I have been coaching people on this for years.

Rule #1: not everything you discover or understand needs to be shared with your wife.

Your job is to bank information, and as she awakens, support her in that process.

Trust me when I tell you this. Many marriages/relationships have gone South bc of oversharing.

My recommendation is occasional red pills but nothing extreme at first. Drip drip not flood.

My wife was basically a passive liberal before she met me (not radical thank goodness), but over the years a combination of me dropping more and more serious things in passing combined with watching the craziness of the trump bashing era, Covid, and tranny movement and all of that has fully opened her eyes.

I hear even her more radical sister and her independent type friends talking about how insane the target tranny thing is and how offensive fake periods and all of that are and the weird grooming stuff.

It’s gotten so crazy they will get red pilled quickly and put the pieces together with the content and news they consume all day.

Now she is a trump voting conservative who basically despises all things liberal and we are vax free and with a happy healthy pure blood 19 month old boy.

Wife here. When I first started sharing these stories, my husband was like "No way! Show me the proof!" .... And because anons are awesome.....there was proof. He doesn't ask as much now (rarely). I wouldn't say he's fully awake- but definitely more than he used to be.

Same thing with my wife. conservative BUT, " I don't want to hear all that wild stuff, I just can't believe they would create Lyme disease."

I've been very lucky in that regard. My wife is conservative and listens to what I talk about, but rarely comments. But I've heard her pass along what I've said. She's as disgusted as I am.

First off the " Conspiracy Theorist " label was created by the CIA to shame people who see thru the bs. It is NOT a derogatory term as many have made it out to be. It is a badge of honor and that statement is and will continue to age like fine wine.

I would wear that shit with pride because our true reality is being hid from us in all ways and yes that makes it " a conspiracy ". It is all criminal, connected, widespread, etc. So conspiracy is actually the perfect term. The only difference in " conspiracy theory " and truth is ... time.

Normies be thinking only some gov is corrupt. Now they see gov as a whole is corrupt, education, health "care ", science, justice system, elections, etc. It can all be corrupted and is. How is that not a conspiracy ?

With that said perhaps u can use that point. How many things did you or your wife did not even contemplate years ago that eventually u learned of and it turned out to be true over just the last 7 years even ? Surely she is more awake now than pre - Trump.

Tell her her awakening will continue regardless if she wants it to. The world will change around her and unless she chooses to be blind she will see it in every facet of her life. Look at how our lives changed from Trump to bidan.

This will be long, but I want to give u hope and possibly some tips on how things went for me. It took me a long time to fully wake up my wife. I didn't force it, but I planted many seeds as often as I could. I did it in stages and realized early on I could only do so much myself. U can't rush or force someone to digest info they are not ready to receive.

Getting back to " the world will change around her ". My wife was well on her way making progress year by year but was fast tracked when epstein island broke into mainstream normie consciousness.

She remembered I told her about honeypots, how the " elites " view children, how pols are controlled, etc. It's not that she did not believe me initially, but she did not want to hear it. Who would ? It is painful and you're nearly helpless to stop it so I don't blame anyone really. However denial and silence definitely helps facilitate it.

With 1 big red pill she instantly started thinking about other " crazy shit " I've told her about. It opened the door to everything else. Then here comes chivi hoax, the vax attacks, lockdowns, fires everywhere, attacks on food and water, stolen 2020 election, pedo grooming everywhere, and on it goes. And just like that, everything I've ever told her was being laid out there in crayon and it was NOT coming from me. She did not even have to go looking for it. She was being surrounded by it.

Nearly everywhere she looked she was seeing things align with what I had been saying. Suddenly an insane world was beginning to make sense to her. I honestly cried like a proud father holding my first born when she started informing me of shit. She was not asking me what's going on. She was putting shit together on her own. We've never been closer. I Thank God Every Single Day for that, because as u all know being awake is damn near solitary confinement and I've been in this game a very long time. I am Grateful because she is a much stronger woman and much harder to trick. It warms my cockles to know that she will be a little safer out in the wild.

So to u fren please do not lose hope. She will get there in time and for the first time in our lives we have help. There are some pols, actors, producers, musicians, scientists, doctors, teachers, CEO's, soccer moms, etc. in nearly every trade ( blue collar & white collar ) and walk of life spitting truths. There have been a big influx of truthers dropping bombs on everyone in every angle of our lives. This will definitely continue. NCSWIC.

This way the entire " conspiracy " is told and it covers as many people in all walks of life as possible. This is very important because IT OPENS DOORS. U can only open the door. They are the ones who must walk thru it.

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My wife went from accepting epstein island, to child trafficking is an industry, to many rich, famous, and respected people are actually legit evil, to the citizenry purposely being made sick, poison in food and water, realizing chivi was fake, vaccines are dangerous, hospitals, doctors, & nurses can very dangerous and regularly kill, msm are paid liars, elections are fake, the just " us " system is only to keep us in check, the education system is actually an indoctrination system, false flags exist & can easily be sold as real to control, the pedo norming, herd mentality and group think, bots & algos controlling thoughts, fake internet people, weaponized TV, and all the rest of it.

At first it was like a cracked leaky dam, but slowly but surely more cracks appeared and eventually just a full on tsunami. No going back after that. Once out of the box. No one goes back into the box. So that is great news for u. U only have to do this once.

I better stop now. This is already a crazy long rant but in closing be patient, plant seeds, especially when current topics align with your desired message at that time. Some of us have had a long time to dig and confirm all of these revelations ( easier to accept hard truths w/ time ) while many are just noob normies and out of nowhere this tsunami of red pills is thrusted upon them. People are genuinely good hearted and want to see the good in people, so it's quite shocking to view & accept our true reality when you have never used your eyes before.

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Keep score. Not in a vindictive way, but when u are proven right u need to let her know. There is so much info flying around even our GA clan cannot even get it all. So when ur basically proven correct let her know in some way. Even if u don't say it. U could send the article, video, etc.

Obviously don't gloat, but it's important, again ... it can open doors. No one comes home on a Fri, digs the weekend, and believes true reality on Monday. How do u eat an elephant ?

Small steps Ellie.

Sorry so long. I lost track just keyboard mashin.

I'm a woman, and I think I got lucky. I started listening to Alex Jones and Art Bell in my teens, so I was always open to the "conspiracy" world and knew about the lies of the mainstream media from a young age. My maternal grandparents hated the government because the feds stole their land, and my paternal grandparents were big Kennedy fans but hated a lot about the Democrats in general. My family never encouraged me to love my government, only to love my country.

When I met my husband in my late twenties, what brought us together was our distrust of the government, our mutual appreciation for Ron Paul, our openness to each other's "conspiracy" theories, and the rest of our core values, including that neither one of us is ever offended by much. As time has gone on and the world is quickly approaching the end as we know it, I consider myself very lucky to have found a mate who doesn't think I'm insane for what I know to be true. He doesn't follow Q like I do and doesn't participate on the board, but he always asks me what's new here and doesn't mind when I wear my Q buttons to events or when I'm just cutting the grass. He believes that there is a white hat operation to bring down the cabal and that's all that matters. Well, that and that he supports our true POTUS 100%. Not sure I could stay with someone who didn't support POTUS at this point in history.

OP, if your wife is conservative and loves POTUS, consider yourself lucky, too. If you push your other ideas on her and she's not receptive and won't discuss it, it's likely to create resentment over time. And there's really no need to do it, in my opinion. If she supports POTUS, she's halfway there. The rest will become clear enough...and very soon, I believe. There's nothing you need to do but watch the truth unfold along with her. She will see it.

My mom is awake to pretty much everything, while my dad loves Trump but chose to get vaccinated and doesn't believe in most of the "fringe" ideas. But when he saw The Sound of Freedom, it had a huge effect on him. I think he's slightly more open to these ideas now. Different events will wake up different people, and some people may not wake up until the final act. It's not for us to decide or to judge, but to be supportive when we can.

Ruby ridge was shared with me first and that woke me up. It was my spouse that told me and we were just dating at the time. Any women will wake up after hearing about an actual event (well covered- proven in court even) where the government did a crime as horrible as ruby ridge.. like A wife being murdered in front of her family holding her baby after her son was murdered by the government. That's a horrific wake up for a wife and mother. Even for a man just trying to live his life and having his family murdered around him.

Shows how the ABC agency tried to manipulate people and go after them if they do not comply to their demands...a fight for freewill and what they will do.

The Weaver family and Harris both filed civil suits against the federal government in response to the firefight and the siege. In August 1995, the Weavers won a combined out-of-court settlement of $3.1 million; Harris was awarded a $380,000 settlement in September 2000

Is your wife my husband? 😆 He is on the same wavelength as she; Conservative, but not willing to cross a certain line if it is anywhere near a "fringe" theory. We were one for one on Covid. He and I could talk all day about the corruption in our media and health industry just fine... But the minute The Ukraine became a target for Russia, he bought the media lies hook, line and sinker. When I asked why the hell he believed the crooked media after they lied for 2 years straight about Covid, he really didn't have an answer; he only said it sounded like I was sympathizing with Putin. It was very frustrating for me, but he eventually came around on Ukraine when I showed him fake war footage that was coming out of our junk news.

People go to extremes on both sides. Even here. You have to judge and use discernement on everything. Even here is an echo chamber and full of disinformation. So your wife is ok to be cautious buying every word.

You can lead a horse to water...

In the same boat. I just drop breadcrumbs here and there and let her figure things out as events unfold. 5 years ago I told her about the severity of human trafficking and I received the similar “Ok….”. A month ago she asked me to see Sound of Freedom.

Everyone wakes at their own pace. You cannot force it.

I’m a wife who successfully redpilled her husband. Just drop little information nuggets here and there, ask open ended questions and let her think it through. Nothing extreme. Just a slow drip.

My hubs still watches fox. I have refused since election night. He will share something reported, and since I read up on the topic two weeks earlier here, I kinda cut him off and tell him when it's bs and why. He got tired of having to ask me to explain stuff all the time and got his own account here. But it's been a long process. I just act like I don't care what he does or does not know...

My wife and I were, a few years ago, both associated with a major University, an epicenter of propaganda. I no longer am (how could I be?). She still is. She is constantly being fed the "woke" and communist narrative. When I was first beginning to realize that we live in The Matrix, I couldn't stop trying to red-pill her. She came to almost hate me. She threatened to leave me often, proclaiming that the person she loved was gone; she had "lost me to conspiracy theories."

It wasn't that I had changed all that much in my views. For example, I've always been against the "wokeness" campaign that was raging through the campus. I recognized it as some sort of "strange social brainwashing thing," even though I thought it was organic at the time. But I was a lot more easy going about it before. Then, upon awakening, I realized it was an actual contrived step designed to lead us to our doom. I began to fight against it with her, trying to get her to see that it was contrived, along with all the other brainwashing things I saw.

I fought with her over the vaccine, tooth and nail, but during the battle I realized she had to make her own decisions. That was a part of my awakening as well. Each person is Sovereign; they are the Ultimate Authority in their own life. That MUST BE respected, 100%, all of the time. This helped me come to another realization. Her awakening, if it comes, must come on her own terms. It doesn't matter if she understands that we live in an illusory world. She will either come to appreciate it, or she won't. It's her life. It's my job to help her live her best life. That means appreciating wherever she is in her life at any one moment. I don't need her to believe anything.

Having said that, if the vaccine comes up again, I am going to force her to read everything (I already did, but it didn't work before. I have a whole lot more ammunition now though). Outside of something that is literally death in a syringe however, I'm done with trying to get her to see. If the Q plan works, and is at it suggests it is, she will see. She already does see quite a bit. She even told me a couple weeks ago (I'm paraphrasing), "Maybe there is a conspiracy that is trying to take over the world, I don't care. I'm going to pretend that there isn't, because it makes me feel better."

It's not necessarily the most enlightened view ever, but we live in BLUE PILL CENTRAL, inundated with propaganda all day long, every day, and she is still seeing and admitting that the world is not what it pretends, even if she is still afraid to investigate it herself.

My advice is, don't worry about it. If the Q plan works, it's gonna work out just fine. You do you. Let your wife be herself. She doesn't need to believe anything. Just help her live her best life within the framework of what she has and is right now.

I have the opposite problem. My wife buys into the majority of the narrative that everything is insane and digs everything I share with her. The problem comes when we get together with friends and family and my wife goes to these people who are not awake and then drops the most questionable pieces that I share with her - like Biden being CGI - head disappearing etc.

Then everyone immediately thinks we are nuts.

Wife here. I'm extremely lucky in that my husband is on the exact same page as me. I influenced his awakening, mainly by reading stuff from this site (I discovered it after the election), but I didn't have to try hard at all, because he is able to make the same connections as me, see the missing pieces in official narratives, and analyze things. We are both research machines. We never run out of things to talk about in our house, and some of our discussions go on for hours, throwing out theories, analyzing different viewpoints, etc. Neither of us were political when we met, so I'd say for the most part, we've made this journey together.

Interesting post. While the marriage aspect of your “dilemma” certainly has it’s particular challenges, getting ANYONE to come around and see the light is often an uphill battle.

A couple things I’ve found that seem to move the needle a bit have more to do with getting them to notice things. Stay at the 40K heights and don’t get into the associated conspiracies, but flag some BS for her and see if she catches on.

Does she read cooking magazines? Flip through one and count the pharma ads for her, remarking how I bet more people would like to have had more recipes or food-based articles than ten pharma ads, how magazines used to have more subject matter and less ads. Pick out one of the pharma ads online that doesn’t actually tell you what the med does (I saw a new one of these recently) and remark “Do people actually go to their doctor and ask them if they should be taking the purple pill - having no idea WTH it’s for!?” Leave it as a question to your wife. She’ll start noticing pharma ads are everywhere and perhaps start thinking about this.

A close friend who’s into the “clymate change” hoax (misspelling intentional) has now started commenting about the ridiculous dramatic music the weather channel plays when there’s an upcoming rainstorm, this after I went on a mocking rant about how they’re pushing fear porn constantly and was there any real reason why they just can’t tell us the particulars about the storm without all the doomsday music. Make your wife notice the subtle ways the media is manipulating people without going into the details of who’s doing it and why they’re doing it.

Or how about “I want to know how a congresswoman making $125K yearly salary can, just five years later, afford a $4M home! (Use actual numbers; I’m just pulling these out of thin air as an example). I should’ve been a politician!” Or “Look at this article on the price of XYZ drug! Wow! Well, I suppose they have to recoup some losses from when they were fined millions for that ABC drug that paralyzed several people. How do people afford it?” Or “Wow! The NIH didn’t require it’s employees to take the vax. That’s strange, in a sense…” (NIH? CDC? Both? I don’t remember).

We notice a whole ton of things that others don’t and we retain a lot over time, too. Train others to notice. Train them to consider the importance of certain info and to keep it in mind (like pharma-induced injuries and deaths). Once they lose trust in these propagandists, they’ll be more open to hearing about the actual conspiracies behind them. Just my two cents…

It goes the other way too. My significant other (because I won’t get married again) is ultra conservative but he gives me the same “ok _____” response when I try to talk about anything that is not main stream. I don’t understand how so many can be half awake at this point. Is it true fear that they don’t want to confront? It not gender specific by any stretch! I have several female friends in the same place I am.

As a woman (yeah, I know you only asked for male input) who didn’t pick well, I ended up divorced. However, I was free to chart my own course & fortunately follow my based political leaning. I always used to tell friends that all the good men were already married. Now it seems like the field is opening up. Kek

Could you watch some mainstream Hollywood movies that reveal historical corruption, lies, and conspiracies from the past? Like say Quiz Show by Robert Redford, about how the TV quiz shows in the ‘50s were rigged? There are all kinds of movies and TV shows out there that show shadowy, powerful people behind the scenes pulling the strings, and usually there is some hero trying to expose it. Those would seem pretty safe to me.

I am truly blessed with a wonderful husband who was easy to redpill. He knew things weren’t adding up. I shared with him in early 2018 that I had been following Q. He took it very well and began asking “what did he drop today?” and we would discuss. When the plandemic came along, he said something didn’t smell right. We were two of 4 people in our large church who refused to take the arm tickets and we have been gone from there for two years now. He had been there for thirty years. We’re better prepared for what’s coming than anyone I know and we’re both prepared to help in supplies as well as information. We’re struggling with our boys who think we’re a bit crazy to be honest, but when shtf we’ll be there for them. It’s so much easier when your spouse is on board with you.

Similar problem here, but my wife just blocks everything political now, her argument is always the same: "since the beginning of time politicians lie, I do not want to hear anything anymore! Take care of your own life and stay away from this swamp!" I can understand its been toomuch and too long and she needs a brake. I once replied that if I was not digging for truth all those years, we both would have been vaccined and dead by now! ( She agreed! oofff! KEK)

I've backed off a lot from discussing lots of details unless my wife brings it up, and even then I let her furnish the details.

It seems that, once primed, you need to let nature run its course. Nature abhors a vacuum, so if she knows this stuff is going and and you stop providing details, there's a good chance she'll start telling you stuff.

At this point your job is totally done and your wife is an anon in her own right, whether she knows it or not :)

When my wife started watching Louder With Crowder all on her own, I knew we were going to be okay.

The good people playing along with the show are confusing my wife. I keep having to unwind her.

I'm in total opposite. I'm the woman, I'm the slightly crazy one 🤣😅🙈 Probably half legit to be honest ...... BUT back to the point. I think give it time . . . Keep planting seeds, and unfortunately ME saying something sounds nuts yet report it with MSM saids .... And it's starts being accepted moreso. Eg woolworths supermarket in Australia are now talking about trialling digital IDs in store. Eg don't scan ya shit, doors don't open when you leave. People can't wrap their head around the idea that tech can "figure this out"

Luckily my Wife is very open minded, and really has seen enough to consider just about ANY possibility. Having said that, I have seen some of my Conservative family members only able to take baby steps in the wake up process. Like I can literally see the Mental struggle to accept what is going on, and then a lot of the times they take a step back. It is a scary process for most, just like the Matrix, it is their comfort reality. I do believe the "Scare Event" is going to be a bitch for these folks..

Wife here.

First of all, be thankful for the compatibility in political views.

Secondly, are you trying to "tell" her what to believe or think? In which case, she is left with either having to accept it as truth (which might be too much too soon) or doing the "OK, _______" as a defense.

If this resonates with you, try this. Hey, honey, listen to this. Then relate the news article. Then ask, what do you think? Listen and consider what she is stating. Then, follow it up by asking why. See it from her pov.

Next, you get to share what you think and why. What is your rationale for believing/disbelieving the article? Choose supporting rationale that you both agree upon where ever possible (e.g. corruption in politics) so that she can see your line of thinking.

Bring her into your world of thought.

The important part is you are doing this together.

Married 52 years. Some random thoughts:

Are you having conversations, lectures, or sales talks? Who’s interrupting whom—and how much? Does the one who asks a question wait for and actually explore the answer?

These things are worth noticing and adjusting if they don’t feel right between you.

PS I’m a wife who responded to humor and logic. Still do.

Here's my suggestion. Don't try to talk her into anything...but do try to talk her out of what she thinks.

“When you have eliminated all which is impossible, then whatever remains, however improbable, must be the truth.” ― Arthur Conan Doyle, The Case-Book of Sherlock Holmes

I always make fun of what the media/govt. is trying to sell, and how ridiculous it is! The media is the ones trying to sell a conspiracy theory. Remember Obamas chef drowning. Immediately they just started saying what they thought the sheep would buy. "He didn't know how to swim!" Not true.

One more thing, put Rumble on your tv set. Turn on things like "and we know" or "scotty mar 10. They have a lot of stuff that is pretty hard to ignore.

My wife was like this for about 10 years, and then there was a sudden awakening. Sometimes it doesn't take telling them or bombarding them. Sometimes there needs to be small seeds planted

I’ve been pretty awake since 2013 and used to get the same treatment. The COVID bullshit woke her right the fuck up! Now she’s the one questioning the moon landing and everything in between.

If the COVID bullshit didn’t flip a switch, I don’t know what will.

I had the occasion to meet men who were doing work on my house. Every now and then certain comments were made hinting to me they were bible-based preppers. So I would add a little bit here and that brought on discussions.

One man said he and others believe tribulation is very near and thats why they are trying to protect their families. Wifey complains he's buying too many groceries then ends it with 'I dont want to hear about this end of the world stuff'. I suggested they back off a bit and say (which is just as true) prices are always going up so its safe to store extras now while we can. That was easier for her to swallow. I expect now with grocery prices so high she'd be happy he did.

My suggestions would be 1-never force a conversation, 2-drop hints on a topic and depending on the response walk away. That gives her time to think. 3-its better if wifey asks the question instead of you. 4-appreciation and confirmation wont be immediate but when it comes youre a hero.