I think it goes back to teaching morals at home, school and your place of worship. Having fathers in the home and stop paying women to have multiple babies without marriage. Wow I feel old now.
What traps Most males to porn is introducing it to them between the ages of 12-16.
My first exposure to porn was at the age of 13 via a neighbor boy in the same apt building. It's effects held me until I was 24 and at 25 became a born again Christian. Still at the age of 61 the enemy will from time to time bring back past centerfolds into my thoughts. That is why porn is so insidious and dangerous sins.
Everything is ok in moderation. But porn and sexuality is thrown in your face everywhere every day to a point where people watch it every day as if they were addicted to it like it's meth
No winning. I too was of the mind set of mind your business turn it off if you don't like it, no censorship ever. I also used to think no demand no production but if the government is going to swoop in any time degenerate entertainment is in trouble thanks Pelosi I think we have to do more.
There really isn't. There is a site called fight the new drug that has lots of stories of how porn has negatively affected both the actors and consumers.
It also teaches people not to be satisfied with normal unperverted sex in a relationship and to have unrealistic expectations of the human body and what feels good for each partner.
It raises your threshold of tolerance like a substance abuse.
I have a female acquaintance who has been a webcam performer for many years, she loves her work and it pays her well, she is nowhere near being exploited or coerced, she would be very pissed if her profession was limited in any way.
her long term boyfriend has no issue with what she does.
she is exercising her right to earn a living in a manner that she freely chooses.
It doesn't do much for me. I spent a decade and a half in the photo industry. I developed personal photos for customers, and saw so much skin in just numb to it.
The funny thing is, most of the stuff I saw was just scary bad lol, not something you'd pay to see. Most People are ugly lol.
After that, I just didn't care for porn one way or the other. It is like working in the brewing industry and just realizing that 99% of brews taste the same, kek.
So I'm not cool with child porn obv, and people forced into it? That's a legal matter. But if someone wants to show their nekkid bits, and someone else wants to see it? shrug that's on them.
I have some vices. Nicotine. Alcohol now and then.
You can't contain the porn issue without confront the "fear of intimacy" issue which is exacerbated by online dating, social media/ double lives, and self hate which gets externalized to anger towards whoever might sexually reject you.
Fixing a male desire issue often stems from the home, a lack of and/or a lack of appreciation for the love they have at home. Women used to be the "keystone" to a man. The media has demoralized women thus destabilizing the man.
A man doesn't want to play mind games for the catch, so he reduces his time to porn.
Porn takes away from self worship and the pleasure of masturbation.
If you spent as much time focusing your energy on sexualizing and worshipping your own body as you did finding a video to yank for :45 seconds to, you would find a transformative position to approach.
Youre giving all of your sexual energy to an evil demon on the other side of your phone screen.... Focus your sexual energy on yourself and on your partner. Try new techniques, try taking it back to the basics and get mental, envision the type of woman you desire, allow it to play out in your head.
I think I sort of see what you are saying. There is rebuking people and there is attacking people. Conserves going into attack mode doesn't ever help anyone.
If it causes you to lust over someone you can not have that is Sin and when those desires are continually fueled by other Erotic performances then You Have a problem with Porn whether you call it that or something else-Lusting is still a Sin in God's eyes11
If you have kids, start there. DON'T let the government, or their schools, or their friends, or the internet teach your kids about sex. Pay attention to what your kids are doing, who they're friends with, what their interests are, what they're doing on their phones (although if you ask me, kids shouldn't have unfettered access to the internet through a phone at all, not until 16 or 17 anyway, and even that seems like too early). Be INVOLVED in your kids lives! YOU should be raising them and teaching them right from wrong, NOT the government.
Reinforce and allow traditional family values. Government policies encourage fatherless homes, and fatherless homes allow moral decay to flourish. Porn will eventually become a more manageable vice, like alcohol.
1A seems to mean it can't simply be banned, and frankly, if it were that would just create a black market for it.
Better to make it tightly controlled.
Outlaw all non-subscriber porn services on the internet. As part of registering as a subscriber a person should have to register their identity with the .gov. This prevents children from just hopping on to pornhub or similar sites.
The .gov porn consumer registration acts as an access pass for all internet porn and provides an identity for billing. Furthermore it allows tracking of porn consumption through mainstream channels. The tracking alone will discourage porn usage.
Pass a law banning the depiction of illegal acts in pornography. Depictions of drug usage, incest, rape, and other illegal acts are forbidden. This kills entire genres of pornography.
If porn must exist, regulate its usage into something shameful and regulate its content so that the very worst of it is illegal and thus difficult to obtain, and make it unavailable to people below the age of adulthood.
not be acts of worship of the Creator God? (Worshiping the Giver... not the gift...)
not be enclosed in a God centered, loving and faithful human relationship?
not be loving behavioral expressions occurring between consenting, committed adults?
not be private and joyful, delightfully playful and deeply serious?
not be filled with mutual wonder and exploration, yet mutually entertaining and sometimes laugh-out-loud funny?
So, I'm trying to express some of what I want sex to be for me and for others of like mind and I am OUTRAGED that someone wants to negatively profit from one of God's most PRECIOUS gifts. I am FIGHTING MAD that someone wants to degrade something so beautiful and so joyful in order to DEBASE the creatures to whom our Sovereign God has given that which could uplift and enliven. They manipulate people with GUILT and degrade their minds with POISON!!!
And if there is a way that the rats and their products of profit can be exposed (without endangering their lives), I would want a MASSIVE web presence (on private, well-secured servers), continually updated, to inform and alert the researchers, activists and anyone concerned. Maybe one or more evolving EPOCH TIMES graphics of the networking and companies, regarding the organizations and connections that profit from pornographic sexual degradation. Of COURSE the rats will hide from the light. Let the light become even more intense and wide-spread.
If such a resource doesn't already exist, I wonder if we could make it happen. I don't think we have to doxx individuals so much as to name companies and display their interconnections and identify those who finance them and those who give them legal coverage and political backing (Senators? Governors?). No accusations have to occur. Just expose the facts (sort of like a 'Judicial Watch' for filth or a 'Project Veritas', showing the connections).
My vision would need MASSIVE (very private) fundraising and careful identity protections for those directly involved. Something like this would arouse the full, violent, virulent hatred of the mobsters who profit from the poisoning of peoples minds. And this HUGE clearing-house of information should be only a PART of an EXTENSIVE online resource to educate, inspire and re-direct those who need help.
Other portions of the resource could include info on self-hypnosis, videos to calm the mind, exercise and dietary info to help calm the libido, exercises for libido sublimation, herbal remedies for anxiety, motivational vids for improving self-worth and self-control - LOL! All the usual stuff.
THANKS FOR READING! May our Lord God Bless and Keep you and your loved ones! THANK YOU for being HERE instead of looking at porno! MAGA!
So crazy someone posted this. I have taught my kids of the dangers of porn since they were old enough to understand. A friends young daughter was exposed by her cousin to lesbian porn and it was horrible as she thought her computers were safe. My husband has all restrictions we can have and I even bought a kids book on “good pictures bad pictures”. Well my middle schooler teen went to the psychologist at school the other day because he started tearing up in one of his classes. Apparently 2 years ago he got tricked into going into a discord group that had porn on it and has been looking for the last 2 years. He was so scared I would be mad and I told him I’m mad, but I’m mad at people who exploit children and who do stuff like that. I told him I was just more worried about him and reiterated all the warnings I have given him before. He gave us his phone and we have to lock it down better. The school psychologist has a son his age and said she now has to look at protecting her son better as well.he came and talked to me about it and some of his concerns tonight. I’m just lucky he is being open and honest about it. I asked him a few questions to make sure nothing involved kids or same sex but he did say some had violence which makes me so sad. I went to my other boys and talked to them again about it as well. Our poor children are being bombarded by sex all the time. I kind of laughed because my teenage son came to me to talk about his concerns as opposed to his dad, he said I’m easier to talk to. A little difficult for me as his mom to understand what teen boys are going through but I am determined to be there for any of my children as I had no one I could go to as a child.
So what is the issue? Porn or wanking? We need fiber in our diets so we can poop more and avoid colon cancer. Walking around with a rusty load in the barrel isn't a good way to ward off prostate cancer. If you're wanking to the point of not getting your chores done, then you need some discipline. Pastors try to shame the men about watching erotica via the internet. The women need some shaming. Ask your men how often they need servicing to knock it off. Why is it you put the ring on and gain 30 lbs and stop blowing him anymore. What if you're single and homely and lonely. God created you with an arm with a hand having an opposable thumb that can reach your naughty bits and He is sending you to Hell for engaging in the only pleasurable past time that is absolutely free and the government can't tax it? Gee Pastor, I felt convicted today about how watching that stuff dishonors my wife. When I leave here today, I'm buying a top notch video unit and make movies of me and the wife to watch when I fancy a wank. So again, is it the wanking, or the material that leads to wanking that's evil? If it's the lusty material that's wrong, can I wank to the Song of Solomon? The biggest porn consumers per capita by far is Utah. Because the Mormons pretend to be squeaky clean holier than thou types, yet are the biggest pervs. Oh, and BTW....if you're going to put your homemade stuff out there; take off your damn socks pleez! You're an old white guy with nothing on and you wear black socks because your feet are cold? Gimme a break.
All I will say is that if anyone would have pulled me aside and told me how fucked up your mind gets when you are watching the shit, it would have spared me of a pretty dark period of my life.... total addiction, depression, suicidal thoughts..... almost ruined my engagement. I'd say its got to be one of the hardest addictions to kick. My father was amazing, but he was born in the 50's, he couldn't possibly know what an abysmal hole internet porn is. And I hit puberty right when it all became mainstream. No bueno.
Gotta have the tough and honest conversations with your kids. It will make all the difference.
The solution is to let go of your anger by forgiving your parents for not being perfect. Men who hate their mothers watch porn. And every man who has not been born again of the Father has their mothers identity in them
Someone Needs to create a virus/malware that is easily attachable to most porn and when viewed/downloaded it literally EATS your pc/phone from the inside out within 10 minutes. After burning thru 2 I phones or Samsung etc and no longer getting a free replacement that should detour most. Oh but the virus should Leave the evidence of the porn behind so when the spouse/GF/Phone tech person checks out the phone - Only the Filth remains!
Yes. You may rebuke and should rebuke. But, and you are right, there needs to be a path to redemption for nearly anything. These poor kids have life records online and that is crazy you know how many f-up crap I said as a teen? I used to be pro-choice! There has to be a path for forgiveness. edit I said nearly anything and I think I'm sticking with that. Some of the pedo and murder stuff you guy talk about here I don't think any human can probably forgive and in that case if God forgives all repentant sinners we should just send them to him sooner.
Mandate diversity of the gender spectrum and require all porn sites to prominent feature trannies.
That'd kill off porn tomorrow! ??
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No actually this is gold. We can't get any more converts so we do what they do destruction from within. .
Ha! That’s even an idea you could plant in leftists’ heads to get people to hate them even more too! Kill 2 birds with 1 stone.
...no it wouldn't.
I think it goes back to teaching morals at home, school and your place of worship. Having fathers in the home and stop paying women to have multiple babies without marriage. Wow I feel old now.
What traps Most males to porn is introducing it to them between the ages of 12-16. My first exposure to porn was at the age of 13 via a neighbor boy in the same apt building. It's effects held me until I was 24 and at 25 became a born again Christian. Still at the age of 61 the enemy will from time to time bring back past centerfolds into my thoughts. That is why porn is so insidious and dangerous sins.
Government funded public sex workers!
They will charge you to get diseased
Everything is ok in moderation. But porn and sexuality is thrown in your face everywhere every day to a point where people watch it every day as if they were addicted to it like it's meth
No winning. I too was of the mind set of mind your business turn it off if you don't like it, no censorship ever. I also used to think no demand no production but if the government is going to swoop in any time degenerate entertainment is in trouble thanks Pelosi I think we have to do more.
Oh im still on FB and twatter mocking these idiots relentlessly
We're winning every day we just gotta keep up the fight fren
Bottoms up
There really isn't. There is a site called fight the new drug that has lots of stories of how porn has negatively affected both the actors and consumers.
Turn all the videos in to deep fakes with Nadler, Hillary Clinton and Maxine Waters
It also teaches people not to be satisfied with normal unperverted sex in a relationship and to have unrealistic expectations of the human body and what feels good for each partner.
It raises your threshold of tolerance like a substance abuse.
exploitation is the issue.
I have a female acquaintance who has been a webcam performer for many years, she loves her work and it pays her well, she is nowhere near being exploited or coerced, she would be very pissed if her profession was limited in any way.
her long term boyfriend has no issue with what she does.
she is exercising her right to earn a living in a manner that she freely chooses.
My opinion on porn won't jive with everyone.
For me, it's "meh".
It's a vice, like many other vices.
It doesn't do much for me. I spent a decade and a half in the photo industry. I developed personal photos for customers, and saw so much skin in just numb to it.
The funny thing is, most of the stuff I saw was just scary bad lol, not something you'd pay to see. Most People are ugly lol.
After that, I just didn't care for porn one way or the other. It is like working in the brewing industry and just realizing that 99% of brews taste the same, kek.
So I'm not cool with child porn obv, and people forced into it? That's a legal matter. But if someone wants to show their nekkid bits, and someone else wants to see it? shrug that's on them.
I have some vices. Nicotine. Alcohol now and then.
As long as you don't hurt anyone, all good IMO
Support groups?
apprenticeship based education.
Tesla's free energy would've deleted computers
God. teaching the Bible. it will happen as the world returns to God.
You can't contain the porn issue without confront the "fear of intimacy" issue which is exacerbated by online dating, social media/ double lives, and self hate which gets externalized to anger towards whoever might sexually reject you.
I aint got no porn problem....so long as I pay my internet bill..giggity giggity goooooo
Fixing a male desire issue often stems from the home, a lack of and/or a lack of appreciation for the love they have at home. Women used to be the "keystone" to a man. The media has demoralized women thus destabilizing the man.
A man doesn't want to play mind games for the catch, so he reduces his time to porn. Porn takes away from self worship and the pleasure of masturbation. If you spent as much time focusing your energy on sexualizing and worshipping your own body as you did finding a video to yank for :45 seconds to, you would find a transformative position to approach.
Youre giving all of your sexual energy to an evil demon on the other side of your phone screen.... Focus your sexual energy on yourself and on your partner. Try new techniques, try taking it back to the basics and get mental, envision the type of woman you desire, allow it to play out in your head.
Diet plays a large role too.
stop calling erotic performance as Porn might be a good starting point.
and recognise the freedom of choice being exercised by the performer.
I think I sort of see what you are saying. There is rebuking people and there is attacking people. Conserves going into attack mode doesn't ever help anyone.
If it causes you to lust over someone you can not have that is Sin and when those desires are continually fueled by other Erotic performances then You Have a problem with Porn whether you call it that or something else-Lusting is still a Sin in God's eyes11
If you have kids, start there. DON'T let the government, or their schools, or their friends, or the internet teach your kids about sex. Pay attention to what your kids are doing, who they're friends with, what their interests are, what they're doing on their phones (although if you ask me, kids shouldn't have unfettered access to the internet through a phone at all, not until 16 or 17 anyway, and even that seems like too early). Be INVOLVED in your kids lives! YOU should be raising them and teaching them right from wrong, NOT the government.
Yeah, coz in the wild they nail anything that oves :)
Reinforce and allow traditional family values. Government policies encourage fatherless homes, and fatherless homes allow moral decay to flourish. Porn will eventually become a more manageable vice, like alcohol.
web developer looking to build a portfolio of ethical web-cam performers is what a cynic might call it.
what porn issue ?
1A seems to mean it can't simply be banned, and frankly, if it were that would just create a black market for it.
Better to make it tightly controlled.
Outlaw all non-subscriber porn services on the internet. As part of registering as a subscriber a person should have to register their identity with the .gov. This prevents children from just hopping on to pornhub or similar sites.
The .gov porn consumer registration acts as an access pass for all internet porn and provides an identity for billing. Furthermore it allows tracking of porn consumption through mainstream channels. The tracking alone will discourage porn usage.
Pass a law banning the depiction of illegal acts in pornography. Depictions of drug usage, incest, rape, and other illegal acts are forbidden. This kills entire genres of pornography.
If porn must exist, regulate its usage into something shameful and regulate its content so that the very worst of it is illegal and thus difficult to obtain, and make it unavailable to people below the age of adulthood.
Thats easy, its all about educating our children about the detrimental impacts of porn.
How about stop fapping to porn. Problem solved
Change the channel.
Should sexual interaction -
not be acts of worship of the Creator God? (Worshiping the Giver... not the gift...)
not be enclosed in a God centered, loving and faithful human relationship?
not be loving behavioral expressions occurring between consenting, committed adults?
not be private and joyful, delightfully playful and deeply serious?
not be filled with mutual wonder and exploration, yet mutually entertaining and sometimes laugh-out-loud funny?
So, I'm trying to express some of what I want sex to be for me and for others of like mind and I am OUTRAGED that someone wants to negatively profit from one of God's most PRECIOUS gifts. I am FIGHTING MAD that someone wants to degrade something so beautiful and so joyful in order to DEBASE the creatures to whom our Sovereign God has given that which could uplift and enliven. They manipulate people with GUILT and degrade their minds with POISON!!!
And if there is a way that the rats and their products of profit can be exposed (without endangering their lives), I would want a MASSIVE web presence (on private, well-secured servers), continually updated, to inform and alert the researchers, activists and anyone concerned. Maybe one or more evolving EPOCH TIMES graphics of the networking and companies, regarding the organizations and connections that profit from pornographic sexual degradation. Of COURSE the rats will hide from the light. Let the light become even more intense and wide-spread.
If such a resource doesn't already exist, I wonder if we could make it happen. I don't think we have to doxx individuals so much as to name companies and display their interconnections and identify those who finance them and those who give them legal coverage and political backing (Senators? Governors?). No accusations have to occur. Just expose the facts (sort of like a 'Judicial Watch' for filth or a 'Project Veritas', showing the connections).
My vision would need MASSIVE (very private) fundraising and careful identity protections for those directly involved. Something like this would arouse the full, violent, virulent hatred of the mobsters who profit from the poisoning of peoples minds. And this HUGE clearing-house of information should be only a PART of an EXTENSIVE online resource to educate, inspire and re-direct those who need help.
Other portions of the resource could include info on self-hypnosis, videos to calm the mind, exercise and dietary info to help calm the libido, exercises for libido sublimation, herbal remedies for anxiety, motivational vids for improving self-worth and self-control - LOL! All the usual stuff.
THANKS FOR READING! May our Lord God Bless and Keep you and your loved ones! THANK YOU for being HERE instead of looking at porno! MAGA!
So crazy someone posted this. I have taught my kids of the dangers of porn since they were old enough to understand. A friends young daughter was exposed by her cousin to lesbian porn and it was horrible as she thought her computers were safe. My husband has all restrictions we can have and I even bought a kids book on “good pictures bad pictures”. Well my middle schooler teen went to the psychologist at school the other day because he started tearing up in one of his classes. Apparently 2 years ago he got tricked into going into a discord group that had porn on it and has been looking for the last 2 years. He was so scared I would be mad and I told him I’m mad, but I’m mad at people who exploit children and who do stuff like that. I told him I was just more worried about him and reiterated all the warnings I have given him before. He gave us his phone and we have to lock it down better. The school psychologist has a son his age and said she now has to look at protecting her son better as well.he came and talked to me about it and some of his concerns tonight. I’m just lucky he is being open and honest about it. I asked him a few questions to make sure nothing involved kids or same sex but he did say some had violence which makes me so sad. I went to my other boys and talked to them again about it as well. Our poor children are being bombarded by sex all the time. I kind of laughed because my teenage son came to me to talk about his concerns as opposed to his dad, he said I’m easier to talk to. A little difficult for me as his mom to understand what teen boys are going through but I am determined to be there for any of my children as I had no one I could go to as a child.
So what is the issue? Porn or wanking? We need fiber in our diets so we can poop more and avoid colon cancer. Walking around with a rusty load in the barrel isn't a good way to ward off prostate cancer. If you're wanking to the point of not getting your chores done, then you need some discipline. Pastors try to shame the men about watching erotica via the internet. The women need some shaming. Ask your men how often they need servicing to knock it off. Why is it you put the ring on and gain 30 lbs and stop blowing him anymore. What if you're single and homely and lonely. God created you with an arm with a hand having an opposable thumb that can reach your naughty bits and He is sending you to Hell for engaging in the only pleasurable past time that is absolutely free and the government can't tax it? Gee Pastor, I felt convicted today about how watching that stuff dishonors my wife. When I leave here today, I'm buying a top notch video unit and make movies of me and the wife to watch when I fancy a wank. So again, is it the wanking, or the material that leads to wanking that's evil? If it's the lusty material that's wrong, can I wank to the Song of Solomon? The biggest porn consumers per capita by far is Utah. Because the Mormons pretend to be squeaky clean holier than thou types, yet are the biggest pervs. Oh, and BTW....if you're going to put your homemade stuff out there; take off your damn socks pleez! You're an old white guy with nothing on and you wear black socks because your feet are cold? Gimme a break.
All I will say is that if anyone would have pulled me aside and told me how fucked up your mind gets when you are watching the shit, it would have spared me of a pretty dark period of my life.... total addiction, depression, suicidal thoughts..... almost ruined my engagement. I'd say its got to be one of the hardest addictions to kick. My father was amazing, but he was born in the 50's, he couldn't possibly know what an abysmal hole internet porn is. And I hit puberty right when it all became mainstream. No bueno.
Gotta have the tough and honest conversations with your kids. It will make all the difference.
Many Patriots such as Jim Watkins worked in the pornography industry. Why do you want to take away their livelihoods?
The solution is to let go of your anger by forgiving your parents for not being perfect. Men who hate their mothers watch porn. And every man who has not been born again of the Father has their mothers identity in them
Someone Needs to create a virus/malware that is easily attachable to most porn and when viewed/downloaded it literally EATS your pc/phone from the inside out within 10 minutes. After burning thru 2 I phones or Samsung etc and no longer getting a free replacement that should detour most. Oh but the virus should Leave the evidence of the porn behind so when the spouse/GF/Phone tech person checks out the phone - Only the Filth remains!
Yes. You may rebuke and should rebuke. But, and you are right, there needs to be a path to redemption for nearly anything. These poor kids have life records online and that is crazy you know how many f-up crap I said as a teen? I used to be pro-choice! There has to be a path for forgiveness. edit I said nearly anything and I think I'm sticking with that. Some of the pedo and murder stuff you guy talk about here I don't think any human can probably forgive and in that case if God forgives all repentant sinners we should just send them to him sooner.