Thank God that Jesus didn’t listen to the Pharisees who told him to stop hanging out with prostitutes, lepers, and tax collectors… I imagine they might have said something like, “Your compassion has defeated your discernment.”
Please show us a single verse that tells followers of Christ to NOT love thy neighbor.
EXODUS 22:18 KJV "Thou shalt not suffer a witch to live."
Leviticus 18:22 "You shall not lie with a male as with a woman"
Leviticus 20:13 If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely be put to death; their blood is upon them.
1 Corinthians 6:9 Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality,
Romans 1:27 Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due.
Jude 1:7
In like manner, Sodom and Gomorrah and the cities around them, who indulged in sexual immorality and pursued strange flesh, are on display as an example of those who sustain the punishment of eternal fire.
God's Wrath against Sin
Romans 1:26 For this reason God gave them over to dishonorable passions. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones.
Romans 1:28Furthermore, since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, He gave them up to a depraved mind, to do what ought not to be done.…
When you are WARNED, ""That Snake is Venomous"", and You still reach for it, and it bites you, and your LIFE is therefore threatened by the VENOM of that Snake, it is because YOU refused to listen....
Warnings are given for Good Reasons, and Not Wanting to be NEAR someone or some thing is not against Gods command to ""Love thy neighbor as thyself"", it is just Common Sense, get AWAY from those who have these Mental Afflictions because they might also affect you....
I see you had the standard list of verses to attack teh gays locked and loaded. Good on ya, shipmate!
However, I’m not gay or trans, and I’m already well aware that the degenerates will not inherit the Kingdom of Heaven.
What I asked for was verses that tell ME, a God-fearing Christian man, to stay away from the heathens. Specifically, the “Plenty of verses telling us to AVOID people like this” mentioned by u/newchina.
How will they know the way if we do not show them? You can openly disagree with someone’s lifestyle and be a good example of how to live a Christian life. I get it, I don’t want to be around those people! But how else would they have a chance to change their lives and repent if we don’t show them it’s possible?
Love the sinner, not the sin. Be a human being, but also be yourself. I have decided I will respectfully not use special pronouns. I happily use a name of choice like a nickname.
That's fair. Most of the trans ppl I've met in life (two of them anyway) were just very damaged people who really felt conflicted and needed a friend. And this was @ 15-20 years ago before trans was really a thing
I second this post. Be honest but kind if “he” brings up the subject. Grateful that as Americans we each are free to choose how we want live. Then share how you want to live your life. 👍❤️🇺🇸 The thing is if the fascists persecute you for your beliefs it is only a matter of time before they come for “him” over a different aspect of our freedoms.
We have a couple in the fire department. It’s uncomfortable having to be so guarded when they’re in my classes. ‘Guys’ is used so often in normal conversation. And the little she wanting to be he nazi seems to be waiting to pull a gotcha and cause trouble.
My advice: Just do the assignment. Don't say too much because this may be a set-up to make you look like an asshole. Make sure you are around a lot of potential witnesses while you work on the project.
I had to work with one transgender a few years ago when I was still in the Entertainment Industry. This was before the pronoun craziness and other insane garbage. We just did our work and I decided to treat the person with respect. Surprisingly, the transperson was good at their job. Your mileage may vary.
I concur with the good advice here and above (sorted by top comments). Be Christlike but cautious and do everything out in the open. Treat the person with respect, give no reason for suspicion to arise, and don't let anyone bait you. Focus on getting the work done so you can get your good grade. You're right - this is the kind of thing liberal "educators" often pull to make their point - but don't get caught up in their hang-ups.
Only talk about the assignment. Don't get off the path of doing your job and get dragged into the weeds. Being a professional means staying on task and getting the job done. You're going to have to work with all kinds of people in life. Treat everyone the same. People are either competent or not. Make sure your half of the assignment kicks ass.
That would be easy for me. I would do a skit where I come home on payday with wallet full of cash, wife takes all of it, and comes back in an hour with 10 shopping bags. A+
Be creative with it but, don't allow anyone to cross your boundaries, (your trans teammate making it all about them/trans and such) don't have to be rude to hold your line, just be polite but firm, meet halfway if that will help both of you get a good grade.
This is a good assignment and a great teacher. If you totally learn the lessons in this you could easily develop these skills to create your own business based on data and conclusions you have already made about what product is most successful. If your teacher is really smart and ambitious, he is using your class to delegate the research phase of his own plan to become a millionaire by selling whatever product you little turds come up with on Amazone. Think like an entrepreneur. Collect the data and then SELL THE IDEA of your product to your classmates/teacher. Let your partner focus on SELLING the product with ~her charisma. Ask her upfront how she wants to be called. The teacher made you her partner because he believes you are a capable person. Be the backbone of the project and let your partner be the flair. You win her over, you win the teacher over, all the girls in the class, and make all the dudes look like knuckleheads in comparison. Just be cool and smile. Life is a game. The assignment is simple. Find a product that could make you a lot of money if you sold it online. Bonus points for coming up with a new marketing ploy. Use midjourney to create AI artwork for this new angle on an existing product. Easy A and gets you all the real girls because you handle this so well. good luck!
I would just be Professional and show to your class that you have the capacity to see different points of view while staying true to yourself and your beliefs, if you think it’s a “test” getting paired up with this one because you’re openly conservative, it probably is.
Personal experience does not cut it for either of you.
For instance, here is MY personal experience. I am a biological woman. I spend $0 on cosmetics and I buy 90% of my clothing at secondhand stores. Underwear, socks, shoes, and winter coats/boots I buy new. This is MY experience. Do you see how skewed it is? As a data point, I am an outlier.
Hard data. It will keep you out of the b.s. "my experience trumps all reality" nonsense.
Maby you two do interviews with females in your school about their spending habits. I am female myself but, couldn't tell you how others spend their money, I have never been the type to chase what's new for the year, what is considered the in thing more the creative type, extra cash spent on crafting or creative projects over bling that will just go out of style next year. lol. 16 female vr 30yrld different, married vr non married vr children or no children for older women. I am sure females in your class do not spend on the same things as well. My mother was the accountant in our house, my father was the one always buying random things but, only if mom gave him the ok for the month especially if we had a big expense coming up or house repair, doctor bills or new car need and all. lol
Yea that's a weird situation no doubt. I don't know I mean I personally HATE all trans things at any age, but then again it is clear these people have deep deep deep mental issues and/or had fucked up parents/childhood growing up. Part of me shows empathy towards the ones that stay away from children and are against child mutilation. In your shoes I would be polite and maybe talk about the subject in time and learn more on how these mentally ill people think, but fuck the he/she if they are in support of child mutilation
Communicate from afar.. Text as much as possible..... use Zoom if you have to. You can identify without having little to none transportation. Transsexuals have a much higher rate of schizophrenia, impulsive anger issues, and mental issues. Beware of any who masks their true identity.
I would never enter a home of a stranger, especially if you knew they are transsexual. In my mind, red flags are raised everywhere concerning this. Do it by zoom. There's no project in all my years that requires being present at someones house. If you have to, you can meet at the school or in a public place. The project work is typically divided up, to which each person researches it from their own end. Then project members compare notes, collate, and fuse together a paper with the final results. Even the conclusion is written by one person with input from others.
What if this person claims you sexually accosted them? And 'bears false witness' against you? These people are committing suicide at a 50% rate. The mental issues are off the chart. Don't put yourself in a needless situation. You posted this on this board for a reason. Your gut is telling you something. Listen to it.
Can you do your work in public places like libraries and coffee shops? Sorry to say but it's always best to err on the side of caution and be around people/witnesses as much as you can. If it ever comes down to "he said, she said", you will lose.
Which is worse:
A few hours of potential embarrassment? You said s/he can pass, so odds are no one will notice.
Or.
Being falsely accused of misbehavior? (And losing in the court of school opinion)
In theory, classmates can spread rumors about what you did at his/her home. So wouldn't that be worse than coffee shop embarrassment?
Since he isn't the project, just focus on that. I would not give him any reason at all to make a fuss about himself, since this is your first time, it is distracting, and repulsive, just try and focus on the project. Think of it as a disability and maybe you can find peace in your mind about that. Many of these folks are in a gradient of vulnerable narcissists, so just focus on the project. Are you Christian? Take your concerns to the Lord and ignore it. It is a disability, and when a lot of people find themselves working with a disabled person, they are uncomfortable. Do you have a rapport with the instructor? Perhaps you could be honest about being uncomfortable, but be careful with that too, it could be easily misconstrued in the political climate. I see local Mennonites in the general public, shopping at Price Chopper, at the gas stations, farmers markets (of course, duh.), and they are polite, down to business at hand, though I am sure in their world, they see a lot of people they cannot wrap their heads around. If they become inappropriate, sexual harrasment is a thing. Pray for him, he needs it.
Realistically, don't be an asshole and do focus on getting your project done. Your future is too important to blow it up on a few seconds of fame on GAW or Truth Social.
God willing, your partner will respect your boundaries, since it is his grade too. If he doesn't, talk to him respectfully to mind his manners. If he persistent, then bring it up with your professors, and let them take care of it.
Would address her as she/her if obviously living as female. Its the in-betweens and non-binarys that have the pronoun drama. Treat her as an individual and not part of the mob, as long as she is interacting with the same respect.
Wont be popular, but i believe there are a few real trans. Have heard and read that God doesnt create trans. But He doesnt create stillborns, down syndrome, kleinfelters, hermaphrodites, or childhood cancer victims either. God creates perfection, but we are away from God, in a fallen world, where things, and processes, can go wrong. Believe God will restore her to His perfect creation with faith in Jesus.
Just to clarify: He's a transvestite. A dude who wears women's clothing. "TransGENDER" is not a thing since no one can alter the sex they were born with, and gender is not a social construct. The Cabal has been trying to redefine "gender", but the genitalia one was born with tells the truth.
Just treat the victim of this travesty of satanic Cabal ideology with kindness. Who knows what pressure has been out on him, or what traumas he's endured. I've dropped a few red pills on that crowd. So long as you don't attack and speak in a questioning way, you can plant seeds.
Mutual respect. I don't mind calling an individual person by "preferred pronouns" if they're being respectful to me. That's my choice to show them respect. It's when they make demands and tell me what to do when I oppose it.
That person probably lives in an echo chamber where they see trans-hate in everybody. Be the person who plants the seed that they were wrong about us. And that the media is lying to everybody to divide us.
Don’t be a jerk but don’t compromise your logic. This could be a great opportunity to show this guy why he will never be a girl. You can do all that while showing him you love him as a human and not giving into the lies and delusions he might have about gender.
I would suggest be a good listener. Try to be empathetic towards them. They are confused and who know why they are the way they are. It could be attached to something traumatic. But if they start speaking as if their opinion is science be ready to use logical facts to express why you cannot agree with them. And if it gets heated I would state that things are heated and our time is better spent working on the project. Hopefully that is some helpful advice. I’m a believer so I would also be praying for wisdom and a chance to show Christs love towards them.
This person might be a victim of a councilor, teacher, or parent. If the councilor says "you're not trans," they loose a client. 12 year old boys can be mean to each other so I could see him not wanting anything to do with them.
It also just might be the clothes. Men's clothes are utilitarian and dull. Women's clothes are styled to be visually attractive. Thank you Fetterman for demonstrating how unattractive men's casual clothes are today.
If it's legal (in a 1 party state) secretly record your meetings with an audio recorder app or CosyDVR for video. Test it out first. You don't want your phone to chime every 10 minutes. And maybe take some ivermectin etc. so you don't catch the hypothetical trans parasites.
Don't get yourself into trouble because of this. If you don't know what to do, ask the teacher, and have your parents ask if you can be reassigned to a normal human.
Maintain your own grace and dignity. Show respect as you would for anyone else. Don't allow anything cringy. And if they do a good job that's what really matters.
"Love one another as I have loved you."
Unless it comes up, or affects the project in some way, just be a friend and do your best and it will all work out for the good
Amen to this!
Plenty of verses telling us to AVOID people like this. Your compassion has defeated your discernment.
Thank God that Jesus didn’t listen to the Pharisees who told him to stop hanging out with prostitutes, lepers, and tax collectors… I imagine they might have said something like, “Your compassion has defeated your discernment.”
Please show us a single verse that tells followers of Christ to NOT love thy neighbor.
EXODUS 22:18 KJV "Thou shalt not suffer a witch to live."
Leviticus 18:22 "You shall not lie with a male as with a woman"
Leviticus 20:13 If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely be put to death; their blood is upon them.
1 Corinthians 6:9 Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality,
Romans 1:27 Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due.
Jude 1:7 In like manner, Sodom and Gomorrah and the cities around them, who indulged in sexual immorality and pursued strange flesh, are on display as an example of those who sustain the punishment of eternal fire.
God's Wrath against Sin Romans 1:26 For this reason God gave them over to dishonorable passions. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones.
Romans 1:28Furthermore, since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, He gave them up to a depraved mind, to do what ought not to be done.…
When you are WARNED, ""That Snake is Venomous"", and You still reach for it, and it bites you, and your LIFE is therefore threatened by the VENOM of that Snake, it is because YOU refused to listen....
Warnings are given for Good Reasons, and Not Wanting to be NEAR someone or some thing is not against Gods command to ""Love thy neighbor as thyself"", it is just Common Sense, get AWAY from those who have these Mental Afflictions because they might also affect you....
It’s difficult to be a hard charging teufelhund and a Christian at the same time, isn’t it?
How’s the jaw?
I see you had the standard list of verses to attack teh gays locked and loaded. Good on ya, shipmate!
However, I’m not gay or trans, and I’m already well aware that the degenerates will not inherit the Kingdom of Heaven.
What I asked for was verses that tell ME, a God-fearing Christian man, to stay away from the heathens. Specifically, the “Plenty of verses telling us to AVOID people like this” mentioned by u/newchina.
Got any of those handy?
Hmmm. I wasn’t the one that responded with verses.
https://www.openbible.info/topics/avoidance
How will they know the way if we do not show them? You can openly disagree with someone’s lifestyle and be a good example of how to live a Christian life. I get it, I don’t want to be around those people! But how else would they have a chance to change their lives and repent if we don’t show them it’s possible?
Love the sinner, not the sin. Be a human being, but also be yourself. I have decided I will respectfully not use special pronouns. I happily use a name of choice like a nickname.
That's fair. Most of the trans ppl I've met in life (two of them anyway) were just very damaged people who really felt conflicted and needed a friend. And this was @ 15-20 years ago before trans was really a thing
I second this post. Be honest but kind if “he” brings up the subject. Grateful that as Americans we each are free to choose how we want live. Then share how you want to live your life. 👍❤️🇺🇸 The thing is if the fascists persecute you for your beliefs it is only a matter of time before they come for “him” over a different aspect of our freedoms.
Yes be Christ like.... but remember you don't need to participate in their delusions
I think I'm just gonna use their name instead of pronouns as much as possible.
"Hey" is always a good one to address the unknown. Its unisex. 😆
I call everyone "dude"
Yeah bro
I know whatcha mean, man. 👍
That is probably the way to go.
We have a couple in the fire department. It’s uncomfortable having to be so guarded when they’re in my classes. ‘Guys’ is used so often in normal conversation. And the little she wanting to be he nazi seems to be waiting to pull a gotcha and cause trouble.
That's what I did - called my co-worker by their female name - although the pronoun thing was not in the forefront 10 years ago.
My advice: Just do the assignment. Don't say too much because this may be a set-up to make you look like an asshole. Make sure you are around a lot of potential witnesses while you work on the project.
I had to work with one transgender a few years ago when I was still in the Entertainment Industry. This was before the pronoun craziness and other insane garbage. We just did our work and I decided to treat the person with respect. Surprisingly, the transperson was good at their job. Your mileage may vary.
I concur with the good advice here and above (sorted by top comments). Be Christlike but cautious and do everything out in the open. Treat the person with respect, give no reason for suspicion to arise, and don't let anyone bait you. Focus on getting the work done so you can get your good grade. You're right - this is the kind of thing liberal "educators" often pull to make their point - but don't get caught up in their hang-ups.
Civil to everyone, courteous to no one. Kelvinskys law
Only talk about the assignment. Don't get off the path of doing your job and get dragged into the weeds. Being a professional means staying on task and getting the job done. You're going to have to work with all kinds of people in life. Treat everyone the same. People are either competent or not. Make sure your half of the assignment kicks ass.
Thanks. Ironically the subject we were assigned has to do with women's spending habits on things like clothes and makeup.
That would be easy for me. I would do a skit where I come home on payday with wallet full of cash, wife takes all of it, and comes back in an hour with 10 shopping bags. A+
You left out the part about her telling you how much money she saved. 😛
When my mom would show my dad all the things she bought on sale my dad would say “well that’s nice dear, but I can’t afford to save anymore money.” 😁
That sounds annoying lol
Be creative with it but, don't allow anyone to cross your boundaries, (your trans teammate making it all about them/trans and such) don't have to be rude to hold your line, just be polite but firm, meet halfway if that will help both of you get a good grade.
This is a good assignment and a great teacher. If you totally learn the lessons in this you could easily develop these skills to create your own business based on data and conclusions you have already made about what product is most successful. If your teacher is really smart and ambitious, he is using your class to delegate the research phase of his own plan to become a millionaire by selling whatever product you little turds come up with on Amazone. Think like an entrepreneur. Collect the data and then SELL THE IDEA of your product to your classmates/teacher. Let your partner focus on SELLING the product with ~her charisma. Ask her upfront how she wants to be called. The teacher made you her partner because he believes you are a capable person. Be the backbone of the project and let your partner be the flair. You win her over, you win the teacher over, all the girls in the class, and make all the dudes look like knuckleheads in comparison. Just be cool and smile. Life is a game. The assignment is simple. Find a product that could make you a lot of money if you sold it online. Bonus points for coming up with a new marketing ploy. Use midjourney to create AI artwork for this new angle on an existing product. Easy A and gets you all the real girls because you handle this so well. good luck!
Every adult in his life ran with this 12-year old’s delusion instead of trying to help him.
they probably planted the seeds
Just be Christ like. Be nice and don't let them get to you. This person likely sufers major mental illness so be nice its probably not their fault.
I would just be Professional and show to your class that you have the capacity to see different points of view while staying true to yourself and your beliefs, if you think it’s a “test” getting paired up with this one because you’re openly conservative, it probably is.
Well the topic we have is related to gender so I'm sure stuff will come up like their spending habits and stuff on clothes/cosmetics.
No, No, NO. Information on spending should be from a data base of THOUSANDS of consumers. Personal anecdotes are bad info. Avoid at all costs.
Stick to hard data, hard facts.
Personal experience does not cut it for either of you.
For instance, here is MY personal experience. I am a biological woman. I spend $0 on cosmetics and I buy 90% of my clothing at secondhand stores. Underwear, socks, shoes, and winter coats/boots I buy new. This is MY experience. Do you see how skewed it is? As a data point, I am an outlier.
Hard data. It will keep you out of the b.s. "my experience trumps all reality" nonsense.
Be nice. Good luck!
Maby you two do interviews with females in your school about their spending habits. I am female myself but, couldn't tell you how others spend their money, I have never been the type to chase what's new for the year, what is considered the in thing more the creative type, extra cash spent on crafting or creative projects over bling that will just go out of style next year. lol. 16 female vr 30yrld different, married vr non married vr children or no children for older women. I am sure females in your class do not spend on the same things as well. My mother was the accountant in our house, my father was the one always buying random things but, only if mom gave him the ok for the month especially if we had a big expense coming up or house repair, doctor bills or new car need and all. lol
Yea that's a weird situation no doubt. I don't know I mean I personally HATE all trans things at any age, but then again it is clear these people have deep deep deep mental issues and/or had fucked up parents/childhood growing up. Part of me shows empathy towards the ones that stay away from children and are against child mutilation. In your shoes I would be polite and maybe talk about the subject in time and learn more on how these mentally ill people think, but fuck the he/she if they are in support of child mutilation
Communicate from afar.. Text as much as possible..... use Zoom if you have to. You can identify without having little to none transportation. Transsexuals have a much higher rate of schizophrenia, impulsive anger issues, and mental issues. Beware of any who masks their true identity.
It's a pretty intensive project so I'll probably have to come to his house and stuff. It's the biggest grade of the year and a ton of work.
I would never enter a home of a stranger, especially if you knew they are transsexual. In my mind, red flags are raised everywhere concerning this. Do it by zoom. There's no project in all my years that requires being present at someones house. If you have to, you can meet at the school or in a public place. The project work is typically divided up, to which each person researches it from their own end. Then project members compare notes, collate, and fuse together a paper with the final results. Even the conclusion is written by one person with input from others.
What if this person claims you sexually accosted them? And 'bears false witness' against you? These people are committing suicide at a 50% rate. The mental issues are off the chart. Don't put yourself in a needless situation. You posted this on this board for a reason. Your gut is telling you something. Listen to it.
Came here to say 💯 this.
Can you do your work in public places like libraries and coffee shops? Sorry to say but it's always best to err on the side of caution and be around people/witnesses as much as you can. If it ever comes down to "he said, she said", you will lose.
That's kind of embarrassing honestly
Which is worse:
A few hours of potential embarrassment? You said s/he can pass, so odds are no one will notice.
Or.
Being falsely accused of misbehavior? (And losing in the court of school opinion)
In theory, classmates can spread rumors about what you did at his/her home. So wouldn't that be worse than coffee shop embarrassment?
Yeah you're probably right but you know people are gonna call it a date
And what will they call it if you go to his/her home?
Go to the library
Never enter a house of a stranger, nor shall you invite others into your house. Basic stranger safety 101.
Insist on meeting in person in a public area, or in zoom. Libraries are invented for such occasions.
NO NO NO. Not required by the school (liability issues).
I am questioning this premise now.
Since he isn't the project, just focus on that. I would not give him any reason at all to make a fuss about himself, since this is your first time, it is distracting, and repulsive, just try and focus on the project. Think of it as a disability and maybe you can find peace in your mind about that. Many of these folks are in a gradient of vulnerable narcissists, so just focus on the project. Are you Christian? Take your concerns to the Lord and ignore it. It is a disability, and when a lot of people find themselves working with a disabled person, they are uncomfortable. Do you have a rapport with the instructor? Perhaps you could be honest about being uncomfortable, but be careful with that too, it could be easily misconstrued in the political climate. I see local Mennonites in the general public, shopping at Price Chopper, at the gas stations, farmers markets (of course, duh.), and they are polite, down to business at hand, though I am sure in their world, they see a lot of people they cannot wrap their heads around. If they become inappropriate, sexual harrasment is a thing. Pray for him, he needs it.
Realistically, don't be an asshole and do focus on getting your project done. Your future is too important to blow it up on a few seconds of fame on GAW or Truth Social.
God willing, your partner will respect your boundaries, since it is his grade too. If he doesn't, talk to him respectfully to mind his manners. If he persistent, then bring it up with your professors, and let them take care of it.
Would address her as she/her if obviously living as female. Its the in-betweens and non-binarys that have the pronoun drama. Treat her as an individual and not part of the mob, as long as she is interacting with the same respect.
Wont be popular, but i believe there are a few real trans. Have heard and read that God doesnt create trans. But He doesnt create stillborns, down syndrome, kleinfelters, hermaphrodites, or childhood cancer victims either. God creates perfection, but we are away from God, in a fallen world, where things, and processes, can go wrong. Believe God will restore her to His perfect creation with faith in Jesus.
What does that mean?
Restore her to the child God created. Be it male or female. Only God knows.
And didnt mean resored to a literal child, but in the sense we are all God's children.
Just to clarify: He's a transvestite. A dude who wears women's clothing. "TransGENDER" is not a thing since no one can alter the sex they were born with, and gender is not a social construct. The Cabal has been trying to redefine "gender", but the genitalia one was born with tells the truth.
Just treat the victim of this travesty of satanic Cabal ideology with kindness. Who knows what pressure has been out on him, or what traumas he's endured. I've dropped a few red pills on that crowd. So long as you don't attack and speak in a questioning way, you can plant seeds.
Use this opportunity to change them and make them see righteousness.
one day just say hey lets go to the john and have a smoke (guys john)
Might get the wrong idea LOL
Mutual respect. I don't mind calling an individual person by "preferred pronouns" if they're being respectful to me. That's my choice to show them respect. It's when they make demands and tell me what to do when I oppose it.
That person probably lives in an echo chamber where they see trans-hate in everybody. Be the person who plants the seed that they were wrong about us. And that the media is lying to everybody to divide us.
Lol you are set up.
Don’t be a jerk but don’t compromise your logic. This could be a great opportunity to show this guy why he will never be a girl. You can do all that while showing him you love him as a human and not giving into the lies and delusions he might have about gender.
How exactly would I do that?
I would suggest be a good listener. Try to be empathetic towards them. They are confused and who know why they are the way they are. It could be attached to something traumatic. But if they start speaking as if their opinion is science be ready to use logical facts to express why you cannot agree with them. And if it gets heated I would state that things are heated and our time is better spent working on the project. Hopefully that is some helpful advice. I’m a believer so I would also be praying for wisdom and a chance to show Christs love towards them.
This person might be a victim of a councilor, teacher, or parent. If the councilor says "you're not trans," they loose a client. 12 year old boys can be mean to each other so I could see him not wanting anything to do with them.
It also just might be the clothes. Men's clothes are utilitarian and dull. Women's clothes are styled to be visually attractive. Thank you Fetterman for demonstrating how unattractive men's casual clothes are today.
If it's legal (in a 1 party state) secretly record your meetings with an audio recorder app or CosyDVR for video. Test it out first. You don't want your phone to chime every 10 minutes. And maybe take some ivermectin etc. so you don't catch the hypothetical trans parasites.
Id drop the class
Smash or pass bro.
Pretty sure he still has a weiner but I'm not gonna ask lmao
What class is this for?
I don’t see it going well.
Be yourself. Watch your rear end. They're a clicky bunch. It isn't your fault mommy and daddy let him down.
You are probably right, the jokes on you. Whatever
You can tolerate evil or take a stand against it.
Easiest solution, get a different partner, make a fucking stink if you have to. Show the world where you stand regardless of the outcome.
Don't get yourself into trouble because of this. If you don't know what to do, ask the teacher, and have your parents ask if you can be reassigned to a normal human.
Maintain your own grace and dignity. Show respect as you would for anyone else. Don't allow anything cringy. And if they do a good job that's what really matters.
Wym anything cringy?
You're damned if you do, damned if you don't.