Me to my fren .im a woman and woman’s lib , feminist movement by design destroyed our country and with it the family foundation ! I have a private practice and deal with woman like this all the time . I oftentimes lose it and tell them what this guy did .. I’m more harsh.. at times ! Really sad , if woman only knew how great they could have it . Men are pretty simple to please ! Sadly they have been treated like total crap for far to many years !
Truth right ! I’ve been speaking this truth for 24 years professionally . My church has a ministry called Emerge men. Around 3500 hundred guys are majorly involved, but many others listen and enjoy the principals , Gods way for a happy future, so powerful ! We also have a woman’s ministry,, Cherish ! Men and woman are taught, encouraged , to treat spouses or future spouses biblically . Thousands of happily married people who understand how God created each sex to treat and serve each other . Thankfully , young girls are taught the demonic destructive lure of “ woman’s lib” they are taught to adore their husbands to be gorgeous for them to respect their man and and most importantly to understand that men were created to be their covering to be the leader . Anything with two heads is a monster . When woman understand their place as God designed , they are cherished by their husband. Happy happy marriages ! We’re in San Diego so there’s a lot of nonsense out here we’re known as the church that has T-shirts. We’re also known as the church who refused to close our doors during Covid . No one wore a mask unless they wanted maybe a couple did . We were on news and in court constantly. We also got on the news for smelly tshirts that state … Men and women are the future.Etc. We accept everyone, of course preach the love of God, but if they come through the doors, they’re gonna hear the truth about the alphabet cult . We’ve had a few guys in dresses and heels , or guys walking in holding hands . We’ve also had many gay people be totally delivered and set free and now years later are happily married, totally restored . One dude in a dress was accepted, came every week , but security kept a eye . Once he got to the point where he was a bit out of hand, ( w as not allowed near woman’s space bathroom etc . ) he was asked to leave, the dude went to a different campus of ours. We have several locations in San Diego.. my pastor wants to have several locations branched out throughout city instead of one mega church . Anyway , this dude went to a different location , half way through the message he stormed the platform . He was brutally taken down by our security team . We also have armed patrol and we teach the 2nd, so many carry who are able . My pastor understands preaching the truth brings a lot of nuts and protestors but we preach the truth in love . Anyway my little preach before church lol . Thank you my fren always great to hear from u .
Wow. Sounds like you have a great church. I wish we had one like that here,maybe I wouldn't be single. Oklahoma is a great state,but all the good women are married....
I remember reading about some very based churches during covid in California, you guys did a much better job than we did. I was very pissed off during covid,the pastor told us to get vaccinated in one of his sermons. I probably would have have found a new church but he retired. It's tough my family has been in this denomination for 5 or more generations.
Nobody ever listens to me on this, but this is BY FAR the best advice I can ever pass along as far as relationships. These lists are not always 100% correct, but they’re generally true.
(note that this website definitely appears to be AI-generated, but I read one of his books twice and the AI information that I read through is pretty darn accurate)
Gods word says men are to Love their Wife like Christ Loves the Church… Laying our Lives down for them… Provide, Protect and Lead… Wives are to Respect their Husbands, Follow his Lead and not try to Dominate… “Either” can Ruin a Relationship by not following Gods Word… “Both” Following His Word brings Untold Blessings…
I’m Beyond Blessed to have a wife that is the Kindest, Most Respectful and Beautiful, least Demanding Woman I have ever known…
Because of who she is I want to give her Anything and Everything I Can …
More fat than glandular tissue, when it's more glandular tissue they are harder. And yes, when it's more adipose tissue they will start to sag early, and will probably look like half empty sags when she is older.
It’s a personal anecdote so don’t take it as Gospel Truth as that’s how it is everywhere.
I live in a fairly conservative area and can count on one hand with fingers left over the number of men I know that are married and happy. And of those I think at least one of them is only happy because him and his wife are hardly ever together both are always off doing personal projects or working. The rest seem to be perpetually unhappy and miserable. That includes the Bible beating in church every Sunday guys. Conversely Most of the guys that I know are single or Divorced and only attend church semi-regularly if at all. Are happier in comparison.
Keep in mind happier doesn’t necessarily mean satisfied. But they aren’t miserable.
Being married is part of spiritual development for married people. Your final form (in Heaven if you make it) is selfless saintliness, but sometimes it feels like we’re crawling over cactus to get there. Gotta learn to laugh at those pricks against which we’re all so prone to kick. As a divorced person one is constantly searching for a more suitable spouse the second, or third, or…time around. If you haven’t changed for the better, possibly learning some humility and seeking God’s help in rising above the cactus patch, you’re just gonna repeat the same errors, until you learn your lessons. It’s hard to see it as a blessing while you’re bleeding, I know, but you’ll look back on all your suffering as both necessary and proper parts of the process of sanctification. It doesn’t mean be a doormat. It requires courage to speak truth.
Or you’re a hedonist interested only in gratifying immediate needs and wants, in which case I suggest live and learn, or don’t. It’s permitted. You choose. Nobody can become virtuous, which even Epicurus advocated as producing “eudaemonia”, that is “happiness” or “the good life” on their own.
So being absolutely miserable and hating your marriage and life is a good thing because it’s spiritual development? I suppose I can see where that would be the case. Though I wouldn’t exactly consider it a good thing either. Considering the amount of men statistics wise who are killing themselves rather than continuing on in said marriages or after losing everything in a Divorce.
Mostly I was under the impression it just meant you were dumb enough to marry someone incompatible and are too afraid of losing everything in a Divorce to leave.
I’m giving people the benefit of the doubt that they had proper foundation for marriage from the beginning. That they intended to have a family and raise children in a stable structured wholesome environment.
If along the course of life one person’s susceptibility to temptation, in its various forms, compromises the partnership, then the opportunity for spiritual growth arises. Assessing what made the temptation seem desirable, as in “What do I really want?” Or else it all goes kaflooey which is not uncommon.
If people get married because she looks hot and he’s got money and children are an unintended afterthought there wasn’t a lot to start with and it was doomed before it began. More kaflooey, and I’d never advocate a lifetime enduring such a mess. Counseling would be laughably useless. One can’t help but be sympathetic to the kids stuck with these people.
All of life’s dramas provide opportunities for spiritual growth. Or our stupid choices get repeated time after time and we die ignorant fools unaware of our own foolishness blaming everyone else for our misery.
I’m plenty stupid and have had some awful marriages. Much damage in my wake. I’m truly sorry. They ended badly and gave me opportunities to reflect on where I went wrong. It took some time, but I finally got it right. And I got lucky and found a good woman. It’s made me smug. Sorry. I’m such an asshole. I have too high regard for myself. It’s my character flaw, but at least I recognize it, and I do work at being better. I’m old as dirt, (and twice as ugly) so I better get busy repenting while I’m still able. Thanks for helping me try to improve.
Yep, but directionality and effort are still worthwhile endeavors. Nobody becomes truly virtuous by their own efforts. Neither Epicurus nor Epictetus claimed to have fully realized virtue. Plotinus maybe made such a claim but he’s an exception. Grace from God is absolutely and demonstrably necessary, but you gotta at least meet Him half way. Nobody’s praying between tequila shots at the strip club, if you know what I mean.
I know who you are talking about. If they are in a corporate environment they will describe themselves on linkedin as a "servant leader" 🙄. This is true whether they are married to TDS Karen or country club Republican (Never Trump) tradwife. In each case, the always unspoken rule is that money money money money money runs everything. These guys know the truth deep down but they remain loyal because this is how most men are wired.
First you have to a forensic examination to determine its actually a woman your dealing with, then you have to check the medicine cabinet looking for the SSRI drugs, birth control pills, anything endocrine/hormone disrupting. Thats just for starters. Screen time, blue light will further contribute and then get into family and school. By now all the red flags are in plan view. But comparing what the Bible outlines compared to today is wild. For a solid 100 years the social engineering has been absolutely crushing. Amish life is looking good these days, or solo island life.
I don’t want to go too far into this topic but I’ll just say this for now: there is as a direct a correlation between the virtue of women and the general economic success of the nation they live in as there is between violent crime and poverty. This tension that we currently see between men and women in this country will evaporate as soon as we get out from under the boots of our banker slavers and no sooner. No amount of preaching or demanding that women lower their standards for men or raise their standards for themselves will make a lick of difference in the meantime.
You may think that Christianity can fix it, but unfortunately, as our banker slavers have proven, even Christianity depends on a healthy economy to have the impact on people that we know it can have. That is precisely why they have attacked both in equal measure. Even a good Christian girl, if exposed to poverty for too long, will become a prostitute. Just ask OnlyFans.
It’s a supply and demand problem. Right now we have too many beautiful women without enough morals and too many moral men without enough money. It’s really as simple as that.
Feminism is a bitch eh?
REAL WOMEN Hate Feminism! And we LOVE REAL MEN!
I love this guy!
Me to my fren .im a woman and woman’s lib , feminist movement by design destroyed our country and with it the family foundation ! I have a private practice and deal with woman like this all the time . I oftentimes lose it and tell them what this guy did .. I’m more harsh.. at times ! Really sad , if woman only knew how great they could have it . Men are pretty simple to please ! Sadly they have been treated like total crap for far to many years !
Bravo! Absolute truth!
I can't upvote you enough fren.
Truth right ! I’ve been speaking this truth for 24 years professionally . My church has a ministry called Emerge men. Around 3500 hundred guys are majorly involved, but many others listen and enjoy the principals , Gods way for a happy future, so powerful ! We also have a woman’s ministry,, Cherish ! Men and woman are taught, encouraged , to treat spouses or future spouses biblically . Thousands of happily married people who understand how God created each sex to treat and serve each other . Thankfully , young girls are taught the demonic destructive lure of “ woman’s lib” they are taught to adore their husbands to be gorgeous for them to respect their man and and most importantly to understand that men were created to be their covering to be the leader . Anything with two heads is a monster . When woman understand their place as God designed , they are cherished by their husband. Happy happy marriages ! We’re in San Diego so there’s a lot of nonsense out here we’re known as the church that has T-shirts. We’re also known as the church who refused to close our doors during Covid . No one wore a mask unless they wanted maybe a couple did . We were on news and in court constantly. We also got on the news for smelly tshirts that state … Men and women are the future.Etc. We accept everyone, of course preach the love of God, but if they come through the doors, they’re gonna hear the truth about the alphabet cult . We’ve had a few guys in dresses and heels , or guys walking in holding hands . We’ve also had many gay people be totally delivered and set free and now years later are happily married, totally restored . One dude in a dress was accepted, came every week , but security kept a eye . Once he got to the point where he was a bit out of hand, ( w as not allowed near woman’s space bathroom etc . ) he was asked to leave, the dude went to a different campus of ours. We have several locations in San Diego.. my pastor wants to have several locations branched out throughout city instead of one mega church . Anyway , this dude went to a different location , half way through the message he stormed the platform . He was brutally taken down by our security team . We also have armed patrol and we teach the 2nd, so many carry who are able . My pastor understands preaching the truth brings a lot of nuts and protestors but we preach the truth in love . Anyway my little preach before church lol . Thank you my fren always great to hear from u .
Wow. Sounds like you have a great church. I wish we had one like that here,maybe I wouldn't be single. Oklahoma is a great state,but all the good women are married....
I remember reading about some very based churches during covid in California, you guys did a much better job than we did. I was very pissed off during covid,the pastor told us to get vaccinated in one of his sermons. I probably would have have found a new church but he retired. It's tough my family has been in this denomination for 5 or more generations.
Thanks for your great informative post.
Hear hear!
I’m in this line! ☺️
Preach it, Joy!
If they were only brains
Kek!
Nobody ever listens to me on this, but this is BY FAR the best advice I can ever pass along as far as relationships. These lists are not always 100% correct, but they’re generally true.
His Needs Her Needs List: Men's Needs
His Needs Her Needs List: Women's Needs
http://www.hisneedsherneeds.com/his-needs-her-needs-book.html
(note that this website definitely appears to be AI-generated, but I read one of his books twice and the AI information that I read through is pretty darn accurate)
Gods word says men are to Love their Wife like Christ Loves the Church… Laying our Lives down for them… Provide, Protect and Lead… Wives are to Respect their Husbands, Follow his Lead and not try to Dominate… “Either” can Ruin a Relationship by not following Gods Word… “Both” Following His Word brings Untold Blessings… I’m Beyond Blessed to have a wife that is the Kindest, Most Respectful and Beautiful, least Demanding Woman I have ever known… Because of who she is I want to give her Anything and Everything I Can …
💯 Oldpatriot. Sounds like God gifted you a great woman!
I tell my 24yo brother often, a man choosing the right wife is the most consequential decision he can make for his future.
Awe! That was sweet.
💕
Ditto
Yes! My hubby and I have been together 26 years, by God's Grace.
And the woman needs for the man to be a leader in his home. They may complain about this but this is where the respect comes from.
I am going to add two items to each list.
Hint: Rub a man’s back and he is yours.
Those go under Admiration.
More fat than glandular tissue, when it's more glandular tissue they are harder. And yes, when it's more adipose tissue they will start to sag early, and will probably look like half empty sags when she is older.
Did she say something?
This guy is 100% correct.
Jiggle physics aside, 1/10th of what our mothers and grandmothers were is all they have.
Scared? No…not scared. Unsure of woman’s brains nowadays maybe? The victim mentality is REALLY bad right now. No man wants to deal with crazy.
The age old warning passed down from father to son for a Millennia.
“Don’t stick your dick in crazy.”
What do they bring to the table?
Let God find you the perfect match. He will never let you down.
It’s a personal anecdote so don’t take it as Gospel Truth as that’s how it is everywhere.
I live in a fairly conservative area and can count on one hand with fingers left over the number of men I know that are married and happy. And of those I think at least one of them is only happy because him and his wife are hardly ever together both are always off doing personal projects or working. The rest seem to be perpetually unhappy and miserable. That includes the Bible beating in church every Sunday guys. Conversely Most of the guys that I know are single or Divorced and only attend church semi-regularly if at all. Are happier in comparison.
Keep in mind happier doesn’t necessarily mean satisfied. But they aren’t miserable.
Being married is part of spiritual development for married people. Your final form (in Heaven if you make it) is selfless saintliness, but sometimes it feels like we’re crawling over cactus to get there. Gotta learn to laugh at those pricks against which we’re all so prone to kick. As a divorced person one is constantly searching for a more suitable spouse the second, or third, or…time around. If you haven’t changed for the better, possibly learning some humility and seeking God’s help in rising above the cactus patch, you’re just gonna repeat the same errors, until you learn your lessons. It’s hard to see it as a blessing while you’re bleeding, I know, but you’ll look back on all your suffering as both necessary and proper parts of the process of sanctification. It doesn’t mean be a doormat. It requires courage to speak truth.
Or you’re a hedonist interested only in gratifying immediate needs and wants, in which case I suggest live and learn, or don’t. It’s permitted. You choose. Nobody can become virtuous, which even Epicurus advocated as producing “eudaemonia”, that is “happiness” or “the good life” on their own.
So being absolutely miserable and hating your marriage and life is a good thing because it’s spiritual development? I suppose I can see where that would be the case. Though I wouldn’t exactly consider it a good thing either. Considering the amount of men statistics wise who are killing themselves rather than continuing on in said marriages or after losing everything in a Divorce.
Mostly I was under the impression it just meant you were dumb enough to marry someone incompatible and are too afraid of losing everything in a Divorce to leave.
I’m giving people the benefit of the doubt that they had proper foundation for marriage from the beginning. That they intended to have a family and raise children in a stable structured wholesome environment.
If along the course of life one person’s susceptibility to temptation, in its various forms, compromises the partnership, then the opportunity for spiritual growth arises. Assessing what made the temptation seem desirable, as in “What do I really want?” Or else it all goes kaflooey which is not uncommon.
If people get married because she looks hot and he’s got money and children are an unintended afterthought there wasn’t a lot to start with and it was doomed before it began. More kaflooey, and I’d never advocate a lifetime enduring such a mess. Counseling would be laughably useless. One can’t help but be sympathetic to the kids stuck with these people.
All of life’s dramas provide opportunities for spiritual growth. Or our stupid choices get repeated time after time and we die ignorant fools unaware of our own foolishness blaming everyone else for our misery.
I’m plenty stupid and have had some awful marriages. Much damage in my wake. I’m truly sorry. They ended badly and gave me opportunities to reflect on where I went wrong. It took some time, but I finally got it right. And I got lucky and found a good woman. It’s made me smug. Sorry. I’m such an asshole. I have too high regard for myself. It’s my character flaw, but at least I recognize it, and I do work at being better. I’m old as dirt, (and twice as ugly) so I better get busy repenting while I’m still able. Thanks for helping me try to improve.
There is none righteous, not one.
Yep, but directionality and effort are still worthwhile endeavors. Nobody becomes truly virtuous by their own efforts. Neither Epicurus nor Epictetus claimed to have fully realized virtue. Plotinus maybe made such a claim but he’s an exception. Grace from God is absolutely and demonstrably necessary, but you gotta at least meet Him half way. Nobody’s praying between tequila shots at the strip club, if you know what I mean.
I am saved by grace and am absolutely unworthy, yet i strive daily by the power of the Holy Spirit to lead me unto sactification.
Romans 12:12 Psalm 40:1-5.
Enjoy this wonderous dsy, fren!
I know who you are talking about. If they are in a corporate environment they will describe themselves on linkedin as a "servant leader" 🙄. This is true whether they are married to TDS Karen or country club Republican (Never Trump) tradwife. In each case, the always unspoken rule is that money money money money money runs everything. These guys know the truth deep down but they remain loyal because this is how most men are wired.
She has 2 good points.
Yeah, pretty in your face too. She also made sure to jiggle them, while sharing what she thought was a deeply intellectual statement.
Sad really.
Based
Dude is 100% correct.
As women go, so goes Western civilisation.
Probably has dinner plates
First you have to a forensic examination to determine its actually a woman your dealing with, then you have to check the medicine cabinet looking for the SSRI drugs, birth control pills, anything endocrine/hormone disrupting. Thats just for starters. Screen time, blue light will further contribute and then get into family and school. By now all the red flags are in plan view. But comparing what the Bible outlines compared to today is wild. For a solid 100 years the social engineering has been absolutely crushing. Amish life is looking good these days, or solo island life.
I don’t want to go too far into this topic but I’ll just say this for now: there is as a direct a correlation between the virtue of women and the general economic success of the nation they live in as there is between violent crime and poverty. This tension that we currently see between men and women in this country will evaporate as soon as we get out from under the boots of our banker slavers and no sooner. No amount of preaching or demanding that women lower their standards for men or raise their standards for themselves will make a lick of difference in the meantime.
You may think that Christianity can fix it, but unfortunately, as our banker slavers have proven, even Christianity depends on a healthy economy to have the impact on people that we know it can have. That is precisely why they have attacked both in equal measure. Even a good Christian girl, if exposed to poverty for too long, will become a prostitute. Just ask OnlyFans.
It’s a supply and demand problem. Right now we have too many beautiful women without enough morals and too many moral men without enough money. It’s really as simple as that.