Idk who she is, but to be honest I've held my babies in some interesting positions lol. Maybe she is trying to show off her body, but I don't see what the big deal is. I've held my kids like that for a minute, its not like she's holding him by his head....
At that age babies don’t have the neck muscles to support their heads, which puts a lot of pressure into their still developing spines. Admittedly, one pic isn’t close to the full story, but it’s not a good look either.
This is what she lets the world see. At this AGE her baby's comfort should be her primary concern, not showing off that she's ready to reproduce again.
Exactly. I wouldn’t be surprised if this is one of the first times she held the baby at all. I find a lot of parents like the attention that comes from having a new born, but like a puppy or kitten, once it’s no longer the cute baby, they loose interest. It’s really sad.
Meh. I don’t know who she is either. Nor do I care. But I don’t see an issue with this. But then again. I’m an 80’s kid. My partners swift Forearm to my chest was my seatbelt. We are a tad bit tougher then the average folks lol.
How in the hell does she look like that after a pregnancy? I don't see one stretch mark, not an ounce of extra weight? no c section scar either. Did she buy the kid and fake the pregnancy? Her boobs are even still perky. Man, some people have all the luck.
Drugs, more drugs, induced the baby early, started it on soy formula immediately so that her breasts would stop producing milk and her body stopped storing fat for the milk. Likely took some hormones to speed that along. Then works out with a personal trainer while someone else takes care of the child.
When you see a skinny new mom, don't think "Awe, she's so lucky!" Think, "she's raising her baby from a bottle for her own vanity." And when they are rich "someone else is raising the baby from a bottle."
I gained over 80 pounds when I was pregnant—and not by choice. Started at 125 and climbed well over 200. All this while working out, too. I ate a lot (not the healthiest diet) to counteract the constant nausea I had while preggers. Afterwards, I got my diet back on track. 13 years later, I'm a healthy 140, and work out 5-6 times a week. Losing the post-baby weight wasn't easy, but I did it.
She's seen nursing her son in other photos, also nursing mothers tend to snap back to their pre-baby bodies faster, and they burn more calories just by nursing.
I’ve had five kids and no stretch marks (I have a long torso, so I had extra space I guess, and stretchy skin), I workout regularly and stay in good shape.
For me it was all about getting back into it as soon as possible, not putting it off and letting the fat get all comfy.
It’s hard work and it bugs me when people say that I’m just lucky because I sweat my butt off for this.
My little ones like the gym too because they can play with the other kids their age.
Oh and breastfeeding! That helps get the body back quicker!
Your kids will have a good sense of taking care of themselves and exercising regularly, thus being healthier people, because you show them such a good example. Kudos to you!
Thank you! So far, my three teenagers are in great shape, all slender. Two are XC runners.
Hopefully it carries over to my two younger ones as well. We still eat yummy foods and have fun, we just try to be a little active.
If you have regular exercise in your life and continue those good habits, you can enjoy your food as well! Moderation is key, of course, but it sounds like you have it down pat! :) That's very inspiring.
Im a mother of two, youngest is 20 months old, an I'm still breastfeeding him. Breastfeeding makes you lose the baby weight fast. I have to eat lots of food to maintain my weight...
Also, I would never hold my baby like that especially at such a young age, when he's probably not developed enough to fully hold his head up...
That's not a real mom.. an what's with the ring she's showing off too?
Younger women are more elastic, some do get off fairly unscathed the first time. For the rest there are "mommy makeovers." Find a recent picture of Kris Jenner and ask how she can look like that after all her kids.
There’s a lot of judgement on this thread. I’m almost 40, no drugs, no surgery, good diet and exercise and I look like I’ve never had kids. I’ve had five, all full term.
Sure!! I can only say what has worked for me. I admit that it’s been more challenging since I’m close to 40. I had 3 kids in my 20s then two more after 35.
Breastfeeding helps a lot, it gets your uterus back down to its regular size quicker, plus you burn crazy calories!
Start working out now, even if it’s just walking. What you do pre-pregnancy can usually happen during the pregnancies, there are ladies at my gym who were running on the treadmill and weight training all the way until they gave birth. That will make it even easier to get back into good shape.
Remember that your body will be different, hips may be wider for example, but the fat- that can go!
Eat a healthy diet now and keep it going, consider it a change of lifestyle as opposed to a diet, which sounds temporary. Find healthy foods you actually enjoy, but you don’t have to be super strict, just reasonable. We’re not trying to win any competitions here :)
Find a gym with childcare. That was a requirement for me..otherwise I don’t know what I would do. It helps motivate me because the kids want to go play there. If you don’t have a gym, find a mom friend to walk or exercise with, so you have accountability. It’s easy to fall off, especially being a stressed out mama!
Prior to being pregnant, I was an avid gym goer. I even worked out while pregnant, too. I remember trying to do that first sit up after healing from a c-section. I was so pissed I couldn't even lift myself up. I agree though, working out before and during pregnancy helped quite a bit post partum. I breast fed for a little while, but my son would always get angry when he couldn't get it all at one time. LOL
Learn about vitamin E oil and how to avoid stretch marks BEFORE getting pregnant. I was 15 and that's pretty damn young, I'm covered in them because I was young and stupid and nobody was trying to warn me about them. I remember after having the baby, the nurse laughing when I asked her how soon they'd go away. My daughter is 30 now and believe me, they're still there.
drink LOTS and LOTS of water. lotions and oils can only do so much and penetrate so many layers of skin. your body needs to be hydrated from the inside out to avoid stretch marks. some of it is hereditary and there's not much you can do there, but from my personal experience, I can confidently say that water is the answer.
Emily Rat has always been desperate to make it big. Tried to increase her popularity with the pregnancy trick. Now the baby is just another photoshoot prop.
When people let someone take a picture of them, when it’s planned and they’re aware it’s happening, they make a conscious decision how to pose or act for their future audience. Holding a precious baby like a bag of insignificant potatoes was a conscious decision. She’s more interested in what the audience thinks of her body rather than the precious baby one trip away from being dropped on the floor.
Could be a third nipple ie a birth defect. Sister had a similar birth mark. She was super conscious about it. When I saw it and asked I was scolded by Mom not to embarrass her.
There are additional pics of her in similar 'hold' positions, so this isn't really just a moment in time. And it's not just babies...she also holds dogs this way.
What is SO very sad is that the kid is nothing more than an accessory to this vapid cunt. This idiot was famous for being topless in a goddamn one-hit wonder's music video (Blurred Lines ... I want to say it was out ~ 2014ish).
She has nice cans on a decent frame now ... give it another 10 years and those tits will be pancake looking things that sag down to her knees while she blames everyone on the planet for her mental problems but herself. That poor kid may as well start counseling right now.
I looked again, that baby is developed hes big and out of newborn phase. I'm not vested in shielding this woman whomever she is. But as a father it looks like a photo snapped as shes going somewhere. Baby's squirm all the time. Parable- everyone has an opinion, intent is your purpose. If you see evil then that is what you see. Ok leaving now...
Going somewhere barefoot In s bikini in the perfect lighting and pose...ok then
Who carries a baby like that when you're going somewhere. I'm a Gramma even if the baby is able to hold his head up you still don't carry them like that.
I don’t know, it doesn’t look great, but that’s clearly not a newborn. Baby is possibly old enough to hold his head up for a minute. Maybe she’s a crappy mom or whatever, but this isn’t enough to prove that.
Idk who she is, but to be honest I've held my babies in some interesting positions lol. Maybe she is trying to show off her body, but I don't see what the big deal is. I've held my kids like that for a minute, its not like she's holding him by his head....
At that age babies don’t have the neck muscles to support their heads, which puts a lot of pressure into their still developing spines. Admittedly, one pic isn’t close to the full story, but it’s not a good look either.
This is what she lets the world see. At this AGE her baby's comfort should be her primary concern, not showing off that she's ready to reproduce again.
So what is she like when no one is watching?
Exactly. I wouldn’t be surprised if this is one of the first times she held the baby at all. I find a lot of parents like the attention that comes from having a new born, but like a puppy or kitten, once it’s no longer the cute baby, they loose interest. It’s really sad.
Spot on
They are adult sized children.
You can see her nursing her son in other photos. The percentage of mothers who choose otherwise is a larger margin, so props due where props due
Where are those other photos? Lol
Oh. Yea, I see it now.
I bet she took 100 pics, some without the baby all jacked up, yet choose THIS one because SHE looked best. She didn't care about the baby.
I believe you.
Yeah, I would not want to marry a woman like that, but as far as holding babies, they're pretty bendy and durable.
To debate the wellbeing of a child based on this particular image, knowing half the story, is why social media is so toxic.
Meh. I don’t know who she is either. Nor do I care. But I don’t see an issue with this. But then again. I’m an 80’s kid. My partners swift Forearm to my chest was my seatbelt. We are a tad bit tougher then the average folks lol.
To me, it looks like the kid is trying to escape her.
hey, this one's alive and made it out, at least it has a fighting chance. how many never got that chance?
You are not wrong, and that is terribly depressing.
she'll likely claim the kid is gay or trans before the kid is 2 but it's still a chance. I wonder how many she has already killed? 3 is mass murder.
Truth
How in the hell does she look like that after a pregnancy? I don't see one stretch mark, not an ounce of extra weight? no c section scar either. Did she buy the kid and fake the pregnancy? Her boobs are even still perky. Man, some people have all the luck.
Drugs, more drugs, induced the baby early, started it on soy formula immediately so that her breasts would stop producing milk and her body stopped storing fat for the milk. Likely took some hormones to speed that along. Then works out with a personal trainer while someone else takes care of the child.
When you see a skinny new mom, don't think "Awe, she's so lucky!" Think, "she's raising her baby from a bottle for her own vanity." And when they are rich "someone else is raising the baby from a bottle."
Or else she bought him from traffickers for whatever purpose.
I gained over 80 pounds when I was pregnant—and not by choice. Started at 125 and climbed well over 200. All this while working out, too. I ate a lot (not the healthiest diet) to counteract the constant nausea I had while preggers. Afterwards, I got my diet back on track. 13 years later, I'm a healthy 140, and work out 5-6 times a week. Losing the post-baby weight wasn't easy, but I did it.
She's seen nursing her son in other photos, also nursing mothers tend to snap back to their pre-baby bodies faster, and they burn more calories just by nursing.
I’ve had five kids and no stretch marks (I have a long torso, so I had extra space I guess, and stretchy skin), I workout regularly and stay in good shape. For me it was all about getting back into it as soon as possible, not putting it off and letting the fat get all comfy. It’s hard work and it bugs me when people say that I’m just lucky because I sweat my butt off for this. My little ones like the gym too because they can play with the other kids their age.
Oh and breastfeeding! That helps get the body back quicker!
Your kids will have a good sense of taking care of themselves and exercising regularly, thus being healthier people, because you show them such a good example. Kudos to you!
Thank you! So far, my three teenagers are in great shape, all slender. Two are XC runners. Hopefully it carries over to my two younger ones as well. We still eat yummy foods and have fun, we just try to be a little active.
If you have regular exercise in your life and continue those good habits, you can enjoy your food as well! Moderation is key, of course, but it sounds like you have it down pat! :) That's very inspiring.
Im a mother of two, youngest is 20 months old, an I'm still breastfeeding him. Breastfeeding makes you lose the baby weight fast. I have to eat lots of food to maintain my weight...
Also, I would never hold my baby like that especially at such a young age, when he's probably not developed enough to fully hold his head up...
That's not a real mom.. an what's with the ring she's showing off too?
Younger women are more elastic, some do get off fairly unscathed the first time. For the rest there are "mommy makeovers." Find a recent picture of Kris Jenner and ask how she can look like that after all her kids.
There’s a lot of judgement on this thread. I’m almost 40, no drugs, no surgery, good diet and exercise and I look like I’ve never had kids. I’ve had five, all full term.
Are you me? Lol
Any tips for a younger ladypede looking to have a lot of kids?
Sure!! I can only say what has worked for me. I admit that it’s been more challenging since I’m close to 40. I had 3 kids in my 20s then two more after 35.
Breastfeeding helps a lot, it gets your uterus back down to its regular size quicker, plus you burn crazy calories!
Start working out now, even if it’s just walking. What you do pre-pregnancy can usually happen during the pregnancies, there are ladies at my gym who were running on the treadmill and weight training all the way until they gave birth. That will make it even easier to get back into good shape.
Remember that your body will be different, hips may be wider for example, but the fat- that can go!
Eat a healthy diet now and keep it going, consider it a change of lifestyle as opposed to a diet, which sounds temporary. Find healthy foods you actually enjoy, but you don’t have to be super strict, just reasonable. We’re not trying to win any competitions here :)
Find a gym with childcare. That was a requirement for me..otherwise I don’t know what I would do. It helps motivate me because the kids want to go play there. If you don’t have a gym, find a mom friend to walk or exercise with, so you have accountability. It’s easy to fall off, especially being a stressed out mama!
Prior to being pregnant, I was an avid gym goer. I even worked out while pregnant, too. I remember trying to do that first sit up after healing from a c-section. I was so pissed I couldn't even lift myself up. I agree though, working out before and during pregnancy helped quite a bit post partum. I breast fed for a little while, but my son would always get angry when he couldn't get it all at one time. LOL
Oh yes! That was a weird experience for me too! How the muscles are separated like that!
Learn about vitamin E oil and how to avoid stretch marks BEFORE getting pregnant. I was 15 and that's pretty damn young, I'm covered in them because I was young and stupid and nobody was trying to warn me about them. I remember after having the baby, the nurse laughing when I asked her how soon they'd go away. My daughter is 30 now and believe me, they're still there.
Oh yes!! Lots of lotion helps. I started when I was pregnant with my first, and apply lotion now every time I shower. Keep that skin soft and supple!
Knowing is half the battle. :)
I was fortunate to have a girl at work tell me to be sure I put on more lotion than would absorb ?
drink LOTS and LOTS of water. lotions and oils can only do so much and penetrate so many layers of skin. your body needs to be hydrated from the inside out to avoid stretch marks. some of it is hereditary and there's not much you can do there, but from my personal experience, I can confidently say that water is the answer.
You actually have lots of company in the world.
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I’m sorry, I’m distracted by what looks like a 3rd boob?
That’s some low effort baby holding.
I was about to say wtf is that tumor on her chest. Poor baby. Looks like not old enough to support his head yet. That’s infant 101 geez.
/u/#pepedetective a little help
Lmao right?
Emily Rat has always been desperate to make it big. Tried to increase her popularity with the pregnancy trick. Now the baby is just another photoshoot prop.
Anyone have a spare burger for her...she looks really hungry
That baby looks red!!
What’s wrong with how she’s holding the baby?
Young babies do not have the muscles needed to support their neck. The babies neck is dangling. Babies' heads are heavy.
When people let someone take a picture of them, when it’s planned and they’re aware it’s happening, they make a conscious decision how to pose or act for their future audience. Holding a precious baby like a bag of insignificant potatoes was a conscious decision. She’s more interested in what the audience thinks of her body rather than the precious baby one trip away from being dropped on the floor.
Not to mention the baby is sun burned. That's going to hurt tomorrow.
I already put my name in the hat when she's ready to make another one...
:)
assets. Baby looks sunburned.
Pray for this child.
I would take that sweet baby and raise it like my own. I don’t know why people treat kids like this.
What’s with the bulge over her ribcage?
Could be a third nipple ie a birth defect. Sister had a similar birth mark. She was super conscious about it. When I saw it and asked I was scolded by Mom not to embarrass her.
There are additional pics of her in similar 'hold' positions, so this isn't really just a moment in time. And it's not just babies...she also holds dogs this way.
I hate these attention whores. I pity the men who are with such women.
Support the baby's head!! Cringe
Poor baby—mom looks oblivious to the small person she’s holding. Obviously just one moment in time but not one I’d post.
What is that ring she's showing?
Spelling mothers with an apostrophe is worse than anything in this picture. Learn to spell before you look down your nose at others
Because grammatical errors are just as serious as errors in child rearing. Got it.
There's nothing wrong with how she is holding that 1 year old
It's not her's after all.
Have you ever seen a woman after she's been pregnant and given birth?
Compare.
That poor baby.
What is SO very sad is that the kid is nothing more than an accessory to this vapid cunt. This idiot was famous for being topless in a goddamn one-hit wonder's music video (Blurred Lines ... I want to say it was out ~ 2014ish).
She has nice cans on a decent frame now ... give it another 10 years and those tits will be pancake looking things that sag down to her knees while she blames everyone on the planet for her mental problems but herself. That poor kid may as well start counseling right now.
That's not her baby. That's her dinner. Freakin lizards.
I don't think anything nefarious is going on.just a squirmy little baby and a mom trying to hold him.
You're kidding right? If she was trying to hold him she wouldn't be posing in a bikini and carrying him like a sack of potatoes.
No mother holds a baby like that when they're too little to hold up their head.
I looked again, that baby is developed hes big and out of newborn phase. I'm not vested in shielding this woman whomever she is. But as a father it looks like a photo snapped as shes going somewhere. Baby's squirm all the time. Parable- everyone has an opinion, intent is your purpose. If you see evil then that is what you see. Ok leaving now...
Going somewhere barefoot In s bikini in the perfect lighting and pose...ok then
Who carries a baby like that when you're going somewhere. I'm a Gramma even if the baby is able to hold his head up you still don't carry them like that.
girl needs to eat something, just a bit to skinny. have a tasty Kamala Coookie. lol
That baby doesn't look like it has a fully developed neck bone. She should have her hand on the back of the baby's head as support.
Is the child ~ALIVE~???
I think it's emily ratajaskowski , spelling may be / ok spelling is wrong. I know they refer to her as ratcow.
But they have matching outfits. :)
I don’t know, it doesn’t look great, but that’s clearly not a newborn. Baby is possibly old enough to hold his head up for a minute. Maybe she’s a crappy mom or whatever, but this isn’t enough to prove that.
Seems to me when you value how you display your body more than a comfortable hold of your baby, you lack the nurturing need of a mother. JS….