random online people/theories than your actual family, that's really sad.
Oh enlighten me please! You seem to know all the details
Damn that sucks man. My wife doesn't follow Q, doesn't want to. She is a Trump supporter and she's pretty based and redpilled so we don't have too many issues. We both know COVID is a scam.
I think there probably several of us that fit into this category. It's hard, but maybe she just has to see it happen. Be ok with that, and try to rebuild your connection. She will need you when the time comes. They all will.
My partner and most people around me are the same.
I think they know subconsciously and are scared of taking a peek behind the curtain.
That the world is not a friendly place and that authority figures are out to get you is a huge and horrible thing to take on board.
In addition, my partner is a leftie and big government lover and her ego is tied up with equality of outcome. Peeling the layers off all of that nonsense is going to shake her to the core. I know I have to not push too hard. It's very hard when it's about an emergency like vaccines and masks and you have to tiptoe round their egos.
So I hang out here.
Some tips on how to compartmentalize your beliefs and interact successfully with everyone else :
Learning to communicate your points effectively and in a concise manner whilst demonstrating your knowledge in a persuasive, but unemotional way, is key. It's like being a lawyer or on a debate team. Learn to frame your beliefs and reasoning in a manner that is healthy and non-intrusive.
You don't have to win the argument. You just need to have a strong message, belief and justification for why you believe those things. You don't need everyone to be on board. You don't need to win them over all in one go or even at all. Some people can't be won over. You need to learn to pick your battles and with whom.
Win them over with positivity, not negativity.
Remember, you need your friends and family. Don't talk about Q or conspiracies non-stop. Take a break. Focus on what is important. If all else fails, don't talk about politics with them. Compartmentalizing can help with that.
I've been riding in the Q car of the Trump train since 2017. The signs of Trump not being done yet abound, the non-presidential treatment of the pedophile, the hints and clues are everywhere, and the volume of all the things Trump is NOT saying.
But really, what's there to talk about regarding Q lately with people who hate you? "Listen! Some anonymous guy online who used to drop classified intel by the boatload about dismantling the Deep State hasn't seen fit to post since last November, though strangely some posts from three years ago seem to line up with today's events; and he has assured the world that a small group of patriotic military intel insiders has waited for YEARS to have a guy like Trump for president so they could finally execute the plan they're now executing without him"?
Just talk about everything else except geopolitics and the state of the world and the Wuhan flu. Let Q do whatever and whenever and to whomever Q is gonna do it.
I don't know - I mean everything seems very normal to me, that that respect. I think a lot of people are over analyzing it and some of it is down to circumstances.
The car he arrived in, wasn't a "clunker" like people kept saying, he was riding in a smaller aeroplane - AF1 and 2 designations aren't tied to the plane, they're tied to the cargo - ie, President in any other plane is AF1. Planes aren't going to be designated as a flight as AF1 and 2 either, they're going to run on ICAO or military designations, depending on their intended flight plan.
He's in the white house, not on a movie set. He's got the military standing down to enforce their communist agenda. He's signing executive orders.
The left aren't "waking up", they are having a field day of smugness. For all intents and purposes, the left has won. The people paying the price are those who have stuck by the "plan" and supported Trump. It's open season on us. People can say "it has to be this way", but how long will they stick to that for? Do they have to take gun rights away? Does it have to be 10 years, 1000 years before it turns around? The only people suffering are supporters and lovers of freedom. For those on the outside looking in, they see this as pure denialism and fantasy.
There was a post yesterday about "why haven't these successful business people returned to their jobs running their companies if it's over". It was stupid, because it's circumstance and confirmation bias.
I can understand why people think it's completely insane. Yes, I know some things are happening, but a lot aren't and they're being derived from confirmation bias, as above. My point being, that this is probably how OP's family and friends view it and they aren't totally wrong either.
It's normal for a new president not to receive a 21 gun salute but rather the salute for foreign dignitaries?
It's normal for a new president not to be allowed to lay a wreath at the Tomb of the Unknowns?
It's normal for masses of military men in uniform to physically turn their backs on a new president? To not salute him??
Maybe you need to read up on what confirmation bias actually is.
Deported.
Well this is what it means to know the truth..Im not even American and in my country its the same thing, the same dynamic between friends and family between does who are red pilled and not. Dont push them, ignore it for now. They know what you think and belive, let them now see it for themselfs. Beacuse NCSWIC.
I cant even talk slightly right leaning now without being called a qtard. So I just play their game back and call them pro pedophiles since they are attacking a group of people trying to uncover the truth behind child kidnapping network.
Stay strong. They will soon be forced to see the truth. In the meantime, keep this amongst the people you know have open minds.
dont be bitter about the truth towards them, be happy and show them through action, dont let them ruffle your feathers juts keep praying for them and searching. make sure to balance your life too and not always talk about this with your family.
never stop fighting. remember they are brainwashed more than you think. if they are not upset at the fraud committed in the impeachment then they are far gone. savable. but far gone
Think about this approach. First, not everyone is open minded enough to swallow a huge red pill. So you have to come up with a lot of tiny red pills to use and hope one will eventually be the straw that breaks the camel’s back. Now, if there was only one message from Q that you could discuss what would it be? For me it would be the exploitation of children/human trafficking. I count those as one thing since one feeds the other. Still, that is a heavy subject so how do you get people who are not ready to wake up listen?
Now this might be the hardest part, but it will work to get people to listen to something they normally will not. Again, please give this some thought before you dismiss it. What if you apologize for being so assertive since you were red pilled? And your apology has to be sincere. You are’t apologizing for knowing the truth, just for trying to push it on them. Here is the kind of sneaky part. If they are open to accepting your apology, you could say something like:
When I saw the statistics on human trafficking and child sex crimes it just was hard to take. I mean thinking about innocent children being exploited would make anyone angry, you understand that. Thinking about how the whole open borders thing makes it easier for human traffickers, it just got to me. And it’s a big problem. They just arrested a Republican staffer for crimes against children and then there is the whole Epstein thing with powerful people, so any reasonable person can see its really a big problem. I guess knowing I can’t do anything about it made me angrier, I hope you understand.
And leave it at that. Through a sincere apology you have exposed them to the most important truth that should unify all people. Not everyone is ready for the whole truth. But they don’t need it to wake up enough to see who promotes policies that enable this exploitation and who had policies to fight it. Not sure if this entire approach helps in your specific situation, but at the very least, I think apologizing for being pushy will help you and your family heal.
This is brilliant.
The best way to argue anything with people that are resistant to such things is with as few words as possible and short open ended observations and rhetorical's that forces them to fill in the blanks and think, making them do the arguing work for you by causing them to ask themselves questions.
Other than that I have long since found that you can't really talk sense with the senseless so trying to force it will only make them try to ree you to death.
As much of a fan of the sledgehammer approach as I may be, sometimes the quiet drip drip drip is the most effective and least traumatic option for everyone involved...
Hang in there, brother. There's a whole bunch of us in the same boat or close to it.
Aside from my son and a couple life long friends I stopped talking to anyone about any of the things I read online when my wife said her friends had approached her worried about me.
My family are primarily Minnesota Democrats so I don't need to explain that further, do I?
I keep to myself, lift weights, run, hike and mountain bike. It's easier for me that way.
And them!
I can still enjoy my life as long as I don't talk about politics or mention President Trump by name or call him President Trump or ... you know the deal, you're living it as well.
I choose to believe I'm the mentally stronger one in the family and someday, they're either going to see I shared the truth or they're going to chisel IDIOT on my gravestone.
Obviously, I am hoping for the first outcome, but if it ends up the second I can accept that.
Assuming you not just a shill,
just learn how to keep your mouth shut.
Dont talk about shit, at least as little as possible.
hints here and there only.
Best advice EVER. Read every Q post real time since 2017, I have discussed Q with exactly 4 people over these years. Best to just drop hints and keep mouth shut
I envy you. All you have to do now is sit back and smile. This part is the most fun. Hang in there.
« We can evade reality, but we cannot evade the consequences of evading reality«
Ayn Rand
Sorry I can’t watch Tom Hanks anymore.
Nor I. My husband turned on League of Their Own the other day which was one of my favorites and I lost my shit. u/lrad i understand. My husband is ready to leave me, too but, in my heart and head, I know I’m right.
Fair enough.
I have to admit that I can't enjoy too many movies any more, after seeing how hateful Hollywood is
Sorry ... there are few good movies anymore. And while I can watch the beginning, the end and parts of SPR anytime, it does have a pedo in it ... don’t forget
If by Rudyard Kipling
If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you; If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or, being lied about, don’t deal in lies, Or, being hated, don’t give way to hating, And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise;
If you can dream—and not make dreams your master; If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim; If you can meet with triumph and disaster And treat those two impostors just the same; If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, Or watch the things you gave your life to broken, And stoop and build ’em up with worn out tools;
If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breathe a word about your loss; If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew To serve your turn long after they are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the Will which says to them: “Hold on”;
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, Or walk with kings—nor lose the common touch; If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you; If all men count with you, but none too much; If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run— Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it, And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!
Sorry to hear that. I'm dealing with the same thing with my family. I refuse to discuss with my family because I'm not going to change their minds for now and you probably won't either. Just keep the faith and keep loving your family. Remember they are where you were once were. They are still in the dark. Soon everyone will see the truth. Try to be kind and remember they are brainwashed the same way you and I once were.
LRAD, you are not alone. My son (disabled Marine Iraq vet) and I are awake and 100% behind POTUS Trump. My wife and daughter will mimic MSM all day in between playing online games. They do not see what is really going on. Our arguments are very heated and I just have to walk away. This has gone on since POTUS Trump decided to run in 2015. When the truth really comes out, I hope they understand that I tried to warn and alert them. So I understand there are people out there that do no want or can handle the truth.
It’s tough- but you can’t talk about it all the time. It’s like religion- no one but the people at your church wants to discuss it. My husband sees my points & son - but they don’t dwell or want to talk about it. My daughter wanted to have an intervention last year with me and an ex-Q person. I’ve now switched tactics tbh - I’m on Gods side - good vs. evil - there are no Rs/Ds. I’ve done the same with older siblings- they now see my point in abortion. The election being stolen has helped actually- little by little. But you have to discuss other things or not point out every pedo thing. They openly call me a conspirator & I say yep! I am! I’ve lately been trying to do 1 thing for my soul & 1 thing for my body every day and it has helped keep things on an even keel & given a sense of peace in my heart.
For me it’s my daughters. Two are so far into the MSM and liberal narrative it’s a fight about everything...Why aren’t I wearing a mask, it’s selfish to endanger my grandchildren...why aren’t I getting the vaccine, it’s selfish to endanger my grandchildren.....It’s selfish to attend any meetings or gatherings with people I don’t know spreading the killer virus. My supporting Trump, who is a racist is hurting them. They don’t like Biden but hated Trump. Ugh. Of my other two daughters, one couldn’t care less what’s going on and the youngest is pro-Trump but has just been trying to hide her and her family away from all media and Biden crap since he lost. It’s hard.....
Sending love. I completely understand. I finally stopped talking to my spouse about anything important to me. We have a truce of sorts but it’s only because he has bullied me into silence by telling me to “stop all this nonsense”. I’ve lost friends. I’m not sure I want them back. Not bitching, just trying to put some meat behind my statement that “you are not alone”
God bless you girl. Stay strong
No one said to stop living your life in the manner that restores balance. Define your Faith/Spiritual values (or develop these) and the world won't swallow you... Q is not your only hope, only an ally/movement. Salvation/sanity is only granted by One!!
90 percent of the issues in our society can be mitigated by the restoration of the family. So preserving your family is the most important thing you can do now. So concentrate on that. Turn off all news and spend the time and effort with them.
I've cut the disrespectful ones off. I'll let reality hit them in the face and take another look if and when they come crawling back. You want to support child abuse, communism, mandatory face diapers and experimental gene therapy for a flu, take it somewhere else. This is the information age, ignorance is not an excuse.
I am with you. My wife keeps telling me to admit I'm wrong. Obviously, I will not. Sad part is she was close and has moved backward.
Family just thinks I'm nuts
My family and friends were upset when I told them I wasn't getting the vaccine when they asked. Ive gone down the rabbit hole far enough that I don't even talk politics anymore unless it's on here.
I started an attempt to red pill my family and friend years ago. I realized quickly that they were not ready. I can’t force anything on them without doing damage to our relationships. So I had a choice: lose these people in my life or let them see for themselves. I would say about half of them have figured it out the past year. Once they come to me with their new found perception, I just smile and let them rant. I never break out “I told you so”. That accomplishes nothing.
I know the feeling. My husband is furious that I am “constantly looking at your phone! What are you reading that is so important?” If I told him he would call me crazy, so I take a lot of baths and soak in some nice hot water with bubbles and read everything I can thats posted here. Best hour of my day! Can’t wait till he can travel again for his job or at least be able to go to his office!
You clearly need a new life. I'm sorry for this pain you are about to feel. Once you know... Message me if you need to talk.
Maybe pray for them and ask them to pray for you. Seek Godliness and ask for His wisdom.
pick your spots better.