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GodFirstBro_ 3 points ago +3 / -0

This would honestly be the simplest answer

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GodFirstBro_ 3 points ago +3 / -0

My husband fell asleep lol

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GodFirstBro_ 3 points ago +3 / -0

He had that eye roll like a twelve year old girl

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GodFirstBro_ 3 points ago +3 / -0

He unraveled as it went on

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GodFirstBro_ 3 points ago +3 / -0

I would throw a party for this. And I hate parties. So that's saying something.

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GodFirstBro_ 3 points ago +3 / -0

The second I stopped using everything on my face, my skin became what I wish I'd had as a teenager. Even down to washing with just plain warm water(face only. On body, ayurvedic soap).

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GodFirstBro_ 3 points ago +3 / -0

Yeah it is. Wish I could say it's all roses...it's mostly thorns right now. Without my faith I wouldn't be here at all. Just keep on keeping on. God bless y'all.

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GodFirstBro_ 2 points ago +2 / -0

Tyvm...

He does get vitamins though probably not enough...his multiple strokes left multiple problems, including dietary aversions...I've offered a vitamin and he refuses bc "too many pills already" and he gets very testy. But he does love v8 so I try to sneak that in under the umbrella of 'better-than-none'.

Back when he turned type 2...prolly 6 years or so ago...we were juicing. Green drink. Lots of vitamins in that. But his stomach started fighting back...it's a ton of roughage. So I doubt he'll do that again lol but I just try to sneak it into what food he'll eat

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GodFirstBro_ 1 point ago +1 / -0

I have always bought doritos....hubby has dementia and a poor appetite, so ya do what you can. Used to be if I forgot to put them away, I'd come and find the dogs had ripped up the bag and eaten every crumb. Now, in perfect timing, hubby won't eat them, and neither will the dogs. Sign enough for me something has gotten trashier with the trash chips...no heartbreak here at $6/ bag. But it's alarming when even a blue heeler won't touch them.

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GodFirstBro_ 3 points ago +3 / -0

De nada. I don't know how it would be unrelated...just my opinion. The dark forces are involved in all these subjects, marriage and family are the most important on this earth. Personal awakenings, global awakenings. They all matter a whole lot.

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GodFirstBro_ 2 points ago +2 / -0

You're right hun...drinking doesn't solve anything, and fwiw there's a reason they call it the devil's juice and "spirits". If you two are always with the kid, then you need to find a sitter. Once a week, once every two weeks, something. "Us time" is so crucial. Real time. Having fun, getting dinner, some activity, but in that time there should be real conversation about "us". Your willingness to change is great. I hope she has that as well. But be mindful not to change everything about yourselves. There was something that kept you together all this time. Something bigger than a kid. Openly talk about your faith. Your goals. What you want the next ten, twenty, fifty years to look like with her, and even just for yourself. When you're on your death bed, what do you want to look back on? I want my memories to have him in them. That's me. And if that's you about her, tell her.

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GodFirstBro_ 4 points ago +4 / -0

Fwiw I doubt this is permanent. My husband and I went thru something like this. A few really rough years. I went from feeling everything, to feeling nothing, to bouncing back and forth. Spent alot of time thinking he didn't understand me at all. Wanted to leave many times, found interest in others, same things you're describing even with the kids. I hate to be the one, but my personal issues were rooted in a few things: ignoring my faith, taking prescribed head meds, and prior abuse issues unresolved. I think there's hope for you but its gonna be work. If she can get off the head meds, that would be a bonus. Natural solutions. They all take time. It takes a couple yrs to get the head meds out of the system. Prior emotional issues: LOTS OF TALKING. Interest in other ppl: GET IN HER FACE. Show her who you are, what you are. Don't back down. Don't be nasty. But DON'T back down. More than likely, some guy hit on her. She's vulnerable, and it turned her head. I'm praying for you, sweetheart. This isn't over yet. Stay in her face.

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GodFirstBro_ 2 points ago +2 / -0

On the subject of religion: my own opinion as a Christian; these all seem to be grouped together so that a person won't fear the consequences of his/her actions. There has to be cause and effect.an eye for an eye is real. It's here every day. If you kill a man, you'll pay one way or another. While I don't KNOW what hell literally entails(never been there, hope not to visit) , if one believes there is meat to the commandments, and I certainly do, then one would have to believe there is a punishment for crimes against the almighty. Not the same as the irs, school, gubbmint. The heart knows what 'is' and what 'shouldn't '.

God bless.

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GodFirstBro_ 12 points ago +12 / -0

Well, some tout him as the modern David, appointed by the Almighty. None of us can know for sure, but the Spirit is palpable in this age.

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GodFirstBro_ 3 points ago +3 / -0

Shit I thought it said migraine crime lol

I've probably committed a few of those

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