My wife and I made the agreement to turn off all news, social media, and any outside consumption of COVID info for 2 weeks and possibly indefinitely. In some way, it is sad that because of this, I won't be lurking GAW--I'm not much of a poster but felt included via the lurking and upvoting over the past 9 months. I'm confident that this is the right decision.
I would appreciate your prayers for me and my marriage. My wife literally thinks I am insane, deluded to follow after Satan and the thought of divorce is crossing her mind. She has admitted to thinking of me in contempt and that our marriage is dead. I believe God lifted the veil over my eyes briefly and I saw a glimpse of His work and plan. I am convinced with every bone in my body that COVID and these mandates have the spirit of antichrist/satan behind them. My wife is pro-mandates, pro-vax, trusts gov't, pro-mask our 5 year old. I guess you can see we're at opposite ends.
Please pray for me and my marriage. Pray for me to truly have discernment and wisdom from God. I truly want to know if COVID and these mandates DO NOT have the spirit of antichrist/satan behind them. I want to know where I am wrong in any of my beliefs that are causing contention. Please also pray that if there are any evil spiritual forces acting upon me, my wife, my son and my marriage--that they be totally subdued in Jesus' name. I really want God to show me a sign that what I have awakened to is true and I really want my wife to be with me.
We're doing all we can.. counselling, pastors, marriage course, agreements in communication. I want this movie to end, but I also know.. letting it play out will be even GREATER!
I'll probably read comments to this post one last time tonight and afterwards lurk https://communities.win/c/Christianity/
Bye frens for now. See you later or in glory! Hope it's not long. From Canada.
Tell her you love her, you love your child and you want nothing more than health and happiness for you all. Admit that you don't know everything but you've read tons from both sides of the covid world and you believe there are life and death decisions before you as a family. As a family.
Just try to sound reasonable from her perspective. She is the one who will decide if she thinks you are reasonable, fair or not, so you need to show you acknowledge that there are health fears presented by covid. Only then can you say "we just can't know for sure, can we? So after all the ways to slice it, I've tried to find the place that is most likely to end in our health through all this. We may or may not get covid, and if we do get it, there are now treatments that allow almost everyone to get through it safely, and with long lasting immunity to it and all its variants. On the other hand, the vaccines are an affirmative act to expose ourselves to a new risk that is still becoming more and more concrete. Vaccine reactions are getting more well known, particularly for children, and since the vaccines have been around for less than two years, no one knows what the vaccines will do to our immune systems in the long run. This is exactly why all other vaccines have gone through years of testing before they were declared safe. Long term effects. Many vaccines in history looked good at first and then became unwound in long term testing due to deadly results. And while we don't know the long term effects of the vaccines, we now know that they aren't effective at stopping covid in the long term. So I'm taking the very unpopular position to protect us as a family. Even if you don't agree with a word I've said, please notice that I'm taking this position for us. Let's let it play out a little longer and see how the vaccines are doing with a little more time and study."
This is the position I took with my very liberal wife and she came around. It wasn't easy. We have not vaccinated our 15 year old boys and she backs that up after lots of discussion.
Arguing won't work, you need to approach every conversation with love and patience. Or your frustration and anger will lose her rather than the underlying points you are trying to make.
And yes, pray ceaselessly. Pray for God to send angels to get the demons of doubt and pride and anger and confusion off your wife and out of your house. There is a raging spiritual battle happening and I absolutely believe that you need to ask for warrior angels to remove the many demons who are hovering around your family. I have seen it work within moments when I pray for this in my own house. It is real.
May God bless you all.
That is the most heart wrenching post I have ever read. In fact, I am crying right now for the predicament you and your family are in. I pray the Lord takes over and moves within your home and the heart of your wife. I pray that you hold your ground with the Lord and Please, Please, Please do not give up on him. He has a GREAT plan for you and your family and you will soon find out what it is. Right now his plan is most likely for you to have your wife's understanding of his love for her and the spiritual growth of your family. I will be praying for you as this is a very critical point in your life as well as others whom I assume may be in the same sort of predicament you are now. Have no worries or fears, the Lord is with you and so is your family on GAW and communities, etc. God bless you and keep in mind; **WE ARE ALL PRAYING FOR YOU. **
I’m in similar boat, wife just excoriated me this morning regarding Qanon and GA.win and said that I am crazy because I tell her I am reading ‘the news’. While she can at least through the mask and vaccine crap, of which I am thankful, she still believes I’m in some kind of cult.
What she doesn’t understand is that ‘we are the news’ my friends. Good luck and God Bless - you are not alone in this. It has created many more divisions than were already present and the pressure keeps mounting. Follow what you know to be the truth!
Literally fucking me, man. My marriage is going down a spiral. Are you me in a different location lol
Hey down voter....God knows who you are.
haha, they are probably reeeeing as we speak
You can love em but it doesn't mean you let the. In your life or allow the. To stay.
Sheep from goats
You're absolutely right. I'll be the first one to say it - I was weak minded at the time. I'm still in my 20's and the brainwashing of our world has fucked with humanity and the social structure which manifested upon me. This process has been difficult but in the end, just like the mass awakening, this will be a lesson to be learned. It had to be this way.
I’m in my late 20’s and in a shit or get off the pot with my long time GF right now. Fortunately we’re generally on the same page with all this chaos in the world, but marriage still scares the crap out of me for these exact stories.
If you think it's just the womenfolk that are covidiots, then you need to pull you head out of a certain orifice. I know my fair share of men that have drank the kool-aid, too. They'd rather be right than alive. You can't convince them of anything -- even when it's happening right before their eyes. Believe me, I've tried...a 2x4 right between the eyes...and nothing works.
Nobody said it was just the women.
Yeah, someone did...and if you'll notice, they deleted their post.
The truth is, people change. The man or woman they married may not be the same person 10 years later. Having children significantly changes women and their outlook on the world and society.
What I find most sad is that these women won't see what their husbands see and try to look at things from their perspective. They married this person which means at one point they loved that person enough to devote their life to them. But as soon as there is some trouble ahead they jump ship and abandon their vows the other person.
This isn't all women obviously. And not all men are worthy either. These are just my observations.
Don't break the oath!
You hit the nail on the head. Running away at the first sign of trouble has affected all areas of American life. We have to return to our gritty, pioneering, mountain man survivor roots once again.
Unfortunately, in the name of "gender equality," women have been taught to believe men can never be right and they can never be wrong. It permeates society, right down to commercials that show men as incompetent half-wits who can't function without a woman there to dictate their every move. Many have taken it to heart, rather than seeing it for the bunk that it is. Quickie divorces haven't helped matters, either. It's all too easy to make a "forever" vow then ditch it when it becomes the slightest amount of work.
I'm lucky that my husband and I view current events the same way and that he is as redpilled as I am, even if I am, as he often accuses, a total doomer fag while he has a more positive outlook about things. My instinctual response to the OP's post is: screw her, she's harming you and your kid and you deserve better. But that response is no better than the response to cut bait and run when things get difficult.
There's no one-size-fits-all answer to this problem. I don't think it's so much that people change and become unable to relate, it's in their fundamental desires and views. I've always been pro-freedom and despise socialism with every fiber of my being. I also tend to distrust authority and think it should constantly be questioned and challenged to keep it honest. That hasn't changed in the nearly 21 years my husband and I have been married. He has always felt the same, albeit less vehemently, so it makes sense that our responses to this tyrannical overreach of government would mesh.
I'll stop nattering on now, but I think the key to these problems is that both parties are willing to work on their disagreement. That doesn't mean the OP (or anyone else in that situation) should ditch his beliefs and meekly follow what his wife wants. It does mean he can compromise on certain things, but she needs to compromise, too, and be willing to try to see his POV. One person can't keep a relationship going--it takes everyone involved, and if she's not willing to budge an inch, it doesn't bode well. I feel bad for you, but I feel even worse for your kid--masking a five-year-old is flat out insane, IMO.
Maybe if you showed her studies that show how detrimental it is to your kid's health to do that? And studies prior to this plandemic that show how crucial it is for developing children to be able to learn from facial cues, as well as words, to become healthy adults. I don't know. Good luck with it, though! I wish you the best.
Your husband is a lucky man.
Disagreements among a married couple are NOT the issue.
The issue is whether both partners are mature in handling the disagreements and differences, or at least show a willingness to grow in maturity. If one of the partners can only have emotion based visceral reactions to a disagreement, a counterargument, etc, then that should have already been a red flag earlier on, not their specific views and opinions that are different from your own.
But working with each other through disagreements is the key. The fact is we all have the temptation to beat our spouse into submission on certain issues big or small, whether overtly or through manipulation, passive aggressive behavior, ultimately sliding into neglect from being resentful, etc. If we can own up to our own shortfalls our spouses are more likely to do the same, sometimes even begin to listen when unpopular views are expressed.
I understand there are certain matters of potential life and death that can't wait for mature marital growth, but even still be the reasonable and level headed one, and show a willingness to acknowledge where your spouse is at in his/her thinking and perspecitve when different from your own (hypothetical example: I am consuming news and info to make right decisions and keep us ahead of a disastrous future for ourselves and our children. My spouse simply sees an Internet alt media junkie who's escaping real world problems at home in these fantasy notions of saving the world). Acknowledging goes a long way.
Dude fuck off with this attitude. If you don’t understand why some people fall for ones they don’t agree with then don’t comment at all.
Let me guess, you’ve made the right decision every time throughout your life. No? Then again, fuck off with this nonsense.
Either a glowie fuck trying to sow arguments here or just an asshole.
Be better.
My GF believes and still get tired of it. We named our cat Flynn for Gods sake. I think we all are just trying to help but can be overwhelming sometimes. I have to lay off sometimes to keep from “being to much”. Some people would rather ignore because the truth is hard to face.
We need to break away from this stiff for periods to clear our heads.
Your wife is still a child..obeying authority figures without question. How can you have an adult relationship with a child? You cannot. She wants your complete obedience and if you were to give her that she would have even more contempt for you than she does now.
Women are taught from childhood that “authorities” are always right and husbands are just dumb playthings that can’t cook a meal for the kids while she is gone on an important business trip without destroying the house.
The man has to be the authority in the marriage or it is doomed.
Both partners need to be rational adults who have chosen a partner they trust to make wise well-informed decisions and continue to believe that their partner is an intelligent adult capable of making good decisions throughout life ... OR they should not get married to begin with. Either partner may be tragically killed or disabled in a car accident or some such situation, and the surviving partner MUST be immediately ready to begin to make ALL decisions on behalf of the family at that point.
Neither partner should dominate the other with a greater weight of authority in all subjects. One partner may know more about car maintenance and the other more about budgeting or nutrition or business. Either partner of either gender should be free to respectfully and graciously express strong disagreement to a misguided opinion of the other without unraveling the entire fabric of the marriage- or there as a toxic insecurity in the partner who will not tolerate that difference of opinion.
Either partner having to tiptoe around to express disagreement is clear indication of a toxic marriage or an insecure and immature partner with anger management problems.
I was taught in God's eyes the man is held responsible in the marriage. He can defer to his wife but in the end he owns it from God.
Woman can argue and shit on that all they want but it's true and a real Man will act like it.
Critical in this is that the man looks to God for his strength and sustenance.
Well if a man is a real man either a woman like that won't want him or she will realize she was lied to. Shouldn't stop real.men from being real and leading. By the way a very great Man Once said "the greatest leader is the greatest servant". Serve your families.
Same God bless ❤️
I’m sorry for your marriage. What I’m about to say isn’t necessarily me telling you what to do, but to shine a light for anyone who may be in the same position I was. I was engaged and set to be married to a woman August of 2020. When the pandemic broke out and I researched and learned, I can say there was a sort of ascension for me. My wife to be didn’t want to hear any of it and we drifted apart. Looking back there were other reasons as well, but the feeling that God was giving me insight to what I was setting myself up for was unmistakable. I called off the marriage in June 2020 and tried to work it out with her. When no progress was made, we separated in the fall. After extreme turmoil and the loneliness, I questioned my decisions. I contacted her a month after separating wanting to try again. She agreed and I sold my home in Maryland, moved to Texas where she was and began the healing process. I searched for jobs in Texas, as a veteran with an exceptional resume, to no avail. I was shocked that I couldn’t even get a call back for any of the places I applied, which were plenty. Even jobs I was over qualified for. Things hadn’t progressed even slightly with my relationship either. I felt lost, even lonelier than the time after we split. So I did the one thing any “successful” 30 something dreads, I packed my shit and moved back to my hometown in New York of all places, and stayed with family in March 21. I did a lot of meditating, a lot of grieving, and renewed a lot of lost friendships (including my own liberal brother) and finally felt like I was back on “The Path”. Independence Day weekend (my favorite holiday and time to be back in my hometown) I met a girl I had grown up with as a child. If ever there was love at first sight, it was here. We locked eyes and I knew God had given me a gift. It turns out, our situations from the past year were IDENTICAL, only that she divorced rather than ending an engagement. We are now achieving our dreams, together, in Florida.
If you’ve made it this far, just know that coincidences are not just a Q blurb. It happens in every day scenarios. Listen to your gut, and live the life you are intended to live to the best of your ability. Know that this world is lived in the image of your perception. You are here to learn a list of lessons and the awful things that happen to you are for that reason alone. I hope OP can work things out, but I pray that no matter the circumstance, he listens to his conscience and continues on his intended path to enlightenment. Same as with all of you. Thank you for coming to my TED talk. God bless.
Yes you are correct on everything. And also remember frens. The Lord brings people into our lives and he takes them out of our lives. Everything has purpose and meaning.
Love your Nordic handle Pede 👍🏽 You were indeed guided by God, and this anecdote is a fine example to trust your gutt instinct...it’s your soul talking to you!! Only God knows our futures, and am glad you LISTENED 💕
Bless you, God always knows what is best for us. Hug that woman up tight and keep her close to your heart. She is your gift from God or it would not have turned out this way. I wish you both all the happiness this life brings (once these evil people are taken out) and may you grow VERY old together hand in hand. Have a blessed day and a blessed life.
Thanks for sharing your story. We all have our own, and to your point, we must make our own stories the best story ever told. Whoever we are, wherever we are, we each have the choice to make our story whatever we want it to be. We get to create our days.
Yesterday is gone forever. Tomorrow never comes. This is the day, the only day, to WRITE YOUR STORY.
This is the day. This is the day that the Lord has made. We shall rejoice. We shall rejoice and be glad in it. This is the Day. This is the Day. This is the Day that the LORD HAS MADE.
It's not as uncommon as you think.
There are plenty of men who are brainwashed, my own ex got vaccinated without telling me and told me that even if the government is 99% corrupt, they are doing this one thing out of the goodness of their heart.
I worked at walgreens for a bit, and the amount of brainwashed young men who came in for the vax was staggering.
My husband led me into the redpill but I followed alot more rabbit holes after that than he did. We agree on almost everything....except he still wants our child to get the vaccines we got as kids. I never thought we would disagree on something so pivotal to the safety of our child. He thinks I am putting her at risk. I've sent him all the links I have gotten from people here and found myself. He dismisses it because he had it and was safe. He believes that portion of science even after all the blinders have come off on almost every other thing medical. So while we aren't getting the covid Jab we are still fighting about vaccines after 21 years together. Our first born was a miracle that came this year.
The guys aren't always the awakened ones in a relationship. My husband may never come around completely. Still believes msm, and plans to get his booster
You are correct. She is wrong. However, your child having two parents at home is MOST important. If that is broken up, than evil wins and that is more of a victory for him than wearing a mask. I think unplugging from all media (good and bad sources) is a good plan. Get back to basics.
This is not absolutely true. My parents needed to split earlier. Both were better parents to me apart. Both found me a great step parent.
Having two stable divorced parents is better than two married toxic parents. Having one good parent not hung up in a toxic relationship is better than two in a toxic relationship.
The issue here is the non-vaccinated status of OP will likely prevent visitation, especially in Canada.
The pro-vaccinated mother will get the kids and favoritism from the courts.
This was true before Covid-19 but is even more true now. I've heard stories of fathers getting custody because mother was an "antivaxxer."
While still married whatbwould the law do if one took the child and just moved?
Charge you with parental kidnapping.
Or for the couple. Even a simulated marriage of two people living together unmarried is foolish. .out women really fear that type of relationship that does not yield commitment.
Commitment = a refusal to consider the alternative.
yea, if ur gonna divorce me, fucking do it. don't use it as a bargaining chip.
Exactly....she is using blackmail. She sounds absolutely horrible
If at the end of a media break, you need to make concessions, than say you and the child will wear mask more if she agrees to never vax the child. This will buy some time.
^^ That's IF you absolutely trust that she will honor her side of the agreement. If not, 'dunno what to say.
Prayers for ya.
Having two parents at home is awesome and ideal. However, children feel everything, and there's no fooling them. Two people in opposition and living together are going to act out...and that's poor modeling.
I ended my marriage ten years ago because I didn't want to teach my daughter that it's okay to stay in an unhappy situation. My ex is far happier now, vaxxed and remarried and living far away. He never was very involved as a Dad, sadly, and getting out of it was best for all of us.
I don't think that divorce is an evil thing.
The original poster is describing a scenario where Covid/politics are the wedge in his relationship. Like if his marriage fails, it will be the result of actions taken by (what I think are evil forces). These evil forces want us divided. When I said my statement I was referring to this.
That being said, I 100% advocate for divorce when no children are involved. Why try and make it work when no parties involved are happy? Find the right person BEFORE children. I believe the real, real commitment made is when you have a child with someone. When children ARE involved, I think parents have a duty to try their best to make it. I recognize there are exceptions. My sister was in a highly abusive and scary situation. She f'd up and made a poor choice of husband. People make bad choices, and also people can change, like literally become alcoholics, abusers, or mentally unstable.
It’s not evil when you realize God is in control. Separating the wheat…
My wife and I have pretty much pledged the same thing. We no longer listen to, nor do we trust, the local and national "news." We see the fear porn they push, and the blatant manipulation via propaganda and not-so-subtle programming in both TV shows and advertisements. They are trying to interest us in a world of castrated patriotism, WOKE to the max, and tolerant of so many different pathologies that we've now lost count of them.
So we've cut them out of our lives. However, having said that, I'm not going to abandon GAW entirely, nor a few of the outlets I feel I can trust as long as I maintain my discernment and critical thinking.
Good luck to you, patriot, and prayers for you and your wife.
I am so sorry. You are correct about the evil behind this. Your wife’s reaction is actually evidence of that. Here are a few scriptures to contemplate regarding this masking and fear campaign:
So having in mind the things of men and not the things of God may be a stumbling block and the stumbling block is from Satan.
Six days later, Jesus took Peter, James and John to the mount of Transfiguration, (Matthew 17:1-13). In which Jesus’ face shone like the sun.
Paul is referring to Moses’ glory after being with the Lord and how it was fading so he had to wear a veil over his face. This new ministry that brings righteousness is more glorious and so we have hope. The veil is compared to their minds made dull, but how in Christ, THE VEIL IS TAKEN AWAY! “Now the Lord is Spirit and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. And we, who with UNVEILED FACES (emphasis mine) all reflect the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his likeness with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.”
We are not to wear face masks (veils) because it hides the glory of the Lord, who is inside us and is to be reflecting out of us.
If this is difficult to understand, please pray and ask the Lord for insight and spend time reading these portions of Scripture. May God bless you.
Gentle, but firm should be your approach. Best way to red pill someone about the scamdemic is to live life to the fullest. Wish you luck but you need to hold your ground using inner strength.
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She doesn't want a Redhill. She wants freedom.
I had similar in May 2020. Caught wife on the phone describing me as full of bullshit. I said "please just bear with me, all these people are going to be arrested for what they are doing and have done"
I stopped mentioning anything. I think she went away, did some research herself, to prove me wrong. Without any intervention from me she redpilled herself and now runs a popular IG account redpilling others. She now meets people offline who are redpilled locally. She complains now she is estranged from her own friends, ultimately she apologized for her prior attitude. She is a bigger fighter than me now. It took about 6 months to turn around.
Contempt is the leading indicator of divorce, so I was worried.. When couple express contempt there is a long way back. I would say, just let her discover for herself, and avoid any flashpoints and arguments with understanding (without surrender). Good luck.
Wow, what an amazing testimony! Thanks for sharing.
Contempt is easy to come by and hard to rid.
I will say prayers for you and your family. This is such a difficult time for so many.
This is so true, we’ve lost family, and friends it’s tough I am blessed with a husband that has come to see it, it took some time and he’s still not ready for all of the change but it’s amazing when they do a light goes on over their head! The look and line you get a “I see it now! WOW”.
So she’s using religion to justify her position, then? And to justify the possibility of divorce? The biggest problem in Christianity is Christians themselves.
Divorce, as stated by Christ, is only permissible in the case of adultery, see (Matthew 19:4-12)
I think you are hitting the proverbial nail on the head. It sounds like she is using religion to justify her position which has no scriptural basis. If she was following a godly path, her husband would be having the final say in matters such as this. I know that is not what people want to hear in this post modern era, but it is biblical. The matriarchs of the faith followed their husbands in matters concerning the direction they should go. Their faith was in God and they believed that in the end, God was their protector and he honored them for their obedience of allowing their husbands to be their earthly covering - even if they didn't feel that their husbands were making the best decision at the time. Think Abraham and Sarah.
A family can only have one person in charge - and that role has been given to the husband. That is not the same thing as saying that the husband lords over the wife and that she is reduced to servitude and a doormat. That is progressive feminist speak. The husband is to love his wife even over his own life. He is to honor and care for her as Christ cares for his body. He takes her concerns into his decision making and does not discard them. But, he alone has to bear the responsibility of the major decisions regarding the family that he has been given charge over. He alone will be held accountable before God for the decisions he makes. Believers need to understand these principles before they decide to be married. There must be a meeting of the minds on this vital issue or they will be challenged on it later - guaranteed. When there is no understanding on who has the final say, what this couple is experiencing ends up being the result.
This wife has put others over her head as her covering and not her husband. That is a huge problem and it is ungodly. Then she turns around and is using religion as the excuse for her ungodly behavior. I am afraid that this poor guy has much bigger problems in his marriage that are only now coming to a head due to the current circumstances. He really only has two choices when it all is distilled down. Either he stands on his right and authority given by God as the leader of the house, or he knuckles under to his wife and abdicates his authority to his wife. He must make his decision and she in turn will make hers. Each will be responsible for their decisions that either line up with scripture or not. This is a difficult situation. But in the hard challenges of life we have to be able to stand before our Creator with clean hands and a pure heart over the decisions we make.
Divorce is also permissible if the offended can no longer live with the spouse. And adultery encompasses following other gods. As God says to do that to him is adultery.
dude... don't do counseling, pastors, or any of that shit. marriage counseling typically exists to encourage divorce. also in terms of Covid, no one you choose to mediate ie pastors, counselors, etc will be neutral. so unless you find one as enlightened as you are, they are going to tell you you're crazy and delusional and pressure you into giving yourself a self lobotomy.
not to be a total downer, but if she won't allow you to lead the family in these weird times with LOGIC and TRUTH, then ... [fill in the blank]...
Canada has it rough...the brainwashing is STRONGer there. Socialism is more embedded in the psyche. Any Counselors will invariably side with the brainwashed wife to further cement the division. IMO don’t just drop the media from their life for a bit, but ALL input from frinds & other family. They need to be fully isolated to work through their marital relationship. I doubt (guessing) OP has much support on his side from outside influencers(?).
It will do both of you well to step outside of the influence of all media for those two weeks. During that time, if she really does turn it all off, you should be able to ask your wife if it really seems like you're in the middle of some massive emergency. The emergency only exists in the airwaves and is reiterated by people (masks, distance), policy and social media.
Your position isn't radical. It's the conspiracy theorists who are afraid of breathing unfiltered air and believe their physical bodies won't be able to survive without a constant onslaught of pharmakeia who hold the radical position. That said, it's a spiritual issue and people can't be awakened unless they are ready. So, though your position is based on truth, now you should focus on reconnecting with her as a person. I pray you all make it through this and become stronger as a result. I also pray she is granted wisdom and an ability to see what is true (not just follow what is popular), in Jesus name.
Praying for you greeneggsnham. If your wife truly shuts off social media and the news that is a huge win. That is where the majority of the propaganda and mind control comes from.
Maybe you can use this opportunity to take some mini vacations? I suggest this because one of the things I have noticed is that the further away you get from big cities and blue counties, the more life is normal, i.e. no masks, people living life. This could prove to be a great antidote.
Once your wife realizes we are not actually in a pandemic and that life is much closer to normal in rural areas she may start to question everything a whole lot more.
Good luck and Godspeed. We'll be here when you return. Until then, hold the line!
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It's a painful wait isn't it, while your relationship with your partner is in suspension.
Praying for you, your wife and child. God Wins...ALWAYS!
Prayers for you my friend. The master deceiver is hard at work these days.
While reading these stories around the internet I find it is often the women that are instigating an issue. I believe this signals Satan is using women to fight against God just as in the Garden of Eden.
I guess I could be wrong because I’m pretty misogynistic, but when men lead these things do not seem to be an problem. Has anyone else noticed that the majority of the DS seem to be women? Q tells us that when this situation is biblical, I often wonder if we are missing the point.
Women are in general more susceptible to peer pressure, and invariably, propaganda.
I think women, in general, are like this. From the time I was in grade school, I rarely got along with girls, and that has continued throughout my life. If a guy is mad at you, he says so, you have it out and that's that. If a woman is mad at you, she stabs you in the back first chance she gets. I'm more of a in-your-face confrontation person, so that doesn't work for me.
Other women remind me of (this is totally inappropriate) chickens--they all join together and attack anyone who is different. Women, far more often than men, succumb to groupthink and are intolerant of anyone who doesn't agree. It's typically women glaring at me or being snide in public because I'm not wearing a face diaper. Men usually don't seem to give a shit unless they're young soyboys.
I’m a woman and I agree.
Me too.
We guys are honestly pretty dumb with a lot. It takes a lot to actually sway me almost based purely on my lack of understanding outright - or my actual ego.
I do find women much more pragmatic - sometimes this is go and sometimes it's bad. Depending on the Paradigm afoot we can all justify it if we let it in the door.
What I have seen with women is that not slamming that door shut when it needs to be is sometimes either a Non-Thought or a Curiosity.
Interesting anyway. My fav thing is how most Ladies navigate by landmark.
To be blunt, when it comes to women, too many men let their little head (who's no genius) do all the thinking and pay the price for the rest of their lives.
Many women know this, . . ., and will use it to their advantage, . . ., and many men will learn this the hard way (after it's too late).
That's what my grandpa said.
"God only gave most of us enough blood to use one head at a time."
Personally holding someone's hand is almost more intimate to me. I'm broken.
Sorry I am a female and I damn sure do not bow to pressure. I see them very clearly.
love&light
Lots of marriages have been flipped upside down this year. You’re surely not alone, fren.
Three days of no brainwashing triggers will lift the spell a little. You have to fill the vacuum though to keep it lifted. The way is to be friendly and comforting and obliquely demonstrate through some analogy how someone else was brainwashed. You can't directly contradict whatever suggestion was given to her by saying "fake news" or something like that, anymore than you can tell an abused woman her man doesn't really love her. The abuser is in her mind, waiting to say "I'm doing all this for your own good." Your wife has to peek through the window, as it were, and see this lover in the act of pulling the same trick on another woman, and realize she was betrayed and tricked.
Hopefully this horror movie ends soon and your marriage can be salvaged. Hopefully you are a better man than I because I could never forgive a wife that behaved this way.
Prayers for God's will to be done for your marriage and all your lives.
In some ways, divorce is like surgery - you're always better off not needing it. But if it's needed, it simply has to happen. If she holds you in contempt, she will need to change that before the marriage becomes fulfilling for anyone.
Since election night, my wife and I no longer watch Fox News - we never watched any of the other MSM networks. I also cancelled my WSJ subscription after 40+ years.
Since that night, we have been on a journey of finding out the Truth, about everything, from sources I trust on various websites, blogs, Telegram, GAW, etc.. I am retired, but my wife works, so I have more time to explore.
At night, we have dinner and share the progress on various streams of current events, e.g., Election Fraud, COVID, etc. Then watch movies and go to bed.
We've been happier, healthier, more informed, and positive about future. Why? Because NCSWIC!!!
Hello brother...my heart and prayers go out to you and yours for sure. I agree that unplugging from all media is probably a good idea. I've considered doing this myself...
In reality, however, even unplugging (or trying to on your part) will NEVER stop your liberal infected wife from asserting her authoritarian ways upon you and your child. So unfortunate.
My advice is do whatever it takes to keep your marriage intact. Try not to discuss any of what's going on in the world and avoid any crossing of her ego whatsoever if you can help it. Ego is always at the core of any rub between two individuals.
If your wife is to be red pilled, she will most likely have to come to that reality on her own...completely apart from you. She knows what you believe and everything you have said to her has sunk deep within her subconscious mind. She can do nothing about this even if she tried. Our subconscious is like a compact disk that cannot be erased. Once it's there, it's there. Now it's up to God the Holy Spirit to work on her mind and heart with the information you have given her and information she will inevitably learn in days to come. You are not wrong...and you are on the right side of history my friend.
My 27 year old niece Chelsey was a raving, San Francisco State indoctrinated liberal of the highest degree. We have always had a great relationship because of the mutual respect between us, but she was always the family member who would disagree with any and all my political and social beliefs. We had many discussions and they almost always ended with we had to agree to disagree.
Well, not long ago, she called me on the phone (it was in the middle of the first Covid shutdown) crying, with more anger in her voice that I had ever heard from her before! As it turned out, our governor Gavin Newsom had taken away from her the one thing in this world she couldn't live without...her gym. She's an avid weight lifter and in one fell swoop she could no longer go. Long story short, Chelsey is now my biggest fan and I am not exaggerating when I say that she's more awake to reality than most life-long conservative patriots I know. She dove deep down the rabbit hole and her whole world was upended. People can change...your wife can change my friend. Be patient, keep it together and pray, pray, pray!
I am praying for both you and your wife to find peace in your souls no matter what beliefs you both have. Hopefully marriage will be saved, but if the difference is too much then I pray that both of you take the course of action that shows compassion and kindness to each other while knowing you can never see eye to eye on this.
There is no doubt in my mind as well that the Covid and the vaccines are work of Evil and it will all get exposed. If things get really bad, just tell her to hold off any big decisions until Christmas. I do believe things will be settled by then.
May God bless you and your family
For satan to “win”, the glue that binds families together must dissolve. ie LOVE must dissolve. Prayers going-out to this Patriot; I truly hope he can reclaim that love that bound him with his wife?! However, Truth is the force that opens the eyes, heart and mind—->the SOUL. Our soul’s know Truth as purity. Ignoring or avoiding Truth will only further erode the glue that is Love. -Peace
Honestly this isn’t about love, it’s about duty and she should do hers but who am I... just a younger yet old school happily married wife and mother...
Hardest thing for us is to accept our husband’s leadership... we are so out of alignment as a society... 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️😢
Well, good luck in your endeavor. I pray your wife sees the light of truth.
Turning to faith is never a bad idea. Turning off all MSM programming is a great start, but she also needs to open her heart and mind.
You got my prayers brother, and I could use some myself. My wife knows “something is wrong” but can’t wrap her mind around the actual truth of it. She just can’t comprehend Evil on such a level and against my begging and pleading, she allowed herself to be vaxx’d because the thought of being segregated at work was scarier to her than being a human guinea pig. When I begged her to look at material that would reveal the other side of the vax narrative, she told me she didn’t want to know. She didn’t call me crazy, she intentionally chose to ignore the warnings I was trying to get her to see. Now I’m just praying for her health and safety. It’s too late to redpill her, she already took the poison. I pray I am not left alone to raise my two young children in the environment of insanity.
Good grief how many of us are in the same boat. It’s so hard. Prayers.
WWG1WGA...not just a catch-phrase!
You are Us". She is one of "Them". Unfortunately this division is very real. The future will show the truth but even then, she may be locked into her mindset. I feel for you. It is a terrible rift. People with kids they want to protect from their spouse's stupidity are suffering greatly. I share the same fears about my grandchildren. What do you do when their parent is proud they are vaxxed and wears a shirt to tell the world? It is heartbreaking. All I know for sure, fren, is that your instincts are correct. The level of evil is consuming. Protect yourself and try to protect your child. Thst is the line in the sand. God bless you as you ride out this stormy sea.
Prayers for you and your family… God can do amazing things… have faith He can open anyone’s eyes. 🙏
I want to encourage you both to dive deep into the scriptures during this time. As you seek the Lord, you will both see the truth more clearly. Jeff Durbin has an excellent sermon about disobedience to tyranny being obedience to God. Voddie Baucham is also and excellent Bible believing pastor to listen to and Susan Heck on YouTube is the best women’s Bible teacher I have ever listened to. Blessings and prayers! Stay strong in the Lord!