I severed a 30 year friendship with a guy last night who was mocking me about Q and Trump.
😷 SUDDENLY 💉
We were drinking and hanging out like we have been doing for the last 25 years together. Hes a conservative that listens to Matt Walsh and hangs on his every word. My friend attacked me and said Qanon is bad for America and blah blah blah. Trumps not coming back. Nothing Qanon has said has ever come true. Mike lindell pillow guy. He went on and on. I blew up and screamed at him. It was pure raw emotion that was built up. Im usually very quiet and have never done that to anyone. I kicked him out of my house and told him to never come back. Im sick of these people that think they know something and mock us. Waking up this morning, i feel very relieved.
I've lost my calm a few times when people are so vicious criticizing Donald Trump. They have no idea the magnitude of the human being. If you're in someone's house, you stay neutral if you differ in Politics. We are all allowed a sanctuary.
Everyone has a right to their opinion, it doesn’t mean you are right and they are wrong and vice versa. You just listen and don’t argue. You are in THEIR home as a guest. Sad that you lost a friendship over this, but obviously you felt you did the right thing based on your relief. Subconsciously, it probably was a long time coming. God bless, my friend.
^ This. I've had the same interactions with a regular group of "friends". We met every month for 13 years, usually at my place. I was the only vocal conservative, with one other closet conservative and 4 raging libs. They always came at me in my home but I let it go...because "friends". Their tone and attacks changed during covid and after the election and I finally snapped. It was almost like grieving over a lost loved one at first but clarity won the day and not having those negative and sheepish people in my life has been a tremendous relief. Just took me some time to realize it.
I believe yours was brewing, even with another conservative who chose to attack you for some reason. I think being truly awake and aware made this the final straw and your mind just took over. It will be okay.
Same. Hearing my 20-year “friends” snicker at folks who died in hospitals because they chose not to get that clot shot was too much. I can put up with a lot, but being flippant about death is grotesque.
Ya, your right. I dont need it anymore.
Ya, I feel it was subconscious. I feel so light today.
If only their criticism wasn't based on pure stinking propaganda....
I did the same about a year ago. Someone mocking your beliefs is not a friend worth keeping. You're better off without them and good for you!
Thank you.
Exactly. I've written off a brother after he mocked God, made fun of my mom for following God, and is just a useful idiot repeating the MSM NPC narrative. Hang tough and use this time to prep by getting yourself and family ready for the incoming storm that you know is coming.
I've had some friends or acquaintances start in with that BS. I just laugh it off and remind them there are only 2 outcomes to our current state of the world - Q or NWO - and they better pray it's Q or we're all fucked. That usually shuts them up pretty quick.
We have a new friend couple (wife's old college friend moved near us) and her husband is a cool guy - works with law enforcement (not a cop), shoots, etc. Right of center. We were walking somewhere yesterday and he referred to a section of grass as the grassy knoll and starts talking about Dealy Plaza, etc.
So I (not) jokingly said "oh the place where the CIA and Bush Sr. killed JFK" and he damn near froze in his tracks and looked at my like I had a dick growing out of my head and then started in with the lone shooter theory - "but maybe he had help". He's in for a rude awakening very soon.
Point being, folks can have their own conservative opinions and ideas and still be closed to anything other than the narratives we've been fed our entire lives.
And FWIW - I've lost plenty of friends over Trump/politics and worse, some relatives, including my parents. Stay true to yourself.
Thank you. Yes, I couldn't hear his mocking me anymore. Hes a loser that has held me down. This was a long time coming.
If he’s a loser that you’ve carried for decades I get it. 2 of my oldest friends fit that mold and they got cut loose long before Q. Dead weight. One a combat vet turned from conservative to liberal and moved to CA in recent years. WTAF?
By all accounts we are on the right side of history. Sad to lose long time friends, but go with your gut ! It’s their loss Anon !
Well, I'm sorry that you lost a long friendship like that, but sometimes it's a good thing to clear the clutter from your life. Waking up relieved sort of proved that point. All the best to you, fren. Friendships can be hard.
My blood pressure has been extremely high lately. Today is was 123/67. Yesterday it was 177/100. Very odd.
It’s like the trash taking itself out…..
Yes
Kek
Wow! Well that tells me the proof is in the pudding! Glad to hear it made such a drastic difference. It just occurred to me though, what if he extends himself to you and apologizes? (Not that you're expecting that.) But what if he does? Have you considered how to handle that? You might be tempted to just forgive and forget, but your health might suggest otherwise. In other words, maybe forgive, but continue with the severed ties.
I've already thought of that. I'm going to say stay away from me and my family. You arent welcome anymore.
Probably for the best. honestly, it sounds like he didn't respect you much. Disagreeing is one thing, mocking is another thing entirely. It would be interesting to hear if he does try to make amends. Either way, you're free and that is nice.
I woke up to a text today that said keep sucking Putins dick.
Oh geesh. You made the right decision!
I wonder who's dick he's sucking?
Better putins dick than Biden.
Time to block his number.
WTH? I was wrong about him getting it and apologize…bye bye.
Meanwhile zelensky’s living the high life in his parents 20 million dollar home.
Stop thinking about it to get that blood pressure down. Even if he was dead weight we are social creatures and a 30 year friend poof gone no matter how in the wrong "stings" and we tend to "stew" on it thus raising your pressure. Let him go like a leaf in the wind.
That's what I'm doing
Why would you scream and fling fee-fees like a redditor tho?
No, sorry, I get it, it does hurt to see frens and family being drawn to Evil. My Wife and I just had a conversation earlier about a family member, I had said that after 30 seconds of listening to the voice mail the family member left I could feel her sucking the soul out of my Life.
We all have the same issues.
I've talked and explained before.
My circle has become smaller by choice
Yes. Same
It’s simpler and more quality
Yep
Ehh… jeez dude… you could of just said that no one has a crystal ball and we’ll all find out soon enough. Dumbasses are dumbasses. Some still won’t believe even after the mass arrests. You were selected for a reason… you can see. Everyone else is blind.
Ya man. It was a long time coming. Hes a leech. Lost his family. Alcoholic. Drugs. This was pent up rage against him. I couldn't take him mocking me with every mainstream talking point against Qanon. He told me to go suck Putin's dick some more. Lol. I lost it. It got physical for a second from him. I ended that quickly.
Hes the one who got me drinking at 15 years old. I've struggled myself since.
Right. I can probably finally clean up.
No, that's what the friend was saying.
I think many of us are in the same boat of shrinking social circles. Most of the people in mine are liberals and this has been an astounding period of personal awakening for me, a time to reassess my relationships. With all my friends, I've told them that they are not to say anything derogatory about Trump or I'll leave (if we're together) or hang up (if we're talking on the phone). Most tried, found out I wasn't idly threatening and learned to behave if they wanted to continue our friendship.
Like you I don't take kindly to anyone being condescending towards me and have turned my back on a couple of them as a result. It's a strange circumstance to be in, really, knowing the reality and watching them embrace the lies - which would (and will if not stopped) lead to their demise. The smarmy ones telling me I'm "socially irresponsible" for not taking the death jab are mild versions, just annoying. Still, I find I'm in a strange emotional place knowing what's potentially in store for their health (despite my warnings which fell on their deaf ears and terrified, hostile psyches). I'm actually sad for them that they're so fearful and gullible, so easily manipulated, but I won't be anyone's verbal punching bag.
Meanwhile they're getting sick (cancers, severe skin issues including shingles, neurological issues and more) and some have died. They're forking money over to "Ukraine" and "climate change", parroting out the MSM narratives, just sliding further down into the abyss of deception.
It feels painful, in a sense, to lose these friendships, but the truth is that I no longer have much respect for these people in too many important ways. It's not even that we have differing opinions; it's that they refuse to listen, to learn, to even consider my warnings or perspectives. They've been trained like pavlovian dogs to reject anti-narrative information and they're obeying like good dogs.
I've never had more clarity in my entire life as I do right now and for this I thank God Almighty for shaking this world to separate me from those who I interact with. It's painful on some levels, freeing on more important ones. I have no intention of sliding down into their abyss with them, but will gladly offer a hand to help pull them out if they should ever truly awaken themselves.
Wheat from the tares, OP. God bless.
Thank you
Well said ThinQ
I have a Doomer friend, that will pull up ANY Doomer article on the Web to use in an argument against Q messaging, and is also a Die Hard "FAUX" watcher...Just listening to him is sad...their programming comes out in everything he says. To not damage the 32 year friendship, I either say "we will have to wait to the end to find out" OR I will be here for you in the end...IF you have any questions.
I cant talk to these people anymore. My patience is gone. Either your on our side or your not. That's it for me these days. I've drawn a hard line.
I agree GLP...enough evidence is out there!
I have a friend like that too. I told her, "I promise I won't mock you when the truth comes out. I'll be supportive and answer your questions." Does that make me sound sanctimonious? (To use Trump's word)
Quser...Exactly..I told my friend the Same...!
Everything in our lives has a time span, duty, or lesson. When something happens to let us know that that part of our lives is over, then it is just that simple. This is how we grow, learn, expand, educate, broaden, and move forward. Nothing in our lives is meant to be forever. Even love changes. We may still love but it changes due to life. Everything has its season. Chapters of our life have to be closed so others may open. You cannot hold on to the old just because you might feel "obligated" or "feel a sense of duty". It is sometimes a good thing to let go of things that can or will hold us back. Sometimes there is a great relief and release when we let some things go. Hold onto the most important and beneficial things, and cherish them.
Yes. Well said. I felt obligated for a long time to be his friend. He once said without me he would kill himself. That's abusive talk if you ask me.
You did what you could, yep time to go. People are like trampolines, you need more than one leg to hold someone up or you get crushed.
True Patriots applaud you.
Dead weight. He'll regret he ever mocked you one day. He'll see the truth.
Also Walsh is a CUCK
Walsh is definitely a cuck.
Vindication is a dish best served warm.
Amen brother!
Decent people never mock their friends. You lost nothing of value.
He’s allowed to have those opinions, and I’m not sure how hard he was mocking you, but this seems like an over reaction on your part. Not worth ending a 30 year friendship over. Man, I’m holding onto relationships with a bunch of brainwashed Marxists because we’re friends and I want to help them. I’d kill to have a conservative friend that was into Walsh.
If the midterms are stolen I’ll be screaming along with you
I've ended a friendship with a diehard Democrat, not because he's a Democrat, but because he's entirely brainwashed by the MSM. I just don't respect him anymore.
Same, I dont respect this guy anymore. Too much brainwashing.
Better it be a friend over a retarded commie half brother.
All you can do is tell them what you see. You cannot open their eyes for them.
I did this to my teenage daughter, I know I'm an asshole, trust me. You her mother let her take 3 doses of the clot shot, I was probably channeling my anger. Even though the law says I have equal rights....
Thank you. Your right.
Great analogy Anon. And I def agree we are many years ahead of the brainwashed. I am still amazed at how ppl like us can see so clearly and right through msm bs while others still have their heads in the sand !
Thank you
I assume there’s much more to it than what you’ve posted . Otherwise, it would be completely stupid to ruin a long term friendship over Q or even politics.
We have a couple of conservative friends who have approached US to ask what Q is "really about." I was flabbergasted, especially after we've lost numerous friends/relatives to the fucking COVID bullshit (yes, we've refused any shots up to this point, and will continue to). It's quite a responsbility...to summarize and share numerous years of Q drops in a logical and sensible fashion for folks who truly want to understand.
Very understated. It’s really really difficult!
There’s really no reason for you to sever a 25 to 30 year friendship over Q anon, and Trump. That just seems ridiculous to me. There’s always gonna be people in our lives and around the world that think differently than us. I hope that you can think about remedying the situation, and just getting together but the topic of politics would be not allowed. I’ve recently been reunited with my daughter after an entire year of her not speaking to me because of Trump. We finally got past politics, and our relationship is better than ever.
I have a close friend that pretty much only listens to Ben Shapiro and we’ve been down a similar route.
I have been going back and forth with him for almost 3 years with a couple of times ending in yelling and bad feelings.
At this point it no longer matters to me that he holds similar understandings as I because “Nothing Can Stop What Is Coming”!
I have a feeling after this election and after the truth starts to be known your friend will come back with an apology. Q and the anons are saving our country. Thank you all!
Anger has a sacred purpose. It alerts us to transgressions, and I've seen nothing that tells us that we need to allow ourselves to be abused by ANYONE.
Embrace Sovereignty (great T-shirt)
I cut my in-laws out- wish I had done it years ago. It's the low grade gnawing of dysfunction that drones on that needs purged.... then you realize how bad the effects really were over time. I've been so relieved...... that I'll never have to deal with them again. Paul talks about shaking the dust off your sandals with regard to some people... it's not unChristian, it's healthy.
Keep him around. The I-told-you-sos will be glorious.
Hahaha
There is no Qanon🙄 theres Q and theres Anons... its my belief that Q got infiltrated and the QAnon was started....just my theory tho...
...he was not a ' friend ', only an acquaintance
Bartender, I’ll have one of what he is drinking!
I unfriended an old college friend after the 2020 election. No contact at all. Her children also stopped all contact with her. Radical leftists are crazy. She is on total government aid. Everything im her life is free.
"Man throws a temper tantrum and seeks validation."
I didnt throw a temper tantrum. I yelled some facts loudly at him and made him leave my life.
My guy, facts? You're both wrong lol
We don't "win" anything by getting angry or sewing division.
Love is the only way.
You conquered a Vampire.
Men often keep bad companions in their lives for too long, thinking they can handle them. And they do handle them until they hit a precipice. No cops involved?? Your victory was very successful. 👍
Yes, you nailed it. Conquered a vampire is right. Clings to me. I have so much good in my life and he destroyed all his. He sucks my life for himself. It's odd, everytime he comes around my wife and I start to fight. It's very odd.