I turned my life around by volunteering at an organic farm. After my season I got a job, my second season I was manager. After 2 Years of managing I started my own business with my then girlfriend now wife. I had no skills at all. Barely got out of high school. Literally a bum squatting at friends, even sleeping in children's playhouses in random back yards.
You can do it. Life is beautiful even in it's ugliness. Get out into nature if you can. Without your lows you won't appreciate your highs so keep your head up and just do something.
Gravitate away from pornography. Releasing frequently is bad for the soul.
Stop drinking alcohol, it’s a depressant.
Start a journal, and record your thoughts and ideas.
Record your screen time and seek ways to reduce it.
You will often find. You are not ugly, just poor, and unmanaged. You’d be surprised at how handsome you can become when you begin taking care of your body and spirit
Please do not off yourself. I want to see you post in the morning tomorrow or at the very least send me a DM tomorrow, I will be waiting for it. It is not worth it. Please please please do not do it.
Black pilling sucks but it is a drug that is never as effective with subsequent use and you tend to not want anymore after the first one anyway. Terrible idea, but it will end and you will be stronger for the experience.
everything is in on it and it is a trap to get YOU!
Paranoia Fucking City! Imagine your mind dooming without control.
Like, your mom and dad are in on it and they are against you. the dog has a wire, somewhere just haven't found it yet, could be a robot, pretty sure I don't remember seeing it eat much, darpa COULD make a robot that works off of turning food to chemical energy, the mirrors have cameras behind them, I know for a fucking fact I just saw Hillary Clinton (or who ever the soup dejour is) in the bushes!!!!!
Start supporting other people with kindness and tuning into them and your depression will lift. I bet that if you post 20 kind comments here on GAW you will feel better. They don't have to be clever, just real.
Practically speaking, we need everybody we can get who understands what is happening in order to rebuild our world into something marvellous. That means you. Just knowing the score is very useful.
When you are kind and positive, you attract great things.
all those bullet points are just coordinates on a map. so great, you've located your position. what's your destination?
why don't you go to Ottawa and join the party? it looks like they could use hands to help carry in fuel and supplies. the more of us on scene, the better.
I guarantee you, not one item you mention is handicap -- except maybe the latter.
being blackpilled and depressed is something we all go through from time to time -- especially when you're awake to global criminal racket. it means that you haven't lost your humanity. it means you care about real things, and have a hunger to find real meaning. it's what every man goes through as he's figuring out how to find his rightful place in society.
listen to Jocko Willink. Jordan Peterson. it's not supposed to be easy. nothing worth having is ever easy to obtain. when you don't know what to do, put yourself in service of someone else's need. even if it's just carrying something heavy for someone else.
We need soldiers in this battle we call life.. We need you. Cry out to God I mean really cry out scream your frustrations out to him with a clear sober mind, then ask him for strength and wisdom. You don't need much skill to start out working in construction. Use that mind and body that was gifted to you and if it needs repair do it. Now in days people are most attracted to confidence. Get some or fake it till you understand what it is. Life can be bleak looking but it's your outlook on life that makes it what it is.
Shower, shave the damn neck beard and any version of a neck beard,cut your hair, do not ever again consume any version of soy ever.
Put on clean clothes preferably without holes in them and get your butt out and apply for a job if it doesn't pay enough money take it anyway and get a second job. Once you've earned enough money go buy yourself some steak and be a man. That's my advice. And stop calling yourself and in cell
Suicide doesn’t stop the hurt. It just passes the hurt on to people who care about you. There are some great suggestions by frens on here that I hope you will consider. I’ll say a prayer for you. Life really is worth living. We just have to dig deep inside ourselves sometimes so we can be reminded of that.
Something like 90% of attempted suicides (that is, they survived) report instant regret. All it does is certify failure permanently. Surface ugliness (which may only be in your own mind because of your general hopelessness) fades away with a smile. Really, think of how people got prettier or uglier as you got to know them better. You sound as though you feel getting laid would solve all your problems and it will be as gratifying as porn actors make it look. They are actors, acting, and they have physical problems from their job. Find a different group to admire. Better, stay out of fantasy land altogether. You need real human company. This would be a good time to meet new people at a honkening. Listen to their stories instead of ruminating on your own. And get a puppy.
Don't off yourself. It means you'll have a do-over to learn the same lesson, but even harder and after a long time. Movement is life- exercise, even plain walking, does wonders to improve mental outlook. If you recognize an addiction it means you are halfway to un-addicting yourself. It doesn't sound like much, but it's a real accomplishment; lots of people never realize it. Also begin talking to God and inviting Him into your life. Lots of other good stuff from other commenters, I'd go for the "volunteer on a farm" because ... using muscles is good, healthy food is good, and nature is marvelous. But other things are also good to stay active, even if it's just doordash. Some call it grunt work, whenever it got bad my son told me it was "delivering happiness."
Not worth it fren. I went through a nasty divorce and discovered passions like crypto and this community. Dark days will pass if you find your passions
Learn a trade. You will never go hungry. Canada has IBEW, look for apprenticeship where you get paid to learn. Suicide is not an option, we need you in this battle. You can get out of this, we know you can.
Congratulations, you've already taken the first step by asking for help.
Having taken the hardest step, the rest (whilst still challenging) are definitely do-able. Lots of good advice on here already, but I would definitely start with..
-No TV
-Exercise
-Healthy Food
Set yourself some short term goals, don't worry about the longer term ones, you aren't ready to set those yet.
Once you've done the above for two weeks, set yourself another 2 weeks worth of goals in addition to the above.
After that first month, if you aren't already in a better place then you probably want to be there. Not trying to be harsh, but even the shit stuff in our lives can often be traced backed to a choice to do, or not do, something if we are honest with ourselves.
Last, but not least, recognise that you are loved and are worthy of love. Get that far and you will never be in this position ever again. A worthy goal, yes?
Get an enema. Seriously Dr. John Harvey Kellogg breakfast cereal guy. He swore bowel health affected depression. Now I swear it works. I accidently cured fatigue that I thought was depression that had affected me for years. Anyhow it can't hurt just a bit of water once every 2 weeks is good enough.
Jesus has the power and the love to save your life as well as your soul. After creating the universe, He put aside His glory to get spat upon, beaten, stripped naked and nailed to a cross so that you could have life in abundance, both now and forever. Plus His true followers will be your loving brothers and sisters to walk with you on life's journey. Be blessed, fren.
Hold the line Patriot! Satan is about to fall and you have a front row seat. You've come this far and life is about to get a lot better for everyone. What a time to be alive.
You can beat it. God cured my lust which was hurting me as a person.
-No education beyond high school
No big deal, I could probably find you a job in my field tomorrow.
-No marketable skills
I bullshitted my way into literally EVERY job I ever had. Talk the talk and you can learn the walk as you go.
-No job (NEET)
Nobody's got a job right now but everyone's hiring. The harvest is plenty, but the workers are few, said my Saviour.
-Ugly incel
Debatable. I've overshot my coverage a few times back when I cared about that. You know what a relationship is? Just another problem until you untangle some of your own. I'll let you in on a secret - sex ain't as great as you think it is.
I'm 43, divorced father of two who I am raising basically on my own. I want to kill myself like, every week. I hang in there for them or I would definitely hang alone.
-Located in Canada
You can't win them all. I wish I didn't live in the stare I live in too but its what it is for rn
Well, it takes a strong man to admit he has that many faults.
Exercise is the best thing for depression. Doesn't take long to start seeing results and this will improve your self esteem. If you are overweight, do 30 minutes of aerobic activity every day, sweat your balls off for 15 minutes of it, weight will begin dropping off like crazy.
Ugly men can attract beautiful women, you just have to enhance all your other qualities. If you notice, most ugly women have smoking hot bodies. You work with what you have. If a woman knows she is ugly, she will compensate by accentuating the rest of what God gave her.
Most women want to feel secure both in a physical sense and monetarily. Get yourself a job doing something you enjoy, hard work and determination always pays off. You may start off at the bottom of the ladder but people will notice if you kickass and promotions, better pay soon follow.
Attitude is important, if you walk around acting gloomy all day, people will avoid you. If you are fun and high spirited, people will gravitate to you. There is a perfect mate out there for everyone, you just have to find her. Finding a good woman will help you forget about the porn.
Suicide is not the answer, its a sin you can't recover from. If you don't want to spend eternity in hell, that should be a good deterrent to harming yourself. Loving yourself and treating your body as a temple should be your goal. Good food, exercise, healthy choices should be priorities. Good things come to those work hard and wait. God will reward you at the most opportune times if you are trying to better yourself, its the way life works.
Best word of advice, pray and do it often. Be thankful and praise your Lord. Don't pray for material things. Pray for health and safety for yourself and loved ones. Thank Jesus for his sacrifice, thank God for his sacrifice and be thankful even if you ain't feeling it. God loves your praise, he can answer your prayers and he knows what you need most.
Nothing in life is free, if you want it, you have to work it, anything is possible if you set your mind to it. Living in Canada should only be a temporary setback, I know your government there sucks ass. The truckers are trying to fix that, you should get involved if at all possible, ensuring a future with limitless freedoms is a worthwhile interest. It may help you break out of slump you are in. Get over to Ottawa and start honking. God bless you my fren, I will include you in my prayers tonight. WWG!WGA!!!
I turned my life around by volunteering at an organic farm. After my season I got a job, my second season I was manager. After 2 Years of managing I started my own business with my then girlfriend now wife. I had no skills at all. Barely got out of high school. Literally a bum squatting at friends, even sleeping in children's playhouses in random back yards.
You can do it. Life is beautiful even in it's ugliness. Get out into nature if you can. Without your lows you won't appreciate your highs so keep your head up and just do something.
The world DEFINITELY needs good organic farmers!!!’
THANK YOU so much for turning your life around🥰
Start eating meat.
Sunning your balls.
Lifting weights
discovering how to lead as a man.
Gravitate away from pornography. Releasing frequently is bad for the soul.
Stop drinking alcohol, it’s a depressant.
Start a journal, and record your thoughts and ideas.
Record your screen time and seek ways to reduce it.
You will often find. You are not ugly, just poor, and unmanaged. You’d be surprised at how handsome you can become when you begin taking care of your body and spirit
Sunning your balls... lmfao
It works tho foreal!
Essentially nude sunbathing.
My body was ringing with energy for hours afterwards.
Suns out buns out.
Specifically sunning your 4th eye. Getting sun on the butthole charges your body with vitamin D.
Suicide is never the answer; just keep waiting till tomorrow to decide.
What part of Canada? I'm in Ontario... might have work.
That’s what the left want you to do. Spite them and the devil.
Please do not off yourself. I want to see you post in the morning tomorrow or at the very least send me a DM tomorrow, I will be waiting for it. It is not worth it. Please please please do not do it.
Change your mind.
it is that simple and that difficult.
Black pilling sucks but it is a drug that is never as effective with subsequent use and you tend to not want anymore after the first one anyway. Terrible idea, but it will end and you will be stronger for the experience.
What is blackpilled?
Dooming
Ahh ok
everything is in on it and it is a trap to get YOU!
Paranoia Fucking City! Imagine your mind dooming without control.
Like, your mom and dad are in on it and they are against you. the dog has a wire, somewhere just haven't found it yet, could be a robot, pretty sure I don't remember seeing it eat much, darpa COULD make a robot that works off of turning food to chemical energy, the mirrors have cameras behind them, I know for a fucking fact I just saw Hillary Clinton (or who ever the soup dejour is) in the bushes!!!!!
look up dark night of the soul also
Hi fren,
Start supporting other people with kindness and tuning into them and your depression will lift. I bet that if you post 20 kind comments here on GAW you will feel better. They don't have to be clever, just real.
Practically speaking, we need everybody we can get who understands what is happening in order to rebuild our world into something marvellous. That means you. Just knowing the score is very useful.
When you are kind and positive, you attract great things.
Go outside and get sunlight in your retinas every morning, even if it’s cloudy.
Eat more protein. Don’t eat manufactured food.
Take a B complex if you have low energy. Get your carbs from fresh fruit and Pure fruit juice.
Lift heavy stuff. Eat 25-50 mg of zinc per day, preferably from food sources.
Masterbation causes zinc deficiency. Try to stay away from electronics after dark, especially no blue light after dark.
Looks don’t mean shit. There are PLENTY of successful men who are not Adonis.
When you start feeling better, which should only take about two weeks, begin thinking about what you want to do with your life.
all those bullet points are just coordinates on a map. so great, you've located your position. what's your destination?
why don't you go to Ottawa and join the party? it looks like they could use hands to help carry in fuel and supplies. the more of us on scene, the better.
I guarantee you, not one item you mention is handicap -- except maybe the latter.
being blackpilled and depressed is something we all go through from time to time -- especially when you're awake to global criminal racket. it means that you haven't lost your humanity. it means you care about real things, and have a hunger to find real meaning. it's what every man goes through as he's figuring out how to find his rightful place in society.
listen to Jocko Willink. Jordan Peterson. it's not supposed to be easy. nothing worth having is ever easy to obtain. when you don't know what to do, put yourself in service of someone else's need. even if it's just carrying something heavy for someone else.
and don't forget, you matter. you matter to us.
We need soldiers in this battle we call life.. We need you. Cry out to God I mean really cry out scream your frustrations out to him with a clear sober mind, then ask him for strength and wisdom. You don't need much skill to start out working in construction. Use that mind and body that was gifted to you and if it needs repair do it. Now in days people are most attracted to confidence. Get some or fake it till you understand what it is. Life can be bleak looking but it's your outlook on life that makes it what it is.
Go talk to a based Pastor
Start
Shower, shave the damn neck beard and any version of a neck beard,cut your hair, do not ever again consume any version of soy ever.
Put on clean clothes preferably without holes in them and get your butt out and apply for a job if it doesn't pay enough money take it anyway and get a second job. Once you've earned enough money go buy yourself some steak and be a man. That's my advice. And stop calling yourself and in cell
Suicide doesn’t stop the hurt. It just passes the hurt on to people who care about you. There are some great suggestions by frens on here that I hope you will consider. I’ll say a prayer for you. Life really is worth living. We just have to dig deep inside ourselves sometimes so we can be reminded of that.
Something like 90% of attempted suicides (that is, they survived) report instant regret. All it does is certify failure permanently. Surface ugliness (which may only be in your own mind because of your general hopelessness) fades away with a smile. Really, think of how people got prettier or uglier as you got to know them better. You sound as though you feel getting laid would solve all your problems and it will be as gratifying as porn actors make it look. They are actors, acting, and they have physical problems from their job. Find a different group to admire. Better, stay out of fantasy land altogether. You need real human company. This would be a good time to meet new people at a honkening. Listen to their stories instead of ruminating on your own. And get a puppy.
Pray
Don't off yourself. It means you'll have a do-over to learn the same lesson, but even harder and after a long time. Movement is life- exercise, even plain walking, does wonders to improve mental outlook. If you recognize an addiction it means you are halfway to un-addicting yourself. It doesn't sound like much, but it's a real accomplishment; lots of people never realize it. Also begin talking to God and inviting Him into your life. Lots of other good stuff from other commenters, I'd go for the "volunteer on a farm" because ... using muscles is good, healthy food is good, and nature is marvelous. But other things are also good to stay active, even if it's just doordash. Some call it grunt work, whenever it got bad my son told me it was "delivering happiness."
Find a friend.
Find a mentor.
When you feel ready, find God.
Find out what trauma led to you developing the stress response you have (porn).
Find hope… it’s there, but sometimes it hides itself well.
I’m willing to help. Just PM me.
Lift weights everyday- you have everything to gain here.
Not worth it fren. I went through a nasty divorce and discovered passions like crypto and this community. Dark days will pass if you find your passions
Learn a trade. You will never go hungry. Canada has IBEW, look for apprenticeship where you get paid to learn. Suicide is not an option, we need you in this battle. You can get out of this, we know you can.
When my wife was having one of her toughest bouts of depression, I had her play Xenogears.
I'd start there, it'll take you about 80 hours. Don't rush play about 4 hours a day at most
Read each line of dialog carefully, take notes if you need to.
Congratulations, you've already taken the first step by asking for help.
Having taken the hardest step, the rest (whilst still challenging) are definitely do-able. Lots of good advice on here already, but I would definitely start with..
-No TV -Exercise -Healthy Food
Set yourself some short term goals, don't worry about the longer term ones, you aren't ready to set those yet.
Once you've done the above for two weeks, set yourself another 2 weeks worth of goals in addition to the above.
After that first month, if you aren't already in a better place then you probably want to be there. Not trying to be harsh, but even the shit stuff in our lives can often be traced backed to a choice to do, or not do, something if we are honest with ourselves.
Last, but not least, recognise that you are loved and are worthy of love. Get that far and you will never be in this position ever again. A worthy goal, yes?
Get an enema. Seriously Dr. John Harvey Kellogg breakfast cereal guy. He swore bowel health affected depression. Now I swear it works. I accidently cured fatigue that I thought was depression that had affected me for years. Anyhow it can't hurt just a bit of water once every 2 weeks is good enough.
Ask Jesus to help you, He really can if you only ask. May God bless you.
Jesus has the power and the love to save your life as well as your soul. After creating the universe, He put aside His glory to get spat upon, beaten, stripped naked and nailed to a cross so that you could have life in abundance, both now and forever. Plus His true followers will be your loving brothers and sisters to walk with you on life's journey. Be blessed, fren.
You're in a self-pity pit.
Dig yourself out. You don't want to die or you wouldn't have posted.
So, stop listening to your own excuses.
Fix your shit.
I was going to suggest a few things, but after reading all the comments, there's little I could add.
Huge props to everyone who commented.
For anyone depressed - dig into this thread.
G A C
Hold the line Patriot! Satan is about to fall and you have a front row seat. You've come this far and life is about to get a lot better for everyone. What a time to be alive.
Hopelessly addicted to porn
You can beat it. God cured my lust which was hurting me as a person.
-No education beyond high school
No big deal, I could probably find you a job in my field tomorrow.
-No marketable skills
I bullshitted my way into literally EVERY job I ever had. Talk the talk and you can learn the walk as you go.
-No job (NEET)
Nobody's got a job right now but everyone's hiring. The harvest is plenty, but the workers are few, said my Saviour.
-Ugly incel
Debatable. I've overshot my coverage a few times back when I cared about that. You know what a relationship is? Just another problem until you untangle some of your own. I'll let you in on a secret - sex ain't as great as you think it is.
I'm 43, divorced father of two who I am raising basically on my own. I want to kill myself like, every week. I hang in there for them or I would definitely hang alone.
-Located in Canada
You can't win them all. I wish I didn't live in the stare I live in too but its what it is for rn
-Blackpilled and depressed
Welcome to the party pal!
Well, it takes a strong man to admit he has that many faults.
Exercise is the best thing for depression. Doesn't take long to start seeing results and this will improve your self esteem. If you are overweight, do 30 minutes of aerobic activity every day, sweat your balls off for 15 minutes of it, weight will begin dropping off like crazy.
Ugly men can attract beautiful women, you just have to enhance all your other qualities. If you notice, most ugly women have smoking hot bodies. You work with what you have. If a woman knows she is ugly, she will compensate by accentuating the rest of what God gave her.
Most women want to feel secure both in a physical sense and monetarily. Get yourself a job doing something you enjoy, hard work and determination always pays off. You may start off at the bottom of the ladder but people will notice if you kickass and promotions, better pay soon follow.
Attitude is important, if you walk around acting gloomy all day, people will avoid you. If you are fun and high spirited, people will gravitate to you. There is a perfect mate out there for everyone, you just have to find her. Finding a good woman will help you forget about the porn.
Suicide is not the answer, its a sin you can't recover from. If you don't want to spend eternity in hell, that should be a good deterrent to harming yourself. Loving yourself and treating your body as a temple should be your goal. Good food, exercise, healthy choices should be priorities. Good things come to those work hard and wait. God will reward you at the most opportune times if you are trying to better yourself, its the way life works.
Best word of advice, pray and do it often. Be thankful and praise your Lord. Don't pray for material things. Pray for health and safety for yourself and loved ones. Thank Jesus for his sacrifice, thank God for his sacrifice and be thankful even if you ain't feeling it. God loves your praise, he can answer your prayers and he knows what you need most.
Nothing in life is free, if you want it, you have to work it, anything is possible if you set your mind to it. Living in Canada should only be a temporary setback, I know your government there sucks ass. The truckers are trying to fix that, you should get involved if at all possible, ensuring a future with limitless freedoms is a worthwhile interest. It may help you break out of slump you are in. Get over to Ottawa and start honking. God bless you my fren, I will include you in my prayers tonight. WWG!WGA!!!