Definitely don't put him in a camp. Thats gonna make him think you don't want to deal with his problems and like you're giving up on him. Prayer and understanding kindness will help him through. I would pray to God and ask Him to give you the right words to say to help your son through this. I would also go talk to the school cuz they may be indoctrinating him behind your back more than the obvious things. Don't go scorched earth, but try to figure out what's going on. Humility and kindness go a long ways. God will take care of the wrath part when it's time lol. He knows when it's time for you to give someone an earful or more
A lot of trolls from r/politics and r/selfawarewolves like to come into this forum and take screenshots. One example was the "really sad OP" who was suddenly depressed Trump suggested the vaccine, and said he lost everything from his job to his family by saying "no" all yesr. It seemed fake but it went viral on reddit. I suspect they make the posts, get people riled up on here, take a screenshot, then champion their "finding" back at their home base.
If you look at OPs history is all religious + communist talk.
I've been to bible college in small town bible belt Midwest, been to scores of different churches across the globe, and have friends and family who are gay or turned trans. I've never heard anyone suggest a camp.
Camps are considered abhorrent in reddit, so to get a bunch of us to agree on a camp would into add fuel to their dying fire filed by mockery and anger.
I'd say OP is a troll.
Edit: reading OPs post history I would confidently state OP is a troll. I've been a member of T_D, TD.w, and now here, and I've never seen anyone this blatantly "anti gay patriot" in my six years browsing. It's like OP is trying to "be" what he expects us to be, only to become charicature.
The fact that he's talking about a pray the gay away style camp is alone pretty cringe, but I answered genuinely nonetheless.
If it's a serious post, and there are really other religious people who feel this way, I would absolutely urge them to re-examine themselves because family comes first.
It is legitimately against the Bible to force everyone else into your path. If you believe in God and you believe in salvation, and you believe we are all sinners anyway, then you need to understand that we have to find our own way, and if we seek forgiveness we do so of our own accord. To be coerced removes meaning, and to coerce would be morally unjustifiable.
This is absolutely the type of thing that got the Bible thumper stereotype and this behavior did more damage to this country's values than any religious person wants to admit.
anti parasite medicine, prayer, and work on strengthening your relationship with him. Help him to think critically and approach his life from a God-centered view.
I would not send him to any camp. It's like you're just throwing your hands up and giving up, which will make him feel worse in many ways. Plus, you have no idea what kind of worse influence he would run in to there, being put into an atmosphere with a bunch of kids who struggle with the same thing.
Blessings to you, fren. If you'd like, I will pray for you and your son.
I think there are two main factors that cause young people to go down this path -- 1) unnatural biochemical changes caused by the cabal's food industry, and 2) cultural reinforcement through Hollywood, the school system, music, etc. But of those two, I tend to think that becoming gay starts when the cabal is able to mess with young people's biochemistry, especially in childhood and during puberty.
You might want to have your son's hormone levels checked through an ordinary blood test at the doctor's office. If he's low on testosterone and high on estrogen, that might be the problem right there.
If your son isn't already in a homeschooling environment, that might be something to consider in terms of getting him away from cultural influences that promote homosexuality. When you set the curriculum yourself, you can cut the CRT, LGBT nonsense, and satanism-is-fun crap out at the source.
Pedophiles and perverts often run these types of camps. Logically, they would try and enter roles such as this where they access children. This type of role empowers them around children while they are away from their parents so you are bound to encounter them at something like this.
Instead, there is reduced / free family counseling where you all go together and speak with someone in the field but also hired and paid by the church.
I would definitely not recommend a religious camp for this. You may try a series of Ivermectin. Some are saying that gayness may be caused by parasites. It's a long shot, but probably worth a try.
I would urge him to wait, whatever he feels. 14 is pretty young and he's likely too immature to handle such issues at that age.
Look. Maybe he's gay. So you need to tread carefully on how you handle this situation. Try to come to a place of understanding with him. Maybe he's just being curious, which is not out of the ordinary for 14-year-olds. But if you rain down fire on him and vilify him because of it, you will end up alienating him entirely. He will grow to resent you and you will lose him completely.
American psychology by the 1920s contained a greater capacity for viewing some homosexual experiences as normal than most current historical literature suggests. Developmental psychologists agreed with psychiatrists that adult homosexuality was pathological, but they also agreed that adolescent sexual development included a homosexual phase. Until the late 1960s, developmental texts reassured parents and teachers that homosexual behavior among adolescents was transitory and quite normal.
"From reassurance to irrelevance: adolescent psychology and homosexuality in America," by Spurlock (2002: 38) https://g0ys.org/tremblay112010.htm
IMO, the bible verses against homosexuality are health guidance. God wants all of us to live a happy healthy life. The fact is gay men today have much higher rates of HIV, parasites, and other transmissible disease. Without modern medicine these diseases would be causing massive death. One can be gay and live a healthy life by avoiding certAin sex Acts.
Piggybacking so more frens than just OP will see this...
Not sure about the religious camps. I will tell you if this was me and you did something to prevent an interest that I had that I was passion about, it would drive a wedge in our relationship and I would probably act out.
Has he ever kissed a girl? You don't know if you like something until you try it.
I know first hand that the schools are pushing this stuff. I have a friend that sent his kid to a charter school and they had gay club. This was 10 years ago, I would imagine the propaganda is much worst.
When I was his age which was in the mid 90s, my friends would always bash each other for being a fag if we did anything remotely feminine. This is considered hate now by the brainwashed.
Lastly, what is the relationship like at home between you son? Can he talk about private things with you and his step mother?
Hunting is hardcore. Ease him in with wild edible plants course, fire starting, or building shelters. Much love to you and your son, he's lucky to have a good father.
If he likes to read give him Tom Brown's The Way of the Scout. Until I read this book I had no idea how humans could compete in nature.
The issue is that if it’s possibly not any outside influence. It’s possible that he maybe he is just attracted to boys. I wouldn’t ostracize him for it or put him in some “camp” because of it. That’s along the same vein of the “re-education camps” we talk about.
I will tell you one thing for certain. If you try to push YOUR beliefs on your son, it will only serve to push him away from those beliefs. Especially in a tumultuous time in his life. There is nothing that requires him to share your beliefs to the letter. I think you should accept that he will be his own person, just as you are. Force only begets resistance. And if you would turn your son away for who he is, based on your beliefs, then I want no part of those types of beliefs. Supposed to love everyone regardless of what their preferences are, instead of trying to change them to fit who YOU want them to be.
Most likely, he is just a horny/curious teenager. When I was 14 I would screw a cantaloupe if it looked just right.
it's true that in the old days, some dads would bring their 14 year old son to the local whore house and, well, let him get hooked on the joys a woman can bring to a man. I'm not suggesting that would be appropriate in this case, or was necessarily a good idea even way back when, but there might have been a tad of logic to it.
Also "in the old days" a stack of porn mags might be lying around ... maybe he would get a biological reaction to what he would see there. He might be gay, or he might be a confused straight, or he might be somewhere in between. DO NOT SEND HIM TO A CAMP. (PS - I don't condone porn, I'm simply responding to the "in the old days" comment above me).
I have a brother who is gay and I accept and love him for who he is. Did God not make everyone perfect?
Several years ago, a minister, told my ex-brother-in-law to not worry about his first born children. To leave that part of his life behind. That was the absolute worst advice. You can't imagine the damage that did to the kids. They are adults now, but have lived years believing their father did not love or care about them. 14 is an age of confusion and discovery. If your son needs anything, it is unconditional love, agape, from you and his family. Put yourself in God's place. Would you want God to look at you any other way? We all sin and fall short of the glory, but somewhere along the line, we began to categorize it, sin.....some worse than others. 14 is also an age of carrying burdens believed to be so heavy they cannot be shared. Be there for your son, help him carry his burdens. Hug him everyday and tell him you love him.
Camps are a no no. "Praying the gay away" will just cause you to be associated with the leftist image of a bible thumper.
Ultimately you can figure out why, the cause and how he really feels about stuff. But you have to tread lightly too, as he is entering an age where he has to make his own experiences and mistakes and ultimately find his own way.
But if you stopped loving your son because of it, or are willing to completely destroy your relationship over trying to "fix" him, then you are the one who would be truly lost.
Again, he will have to learn to live his life without you, and he is entering the age where he should start to do so. You can choose to support him, or you can choose to permanently damage your relationship just because he isn't following the path you want him to at this moment.
To me, the easy choice is clear. I would choose my son, flaws and disagreements all, over trying to make him conform to me. Trying to force that will just create another leftist and cement into him that they're right about all conservatives.
First off, are you shutting off the sources of this crap? Number one is his tablet / phone, check your router logs, monitor what he's consuming. Does he have a laptop? Don't allow it to be used in his room, make him have to use it in the family room. Does he have a Tik Tok account? Delete it. Nothing is going to help you until you address the source that is pushing him that way.
I'd also tell how great being a real man in a female world is, he will have the best choice of everything if he went against the grain. In the herd, you are just a number, when you go against the herd, you stand out, you win, you get the best that the world has to offer.
Is he in a public school system? They are indoctrination camps, and I mean that without hyperbole. Why do you think school is free and required? The government's not doing it out of the kindness of their hearts. They are intentionally poisoning the minds of your children.
No offense to OP, but if you let the government have their way with your children and they end up gay, it's your own fault.
Granted, this could happen even in a private school or from other sources of brainwashing like television, but it's much less likely. Public school is the biggest threat to the mental health of young people.
My youngest daughter is gay. I love her with my whole heart. This is not a lifestyle I condone, support or would wish on anyone. But you really can't do anything except pray for him. The harder you try to push him away from it, the stronger his urge will be to investigate it.
no camp. imagine being confronted on something personal in a large group setting by people you don't necessarily trust or even confided in with no escape. that'll permanently scar him no matter how that turns out. there was a post a few months back where the dad acted like he totally accepted it and bought the kid a dildo and the kid got grossed out, was basically going through a phase, challenging limits, and ended up rejecting his dad's progressiveness. that kind of thing can backfire, not sure what to tell you other than no camp.
I hope you don’t mind if I pray for you on here. Lord Huskers75 needs wisdom and discernment with how to deal with this. I pray he would hear your voice and know if the camp would be helpful to his son. Lord you know and love his son more than he does. I pray you will send people into the son’s path who he could trust that would speak the life and truth of Jesus to him. I pray Jesus that you will bring your love and life to this boy. We ask you to completely dispel the spirit of confusion in Jesus name, amen.
absolutely do NOT force a correction camp on him unless he TELLS you he wants to go to one. even aside from the fact that you're trying to force your own religious beliefs onto him (which you have no right to do), throwing your own son into a camp is just lazy-ass parenting and will do WAY more harm than good.
Please don't send your kid to a camp. There are many reasons a teenager would engage in this behavior. Just talk to him about it man to man and see what's up. For many kids with religious parents this kind of thing is part of a rebellious phase, and the more you squirm over it, the more extreme he'll get. Just chill, and for the love of God, talk to your son.
Get involved in your sons life. I do not know where you live but in most states you have 4 years until he go where he wants whether you like it or not. Get the passwords to every account they have. Review all of their social media to assess the situation. Search their room.
TAKE THE PHONE! They can still use it, just while they sit next to you on the couch. Shut down all social media. It is also time to introduce a friendectomy. Remove that person from your son's life. Limit their contact with anyone who condones this behavior even if it is your own family.
Be patient. Love your son. He is a teenager and will yell and get mad. Remain calm but firm. He cannot walk on you guys and make sure he understands he has violated your trust so now you are responding to his actions and resetting to neutral.
When my kids were that age I was shocked that all the values I taught flew out the door replaced by what the other kids did. I told them no one loves them like I do, no one wants them healthy, successful than I do, so why are you following those kids? Peer pressure is powerful.
I'd recommend getting him involved with other kids groups. Wholesome activities as well as home schooling. Peer pressure really sucks esp in those with low self esteem.
I had a friend whose son just starting with drugs with his friends. I gave the mom same advice. She got him involved in dancing. He eventually felt so good about himself, gave up those friends and the drugs. He was confident, took better care of himself and his classes.
Imagine doing something irreversible to your relationship to your child when we are this close to him awakening on his own and needs his parents to lovingly fill him up with all the truths. Once he sends his son to a camp, he can kiss any relationship goodbye, its the best way to lose him forever.
Its called Great Awakening for a reason. We are being put through literal genocide for a reason. If this doesn't wake everyone up in all walks of life, honestly, it would all have been pointless. I, however, am very hopeful it will indeed be Biblical!
That doesn’t everyone is suddenly going to be perfect
Absolutely not. However, having exposed the darkest most blatant criminality of the Elites, it will become much easier to have the conversations - what is this Evil that tried to destroy all of us, how this has persisted through millenia, and how this evil has used all kind of subversions and perversions to weaken us and why Bible has created a set of things to follow that would make it hard for the evil to subvert, etc.
Its a launching platform for teach the whole truth to people who are reeling from the shock and whose minds are newly open simply because they have nothing else to make sense from.
This is indeed why Q talked to us and created us as the vanguard for the coming Great Awakening. Take care, fren.
Dude, I seen this early on and it looked SUS AF. I'm making notes on people suggesting parasites or ivermectin. This guy has been silent for these 4 days. I don't think redditards recognize their own trolls.
My question is, knowing what you know, why are you participating in a system that is designed for these results? I don't understand? It is Science. You send your child to indoctrination camp for 10 years and then when he becomes what he is indoctrinated to become, your response is "how did this happen?". Stop sending him to the indoctrination camp. De program him through withdrawal and physical work, then reset his baseline. Of course that would mean you or your spouse would have to give a shit enough to change your lifestyle for real, not just pander to a change. Hmmm Should be interesting to watch.
Oh, and change your title to "How my spouse and I allowed Woke Creeps to get to our son."
If you can, I would do a weekend getaway or go for a road trip for a week and show him the US or what ever country your in and show him how real life is. The good and that bad and explain how things are. They do actually listen. I do this with my daughter every so often. She’s 10 but I try and open her up to life outside of TikTok and that, and she does listen and ask questions. Parents have A LOT of influence in their child’s life, so be the one to guid him. Not some bible camp or someone else.
Remove from public school. Have an honest talk about the what defines high risk sex, and how HIV is transmitted. Woke schools are downplaying or ignoring the very real risk of MTM (male to male) transmitted STDs, not just HIV, but also new resistant forms of traditional STDs. Sex education now lauds this high risk lifestyle instead of giving the honest facts and risks of it, for fear of seeming "biased."
Definitely don't put him in a camp. Thats gonna make him think you don't want to deal with his problems and like you're giving up on him. Prayer and understanding kindness will help him through. I would pray to God and ask Him to give you the right words to say to help your son through this. I would also go talk to the school cuz they may be indoctrinating him behind your back more than the obvious things. Don't go scorched earth, but try to figure out what's going on. Humility and kindness go a long ways. God will take care of the wrath part when it's time lol. He knows when it's time for you to give someone an earful or more
Riding the top comment to say this:
A lot of trolls from r/politics and r/selfawarewolves like to come into this forum and take screenshots. One example was the "really sad OP" who was suddenly depressed Trump suggested the vaccine, and said he lost everything from his job to his family by saying "no" all yesr. It seemed fake but it went viral on reddit. I suspect they make the posts, get people riled up on here, take a screenshot, then champion their "finding" back at their home base.
If you look at OPs history is all religious + communist talk.
I've been to bible college in small town bible belt Midwest, been to scores of different churches across the globe, and have friends and family who are gay or turned trans. I've never heard anyone suggest a camp.
Camps are considered abhorrent in reddit, so to get a bunch of us to agree on a camp would into add fuel to their dying fire filed by mockery and anger.
I'd say OP is a troll.
Edit: reading OPs post history I would confidently state OP is a troll. I've been a member of T_D, TD.w, and now here, and I've never seen anyone this blatantly "anti gay patriot" in my six years browsing. It's like OP is trying to "be" what he expects us to be, only to become charicature.
First thing that came to mind.
Well said. I wouldn't doubt it if OP is a shill. There's been a YUGE influx of them lately
The fact that he's talking about a pray the gay away style camp is alone pretty cringe, but I answered genuinely nonetheless.
If it's a serious post, and there are really other religious people who feel this way, I would absolutely urge them to re-examine themselves because family comes first.
It is legitimately against the Bible to force everyone else into your path. If you believe in God and you believe in salvation, and you believe we are all sinners anyway, then you need to understand that we have to find our own way, and if we seek forgiveness we do so of our own accord. To be coerced removes meaning, and to coerce would be morally unjustifiable.
This is absolutely the type of thing that got the Bible thumper stereotype and this behavior did more damage to this country's values than any religious person wants to admit.
THIS.
Good catch.
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anti parasite medicine, prayer, and work on strengthening your relationship with him. Help him to think critically and approach his life from a God-centered view.
I would not send him to any camp. It's like you're just throwing your hands up and giving up, which will make him feel worse in many ways. Plus, you have no idea what kind of worse influence he would run in to there, being put into an atmosphere with a bunch of kids who struggle with the same thing.
In case you didnt know OP, this is what the parasite meds are for
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Please read Parasite Pill. It gives the big picture concerning parasites.
Blessings to you, fren. If you'd like, I will pray for you and your son.
I think there are two main factors that cause young people to go down this path -- 1) unnatural biochemical changes caused by the cabal's food industry, and 2) cultural reinforcement through Hollywood, the school system, music, etc. But of those two, I tend to think that becoming gay starts when the cabal is able to mess with young people's biochemistry, especially in childhood and during puberty.
You might want to have your son's hormone levels checked through an ordinary blood test at the doctor's office. If he's low on testosterone and high on estrogen, that might be the problem right there.
Here are some foods that he can eat which would naturally tend to boost testosterone in a safe way: https://anabolicmen.com/foods-that-boost-testosterone-naturally/
Just as important, it's good to be aware of foods that can cause adolescent boys to get too much estrogen in their systems: https://www.educate-yourself.org/cn/The-Hidden-Role-of-Modern-Diet-in-the-Development-of-Male-Homosexuality-03sep18.shtml
If your son isn't already in a homeschooling environment, that might be something to consider in terms of getting him away from cultural influences that promote homosexuality. When you set the curriculum yourself, you can cut the CRT, LGBT nonsense, and satanism-is-fun crap out at the source.
That's all very good advice; very well rounded, touching all the possible bases.
NEVER SEND YOUR KID TO THAT CAMP
Pedophiles and perverts often run these types of camps. Logically, they would try and enter roles such as this where they access children. This type of role empowers them around children while they are away from their parents so you are bound to encounter them at something like this.
Instead, there is reduced / free family counseling where you all go together and speak with someone in the field but also hired and paid by the church.
I would definitely not recommend a religious camp for this. You may try a series of Ivermectin. Some are saying that gayness may be caused by parasites. It's a long shot, but probably worth a try.
I would urge him to wait, whatever he feels. 14 is pretty young and he's likely too immature to handle such issues at that age.
keep kids out of the public marxist indoctrination camps (aka public schools). Home school, because they will be way more intelligent.
I’m really starting to lean towards these things being symptoms of parasites.
Might want to look into that.
Look. Maybe he's gay. So you need to tread carefully on how you handle this situation. Try to come to a place of understanding with him. Maybe he's just being curious, which is not out of the ordinary for 14-year-olds. But if you rain down fire on him and vilify him because of it, you will end up alienating him entirely. He will grow to resent you and you will lose him completely.
Exactly.
"From reassurance to irrelevance: adolescent psychology and homosexuality in America," by Spurlock (2002: 38) https://g0ys.org/tremblay112010.htm
IMO, the bible verses against homosexuality are health guidance. God wants all of us to live a happy healthy life. The fact is gay men today have much higher rates of HIV, parasites, and other transmissible disease. Without modern medicine these diseases would be causing massive death. One can be gay and live a healthy life by avoiding certAin sex Acts.
Piggybacking so more frens than just OP will see this...
Not sure about the religious camps. I will tell you if this was me and you did something to prevent an interest that I had that I was passion about, it would drive a wedge in our relationship and I would probably act out.
Has he ever kissed a girl? You don't know if you like something until you try it.
I know first hand that the schools are pushing this stuff. I have a friend that sent his kid to a charter school and they had gay club. This was 10 years ago, I would imagine the propaganda is much worst.
When I was his age which was in the mid 90s, my friends would always bash each other for being a fag if we did anything remotely feminine. This is considered hate now by the brainwashed.
Lastly, what is the relationship like at home between you son? Can he talk about private things with you and his step mother?
Try a wilderness survival course. Becoming self sufficient in nature builds confidence and erases misconceptions about reality.
Added bonus - these are the skills that just might keep us alive in the near future.
Unreasonable expectations don’t you think? The bible says we are all sinners
Hunting is hardcore. Ease him in with wild edible plants course, fire starting, or building shelters. Much love to you and your son, he's lucky to have a good father.
If he likes to read give him Tom Brown's The Way of the Scout. Until I read this book I had no idea how humans could compete in nature.
The issue is that if it’s possibly not any outside influence. It’s possible that he maybe he is just attracted to boys. I wouldn’t ostracize him for it or put him in some “camp” because of it. That’s along the same vein of the “re-education camps” we talk about.
I will tell you one thing for certain. If you try to push YOUR beliefs on your son, it will only serve to push him away from those beliefs. Especially in a tumultuous time in his life. There is nothing that requires him to share your beliefs to the letter. I think you should accept that he will be his own person, just as you are. Force only begets resistance. And if you would turn your son away for who he is, based on your beliefs, then I want no part of those types of beliefs. Supposed to love everyone regardless of what their preferences are, instead of trying to change them to fit who YOU want them to be.
Most likely, he is just a horny/curious teenager. When I was 14 I would screw a cantaloupe if it looked just right.
He is Young and his testosterone is raging!
He's only 14 but what he really needs is a really cute female friend! I'll bet he will find he would like to kiss her too! And then he will be cured.
it's true that in the old days, some dads would bring their 14 year old son to the local whore house and, well, let him get hooked on the joys a woman can bring to a man. I'm not suggesting that would be appropriate in this case, or was necessarily a good idea even way back when, but there might have been a tad of logic to it.
Yes, take him to get it wet!
Also "in the old days" a stack of porn mags might be lying around ... maybe he would get a biological reaction to what he would see there. He might be gay, or he might be a confused straight, or he might be somewhere in between. DO NOT SEND HIM TO A CAMP. (PS - I don't condone porn, I'm simply responding to the "in the old days" comment above me).
I have a brother who is gay and I accept and love him for who he is. Did God not make everyone perfect?
Your pastor is an idiot.
Several years ago, a minister, told my ex-brother-in-law to not worry about his first born children. To leave that part of his life behind. That was the absolute worst advice. You can't imagine the damage that did to the kids. They are adults now, but have lived years believing their father did not love or care about them. 14 is an age of confusion and discovery. If your son needs anything, it is unconditional love, agape, from you and his family. Put yourself in God's place. Would you want God to look at you any other way? We all sin and fall short of the glory, but somewhere along the line, we began to categorize it, sin.....some worse than others. 14 is also an age of carrying burdens believed to be so heavy they cannot be shared. Be there for your son, help him carry his burdens. Hug him everyday and tell him you love him.
Camps are a no no. "Praying the gay away" will just cause you to be associated with the leftist image of a bible thumper.
Ultimately you can figure out why, the cause and how he really feels about stuff. But you have to tread lightly too, as he is entering an age where he has to make his own experiences and mistakes and ultimately find his own way.
But if you stopped loving your son because of it, or are willing to completely destroy your relationship over trying to "fix" him, then you are the one who would be truly lost.
Again, he will have to learn to live his life without you, and he is entering the age where he should start to do so. You can choose to support him, or you can choose to permanently damage your relationship just because he isn't following the path you want him to at this moment.
To me, the easy choice is clear. I would choose my son, flaws and disagreements all, over trying to make him conform to me. Trying to force that will just create another leftist and cement into him that they're right about all conservatives.
First off, are you shutting off the sources of this crap? Number one is his tablet / phone, check your router logs, monitor what he's consuming. Does he have a laptop? Don't allow it to be used in his room, make him have to use it in the family room. Does he have a Tik Tok account? Delete it. Nothing is going to help you until you address the source that is pushing him that way.
I'd also tell how great being a real man in a female world is, he will have the best choice of everything if he went against the grain. In the herd, you are just a number, when you go against the herd, you stand out, you win, you get the best that the world has to offer.
That's about 89% of all 14 year old boys, and the vast majority don't kiss other boys. Though it's being normalized on Tik Tok.
Is he in a public school system? They are indoctrination camps, and I mean that without hyperbole. Why do you think school is free and required? The government's not doing it out of the kindness of their hearts. They are intentionally poisoning the minds of your children.
No offense to OP, but if you let the government have their way with your children and they end up gay, it's your own fault.
Granted, this could happen even in a private school or from other sources of brainwashing like television, but it's much less likely. Public school is the biggest threat to the mental health of young people.
My youngest daughter is gay. I love her with my whole heart. This is not a lifestyle I condone, support or would wish on anyone. But you really can't do anything except pray for him. The harder you try to push him away from it, the stronger his urge will be to investigate it.
no camp. imagine being confronted on something personal in a large group setting by people you don't necessarily trust or even confided in with no escape. that'll permanently scar him no matter how that turns out. there was a post a few months back where the dad acted like he totally accepted it and bought the kid a dildo and the kid got grossed out, was basically going through a phase, challenging limits, and ended up rejecting his dad's progressiveness. that kind of thing can backfire, not sure what to tell you other than no camp.
I hope you don’t mind if I pray for you on here. Lord Huskers75 needs wisdom and discernment with how to deal with this. I pray he would hear your voice and know if the camp would be helpful to his son. Lord you know and love his son more than he does. I pray you will send people into the son’s path who he could trust that would speak the life and truth of Jesus to him. I pray Jesus that you will bring your love and life to this boy. We ask you to completely dispel the spirit of confusion in Jesus name, amen.
I'm not sending my child anywhere unless I can be a volunteer there to keep an eye on things.
absolutely do NOT force a correction camp on him unless he TELLS you he wants to go to one. even aside from the fact that you're trying to force your own religious beliefs onto him (which you have no right to do), throwing your own son into a camp is just lazy-ass parenting and will do WAY more harm than good.
Please don't send your kid to a camp. There are many reasons a teenager would engage in this behavior. Just talk to him about it man to man and see what's up. For many kids with religious parents this kind of thing is part of a rebellious phase, and the more you squirm over it, the more extreme he'll get. Just chill, and for the love of God, talk to your son.
Get involved in your sons life. I do not know where you live but in most states you have 4 years until he go where he wants whether you like it or not. Get the passwords to every account they have. Review all of their social media to assess the situation. Search their room.
TAKE THE PHONE! They can still use it, just while they sit next to you on the couch. Shut down all social media. It is also time to introduce a friendectomy. Remove that person from your son's life. Limit their contact with anyone who condones this behavior even if it is your own family.
Be patient. Love your son. He is a teenager and will yell and get mad. Remain calm but firm. He cannot walk on you guys and make sure he understands he has violated your trust so now you are responding to his actions and resetting to neutral.
Pray for and with your son.
When my kids were that age I was shocked that all the values I taught flew out the door replaced by what the other kids did. I told them no one loves them like I do, no one wants them healthy, successful than I do, so why are you following those kids? Peer pressure is powerful.
I'd recommend getting him involved with other kids groups. Wholesome activities as well as home schooling. Peer pressure really sucks esp in those with low self esteem.
I had a friend whose son just starting with drugs with his friends. I gave the mom same advice. She got him involved in dancing. He eventually felt so good about himself, gave up those friends and the drugs. He was confident, took better care of himself and his classes.
This whole post feels like a setup.
OP just lost their handshake.
Given how close to Great Awakening we are, perhaps just tide it over. When it all drops all the lies will be revealed including this.
Imagine doing something irreversible to your relationship to your child when we are this close to him awakening on his own and needs his parents to lovingly fill him up with all the truths. Once he sends his son to a camp, he can kiss any relationship goodbye, its the best way to lose him forever.
Its called Great Awakening for a reason. We are being put through literal genocide for a reason. If this doesn't wake everyone up in all walks of life, honestly, it would all have been pointless. I, however, am very hopeful it will indeed be Biblical!
Absolutely not. However, having exposed the darkest most blatant criminality of the Elites, it will become much easier to have the conversations - what is this Evil that tried to destroy all of us, how this has persisted through millenia, and how this evil has used all kind of subversions and perversions to weaken us and why Bible has created a set of things to follow that would make it hard for the evil to subvert, etc.
Its a launching platform for teach the whole truth to people who are reeling from the shock and whose minds are newly open simply because they have nothing else to make sense from.
This is indeed why Q talked to us and created us as the vanguard for the coming Great Awakening. Take care, fren.
Dude, I seen this early on and it looked SUS AF. I'm making notes on people suggesting parasites or ivermectin. This guy has been silent for these 4 days. I don't think redditards recognize their own trolls.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Qult_Headquarters/comments/sabh7o/imagine_being_a_possibly_gay_kid_and_your_dad/
Let him live His life......
Those values are yours.....
WWG1WGA
He was kissing a boy so he is gay. Sorry for your loss.
My question is, knowing what you know, why are you participating in a system that is designed for these results? I don't understand? It is Science. You send your child to indoctrination camp for 10 years and then when he becomes what he is indoctrinated to become, your response is "how did this happen?". Stop sending him to the indoctrination camp. De program him through withdrawal and physical work, then reset his baseline. Of course that would mean you or your spouse would have to give a shit enough to change your lifestyle for real, not just pander to a change. Hmmm Should be interesting to watch.
Oh, and change your title to "How my spouse and I allowed Woke Creeps to get to our son."
If you can, I would do a weekend getaway or go for a road trip for a week and show him the US or what ever country your in and show him how real life is. The good and that bad and explain how things are. They do actually listen. I do this with my daughter every so often. She’s 10 but I try and open her up to life outside of TikTok and that, and she does listen and ask questions. Parents have A LOT of influence in their child’s life, so be the one to guid him. Not some bible camp or someone else.
Remove from public school. Have an honest talk about the what defines high risk sex, and how HIV is transmitted. Woke schools are downplaying or ignoring the very real risk of MTM (male to male) transmitted STDs, not just HIV, but also new resistant forms of traditional STDs. Sex education now lauds this high risk lifestyle instead of giving the honest facts and risks of it, for fear of seeming "biased."