Hey friends.
Boy, I truly did not believe how fast and how powerful all the prayers from GAW patriots are, but here I am with an update. No wonder I had felt compelled to post a prayer request here.
I was the one asking for prayers for leaving my abusive relationship, and not a few days after posting, did everything come to head, and things exploded. Well, like a controlled demolition.
It started with my family kicking him out after his constant insults towards then, after they had literally spent thousands on taking care of us. He has severe Ai psychosis, and its lead to him accusing everyone in my family of being evil and satanic now, because they are Catholic, and according to him, Catholism wasnt infiltrated, it was designed for pedos, and therefore my entire family is brainwashed into evil.
I got in contact with his ex, who has been lovely to me, since she went through something very similar with him, and she supported me immensely.
We tried to have a week with his daughter in a hotel, but he was absolutely relentless in how much he was attacking and insulting me, it completely shattered any empathy left, that I finally drew the line, got his daughter to his grandmother's house, and left.
I'm at my aunt's house currently, and will soon be making my way back down to my family.
I want to thank everyone who prayed and left kind messages, it was truly the motivation and support I needed to finally end things for good, and I'm so appreciative of every one of you, and for how good God is himself. Thank you.
And so to anyone who has ever hesitated asking for prayers like I have, don't, let my story be a testament, that even in the worst situations, God and prayer can get you out of it. Amen🙏
May your life continue to improve.
May you continue to find the support you need to get full personal independence and autonomy in life.
Stay safe.
Thank you🙏
Did you play world of Warcraft?
I did? Any particular reason why? (I dont know if I used this username on there tho, if thats why, twas quite a while ago)
Amen, I hope through love and prayer you can find happiness within yourself first before finding happiness again outside of yourself. God Bless and many prayers for you.
I appreciate it, thank you.
I'm going to take a lot of time to myself to heal and find myself again, before I jump into anything. I think a lot of processing and Introspection are needed.
Yup. Take time to get to REALLY get to know and love yourself - you deserve it. No amount of "I love yous", "good feelings" or "good times" is EVER worth losing or risking your safety and sanity.
"Quality" partners appreciate partners who "want" to be with them rather than "needing" to or being forced be with them.
Abusive and/or narcissistic partners don't ever really appreciate partners (or most anyone else, for that matter) because they're so insecure/broken they (often subconsciously) believe they have to belittle, guilt, blame, shame and force/coerce partners into being with them.
And, KNOW that God will ALWAYS love you - NO MATTER what - and that, with Him on your side, you are NEVER truly alone.
Thank you, I appreciate the kind words.
Ive learned a lot of lessons from this experience, and your descriptors are very on point. I won't be rushing anything, but I really know what to watch out for in the future.
Ill be taking my time for myself, and I feel my faith in God has only strengthened that much more from all of this. He truly is great
Continued prayers 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you🙏
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It truly is! Really strengthened my faith, that I didn't realize could be even stronger
Prayers—and get a restraining order against him for you and your family (where you were living).
Appreciate it, that's one of the next steps I'm taking. I actually got some nice instructions from the cops a couple days ago, about how to do it. A good reminder.
Prayers on the way,I missed the last one.
Stay safe fren.
Thank you, it was certainly an ordeal, but now healing can really begin
I missed your first post also SD...praying now for your continued health and safety! God bless you fren! 🙏🤍
Praise God.
Dear Lord, please put your hedge of protection around u/StanceDancing & all others in harms way. Give them an angel to guard & guide them, protect them from evil, let no harm befall them. We give you all the praise & glory for how you protect & provide us. Please provide StanceDancing and her ex all the people & resources they need to heal in body, mind, & soul. I ask all this in Jesus' Holy name & to your glory. Amen.
Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
To God alone be the glory! From Philipians 2:13 (BSB) "For it is God who works in you to will and to act on behalf of His good purpose." He loves you, StanceDancing!
Get armed and stay armed; same for the rest of your family. Nut cases don't take rejection well, and they can get violent to the extreme.
Paper does not repel quite as well as firearms. Classes can be had locally.
Thank you for the reminder, its been on my list for a while, but this is a good of time as any to really start the process
Interesting that he said you were evil and satanic, because I have been talking to a long-time friend of mine about Christianity and he actually said I was evil! (I told him that in the end times, good will be called evil, and evil, good :) )
It seems like projection or mirroring perhaps? Guilt tends to make people lash out at those who point out anything in the vicinity that sets it off.
I believe all people feel God in their hearts, whether they want to admit it or not, and its why you get such harsh reactions from people, because they try stronger and stronger emotional responses to block it out.
As a rule?
It's one of the signs of the end times. The Democrat party is living up to it quite well!
You didn't answer my question. But if it is a rule, then it applies to everyone that uses the word "evil" or "good". That is something to watch out for!
Good luck to you. Stay strong. The future is bright!
Thank you!
Praise God ! We will continue to pray for you and your family, thank you for the update.
Thank you, I appreciate it🙏
God sent Angels that are protecting you. God bless
There were times were it definitely felt like they intervened, either calming down a situation suddenly, that seemed like it was going to over boil, to putting things in place in advance, that I never thought of(like being told to grab something, that came in handy later)
Definitely they are intervening in your life, God works in many different ways, God loves us all, I have had many miracles that I can’t explain and he still working on me, I don’t deserve his or his son love but he knows my heart. Do not despair be patient he will heal and protect you from evil, just pray constantly, God loves that plus mention in the name of your son Jesus Christ and he will grant whatever you want including jobs. God bless
Single life is better. Glad you made it out.
Ahah, after my last few relationships, I very much see the appeal. Thank you fren
After my last few relationships I realized I was an easy mark. Once I stopped allowing women to rush me into living together it became very clear there's too many opportunistic clingers out there. You can learn alot about someone in a year just dating. It's a shame so many looking for a meal-ticket screw it up for the good ones but I figure a keeper would be okay dating me however long it takes.
I agree very much with this! I was actually trying to take it slow, but as my siblings say "one day, he just started living here", and he become very clingy and co-dependent.
A lot of lessons were learned from this experience for the future.
Red flag central. Had one I was dating trying that. After bringing it to her attention that it was presumptuous leaving clothes and stuff or just showing up unannounced her insecurities started getting the best of her. Came back from visiting my best friend and his wife to her basically stalking me and interrogating about "the other woman".
I didn't even tell her where I had gone but I did explain that we WERE dating, not exclusive and that she clearly had no respect for my boundaries. I'm not a very private guy with nothing to hide but it's a useful vetting process to see what level of clinginess and codependency you're dealing with.
Praise God! There is a better life ahead, fren. We will keep praying for a smooth transition and peace.
Thank you🙏🙏
More prayers sent✝️
“In the process of letting go you will lose many things from the past, but you will find yourself.” — Deepak Chopra
Thank you, finding myself again and healing, are going to be my next steps, and something I welcome with open arms🙏
congratulations on taking steps to make a 'peaceful life' for you. the power of prayer is awesome. take time to become yourself again, and live in peace.
Thank you🙏
I’m glad it worked out for you and I hope it continues to get better!
Best of luck, Im glad you ripped the band aid off. Stay true to yourself & do not go back. They will never change. I pray that God brings you meet the right person!! There are tons of self help videos for the days when you are feeling down in the dumps. I highly reecomend using them. Also, writing helped me get through my divorcce six years ago.
God Bless
Thank you for the suggestions! I'm going to pursue a lot of the creative aspects I've been unable to, writing being one of them.
I will continue to Pray for you as you rebuild your life.
Thank you🙏
Sounds like things can only get better. God bless you.
Thanks and praise to the Lord!
And thank you for sharing the good follow-up.
🙏🙏🙏 truly the power of the Lord at work
Thank you for the update. I was thinking about you yesterday. Glad to hear you're away from him.
You're welcome, Ive never felt such a sense of community before, I really feel God's love here
Stay strong and close to God! It's better to be alone than with a person who is not good for you. Glad you have a support system.
I feel that in soul. Some people make you feel much more alone than when you really are alone.
My faith in God has only deepened from this, and he's given my family and I too many miracles to ever stray from His grace
During a pre-nuptial conservation with the priest he said it is death to you part in your marriage vows. But also explained that sometimes there is someone in the relationship that is not in the marriage emotionally or physically. They don’t want to be in a marriage they want to destroy their spouse. They want to control all situations and put themselves first over all others. Those situations are why the Catholic Church has annulments. Good luck God bless. All you can do is learn the lessons of the past and live for the future.
Technically, it is NOT death 'til you part since we are no longer natural living men and women, but CORP dead vessels under UCC/CORP jurisdiction (STATE CORP, MSC). It is a contract. The courts treat it as an undefined contract between two CORP entities upon divorce/dissolution, so they then define the terms of the contract termination for you both for the benefit of the STATE, not you. Best to define the contract prior to being in it with a prenuptial. Globalist have ruined marriage and LOVE in addition to everything else.
Thank you,🙏 my grandmother went through annulment, now that you mention it, its not something Ive thought of in a long time.
I'm thankful to God for the lessons Ive learned, and that he also showed me the light and helped me leave, before I ever got marriage involved. It was something he was really pressuring me into
This is not a therapy forum
We are a community though, and prayer requests have always been apart of this forum.
Plus I'm not asking for any therapy, I got away and am happy. Its simply the power of prayer and change that this forum can bring.
I am so glad to hear you were able to get out of a relationship like that. While all relationship have their struggles, abuse in them are never okay.
I will keep you in our prayers.
The first step is deciding you're worth it and that you deserve better - and so does your family. Leaving is the hardest part. I pray you find the courage to continue on this new path you are forging for yourself. Stay strong. You have others praying for you.
Thank you, I'm so appreciative of all the prayers🙏, theyve truly helped while on this journey, and the motivation to keep going and work on myself and my relationship with God, is strong.
Good for you. Lean into God and keep your support system close. If I can offer any advice for you it would be to distance yourself from those people in your life that are not your cheerleaders - at least for the time being. In particular, anyone that is a self focused energy vampire. Have those around you that can help you stay strong and encourage you. The others can simply wait.
I appreciate it, thank you.
I actually called my ex an energy vampire once, and he got more offended at that, than most other things I called him, so I think we hit the nail on the head with that one.
Exactly. Those relationships always end up being very toxic for the one on the receiving end of that toxicity. The fact that you can identify it makes it much easier to see those traits in others. At the moment, while you are making this adjustment, keep anyone like that at arms length. You need all your internal strength for yourself right now. Don't let anyone drain it. You deserve and need your power. So do not be guilted when rejecting someone who tries to take what you have because they lack their own. This is hard for most women to do because of their God given instinct to help and nurture.