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posted ago by TrumpsRedTie ago by TrumpsRedTie +607 / -2

My parents just disowned me (40M) because I don't trust the Fauci ouchie. They tried to emotionally blackmail me today since I wrote 'I love you' on my Mom's mother's Day card. "If you really loved me, you'd get the shot." -My Mom. I live a few miles from my parents, and I loved them with all of my heart. They told me never to visit them again. I'm a living orphan now. I extended and olive branch and they burned it to the ground.

It's on them. I have never been mean to them about this. They have been rubbing Biden's (s)election theft in my face since November.

If your family is clear thinking, hug them extra hard for me. I'm now a living orphan at 40. I didn't think I could hate 2021 more than 2020, but it pulled it off somehow.

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DoMagnum 193 points ago +196 / -3

Sorry, but you're better off.

They sound like the kind of people that would tell the Nazis who's attic Anne Frank is hiding in.

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 99 points ago +99 / -0

I agree. Sadly, this Covid stoff showed their true colors. I've been an independent person all of my life but my parents always had my back until now. It really sucks, but I can now focus on myself and whatever happens to them and the shot, is on them.

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quila62 94 points ago +94 / -0

Find yourself some conservative elders and be a surragate (sp) son to them. You will be helping them and helping yourself. And even tho your parents are cutting the ties, take the high road and send cards on special days. I have a feeling they will mellow.Good luck my friend.

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Helpus2021 31 points ago +31 / -0

That’s excellent advice fren!!

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Joys1Daughter 15 points ago +15 / -0

Beautiful advice u/quila62! A win/win for everyone. This has happened in our family but I hold out hope for us all since I have no doubt that minds will change when truths are revealed. 💥

Meanwhile u/TrumpsRedTie you have us...we are your family! Stay strong fren. WWG1WGA!

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DrMcCoy 10 points ago +10 / -0

I'm so sorry your parents are so closed minded. That was certainly uncalled for. Sometimes I wonder if these people are soooo adamant because they took the shot. They want to believe the shot is safe, and nothing will happen to them. They know some people don't think it's safe and they're not 100% sure.

I tried to stop my mom, brother and sister. But they all took the shot and convinced my mom to do it. They all got together today for Mother's Day, and I was not invited. No one is angry, but they are probably scared of me because I haven't taken the shot. That's fine with me. I visited her a few days ago, and sat in the garden outside her senior housing. I'm a bit concerned of THEM shedding the spike protein.

At this point, taking the shot would feel like committing suicide. Nothing is worth that.

I think with the passage of time and all of the information coming out, they will realize they were wrong and want a relationship with you. Everything is always changing. God Bless You.

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Whirlybot 3 points ago +3 / -0

I agree with your thoughts - they're adamant because they took the shot. If they waiver in their support, they will be admitting a mistake and lose face. Let's hope that's all they lose - have you seen the videos where the people who have gotten the jab can hang a magnet on their injection site? Someone else on here gave a reference to iron nanoparticles development - who knows what that's for -

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 1 point ago +1 / -0

Yes! I saw that video. Here it is. I need to have one of my vaxed friends try that.

https://www.bitchute.com/video/k7edR75Ifonl/

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DrMcCoy 0 points ago +1 / -1

I'll bring a magnet next time I visit my mom, lol.

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Lenguado 2 points ago +2 / -0

The question is, if they've all had "the SHOT" WTF is the problem with you visiting? (That's a rhetorical question btw)

If they have had the shot - and are wearing their "magical masks" - they have no problem because they are in their magical protected bubble....

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barwhack 5 points ago +5 / -0

Have done, do recommend.

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DoMagnum 33 points ago +33 / -0

Hopefully on the "other side of the tunnel", these people will emerge largely unscathed and fences can be mended as required.

Motivations based on fear and shame come from different parts of the brain than reason. Human history is replete with countless episodes of "good" people doing the most horrible things imaginable. Stay strong and keep your heart open for when it is time to forgive.

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CuomoisaMassMurderer 22 points ago +22 / -0

I've been an orphan since 1990, when I discovered the DS and the Fed. Join the club

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 18 points ago +18 / -0

It's great to have a brother/sister/attack helicopter :-) that I never had before! Thank you!

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eyerighteye 3 points ago +3 / -0
  1. It's a big club. Checked the obits, guess they are still alive.

Damn shame really, but it is what it is.

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GoGoOptomistic 17 points ago +17 / -0

I know exactly how you feel my sister and her husband have gotten the shots wouldn’t listen and believe since Xiden goes to church he must be a “good” person, sigh ... I’m sorry it’s tough all we can do is hope they see.

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polish_snausage 17 points ago +17 / -0

My brothers CHURCH is pushing the jab hard. "We can't meet normally until everyone has been vaxxed" ... So sad :(

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scoripowarrior 24 points ago +24 / -0

I hate to say it, but you don't need a church to stay in touch with God. I've been a church goer all my life. One thing this whole covid and Trump presidency has done is brought me closer to God in a more spirirual way. I still have my friends from church, but I finally realize I don't need a building for it.

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Wexit-Delecto 9 points ago +9 / -0

Any two or more people assembled in His name will do

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Wexit-Delecto 1 point ago +1 / -0

And no, electronic “assembly” literally does not count. Can’t have mass over the phone guys.

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polish_snausage 4 points ago +4 / -0

Exactly.

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MAGAguitar 2 points ago +3 / -1

You don’t need a church to be in communion with the Holy Spirit, but gathering together is a biblical mandate. Hebrews 10:24-25. Gathering together with Bible believing Christians is among the main activities the Deep State is trying to prevent.

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Factfiler 3 points ago +3 / -0

Many people don't know this. We are commanded to be part of a local body of believers, support it with with our offerings and to serve others. We don't necessarily need a building, but we cannot honor God's commands sitting inside our homes forever.

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HopefulSkeptic 14 points ago +14 / -0

Sounds like my boss. We can’t go back to normal until everybody gets vaxed, but we are not going to force the vax.

Sorry guys, guess I will be the reason we don’t return to normal

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PeaceThruPrayer 5 points ago +5 / -0

Same here... my boss was shot in the first two weeks...

Recently I told him to research VAERS.

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TheAwakened 7 points ago +7 / -0

I doubt people who have taken the vaxx will turn and say: yeah vaxx was shit I got tricked

No matter what evidence you show them

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Gilgalad 7 points ago +7 / -0

Yepp..Their ego,pride and stupidity walks hand in hand.

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PeaceThruPrayer 2 points ago +2 / -0

So many have taken it out of fear, compliance, and lack of information while virtual signaling shot supremacy... denying the data and truths now being discovered.

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DrMcCoy 4 points ago +4 / -0
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Trumpette1 3 points ago +3 / -0

That is so horrible

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polish_snausage 3 points ago +3 / -0

Yup, peer pressure- we were warned of it in grade school- now they're using it as a weapon against us.

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AmericanRaised 7 points ago +7 / -0

What kind of "church" is that? The first question to that pastor would be so I have to put my faith in a man-made potion then Faith in Jesus Christ Before I can be accepted back? I would love to hear his answer and watch him try and talk in circles 😂

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polish_snausage 4 points ago +4 / -0

Yes I'd love to hear that answer too. It's so messed up i just avoid the discussion now. He got the jabs.

And yet he is deeply offended by all the asking if everyone has been vaxxed yet. Thinks the pastor is a great guy put in a "hard spot" by the bishop.

The last thing I said was, EVERYONE should be following God, not anyone else.

He's pissed at me now, for being "stubborn". He told me all pissy "You be you". Whatever that means...

I just pray for all of them. I'm glad he lives out if state

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polish_snausage 3 points ago +3 / -0

Oh, I think it's Episcopal.

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PeaceThruPrayer 4 points ago +4 / -0

Same here but with a small group which did not want to meet until all vaxxed. Crazy!

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TheAwakened -1 points ago +2 / -3

Jesus said: dont worship false idols

Yet you go into churches to worship false idols, smh.

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TakenusernameA 6 points ago +6 / -0

Xiden was literally denied communion for supporting anti-catholic laws. He's essentially excommunicated himself.

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Lenguado 2 points ago +2 / -0

Too late for them. They are now genetically modified test subjects....

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MAGAsoyboyslayer 10 points ago +10 / -0

Maybe time to start your own family.

My mom keeps telling me to take the shot so they can see us. I'm like you could of seen us last summer or whenever. There loss. They will regret it when my baby is grown up and doesnt know who they are.

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TheAwakened 5 points ago +5 / -0

They sound like the kind of people who would invent Anne Frank then call you a nazi when you say she dont existed.

(From what I gather the diary was written by a middle aged man from the hand writting etc and Anne Frank is a complete hoax, feel free to provide evidence to the contrary)

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DoMagnum 2 points ago +2 / -0

Heard that recently. Gonna need a new expression. How much of our history is mind control bullshit?

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TheAwakened 3 points ago +3 / -0

Unless I can verify shit with my own eye, I just think 'might be real might not be real'.

Like round earth. Im not flat earther, but until I can see the earth for myself, Im not gonna blindly believe its any shape or form. This does not mean Im a flat earther, far from. Im just OPEN to the possibility, so if I were to see the earth for myself tomorrow and its flat, I wouldnt be surprised.

For all I know the earth could be pyramide shaped. Or boxed. Gonna start the boxed earth society.

Dont get me wrong, I have researched flat earth, and while I do understand why people think its flat, Im not subscribing to that shit either before my eyes can verify it. Also my life dont change at all whether I believe its flar or sphered or boxed or pyramide shaped

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Lenguado 3 points ago +3 / -0

Damn. Spot on.

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Themessenger777 118 points ago +118 / -0

I'll be your mom today....

Son I'm proud of you for researching and making up your own mind based on your free will. God gave you free will (and everyone else) and I respect your decision. I'm also proud of you that you are a leader, not a follower! Also its easiest to go along for the sake of not making a fuss but remember "the turtle only gains an inch when he sticks his neck out"....You march to your own drummer and remember that it doesn't matter what anybody else says or does. Stay true to yourself and God's word because He's GotThis! He has YOU too. Because of this He will see you through the darkness....You are blessed!

Hope you realize that persecution is a cross we all will bear through this...The new world is blossoming as God promised.....it started with Arizona and Philadelphia holds the key. Hang in there for a bit longer and know its gonna get worse before it gets better (sorry to say)...WWG1WGA!

Blessings son....

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CuomoisaMassMurderer 28 points ago +28 / -0

Wow do your kids ever have a great Mom!

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Themessenger777 29 points ago +29 / -0

Tell that to my daughter who got the jab despite all the educational material I provided....but that was her choice and her free will...I'm a seer and she still did it! I would never disown her... God has made a covenant and He will carry it out for us. Have faith, patience and pray! This is our message from Him for this time.

Blessings...

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scoripowarrior 9 points ago +9 / -0

Just want to say hello, Themessenger777. I've always enjoyed your comments, but haven't seen you around in awhile. Nice to see you again.

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Themessenger777 8 points ago +8 / -0

Good to see you too Scorpio! Much is happening but I'm here every day just about..I will be posting something tomorrow so please if you can help me with input I would appreciate it. I need the community for this one and firmly believe this is for you all....

Thank you for dropping me a greeting....I appreciate it.

See you tomorrow night

Blessings fren....

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eyerighteye 13 points ago +13 / -0

We are lucky to have you here with us. I loved reading this.

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Themessenger777 18 points ago +18 / -0

I'm the lucky one to have found you all....it's hard being "different"...here I was accepted and could freely share without being persecuted...

So thank you all....We may be a family of anons but are family none the less... we share the same heart and soul. We ARE blessed ...thank you for the kind words fren..

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Themessenger777 13 points ago +13 / -0

Your words and kindness humble me....It is an honor to be a mother to any who needs one...these times are hard...God has well prepared me over life for this time and instructed me to be "the messenger" of His love and commitment to us all....Thank you for your heartfelt words.

Blessings for all who are struggling....just reach out, there are many here to help.

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TheyWereCones 3 points ago +3 / -0

yes! only place there is real acceptance and logic. also, i like your writings too haha

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Themessenger777 3 points ago +3 / -0

🙏...Wisdom whispers what needs to be said....thank you fren

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 11 points ago +11 / -0

Thank you very much. I have talked to my friends today and I have some awesome friends that are there for me, along with an uncle (Dad's brother) that was previously exiled. We had a good laugh and some beers. I'm part of an exclusive club of exiled family members. ;-)

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Themessenger777 13 points ago +13 / -0

You will not be exiled for long....your parents will have the truth revealed to them soon and will reach out to you once they realize they pushed away a man they should be proud of.

Be still now, don't reach out to them.
God will intervene ....reach out in prayer tonight and have faith He will answer. I know He will.....Be patient and humble in the eyes of the Lord...

Blessings my anon son...

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VforVendetta2021 4 points ago +4 / -0

I’m sending you a Mother’s Day hug for this!! 🥰

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4QN45 4 points ago +4 / -0

Wow!...thanks Mom💞🤗 i needed that today....you just adopted a whole new set of spiritual orphaned children😉 youre a true gift from God in such a time as this💞happy mothers day!🌻

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TNBanjoMan 35 points ago +35 / -0

Give it time, they'll come around. This fucking plandemic has split families and friends, and I'm fucking TIRED of it. I've lost long-time friends because I won't take the vaxx, and this is coming from some aging hippies who USED to pride themselves on being "different" and "nonconformist".... yeah, right... lining up like lemmings to obediently take a free shot from "the man"... that's NOT nonconformist, it's just the opposite. I'm willing to let them go, but parents and family are another matter. Hang on to hope while they hang on to hype, someday right soon this is all gong to be revealed for the hoax it is.

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Phishhed44 5 points ago +5 / -0

As usual I’m hearing you in stereo 👍🏽

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wwg1wg69 2 points ago +2 / -0

When Trump is reinstated and Q is vindicated they will come around

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FromBilgewater 1 point ago +1 / -0

Hippies gotta experiment on drugs.

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LittleLight 33 points ago +33 / -0

My goodness. How tragic. I’m so sorry to hear that. 😔 Will be praying for you.

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 35 points ago +35 / -0

Thank you! I've never been a religious man, but I've been praying for strength and guidance from Jesus a lot lately.

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pizza_lawyer 13 points ago +13 / -0

Look up the book “the blessing” by Gary Smalley and John Trent. It’s based on the biblical story of Jacob and Esau and applies the lessons learned to today’s relationships between parents and children.i think you’ll like it.

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 10 points ago +10 / -0

Thank you. I'll check it out!

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dumb_okie 33 points ago +33 / -0

Give it time... Trust in the lords work.

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 25 points ago +25 / -0

I hope you are right. This is the time that tries men's souls...

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Msmcontrolsnarrative 8 points ago +8 / -0

The key will be not to rub it in their face when the great awakening happens.

It's like when people open their eyes and accept the Gospel.

Feel the same way.

React the same way.

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 6 points ago +6 / -0

I have marked them as ignore on my phone. I will be the better man and rise above this. It hurts badly, but this is the choice they made. Even if I got the shot, they likely wouldn't believe me. Never give in to unjust demands...

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Msmcontrolsnarrative 2 points ago +2 / -0

How will you know if they change their mind, if you are ignoring them?

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 4 points ago +4 / -0

I'm not blocking them. I just renamed them as "Mom/Dad IGNORE". If they call or text (doubful) i'll see it. It will give me a reminder.

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raytheater 25 points ago +25 / -0

Even the best of us sometimes fall for a propaganda. My father is a staunch conservatives, Vietnam vet, dealing with agent orange and finally took the jab.

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anonforeverandever 13 points ago +13 / -0

This one is the hardest for me to cope with. Boomer generation & beyond that is conservative and well meaning, God fearing through and through. The kind of people that probably saw Trump recommending the vax and thought it was fine. Sigh. Hopefully it's not as dangerous or permanent as we have been led to believe

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wwg1wg69 2 points ago +2 / -0

Hopefully Trump was right about the vaccine. He hailed it as a miracle. I would be devastated if the hundreds of millions of Americans taking the jab were sterilized.. or worse..

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Wannastayfree 24 points ago +24 / -0

Family divides will come back together just give it time. Just had 24 family members over got late lunch gathering- 1/3 has been jabbed and 2/3 no freaking way (myself is a no way) but not 1 person mentioned it cuz we already know our opinions. Unfortunately only time will tell who made the mistake......

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ThisIsHowItStarts 22 points ago +22 / -0

You are not an orphan. An orphan is:

a child whose parents are dead.

Your parents are not dead, just confused. Give them time and space, they’ll come around. It’s better for you to not be in that toxic environment anyway.

It’s never too late, until it’s too late. As long as they are breathing, there is hope for you to reconcile.

My husband died 11 years ago, we had issues before he died. After that it was too late. Do you still have time. Pray for them, and continue being a light in the world!

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 10 points ago +10 / -0

I'm sorry about your late husband. :-( I wrote living orphan, in that I don't have my parents anymore until they snap out of it.

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ThisIsHowItStarts 8 points ago +8 / -0

True. I am sorry

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Rpaddymac1 20 points ago +20 / -0

Sorry for the loss. However, this begs the question that everyone should always ask: Why are you afraid of the un-vaxxed if you are vaxxed? I mean isn’t it supposed to protect you?

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 20 points ago +20 / -0

Bingo! Their words say: "TrUSt fAuCi aNd tHe vAcCINe..." Their actions say the opposite.

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CuomoisaMassMurderer 9 points ago +9 / -0

I'll trust Fauci as far as I can throw him. No forget that, I could throw him pretty far. Looking forward to it, actually ...

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Reddit_is_for_cucks 6 points ago +6 / -0

You can probably throw him farther than he can throw a baseball.

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IveHadAllsICanStand 6 points ago +6 / -0

I could probably throw that little manlet pretty far.

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Cheesemaker 9 points ago +9 / -0

Because if they don't brainwash people into thinking that being around an unvax person is dangerous, then they can't implement a chinese-style social credit score (i.e. vaccine passport). That's why they're working overtime to make people irrationally fear people that haven't been injected by an experimental medical treatment.

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LizabethD 2 points ago +2 / -0

My question is what do they think about the unvaccinated illegal aliens coming over the border being bused to live in cities possibly spreading the Covid? Or the BLM/Antifa spring of love tour- surely not all of them can be “vaccinated” rioting in masses less than 6 feet apart? I just shake my head at the insanity. My folks got the jab after I begged them not to and I know if they have any side effects, I will only hear about it through someone else. They are too proud to admit they f’ed up.

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Christian_Patriots 14 points ago +14 / -0

Oh, fren. I’m so, so sorry. Know that there are many older, based families who wish they had based older children like you. 💔 You will be in my prayers.

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swimkin 5 points ago +5 / -0

Raising my hand. I only have one kid. She was a Conservative when she left for college and came out liberal. SIGH

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Lowes48Chevy 13 points ago +13 / -0

Our boomer parents much like teenagers like to act out a bit when they feel control is slipping. Give it time. Be the bigger person like hopefully your parents were when you were a shithead teenager. They'll come around and all will be well. By that time all the side effects will be hitting the news anyways lol.

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 14 points ago +14 / -0

Our boomer parents much like teenagers like to act out a bit when they feel control is slipping.

Correct. Ultimatums are only made from a position of weakness. This was a massive "Compliance test" from my parents to me, and I did not give in and stood my ground. They are the ones acting selfish and demanding 100% compliance.

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Hoshi 4 points ago +4 / -0

I can't imagine cutting off ties to one of my kids based on their beliefs. Do they even know what love is or were they absent working most of your childhood?

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 4 points ago +4 / -0

My parents were the best parents a child and adult could ask for. I love them so deeply, this all changed with Rona when liberal Dem politics became their sole focus, while I'm a Libertarian Conservative. Its like the twilight zone.

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HBalzanya69 12 points ago +12 / -0

Avoid saying anything you'll regret, it's not much longer until this blows up. Your relationship with them may even be stronger after they realize what's going on. Hang in there, getting rid of 2000 year cabal's does take some sacrifice.

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 7 points ago +7 / -0

I didn't have time to say anything at all, before my Mom and Dad read me the riot act over the phone (since I was banned from their house since I don't have the shot.)

This is their choice and I will hold out longer than them.

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Ssue1216 4 points ago +4 / -0

Love and hugs. It’s hard - and I can’t put into words how I’m sure you feel. Do you have a significant other you can talk to?

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 2 points ago +2 / -0

Yes. I'm single but I have amazing friends that have helped a lot today. I'm still in shock but I had a feeling it would come down to this. My parents have been very pushy for the shotnl since Christmas. They even wrote about it on my Christmas card.

At least i know where I stand now with them. There is no doubt anymore.

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Wexit-Delecto 2 points ago +2 / -0

It’s sad what the cabal and their programming have done to everyone.

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valley-lily 11 points ago +11 / -0

"If you really love me, you'd get the shot." Sounds a lot like coercion, or something that an abuser or manipulator would say. "If you love me, you won't tell anyone about me hitting you." Don't worry, she'll change her tune when she sees all those around her who got the jab dying in droves and then she'll wonder why she got hers, and realize that you were right not to get it, and she'll call you up again. At least, I hope she will, but some people may be stubborn to the last. And I sincerely hope she and your father don't fall to the vax.

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 5 points ago +5 / -0

Yep. It's emotional blackmail. I had an exgf try it on me and I said no, and left her shortly after.

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AngelCole 11 points ago +11 / -0

I'll adopt you, my oldest son won't let us have a relationship because of his wife. Seriously, my son is 4 years younger than you. I've sort of adopted my deceased son's best friend, his girlfriend and their little boy who is named after my son(he was the younger of my two). Life is tough enough without having family being shitty to us. It bothers me but I continue to grieve for my son who's truly gone. I'm sorry and I hope you can somehow bridge the gap between you and your parents.

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Jimmysyankee 10 points ago +10 / -0

I'll adopt you. You sound like a guy with his head and his heart in the right place. I've got a lot of love to share and a broken kitchen faucet that I can't fix. Come for dinner Tuesday. Xoxo

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eyerighteye 9 points ago +9 / -0

I became friends with a based old man in town. Filling in the grandparent role quite nicely for my boys. His kids are terrible, my folks are terrible, it all worked out. Love that old man.

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Oldpatriot 9 points ago +9 / -0

Read this out loud in front of my Wife.. we come from large close families.. She, being one of the kindest most beautiful women God ever created (also one of the strongest), broke down in tears and begged me to tell you that you are not alone.. you’re part of a large tight family as well.. and you have a Heavenly Father that will never orphan you.. wanted to pass that along.. stay strong my friend, and you will most definitely be in our prayers !!!

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OldSoulPatriot 9 points ago +9 / -0

Grieve the loss since that is real, but be sure to do it without shame or remorse. You are responsible for you; others are not.

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MaidInAmerica 9 points ago +9 / -0

I said a prayer for you fren.

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bydesign 9 points ago +9 / -0

I'm so sorry to read this...

We'll be your family now.

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hundro 8 points ago +8 / -0

My Mother died 40 years ago today and I still feel grief. I can't imagine how your situation must make you feel though. That must be worse than the actual loss of a Mother.

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 14 points ago +14 / -0

I've been worried about them getting the shot and dying from it. I'm an only child and the last of my family line. This was their ultimatum to me, and they failed.

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hundro 8 points ago +8 / -0

I'm holding out hope that this whole charade will be exposed as a colossal fraud and that people will mend all their shattered relationships. Your parents' frustration with you will be redirected (in the form of righteous rage) at all those perpetrators, and you'll be at their side wielding a pitchfork. Or some other implement.

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HenryTheRed 8 points ago +8 / -0

I never will understand why people care for their parents. I would GLADLY pay for a taxi ride for them to get their jabs. I left home instead of getting back at them as a young adult. I will dance on their graves when the time comes.

(Some parents are good apparently, just not the cork soakers I ended up with.)

The best thing you can do is: Take a nice sheet of paper. Write your feelings on it, good, bad, ugly. Say a prayer, and burn the paper. Let the fire take the emotion away.

Move on.

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IwantmyCountryback 6 points ago +6 / -0

This was the most effective tactic I used to move on after my alcoholic father passed. Great advice.

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SirCamembert 5 points ago +5 / -0

That’s kind of funny to see someone advocating an ancient Chinese ritual on here.

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KarenKarenKaren 4 points ago +4 / -0

Chynah

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HenryTheRed 1 point ago +1 / -0

Got it from a monk I was watching a long while back. There is something about the transfer of energy. It can attach to you. I would ruminate on things. This is why people journal. The act of writing is almost a transfer of emotion. Fire to release.

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Ssue1216 7 points ago +7 / -0

As a mom my heart breaks for you ❤️❤️ Things will turn around - I know it deep inside.

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Lupinate 6 points ago +6 / -0

Fear is a mind killer, fren. Time will show this madness for what it is, and they will want you back.

Im facing the same fear from my dad, despite my having caught covid early on. My mom (divorced) has allergies and is more circumspect about taking it. Im having constant challenges from the missus, but she's mostly on the fence and only willing to consider the astra one. Dad and the missus fear my dying from covid, and the conversations are very emotional on one side, and calm and rational on the other (mine) now.

Arm yourself with data, https://ivmmeta.com/ and https://corona-ausschuss.de/faq/ (translate works on this), and be not afraid. Make them admit their fears first, and you can tackle them. That is the only way forward.

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gobby 6 points ago +6 / -0

I'm sorry fren. Do you have children? If you do, could you imagine any circumstance whereby you would disown them? If you don't have children, you can use your imagination.

It's not normal for parents to disown their children. I know it hurts. I'm sorry for that. But they are not normal, loving parents. They are not emotionally or mentally well. Perhaps when more comes to light, they will choose to see the truth. Perhaps they won't. You must live your own life. You can't live theirs and they can't live yours. Hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst. Sorry for you and I do hope it will turn out well. Good luck and God bless.

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 4 points ago +4 / -0

I don't have any kids. I've been burned. I would never disown people over politics IF they can state it logically. I'll listen, even if i don't agree. Thank you very much!

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gobby 2 points ago +2 / -0

I agree with another poster -- if you feel an emptiness because of this, perhaps you can find a nice older couple who would enjoy your company. Many people have children scattered around the country and would love to find someone local to spend time with. I hope you can fill that void.

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Deana99 6 points ago +6 / -0

Fren, you are not an Orphan. We are all children of the highest, our heavenly Father. We are all brothers and sisters. In time, they will understand when the truth is made known. Start by forgiving them. You are right, it is on them. Do not carry this burden on yourself. It is how we face adversity that defines us. We all have it in some form or another. 6 years ago something happened in my life that was so Yuge at the time, I didn't know how I would make it through, but now it is just a distant memory that taught me many things. I would not be the same person today without the adverse events I've endured. Hold fast in your belief in your choices and know that the future is brighter than today.

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WeAreTheWorld 6 points ago +7 / -1

Trust yourself....the veil will be lifted soon...most, not all will get it...and pray. Godspeed patriot.

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MysteriousCheese 5 points ago +5 / -0

Damn man I'm sorry to hear this, stay up

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Bgtholt88 5 points ago +5 / -0

There’s a great grandma in our family I’ll wear a mask around. Ironically she caught Covid from some of the lefties in our family and she made it out just fine. She told me she doesn’t like the family wearing masks around her. She wants to see us all in her last stage of life. She also thinks the vaccine is unnecessary and if you ask HER opinion, she thinks this is all bullshit.

Super impactful to talk to somebody in her age group about this.

Other family members can decide if they want to be around me without a mask or vaccine.

Sucks to hear about your parents. I wouldn’t say anything to them and they can decide to crawl back to you with excuses to talk to you. Unfortunately they’ll likely never apologize.

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Godspeedpatriotsx 5 points ago +5 / -0

I am so sorry to hear this. I have heard of this before. Why on earth is your mum and dad putting this in the way and breaking up your family. This isn't right we all know it.

I hope that you all come to a compromise. I have lost a very close friend due to my views being entirely opposite to his. I have asked him only to come to his own opinion not what MSM is telling him.

Let this be over, let the truth come out. Let you have peace over this. Keep well and positive and then when it comes out absolutely rip them a new one. Blood is blood and that's it. All the very best!!

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 6 points ago +6 / -0

The only compromise is that they need to realize is that "My body, my choice" is for more than abortions.

Their loss, they gave the ultimatum for me to get the shot, or else. They have to live with it, for however long they have on this Earth.

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damessinger 5 points ago +5 / -0

I'm terribly sorry for your loss and I want to say that I admire you for standing up for what you believe. You and all of us will have our day soon and maybe, just maybe, your parents will awaken. I pray for that for you.

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 1 point ago +1 / -0

Thank you!

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hippielouie 5 points ago +5 / -0

so sad!!!! hugs for u!!!

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tomthung 5 points ago +7 / -2

fuck them, they are shitty parents and people.

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 9 points ago +9 / -0

I would have died for them a year ago, i loved them so much. Now, they are less than nothing to me with how they attempted to bully me. I don't give into emotional terrorists.

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REDSP1R1T 3 points ago +3 / -0

If you can try (in person), is to ask them why they are acting like that to their own son / daughter because you didn't take the vaccine. Ask them "Why are you not respecting my own choices?" "Why would you alienate your own son / daughter?" Or tell them in such a way to put them in their place that their actions are more damaging because they let their politics dictate who to love. etc.

If nothing avails, it is their own fault.

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 3 points ago +3 / -0

I said, so "my body, my choice" only works on abortions? That sent them over the edge a month ago, the last time I talked to them in person.

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tomthung 2 points ago +2 / -0

stay strong I know how hard it is

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cantMAGAanyharder 5 points ago +5 / -0

I'm so sorry that this happened to you. You know your extended family is with you here, right?

Perhaps you could say "Well, you're both vaccinated against covid, right? So what's the harm in having me over to visit, if you're protected against covid?"

Then again, some people just aren't all that rational. I wish you luck, and may God be with you and your family. May He be with all us sinners.

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Striker1 4 points ago +4 / -0

My family had a vaccine table & unvaccinated table. My sister only told me since it was my family that was unvaxxed. I told no one. Everyone sat where they wanted. What a bunch of bs. My oldest sister (there are 7 of us) came in with plastic gloves, a mask & goggles 🙄. By the end of the gathering she somehow decided it was safe to ditch the gloves& the glasses. She said oh we haven’t talked —yeah I’m avoiding my craziest relatives. These people have lost my respect and any additional effort. Something got to give. These people are fkn brainwashed.

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GuyWhite 4 points ago +4 / -0

Remember Q: “ Nothing can stop what is coming. Nothing. Now comes the pain.”

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 2 points ago +2 / -0

Now comes the pain.

No joke... One day they will see the light, either in this life, or the next.

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Sumarongi 4 points ago +4 / -0

Wow.

That’s unacceptable

Tell them they are out of line

If they got the shot then there is nothing to worry about

You have every right to be angry

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Anon8675309 4 points ago +4 / -0

I can relate. Just know that you aren't alone. My parents think I'm completely insane because I don't believe the narratives on MSM. They have told me I've gone way too far down the rabbit hole. At first I was offended but now, proud. Those who are awake are blessed! Your parents will get over it in time, I'm sure. Either way, stand your ground. They want you to want their approval. But you are a 40 year old man. So good job bud.

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Fraternal_Excellence 4 points ago +4 / -0

Haven’t seen my nephew in a year. Spoken to my brother twice in that time. My parents live with him. The last time we spoke he called to tell me I’m not welcome without a vaccine. I’d love to say it’s worth it, you’re better off, you’re welcome on the right side- but the truth is it sucks. Period. I feel your pain and I offer no attempt at comfort or advice. Just the fact that you’re not alone. Personally, I fight for gratitude every moment I think to.

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MEBLOCK 4 points ago +4 / -0

That's so sad my friend. Pray they come around and see the light.

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Loquitur_Veritatem 4 points ago +4 / -0

Sorry brother, that's a tough one to manage. Prayers and good thoughts sent.

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ArcaneSlang 4 points ago +4 / -0

Man, that sucks. If they loved you they would not manipulate you. 2021 better throw a bone soon.

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Threeballes 4 points ago +4 / -0

They might come around eventually...sad if not, but you have done the research, so you know you need to avoid the vaccines. Hopefully this is a temporary breakup.

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RuptorVulvam17 4 points ago +4 / -0

They are brainwashed, I know it doesn’t make it right or any better. I know it’s almost impossible but look at it from their perspective they think they are protecting you. You have to be the bigger man which I know sounds insane when dealing with our parents. But you have to remember they grew up on msm being the staple of truth. I don’t think it’s going to take anything less than them seeing their so called heroes hanging for them to wake up. And the media destroyed in the process. We’re living in upside down world right now. But we have to remember our thoughts create our realities, try to stay positive say a prayer for their health and sanity and we will eventually either get through this with some help or have to stand up and finally take back what’s rightfully ours. Our freedom. Of everything, and I’m getting itchy.

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HoppyHap 4 points ago +4 / -0

It is hard to lose your family and unfortunately, it is not unusual in the world we live in. Splitting families has always been the plan and I saw it firsthand during the '60s were the black community was held together with strong family units and the government supplanted that role with welfare. They split the black family by taking away the jobs and the daddy government stepped in with support. It happened to poor white communities as well.

Dividing people makes it easier to make people compliant and that is always the goal. Kids came home from college and yelled at mom and dad and called them racists, bigots, and a long list of names. Now masks and vaccinations further divide families.

Even in our churches conformed to the world and critical thought and spiritual faith which were always complimentary left the building. Nobody under any circumstances wants to be challenged. They rather lie to themselves and think they are wise.

Time has a way of healing so don't get angry. It hurts you and nobody else in these situations.

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jfunction 4 points ago +4 / -0

The tide is going to turn. They may ask your forgiveness.

Not sure if "vax shedding" is going to be a major issue or not.

It may be. We need more information on that.

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LoneWulf 4 points ago +4 / -0

Take heart, fren. The truth will soon win out.

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Phoenix4th 3 points ago +3 / -0

Been there done that. In harsh situations people show their true face/colors and in the end this could be to your own benefit.

Push them away from your life (already done i guess) and move on, they would only harm you from the looks of it.

Try to be around not with perfect people - such do not exist or they are liars - but with reasonable ones who have flaws (like we all have) and they are discussable.

In life one of the things which we can't choose is family, but we can choose our friends.

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RandyShackleford 3 points ago +3 / -0

I have a good feeling your living the best life you can while your parents are truly fucked up monsters.

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TrumpsRedTie [S] 4 points ago +4 / -0

Yes. I've been fixing my house up and making my upcoming garden great. I just got a certification that I was studying for months for. I am really proud of myself. I won't let them hold me down.

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pkripper 3 points ago +3 / -0

Look on the bright side, you're stronger than your parents. A parents dream is that their child grows up stronger and better than them. You're a living success. Count your blessings. They'll come around when it hits them.

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Mavdick96 3 points ago +3 / -0

Oh my God, OP, what awful parents. I'm so sorry for you, man.