Hello my friends, judging by the title you might be curious what this is my about. Yesterday unfortunately, my own brother who has severe autism and is mentally disturbed a bit. He just suddenly ran away from home, why he did this is due to him being tired of how the country is going and CA is treating their citizens. He's a 38 year old adult but yet has the mind of a child due to his disability, he doesn't take any medication whatsoever.
He left notes behind explaining more of his personal reasons and whatnot but I'll leave some of those parts out for privacy, but how we found out he was missing is my mom noticing him missing suddenly last morning and not showing up. We checked his belongings and only found his usual clothes that he wears are missing, where as his other belongings are left behind.
Keep in mind, he didn't bring anything except only his wallet and clothes. So no car or anything else like a phone to contact him. So I worry how he'll even make it out there without being homeless or something worse happening, at first me and my family thought he was abducted by someone. How we came to this conclusion is due to the bedroom window net being slashed open, we thought he would never do this and belived that he was kidnapped.
Some of you might wonder if he had outside help in doing such, we're not sure since he's not the kind to be socially adept, he stated that he's leaving to LAX and away from CA. Where would he be going, he hinted some states like TX, CA, AZ, IA, and maybe AK. So far we had nothing, except his last statement is that "He cannot be stopped at all."
Law Enforcement has nothing at all in terms of where he might have went, right now I am rather saddened of how I treated him bad sometimes. He wasn't even feeling anything bad the day prior, but I can understand that if he viewed himself with negative opinion because of his disability and wasn't vocal with his family about it. I don't think he's suicidal, but I hope he'll come back one day if he's still alive by now.
If the mods want to sticky this thread please do, prayers are really urgently needed and I feel still terrible about this occurrence. If anyone here has any more questions if you're curious or want to help, feel free to do so. But at this point I myself and family have been looking for him nonstop for two days, and are getting to the point of being exhausted. Life has to continue and the Lord's work has to be done, ether ways His Will be done.
Well I'll be away for a while, goodbye for now.
Heavenly Father, We pray that you watch over this young man who is feeling lost. Not at leaving his home Lord, as you know he has done this willingly, but because of the state of our country. We pray Lord that you watch over and protect him, and that once he reaches his destination, he will call home and assure his family that he is safe. Help him Lord to find the peace and happiness he is seeking and let him return home once again to his loving family. We ask that you keep him safe and place a hedge of protection around him Lord. We thank you and bless you for all things given unto us. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen.
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AMEN...
Gotta love a Patriot that steps right up to the plate to lead us in a perfect prayer 🙏🏻
You're welcome. When prayers are needed, this is what we must all do. God bless.
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Amen. In agreement.
God bless you.
Thank you. And you as well. That was a powerful prayer. I believe God is with us and hears our prayers for the hurting people.
Yes he does. And where two or more of us gather together in agreement, our prayers are answered. Amen.
Prayers up for your Brother, Patriot. May God watch over him. May God bring your family news of his whereabouts and a peaceful closure to this situation.
I hope so too brother, one part of his note that disturbs me is that he explained that money isn't needed where he's going. I really hope he doesn't try to kill himself.
May God Bless and Protect Your Brother and Your Family at this difficult time. May he be found very soon and be reunited with his family.
Amen I agree!
God knows exactly where he is. Praying for his safe return.
Lord, send your angels to guard and guide this man to a safe place and helpful friends. In Jesus's name, amen.
He was going to the airport? Would he know how to get on a plane? Most airports soon notice people who act out of place, but... it's California. It's a place to start, anyway.
A lot of people can’t seem to handle the current situation. Family is one of the only things keeping people going seems like.
I only have my parents, a love interest, and my own friends left. I have God living within me and you guys here, so that's something compared to nothing.
You have more friends than you know! :) 😀
Dear heavenly father, I lift up OPs brother. We pray that you would give him clarity of mine, even if just long enough to get him home. Father, you know exactly where this person is, and I just ask you to bring him home safely.
I ask you to be with the family right now, to calm them and give them peace, Lord, and to open their mind to what possibly could’ve occurred for him to have left. Please keep him safe from the evil out in the world, and bring angels all about him, assisting in his return home. In Jesus name amen.
(on a sidenote, struggling with family members who have mental illnesses can be quite difficult. I would study up on how to deal with people with autism, because I have somebody in my family with it. Also, they cannot handle all the flow of information that comes in all the time. Sometimes it’s best to not talk to them about politics and other tents subjects, because it causes them a lot of distress, because they feel helpless. Along with already feeling helpless with the mental illness. Best wishes to you and your family. My heart goes out to you)
Prayers for your brother's safe return.
If he has been on a computer, check all his saved favorites, etc. Maybe you can find a site that lists a commune that he thought would be a good place to go.
We checked his personal devices as well did the police yesterday afternoon, nothing at all except those notes he left behind.
I am so sorry. I will keep you and yours in my prayers. May your brother be safe where ever he is and he decides the best place is home.
Thanks I appreciate it.
Dear Father in heaven, please protect and guide the brother of ZeKaiser back home or to a safe place with very kind people who can help him.
Send your love, forgiveness, peace and confidence to his family as long as they need it for this situation to have faith in you and your protection for all of your children and now especially for the brother of ZeKaiser. Let him who is lost be found in your love and caring and bring this to a happy end. Thank you!
We'll be praying....please give us updates.
I definitely will, but think we should involve Federal Authorities or just have local law enforcement involved only?
A private investigator maybe? Altho that coukd be costly i have no idea. Did he have money to even buy an expensive ticket?? So sorry fren. Prayers are with you, your brother and your parents. Wish I could do more. If he didn't bring a phone, does he have one you have looked thru to see any communications? Edit - sorry - just saw below you have checked his digital communiactions
A private investigator is what I recommended to my parents. They will take that route if the detectives fail to achieve much, the thing is if he saved money up overtime. I can see that happening, unfortunately his phone only has photos available. I took a look at his maps, it was zoomed in off the coast of San Diego. It's like toward a small island, which is the biggest one there to see from the two of them.
Try this:
Think of him. Hold his picture in your mind. Gather up all your emotion and throw it at him in your head:
Imagine forcing the thought from your head to his.
Follow it up with waves of love.
Then stop and go do something else.
A few hours later, repeat it.
Get others to do it with you.
Telepathy works. I've used it before.
Works to get animals back home and once my kids and I used it to get my then husband back from a bookstore while we were waiting in a restaurant.
No cell phones at the time.
As soon as we finished, he turned up.
Humans have more power than we have been taught.
Catalina Island? There are nice places to camp there. It's the nicest closest wild place to San Diego/LA, I think.
You've shared his photo on facebook, too, I presume. There must be some way to make his picture go viral there, on twitter, etc. Everywhere anyone can think of.
I meet with others every evening to pray for the world and what is going on. In fact have to leave to do so soon. We'll add your brother to our list, and pray he is safe and warm and returns home very soon. It's disturbing times for everyone.
Thank you I appreciate it!
You can't control the actions of others anon. My prayers for you and your brother.
Praying for your brother’s safe return home. 🙏
No mention of his age?
My apologies, he's 38 years old.
38 and cannot be stopped at all? An autist? Perhaps he read too much into the superbowl score. Or the halftime show. Was he bothered by the names of the two newest SC Justices? That one still gets to me...
Yeah he's pretty smart, when you realize he might have duped us if this was planned with someone. Maybe not, but I worry for him man.
First paragraph, last sentence.
Pray the family finds him first.
Your family will be in my prayers.
Thank you. It's definitely needed.
I feel your pain brother. I support my 22 year old autistic nephew. It is difficult. My prayers for your brother and family. My prayers to all families who deal with this deliberate and malicious handicapping of their children.
What are you referring to as the malicious handicapping of kids?
If he really did go to LAX to fly out- the police would be able to find that out. You can't fly without an ID, and security is pretty tight in airports. If he's mentally a child, and the police are involved, that information would be available to them.
How would they track down where he went exactly, some of these airlines refused to give up information when some did. The police even assisted us and couldn't do it with some of them, while others worked out just fine.
I'm sorry, just saw this (had to work all day). They should have issued a golden/silver alert (for a missing adult with a mental disability- I think it's a silver alert in California). It basically functions the same as an amber alert. It would notify everyone in the area with emergency notifications enabled, and give the authorities access to any flight information, etc. It's generally issued if all local resources are exhausted in the case of someone under 65 who is cognitively or developmentally impaired- unless it's an immediate emergency, then it's issued right away.
Thank you for your information sir, I greatly appreciate the help from you. He's still missing unfortunately.
So sorry to hear that he's still missing! Keeping your family in my prayers.
My deepest sympathies. This must be devastating for you and your family. I'm glad to know that you know God and I hope the other members of your family do as well. I will be praying for a great outcome to this situation. I also pray that some kind soul will recognize his need and help him find his way home. I am glad you got the police involved. Perhaps their communcations network will play a helpful part. God bless and I'm glad you brought this to us so we can all be praying with you.
Yeah it was, I shed tears for him nearly an hour ago. But I just remembered the things I treated him badly when it wasn't warranted, I feel just terribly horrible for my past actions.
I woke up and thought about this situation right away. I prayed again for a happy resolution. I am sorry that you did things that you regret. Unfortunately, we all do and sometimes it's hard to forgive ourselves. But this isn't about you, it's really about him, his mental state, and his safety. If you can just get to the point where you know he is safe, that will be a huge relief. You can then work on restoring or creating a new, loving, and helpful relationship. I so wish that you will have that chance, fren. I really do.
What are his "normal clothes" he wears. We are an army of Fens nationwide here. Maybe one of us will spot him. Maybe a quick description without revealing too much about yourself. I know I'll keep my eyes peeled.
Well his clothing consists of a black leather jacket with a grey hoodie, has a blue or gray hat. His pants are ether gray or brown, he wears brown leather shoes that are called boat shoes. He wears a black or blue mask, due to his disability he'll never take it off. His build I would say is around 220 lbs. so he's not that big. His complexion I say is difficult to describe unless I show a picture to you in P.M.
I will keep an eye out. Prayers are with you.
Well u can send me his recent picture too and let me know if he calls from lax area as I am near there.
He doesn't have a phone we already filed out Airport Police and LAPD, but sure I can send a photo through PM.
You can send a picture to ... But it should probaly be more clear and good if you have one without mask. BTW does he not want to be found? And do you know what kind of place he would hunker down in? Maybe I could post a missing photo somewhere
He tends to stay away from people and prefers to be somewhere isolated such as an underground parking garage, who knows though? I have to go home later and get the photo, I don't have it on my phone. A clear one at least.
I have a photo of him, but he's a bit younger however you'll get an idea what he looks like without a mask.
Trust me on this. When all else fails God is all we need. His lovingkindness is everlasting! Trust Him for your brother!
Prayers, fren.
Praying for safe return of you brother fren.
Heading to your update now,
His angels know exactly where he is. Perhaps they might be kind enough to show you.
Praying for you my fren and your brother.
Keep us updated! Bless you and your family. I hope your brother returns home safely. If only there was something I could assist with. Try not to think the absolute worst. Dig through any possible info you could find. There must have been someone he communicated with? He had to get an idea from someone or somewhere I assume?
God is with you fren!
We'll need to find that out and thank you, the best attempts are being personally done currently in order to find him.
Father God, You who command the wind and waves, are with all Your people, You see all that is happening in our lives. We lift up to You ZeKaiser’s brother and ask You to lead those who are searching to find him. We ask Holy Spirit to lead the way, in wisdom, not just in finding his brother but also in how to share life with a person with disabilities. Fill ZeKaiser with Your love, mercy, forgiveness and loving kindness for him and his brother and what challenges their life is like, that only You know Father. Lead his brother home through extraordinary means that will be a testimony of Your love! A witness and a reminder of You, in their hard times and in their good times. We pray in Jesus’ name for peace, well-being, comfort, and a miracle for this family and for our brothers and sisters in the state of California. May this state be brought into alignment with Your will Father. In Jesus’ name. Amen
Man I'm really sorry to hear about this. I will be praying for his safe return.
I appreciate them, thanks again and have a blessed day!
I'm gonna pray for your family right now.
Amen
I’ll pray for his safe return. A couple of things- first, any updates?
Here in FL we have something called a “Purple alert” which is similar to Amber alert, only for people with mental or cognitive disabilities, but not Alzheimer’s (that would be Silver.) Do you have anything like that? One would think if you notified LE about his severe autism etc, they would direct you somehow.
Does anyone manage his money? You say severe autism, and I have a nephew with the same and there is no way he can make decisions about leaving, flying etc independently. He’s just a little kid, though but I would think at some point someone would have been appointed to manage his personal affairs.
If he headed to LAX, did you go there, contact anyone regarding his vulnerable status? Surely, that would be my first stop if he mentioned it. Also, does he have any money? He can’t go too far without money. Check LE near any known homeless encampments or public places such as parks, beaches, libraries, playgrounds etc. homeless shelters? Go to every one of them and tell them the situation. A flyer with a photo would help them. Hopefully, he becomes tired and hungry and comes back soon.
He's more of a quiet type and doesn't like to be around people, you see I found it difficult he managed walk from near North Hollywood to LAX on foot which is basically like 6 hours, but he had an entire head start since the day after that's when we found the notes. An officer said they checked the cameras and found nothing, I don't think all of them have been checked. Airport is pretty huge to cover all around, I hope he does come back. We don't know how much money he has, but he does have a thing to save it up despite not liking it much.
Any news, ZeKeiser? Still praying for all of you.
None so far, he's still missing and found a dolly that we typically use is gone. So he's out there with it. You mind messaging me here in PM?
Sure.
He wants to move away from CA, yet one of the states he wants to flee to is CA?
Are you trolling?
If not and it was just a grammar mistake by your brother or you?
Anyone intelligent wants to leave California. It is such a beautiful state. Possibly, the most beautiful in North America, but it has a big problem.
The people that live there.
They have no soul.
They care nothing for others. There are a few bright spots. My wife loves Calvary (Lol, auto correct tried fiercely to change it to cavalry) Church.
Good people there for sure, but it is mostly a wasteland of people that have given up the fight.
Your brother just wants out of California, because he recognizes what a shiat hole it has become.
Or, you just trolling.
I was starting to think I was the only one who noticed this. It does make the whole thing look like a troll post.
I don't know wtf is up with the OP, don't have anything to add to that, but regarding California, or any place really. Stand your ground if you can, if you cannot then find some other ground you can. There's no right or wrong choice. No dumb or smart move.
I admire the kind of people that consistently and gracefully deny their demons any ground in any fight, no matter the circumstances. California is just heavy work, comparatively speaking. Not much more to it.
This statement is weird, it sounds like a chat gpt story. The structure and cadence of the story are very AI-sh? Could be true but sounds fake. IDK, how to translate but AI stories are surface level only. They tell a story they don't detail a real life incident. Learn to discern.
This incident is not fake, if you take a look at some my previous made threads before chatgpt came out. You would be able to see it's not AI generated, I don't even use that to begin with.
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