Hello all, I wanted to start by saying I am not in any way a major contributor to greatawakening.win but it has been my main source of news and information since the end of Trump's first term. I lurk more than anything but this community has provided me with so much hope I want to thank every single one of you with all my heart.
Now to the main reason for this post... My wife of 7 almost 8 years drove herself and our 4 children out to visit her sister in Iowa whom just welcomed her 2nd child. My wife left on 6/23 and arrived late at night on 6/25. I spoke with her and the kids here and there every day during their trip out. Around 4 pm on 6/26 I received a frantic and troubling phone call from my sister-in-law who stated she found my wife unresponsive in bed after laying down for a nap. My sister-in-law found 6 empty bottles of meds near her. Oxycodone, hydrocodone, cyclobenzaprine, Advil, Tylenol, and a high strength prescription acetaminophen along with a brief and criptic suicide note. She had to be care-flighted out to UI Hospital. The soonest I could get out there was the following day, I arrived at the hospital around 11 pm and was floored by what I saw. She has been intubated and has more IVs and tubes hooked up to her than I have ever seen on somebody. Nothing could have prepared me for this and I never thought she was capable of such an act. She has had her fair share of struggles in the past but holds herself very well, maybe too well... She has gotten better since I initially arrived. The biggest concern was the Tylenol. From what I was told she arrived with elevated levels in her system between 750 and 800, not exactly sure what that means but it's not good. When I arrived to the hospital her levels were 100 but they wanted to see it down to 50, again not too sure what the number represents but she has been showing progress. The kidney doctor was satisfied with the levels she showed this morning and they have since gotten her off dialysis, removed an IV or 2, and is on a less intense sedative, not sure exactly which one but she is still intubated as she still has some trouble breathing on her own. The staff have been working with her and encouraging her to breath on her own as she is mostly conscious but still not strong enough to do it herself without being verbally told to breath. They are going to see if she can take to breathing without aid either later today or tomorrow but want to let the new sedative cycle through her system a little longer as they think the first sedative was making her fall in and out of consciousness too much causing the breathing issues.
Sorry for the long read, I know this stuff happens everyday and my experience isn't unique but other than friends and family I don't use social media to express my woes. This community is something special and is a major part of my life as it gives hope a faith and that is exactly what my family and I need right now.
-Cheers and God Bless o7
Dear Heavenly Father this family is in serious need of your healing hands and guidance. Place your loving arms around this family as they heal. Help his wife fight the demons that brought her to this point. Let her find You Heavenly Father and her way in happiness each day forward.
In your sons name Jesus Christ.
Amen.
Amen
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Amen!
Oh man, I'm so sorry to hear this. It's obvious she needs help and pray she can get it after this event. Praying for you and your family, fren.
π Many prayers. π
Obviously she's kept her troubles bottled up for a long time. From what you've said it appears that she'll pull through, with God's help. The physical healing will happen with time and should be a total healing if she can manage a basic health discipline. The tougher part is getting to the source of her desperation that she didn't confide in you or her sister, and resolving that. But with God's help, it is possible.
I'll pray that God handles that part and makes it easy for all of you, and brings you all through your current troubles to a happier state. God bless.
Prayers up.
Praying for you and for her. The spirit of despair and sucide is coming at many and a lot of people I know have had close calls. Remind her that things will be hard for a time but ultimately she will look back and be very glad she is here. Get her the help she needs that is no joke. Physically nurse the liver it can and will regenerate but it takes time. My son had a liver injury from cancer treatment and we use Palo Azul tea and NAC. This is important and will help on all levels. I am so sorry for both of you. I canβt help but wonder if something in her family of orgin or that town since she was there may be causing her additional stress or unresolved trauma. No accusing but perhaps something she needs to know can be faced and overcome and wonβt be a lifelong hurt. Sorry if I overstep. No judgement and only prayers.
Thanks for the advice on the tea, she has been on NAC since Friday when she arrived. My mom suggested hibiscus tea as well.
Excellent suggestion both wonβt hurt her they target different cells. PAL Azul looks like wood chips boil in as low oxygen as you can tight lid boil the fool out of it. When it is ready it looks blueish on the surface. It is also excellent for the kidneys. It can be a little earthy or bitter so here honey or sugar might help at first and itβs worth the sugar hit. Praying for yall
ππππππ. Prayers up!
Not a psychiatrist, but right after I prayed the word trapped popped into my head. I have no idea if it applies at all in her mind.
I feel you are correct so I prayed about this
Silent prayers for her and you and your family.
Dear fren,
May your wife make a full recovery from this overdose and may she find peace of mind, meaning and hope.
For you and your family and all the others affected by this, may you have the strength that you need to get through this phase and incur as little damage as possible.
Man, I hope things improve for you all!
I am very sorry for you and your family, especially your children. Sending out prayers.
Send her back, dear God, so she may find healing here so she can find the joy of returning with a clean and free spirit though the salvation given us by Jesus Christ.
Amen
Amen!
Amen!
Prayers going out for you and your wife. May she heal up both inside and out and eventually you will both have to come to terms with her suicide attempt. May you both get the help you need to work through her issues. God bless.
Terrible, I will pray for her and your family πππ
prayers for you & for her physical and emotional healing, that will be able to feel and receive the love & care from you and her sister and whole family
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Many prayers for her and you plus your precious family. May she come thru all of this.. Sending lots of love and I place all of you in God's hands..
Praying hard for you and your family.
ALWAYS feel free to lean on your GAW frens.
Yes, I ask for prayer here too. I know these folks are serious.
Prayer warriors!
I'll pray for you too!
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Dear Heavenly Father, let your love for this family be manifest in all ways. Please send healing of heart, soul, body, & mind to this beloved wife/mother/sister and all who love her. Let her rest assured that "neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation can seperate her from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus." (Romans 8:39 BSB) Your love endures forever. Please shower her with this love. Let her know you sent your son, Jesus, to atone for her sins so that she may live. (1 John 4:9-10) You knew this event would happen, and you loved her enough to show her your forgiveness through Jesus that she could know that you love her. Jesus did not come into the world to condemn us, but that all might believe in forgiveness through him & be saved. (John 3:17) Father, she & her loved ones are going to need a lot of help to get through what happened. Please provide all the people & resources they each need. Guide them in your Word to find the hope you have provided. Lead them to a church home that can be the haven they need to heal and learn more about you every day. Let her see you at work in her life & learn to trust you as you lead her from this dark place & onto the path you have for her. I ask all this in Jesus' Mighty name & to your glory. Amen.
Amen.
That is beautiful and says it all! Amen!
Amen.
Prayers up.
I have just sent her, her children, her sister and you - a strong, positive intention, (rapid healing session) and surrounded her with a circle of white light.
I hope it helps.
πGod please intervene π
Amen.
Prayers going out for you, your wife, your children and all your loved ones. TRUTH is our salvation, God bless you all in this most trying time.
Praying now!!
So sorry to hear this, really hard place to be in. May you put your faith in Him to guide your family through this dark time. I also pray if your wife does not know Him that the Lord may open her heart to receive Him. If she does know Him I pray she puts her faith and trust in our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ to guide her through troubled waters
Keep fighting the good fight brother
Prayers sent π
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Praying in the name of the Way, the Truth, and the Life that your family comes to a greater understanding of God's tremendous Grace and healing power.
May He show you all how real His Love is.
I'm praying for your family. I pray for His peace poured out over you and your wife and children. I pray for her healing, spiritually, physically and emotionally. π
My prayers are with you and your wife BUT it is "EXTREMELY IMPORTANT"...
Please take care of her mental health and examine what the breakdown was...it is EXTREMELY IMPORTANT to find out the "WHY"!!!!!!!!
My prayers and MASS next Sunday will be for BOTH of you, and that you and d your wife also find peace!!!!!!!...GOD Bless@@@@@
Dear Lord, please lift this man and his wife up in their time of need. Let her know how much she is loved by her family and by you Lord. We pray in your son Jesusβs name- π Amen.
I'm sorry for you, your wife, children and the rest of your family. It's sounds positive on the physical side and with God's loving hand, she will have no lasting effects. The emotional part is very sad. I will pray for you all. May God bless you.π
Did they give her NAC? N-Acetyl Cysteine? It will rescue her liver. That is the immediate concern. I'm sorry to hear that and pray for her recovery, but there are deeper issues that she is going to need to face. I hope you can help her find a positive path forward and that she knows you love her.
Yes, she is still on Aceytl Cystine. They just did a lab and are sending it over to Toxicology to check the levels of the Tylenol to see if she still needs it.
God Bless you, your wife and your family. I hope your wife makes a full recovery.
If your sister-in-law found her and she was still breathing, she most likely didn't suffer an anoxic brain injury. If she is responding and following commands appropriately, you got very lucky, count your blessings.
The Tylenol is bad for your liver however; they can give her charcoal to absorb some of the medications she took, and something called acetylcysteine (Mucomyst) that will protect the liver.
She will just need time for all those drugs to clear her system and she should come off the ventilator without any issues. God bless you again!
I will be praying for you and your wife and children. I canβt help wondering if she has post partum depression.
π. Be careful. The medical community might do more to contribute to her death, than her apparent suicide attempt.
I am keeping a close eye on that. Her sister, the one that found her is a nurse and has been watching everything like a hawk. It's sad we actually have to think of this as a possibility when the medical community is involved...
Agreed. π
So sorry to hear this. I pray your wife makes a full recovery and finds the help she needs.
Prayed for you, the children but most of all for her. May God make her whole again mind body and soul. Bless you amen