How one SHOULD react when a minor hits on them.... 🤷♀️🤷♀️
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This whole "16 is too young" is the non-Left signing on to the Left's eternal childhood plan for us.
16 was an adult or nearly so, not long ago. Juliet and Romeo were ~14. Marriages at this age were quite normal for the entire history of mankind, up until five minutes ago.
The issue is not a 16 year old giving it up for an older male. The issue is her doing this in a way where the man is not betrothed/married to her.
This is an issue of female supervision and guidance. And social system management.
Not laws masquerading as morality or morality masquerading as laws.
When I was 22 or 23, back around 79, I was driving out to my parents in my new BMW. I passed this shiny Lincoln Continental with a beautiful woman driving, and another very pretty girl beside her, no doubt her daughter. I looked over at them, they smiled. After riding alone side of them for a while, I motioned, "pull over". They did and I got the daughters phone number. A few weeks later I called and arranged to drive up to see the girl and took her out. They appeared to be pretty well off.
During our time together, I asked her how old she was. She was only 14 years old. I could not believe it as she looked at least 18. I did not do anything improper with her, just went out to eat and to movie, and back home. I always thought that was kind of strange that her mom would let me meet her 14 year old daughter like that. I never saw her again.
'79 BMW.... a 2002? I always wanted a 3.0 CSi.
320i
Exactly like this https://www.classic.com/veh/1979-bmw-320i-wba31730005418773-WjAj1jn/
This was the car I had in the 11th grade in 1973.
https://dealeraccelerate-all.s3.amazonaws.com/streetside/images/2/0/8/6/9/20869/82696472f17569_hd_1973-triumph-tr6.jpg
Nice on both counts.
Actually I did not like that TR6. I lived in the country, lots of bumpy dirt roads. I could only have one passenger. No air conditioning in Florida. When it rained the windows would fog up. I ended up trading it to my sister even for a Datsun B210 that I loved.
I was always wrecking the Datsun. The body shop kept it more than me. But it was a fun car. I was hell on cars, wrecked everything i ever drove except the TR6.
Yeah my sister was 17 hitting on our 27 yo band director...he told her she was too young and not her type. But the 6 mos later he got caught screwing a girl even younger in the instrument closet. School is where the pedos hang out.
In many public high schools, teen girls hit on adult teachers they want something from. I can remember when I was a young teacher in the 80s, the turn down rate was 100%. During the Clinton years, some men started to give in, especially after the Monica story broke. As I neared retirement in the late teens, there were way too many low lifes in public education who had affairs with their teen students and got away with it, because the administration did nothing about it. There were only a few of us left, either over 50, Christian, or both who would turn down every offer. If statutory rape laws were seriously enforced today in the urban school systems, the districts would have few teachers.
One of my classmates dated and then married my French teacher. She was super hot.
In college chicks hit on my humanities teacher every semester..she would be his girlfriend till she got her A...he would mope around till the nexts one
as the other comment touched on, at some points in history their ages were acceptable for marriage up until like only very recently
I sometimes wonder what people were like as adolescents because I felt very attracted to the opposite gender from like age 10 onward...
biologically in an alternative timeline I could see myself having married as a minor, although it's a good social rule of thumb to delay marriages for non-biological reasons
I only expect this conversation to become more dysgenic, with "conservatives" being against people marrying until 21+ or older ages, playing in to the "extended adolescence" meme
The whole world is designed by psychopaths to infect normal humans with pathological psychological problems. Kids are not going to be able to find a healthy partner for themselves and will then get stuck in a toxic marriage with kids. It will be an abusive cycle that never ends.
that's one possible problem, the other problem we are now seeing is more "never marrieds" as a lot of people were told they were "too young for relationships" and then they had a short "accepted" window which passed and now are too old to marry / have kids
It certainly makes sense to have kids when you can keep up with them. Even if there were a compromise - maybe not 16 but how about 20? I had my kids in my early thirties. Had a secretary who married her high school sweetheart. She was going on a cruise with just her husband for her 40th and I said, "who is going to watch the kids?" She said "They're 20 and 18 I think they'll be okay." This conversation was years ago. She is still working at the same company and I am sure she is totally financially secure. She and her husband were both very financially responsible. Every time I see her on FB they are out and about, biking, hiking, etc. They stayed really young because they raised their kids when they were young.
Yeah, I think there's a whole conversation that just isn't happening... some people are "too young", but then when you're a little older it can become different (or impossible to have kids at some point too, you can get too old)
There are a lot of declining fertility rates and I think this is part of that culture ("too young to have kids" ... to the point where people just don't have kids)
yeah, but I just expect people to keep moving the ages to older and older
"Don't be daft, I'm old enough to be your father"
I remember thinking it was SO cool when my friend in 8th grade made out with the 20-something guy who ran the gas station.
Yuck.
In Hungary, I know a 16-year old who married her high school teacher. It was par for the course. No Hungarians batted an eye.
As others have mentioned, frankly this age rage, and age gap isn't that unusual and even just less than 100 years ago was totally socially acceptable. This was mostly due to, for a very long time in human history, life expectancy wasn't what it is today thanks to modern medicine. So marrying at an age like this was totally normal for the longest time.
However, if the ages were skewed any further, you'd be looking at possible pedo territory. Like she's 16, and he's 25+, though I wouldn't be surprised if this actually happened in history and they were perfectly happy with the arrangement. There's a whole grey area to this sort of thing, and then there's the obvious fucked up cases like you hear about in the middle east. Where a 45 year old man is marrying a 12 year old girl.
But in this scenario, I don't see anything fundamentally wrong with a 16 and 20 year old, because nobody would bat an eye with the same two people, but 20 and 24 years old instead. But this is strictly on a case by case basis, with the full consent and approval of their parents involved.
She's not a "minor" in my state. AOC is 16, here.
We're talking about age here, not IQ. AOC's *IQ is 16, her age is 33
Is there any way to get that picture without the post by Cal Mae?
Why the fk was a 16 year old hanging out with a 20 year old lol.
A 4 year difference is not very large nor out of the ordinary. That is the year range for schooling. Did you never hang out with people older than yourself? It could have been a group thing, and he could have been friends with someone there or they also could have become friends prior.
I interact with people twice my age. Even "hang out" on occasion. Four years is very small.
And the dude had the correct response to a 16 year old's crush. "Ew, you're a baby" not only works to keep her cognizant of age disparities, but also gives her important perspective about how normal people older than her will perceive her.
Judging from the rest of her post, she has come to understand that lesson in full which means the older dude was a respectable party -- at least, in that situation.
Probably a friend's older sibling...