I've talked to you all about my divorce previously (15 years, wife decided she wanted to leave as soon as she graduated and got her degree after I supported her and worked multiple jobs).
She's officially moving out in two weeks. Then, my lease ends in just five weeks.
Landlord already told me they're going to be selling the home and also raising rent nearly 40% if I wanted to stay. Can't afford it. Have no where to go.
Going to transition to being a 'nomad', selling the remaining few things I own, and just bouncing from airbnb to airbnb along with camping. I figured this would be a good opportunity for me to get out, travel, visit national parks, kayak, camp, fish, see the US and get my mind off everything. It's not stable. But I can't find anything. Everywhere requires "3x income" or some ridiculous score that I don't have.
Anyway. Not sure why I'm posting this here. Guess I just wanted to share with you all since I never did give any updates from my previous posts about "what should I do?"
So, really, for me, the storm is here. And the "build back better" now makes so much sense in my personal life. Weird that now I now have to suddenly build my life back. I've completely lost my identity.
No clue where this road is going to take me. But it's either 'get busy living or get busy dying.'
Say a few prayers for me. God has been good to me recently and has gotten me into the 'acceptance' phase of all this.
Edit: By the way, if anyone wants to give me a follow over on X, I'll be documenting all of my journeys. Hoping to one day get some camera gear and a drone and film everything. Might make some personal podcasts and documenting my testimony. Maybe it'll help someone in the future. https://twitter.com/@thinktankfranks
I remember you and your post.
I wish your wife would go to counseling, learn again what brought you together.
I am sickened what she did to you, after being so selfless, a wonderful husband.
I will pray for you. I hate the thought of you being out there like this, alone.
God will be with you creating your life canvas. More joy for you in life.
Please keep us posted. You're a good man.
I really do appreciate this post.
I wont lie and say that I'm not terrified. I've downloaded all kinds of camping apps... I'm having a really difficult time figuring it all out. I have a roof top tent on order. Sucks, but I'll be sleeping in that and trying to just travel around. I work remote so I'll be just working from the inside of my car with a power station and/or from an airbnb.
Ultimately. I know that God is with me in all of this. I feel Him. I really do. When I pray, I get confirmations. I think He has much more that He needs to show me. It's going to be extremely difficult but I'm sure I'll find some healing in nature.
I do feel just as you said, the lonelieness. I'm very concerned about that ... going from always being with my wife and kids to suddenly - by myself in a car and tent. Especially as someone who suffers from anxiety, I am a little concerned it might give me a heart attack, quite literally. I just continue praying. I figure at the very least, as long as I keep working, I can save money and maybe get a place of my own in a year or so. It's going to be a very long year, though...
Thanks for your comment.
You may pay a lot for an Airbnb. You might think about motels that rent by the week or month, some with kitchenettes. On the positive side, you can work remote which is a blessing. Take comfort in the fact that you did everything you could to support your ex in realizing her dreams, so you have zero regrets. She is the one who used you and she has a lot to answer for. I hope in your travels you find a place that gives you peace,tranquillity and comfort. Please keep us informed how you are doing. God speed, friend.
Honestly, that really doesn’t sound too bad. Use this to understand yourself a bit better, you have a job that doesn’t require you to be locked into a city, and with starlink you can literally be in the middle of nowhere while growing your bank account. You will appreciate this later in life. Stay optimistic!
Yes! And I saw starlink was discounted to $300 right now. I'm praying that discount stays until next Friday so I can pick it up.
Dont know your fiscal position, but a van might be a good way to go for a while. While they dont get as good of gas mileage as a car, you can save significant coin on housing by living in them. Keep them plain jane and you can stealth camp in the cities for free. You can boondock on federal land and a ton of the wallyworld as well as other businesses have free park and camp on their parking lots.
I know it sucks right now, you had invested a lot of time money effort and soul into the relationship, but, try and look at the positive, you didnt have kids. Dont let her see you consumed with the grief. Be confident and take this trip. Go find your next chapter. Plenty of good women out there for you to meet. Enjoy smelling the roses along the way and enjoy the trip. A road trip to me always clears my head, I love dashboard therapy.
My recommendation would be a class B+ and a gym membership for shower access.
Take care my fren, the only advice I can give you is that, while this feels crazy right now, you might find yourself looking back at this moment and think this is the best thing that ever happened to you.
Try to use this opportunity to free yourself in every possible way. I think you are already on the right path in your thinking, and I hope you get to live your life to the fullest doing whatever you have always wanted to do but couldnt because life gets in the way.
Thank you friend
Many of us are at similar points.
It’s hard. The mental stress of trying to stay afloat is getting to me but I use this forum to shit post and make life a little better. I did the air bnb nomad thing myself. Also had a friend who self ‘deleted’. It’s better to reach out than think no one cares. We all do, but what can we do right now asides from saying thanks for sharing. Only Jesus Christ salvation last forever. Not evil.
Trumps first book talked about his bankruptcy. He talked about how the things that worked and didn’t work . We will rebuild. Remember what worked for you, who was there for you and rebuild on that. Trumps fortunes skyrocket cause he realized not everyone in his life was there for Don. They were there for TRUMP.
He also said to win big, you have to learn how to lose. And dammit, we’ve been losing a lot. But what you learn here will bring better fortunes. Our president is a leader. He didn’t lead us astray, but let’s be honest. As men in the west , we all got a little soft and needed this kick in the ass. Stay safe anon.
Edit: https://truthsocial.com/@KarliBonne/112850368247375086
Wow that's such a good point about our President.
And you're so right ... we do have to learn how to lose. it's very biblical too. It's a form of refining. As the Bible says, I counsel you to buy me gold refined in the furnace. We are like a sword being forged - it is poured, hammered, and beaten on until it is made perfect.
Shit posting is a great point! This forum alongside X has really given me some form of sanity. Making memes, posting whatever I want ... researching topics. Been going into a lot of X spaces, too. I have found those to be a nice place for community.
I didn’t read your first post but I’ve read this one and can see you’re struggling with your divorce. I did too when I went through one years ago. It was a very nasty divorce from her side, I stayed civil for my 2 daughters sake. It ruined me and I hit some darkness in my life, when I was at my lowest, a light came into my life, my wife now. Things happen for a reason my friend, traveling may be good thing, clear your head and focus on you. Things will get better, have faith.
Sorry you went through this, too - amazing that you found someone else. I've told myself I will never marry again. I don't think I'll ever date again, either. I have no trust anymore. It is totally shattered. There is certainly darkness to this. Sounds lame, but Adele "we could have had it all" came on the radio the other day when I was driving and I had a private melt down ... really does feel like that. Pretty crazy how some songs just hit so true.
Please don't judge everyone based on the actions of one. There are good women out there. We may be hard to find but we are growing in numbers. Bless you and prayers that after you heal you realize we are not made to be alone. God charges us find mates for his glory.
I have a house in Texas I'll rent you without 3xs income.... just saying, you'd probably be real happy there for an adventure
Really? That's really kind of you.
How much? Can you DM me? Happy to send you my phone number so we can chat further.
I will pray for you. What s rough position to be in. I am sorry you are doing through this.
Thank you
Just a reply- message in a cyber-bottle, from a complete stranger: I agree that now is an opportunity to see the country and enjoy some peace, after the arguments, pshycological pain and betrayal. But go forth, to find a community that is functional: I mean a place that has a bakery and a butcher, a petrol station and a general store, and some residential areas. And talk to people. Really - don't go to a city. Find something useful in that community, to do straight away - even volunteer work at the church. People in small communities will judge you by your actions, so don't be a hermit and lurk in the bushes. Keep calm and stay friendly. This is really an opportunity after all.
It is important to imagine being amongst people, not the wide open sky - that is a myth drawing you to a symbolic peace-of-mind. Nice for a holiday, but it can play games with your mind and accentuate weirdness. The quiet will spook with memories, and everything, including wild animals (and even strangers in the middle of the night), will send your nerves into top-gear. The rule is: the further you park from civilization, the weirder the encounters.
However for the short term: Try and liquidate most of your posessions and turn the funds into a van. Put a mattress in it. If you are good with your hands, build up the bed base so that you have (nearly) twice the floor area - put stuffboxes (even sturdy cardboard boxes) under the bed. Also attach nets on the ceiling, around the edges, for stashing towels, socks and bags of food etc. And hang curtains in the windows or shades (or put dark tint on the windows as well - for privacy).
Don't plan to cook inside with gas (the van will be too sealed so there is a danger of carbon monoxide) - so get used to eating things that don't always need cooking (e.g. salami, peanut butter sandwiches, fruit etc.), and look forward to warm food on a still day, when you an cook outside. Pack a spade (bury your poo in a hole please). Also useful, is a couple of 4-gallon jerricans for tap/rinsing water. That's freedom. It depends on the tonnage of the van - the more water you have, the longer you can camp out.
Later on, when you are on the road, you can figure out a battery/solar panel/cell-phone charger/satellite connection and figure out a first-aid/hygiene kit etc.
Each van is different, but the sooner you start preparing, the sooner you will be better off, once you start driving. But, at a pinch, start with the van and a mattress. (can you get 3-yr finance for a running van?). This plan means that you must keep the van running, and keep up with insurance etc. That's your freedom, and your responsibility to your future self.
BTW. One is not homeless in a van - once you have wheels, you are free, and the little details, for example, a lidded bucket with personal bits and pieces and a couple books, make it home. Sure there is much less judgement coming from others, when you are self-sufficient and can just move at short notice. This is how you stay ahead of the curve.
Stay in airB&B by all means, but do it occasionally, to freshen up.
Thank you. Sold most of my things before we moved into current place. Cant afford the van but will be doing similar in my SUV. Hopefully it works ... much smaller space but will have to make do for now.
I should have read down, I gave the abridge version of your recommendation - get a van. It's real easy to boondock or stealth in the cities. Get a gym membership for showering and working out. I've cooked plenty of things wrapped up in aluminum foil and placed it on the engine - exhaust manifold while I drove too.. works fine.
Have a "real" address, even if it's a friend's address who can get your mail and forward it to you. Some states think if you don't have an address, you are a vagrant. Had a run-in with a cop in SC about it. Had to prove I had a "real" home while living in my van for a long project.
I have been there, Brother. More times than I care to admit to myself. Not from divorce, but from other events in my life. Hang in there. Persistence and drive will get you started, but Faith will get you the rest of the way.
Amen. Thank you.
In Jesus name you will be made whole. 🙏
Amen
Hang in there Fren...As and outside perspective...Remember, when one door closes, another opens. There is a whole wide world out there...Be open to change and opportunity...I am sure something / place will fit. I have also been there. I would rather be miserable..and alone, than Miserable in a marriage.
Came here to say this☝️God sometimes closes a door to get us in a better place. Imagine the new possibilities in your life...have faith! You are a giver and I'm praying you will be receiving God's blessings!
Things will be changing soon when POTUS is back officially and the economy will take off like a rocket. Good times are just around the corner. Hang in there fren..the best is yet to come! 🙏🤍
Very true. She told me last night "Since you dont have anywhere to go, you can always move in with us and sleep in the living room until you find a place."
That's nice and all ... but it's time to rip off the baindaid, as I told her. She wanted this and put me in this situation. I will not be moving with her.
Also, part of me makes me think that's the matrix or something trying to pull me back in and keep me trapped (I've been stuck in this situation for a year and a half - she told me she wanted a divorce in february of 2023 but then never left the house - and I continued to try to work on our marriage which was a total waste of time). To me, it seems like I'm about to be going down the correct path. As there always seems to be some kind of odd resistance that comes out of things when I get close to breakthroughs. Just something I've noticed.
clarify why she said move in with "us".
I was looking at your other replies, but maybe missed it, do you have children?
If you have children, you need to stay involved with your children. full stop. Your children are your highest priority.
SPEZ: just saw on another replied, you mentioned you have kids.
You need to stay involved with your kids. non-negotiable.
I have kids, yes. She is taking them. Two girls, 20 and 13.
I'm not going to go into details of my personal history, here. But I will say this much: There have been times -- more than one -- when I hit absolute, can't-go-any-further-down rock-bottom in my life. So I know just how you feel.
But I eventually pulled myself together and got out of my pit. Point is, if I can do it, so can you. Just don't give up.
My motivation app just sent me a notification five minutes ago.
it's only message:
"Do not quit."
Amen! Do not quit!
You might want to try Glassdoor.com. Look for positions listed as Caretaker. There are plenty of resorts, estates, vacation properties, or for off-season care, etc... that need a live-in property caretaker, where room and board are included along with $$$ and insurance coverage.
A lot of those places are in more remote areas like the mountains, lake front, ski resorts, Texas Hill Country, etc... that just need people willing to watch over the place and keep things in repair, or be there to make sure it's being maintained.
If you want to start over and possibly get some you-time for a while, it's a good suggestion. Who knows? You might find your next thing.
I searched caretaker and it just kept popping up with "caregiver" for senior care living centers. If I search property caretaker it comes up with like property manager style positions. Wonder if there's another search term. I'll dig around on this.
I see yellowstone is hiring and they offer lodging, that's interesting!
really? that's interesting I haven't heard of that before. I will do a search, thank you for the suggestion
What is an airbnb?
Do you still have your job?
An Airbnb is a private home/ condo that is rented like a hotel !
ok thanks. I guess that answers my second question too.
Lol yeah , thank God he can get into places !
I do, yes. I work remote so all I need is my laptop and an internet connection, fortunately. I'm very blessed to work for a tech company (the pay is trash because I'm a contractor and so the agency takes so much of my pay - praying that God will open up the door for me to be made a standard employee).
Airbnb gives me the opportunity to rent a room or a small condo or guest house for a limited period of time. Problem is there's no stability - some places are only available for a few weeks. So I've compiled a list of places I can bounce around to. This, in addition to visiting national parks and camping in my car.
I'll be saying a prayer for you. Also suggest that you give it to the Lord in prayer. He has a way of making it work beyond our understanding.
There are some on the road truck drivers who have no home. All they do is live in their trucks and stop at truck stops to take showers. That doesn't sound too bad except for them having to use their truck as a restroom.
Yep. A lot of the rest stops say no sleeping for more than 3 hours, though. (So no camping, unless you're a truck driver)
However, planet fitness offers a membership for $25/mo that's valid across the entire US. You get access to the showers, gym, massage chairs, etc. So that's pretty cool and convenient. (Not that I want to have to always shower in showers like this but ... is what it is)
Van life. You can work it out in a wagon too, just not as much room. Vans also blend in and have more privacy allowing you to stealth park in the city, make it look like a work van. Get magnetic sticker for the side for some fictious business. You can totally blend in. Walmarts and other businesses let you camp in their lots. Plenty of apps provide the detail. Vanlife can be a more affordable route due to housing savings.
pretty much what I'm doing. Can't afford to get a van but will be doing it in my SUV.
SUV can work as well. If you can get the rear windows tinted or do it yourself, that will make a big difference for privacy. Dont know the vehicle, but it your can put up a partition curtain behind the drivers seat to give you that "limo" effect, all the better. I am sure you've thought thru things. It will be a great venture, I would love to "rubber tramp" again. There are a few forums on plebbit as well as apps for parking camping. I am pushing the privacy bit more, if your stealth camping. If you're boondocking, do what you want.
I am also going to recommend something else that may or may not fit with you, when I was younger and I did run stealth camping, you can eat very well for free from the dumpsters. Stores dump all kinds of great food all the time. After your first couple of scores, you get over any issues. I ate really well and had a ton of shit to give to others.
Other suggestions, I use to work in the service industry. Most hotels (think big hotels) have an employee cafeteria where service staff and contractors can eat - cheap and good. If you're more scandalous, you can hit the free breakfast at most hotels (smaller ones) by walking in like you're legit and grabbing a plate. The same goes for the pool and gym, a lot of times you'll have to tail gate to get into the gyms, but sometimes you dont.
Wifi sounds like you have that covered, know that starbucks, mcdonalds and a lot of chains have free wifi. Learn about war driving and cantennas. If you stick to fueling at truck stops, you can get points towards showers. Some of the forums have folks that will share passes with you to get you a free shower too. Sorry your ex did you dirty. Living your best life and never looking back (that means dont contact her) will be your best. You'll grow from this and gain a ton of life experience. It sucks now, but you'll look back with good memories on how you dealt with it. If your west coast, slab city might be a great place to kick it for a bit.
Enjoy your adventure and keep us in the loop. Dashboard therapy from the ride will be your friend and the best thing for you.
Thank you. One major issue I'm having is if I remove the seats, the air bags will not deploy. I have a new ford explorer. So I have to work with a more limited area since the seats have to be down instead of removed. This is causing issues as I originally intended to take out the seats, build a platform, and store all of my things and clothes and stuff underneath the platform. Ran into this issue and now I can't do that. I was originally going to install a composting toilet in the back but, with limited space, I now can't do that. I tried to get things set up the other day with bed, power station, and some other things, and it's ridiculously tight. I think I might build a horizontal platform running from each side of the vehicle that's kind of 'lifted up' above the bed area. Then on that platform I could put my power station and free up some space for cabinets. Really difficult to try to plan all this by myself.
For wifi, I was either thinking starlink or this: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08YKB6VMN?psc=1&ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_ct_B6NNV09AY1FGYVT1WCWQ
What do you think about that device? It'll of course only work in areas where there's cell reception.
Maybe both so that I have a backup? Starbucks is a good point, too.
Odd I see this today. I feel ya my friend. Lived in California 58 years married to my late wife almost 20 years. She passed in feb 23. Relocated to Alabama. Mostly a free state. California is completely gone. Own my house but it’s all I got. No savings and nothing but the house to fall back on. After my wife’s passing I started realizing I had no identity of my own. Thought I might wanna sell out and hit the road. Go full time Nomad. All still up in the air. Love it here in the south but not sure how long I can keep it going. What a hell of a thing…. What a hell of an adventure. Up to god now 🙏🏻
Man. So sorry to read of the passing of your wife :(
I pray for your strength and prosperity.
Maybe I'll see you on the road one day
Thank you! Looks like we are in a season of trials. I feel blessed in many ways but like you maybe, can’t quite put my finger on it. I just feel like I’m in identity limbo. I know things change and I know they will but not used to feeling this way. Take care brother. It’s all god now.
100% season of trials. Absolutely. Take care of yourself, as well.
The Texas panhandle has a bunch of free municipal rv parks. It's a great area to get an easier start on things. From here you can go north in the summer and south in the winter.
Rv and some lawn care equipment to start then on to bigger things. It can be a very fun lifestyle. Don't look back...
Borger, Hereford, Littlefield, Levelland. Brownfield, Pampa, Andrews, Dumas, Lamesa, Stinnett, Perryton, Crosbyton. And Amarillo & Lubbock are nearby when you need them. Nice small towns with nice people.
Thanks for this
A tent a stove, blankets If you have enough money for this do it God be with you.
I had a kind individual, who wanted to remain anonymous, donate $2K to me. This truly, sincerely saved me and changed my entire direction. And quite honestly that was God. He even told me he wanted to tithe and God put it on his heart. Truly made me cry. It allowed me to order my rooftop tent and power station so now i wont have to sleep in the trunk of the suv.
The only things I need now are:
portable ac (eco wave flow 2 , about $1200 with battery) a few solar panels ($300) sleeping bag, blankets, etc ($200ish) cooking gear ($150 ish) car cooler ($200) starlink (currently on sale for $300)
I'm almost there. Five weeks to go (until my lease ends)
Half that stuff is wants versus needs. Get on the road and figure it out. As I posted above, consider a van at some point, much easier for stealth and privacy. Army surplus - goodwill and the sort will have great deals on things like blankets and sleeping bags. You can get an inverter to run with your car to power your laptop and charge it up for sub $50.00 on ebay. Save your money in an emergency fund for hotels and repairs etc. China freight (harbor freight) has a solar panel kit that is fairly cheap and highly rated. Cooking gear, you should be able to get a propane burner for around $30 - pots pans - go to goodwill. Propane 1lb bottles add up, you can get an adapter from amazon to refill those and their is videos on this as well. As far as the sleeping bag, I cannot recommend enough to look at a mil spec modular system, with divy. You also need and I cannot recommend this enough, is a woobie (mil poncho liner) for those who know, you know. The Marine one has a zipper, They're light weight and will provide a ton of comfort, some know these as a "Ranger Roll" too.
Godspeed brother! My storm came during Covid! I resigned from a company where I was well respected by even the owner! I have followed Q from basically the beginning and experienced attacks you would not understand if I tried to explain; I was basically ensnared by these demons! Nevertheless I chose God and resigned pledging to not have my family take the clot shot even if we needed to end up on the streets! God helped my family and we are in a better financial position than we ever were! I was an atheist in 2020, I was ask to chose and I chose God! Sorry for burdening you with my problems! Things will get better for you! Just hang in there!
My brother-in-law found himself in a situation where he camps and occasionally rents. He became a caddy, and works in Texas and Montana, splitting the work where seasons are timed. He found the most beautiful campground in Texas, and rents a shed house when in Montana. He stashes away money and snowboards all winter long when there is no caddying to be done. He has a life that is one to be jealous of. It all started with the government taking all of his money. He was desperate, but his attitude is what made it work. I hope you can make an omelette as he has. It's a beautiful country. Go and see it while you begin anew. Godspeed.
This is something I've actually considered because I heard Montana had much cooler weather. That's a good idea to go from Montana to Texas.
Not gonna lie. I'm a bit envious of your adventure.
You are free in ways many others are not.
Good luck to you fern with God at your side he will guide you down the path and you will prevail. Stay strong and take every step of your journey as a new opportunity. We never know what God has planned for us but he will show you the way there...........
I wish you all the best brother. I'm going through a NASTY divorce too and it's never easy. Just remember 2 things. 1- everything happens for a reason. Religious or not you will know that 2- worrying about the past or future are killers. Don't let anxiety creep in. You can't change it. Not saying don't have future goals but don't worry so much about it that it eats you up.
I left a 15 year relationship over this stuff going on. He thinks I'm crazy and he wasn't a good enough emotional support partner for me to continue the relationship. It's crushing for a bit but once you realize you can take better care of yourself when you aren't wasting energy on people who don't really care for you in the same capacity, your own strength will grow, triple even. Hang in there.
I'm kind of jealous that you are getting an opportunity for adventure. My house is almost paid off but in most ways, I'm a slave to it. I can't pick up and go anywhere. Especially bc my job requires this location, since I work at home and my customers pick me based on location.
Your outlook will determine the success of this new era of your life. Grab it with both hands and enjoy the ride!!
Yo, I went to X to follow you and found that I was ALREADY following you there. :)
You are now coming into a part of your life that someday you will look back on with great joy and pride and fondness. It will be hard--that's where the retrospective pride that you did it will come in. But the stories you'll have. Enjoy the small things God surrounds us with. For me, this time of year, no matter how hard the day looks like it's going to be as I head to work, the cornflowers make me grateful. You are stretching your capabilities. I'm guessing because you'll have use for them. Blessings to you. God's got you.
do you know what you need to do, bro. go to an animal shelter and take your time picking out the right dog for yourself.
They would make wonderful companion and someone to talk to.
And besides that when one door closes another one opens…. Just Saying
I don't even want to think where my head would be at in the same situation. As hard as this is based on your attitude I think you'll figure things out.
Follow your instincts as you heal. I lost two husbands and a fiance’ to the ugliness of cancer and I believe it’s harder to lose someone when they just walk away from you. My loves are with our Maker, I know they want me to go on living the gift of life while I still have it. I’m retired and am doing just that. I wish you well and Godspeed as you recover from all the trauma of life’s bitch slaps and knuckle bumps. YOU GOT THIS DUDE!!
So sorry fren. Remember the community is here for you.
As everyone says, you can now start to relax, enjoy you free time (while it lasts, no doubt some more deserving women will be happy to have a good man).
Have a beer, while cooking sausages by a camp fire and looking at the stars. Start reading again.
Most of all be positive and have fun, you might realise after a short while you dodged a bullet.
Been there friend. 8 yrs now. Other than the kids early on not understanding its been a blessing. At first i felt off and couldnt understand or find my way but soon the weight was lifted and i felt like me again. Youll be fine. Keep your chin up. Ill follow u on twitter!
Look for the shark. Lol
Don't run away from your problems. You're just making it harder on yourself.
I hate for you to say you’ve lost your identity. This is a terrifying feeling. I have two young adult children and I’ve tried so hard to instill in them the knowledge of who they are in Christ and to never forget that no other human can take that from them. That’s the foundation - no matter what, you go back to that basic truth and start there. I’m not saying you shouldn’t love your spouse but no one should have that power over another person. Prayers, Fren. Put a Q on your car and watch for us. We will be there for you.
Life's trials come and go, sometimes tribulations. I have certainly been through them. But, in 50 years of depending on Christ, I have never felt alone.
Praying for you & I am so sorry this is happening. It is horrible to have someone betray you on this kind of a level. May God be with you & bring you amazing growth on this journey in your life.
I’m a lurker here but I remember your post about your divorce. I just want to say- you’re very cool for taking this leap of faith! It WILL be ok! I’ve been where you are. Take things one day at a time. Stay connected. Try to keep the faith that miracles are happening behind the scenes on your behalf. Because they ARE. I love that you want to document this part of your life. In the end, I know that you will attract wonderful new people and energies along the way. A year will go by in the blink of an eye. Sending you some good vibes and extra courage.❤️