Only takes an hour or two hands-on, really. It can be done after hours, in between other tasks. You wouldn't believe how much time is wasted in school.
Honestly yes, they are horrifically easy compared to my youth. It's the methods they teach today that breeds idiocy en masse to make people easier to control.
A”full school day” is a joke. Homeschooled my two kids. Spent no more than a tenth of “teaching time” that the public schools do, yet my kids run circles around the typical public school student. You have no idea of how much of a school day is worthless bullshit.
Needing a full day is because in the school system teachers have classes of 30+ to teach. With homeschooling it's just you and the kid, you can focus and get more done in less time.
This. With all respect as I have two kids myself. How important is your kid to you? Do you want to lose them to conformity and ignorance and servitude?
Both my kids are base. They go to private school. We talk. They know the importance of what is going on.
After 40+ years, the only debt I have is our mortgage, but because we've made a commitment to our kids, to raise them in private or homeschool, It's hard. Sometimes it sucks. We've gone without many times. Would I go back and change anything, make life easier?
No way.
Ignoring reality was never an option.
My kids have thanked me.
In truth we've accrued some stares, wife and I agreed early to treat our kids with same respect as adults.
Imagine when you have company and a 4 year old comes up and says excuse me, and you stop your grown up conversation to have a quick talk with the kid.
Pissed off some people, got questions from others. The kids are now teens and imo are well adjusted, we're told by their teachers they are some of the best students they have, and most respectful.
I think some areas have shared home school where a group of parents each take a day with a few kids so all the kids get more of a school setting and get the social setting as well , plus you can still have a job and teach you kids. So if you could find some other like minded parents It might be something that could work for you . I know most people can't just not goto work but could manage one less day of work.
Call the school and ask why the teacher is invading your sons privacy. As far as the fam goes. Everyone in the household needs to be respected, that includes you. The teacher should never be putting a child in that position. As far as parenting. I have always taught my kids not to pursue the "so I can fit in" routine. Get them to think for themselves. Like you have done.
I would definitely be calling that teacher to chew her ass out. How dare she pressure your kids actions outside of school.
Not to teach a man how to be a father... but YOU are in charge, not your son. Him crying and feeling bad about being an outsider is a strengthening moment for him unless.. you give in and let things be.
Keep fighting and don’t give up. He’s your son, not the teachers, so don’t lose the fight over his mind.
Yeah, this story is fishy. I couldn’t imagine a teacher doing something like this and if one did, there would be a reckoning.
If it’s true then the fault lies with the dad in question. If you are not respected and the head of your household then you are not a man. This guy needs to fix himself before he could even hope to fix his family.
I could imagine this happening, but his reaction makes it seem fishy. If a teacher bullied my kid in front of the class, I would very calmly and legally make that teacher never want to do that again.
He doesn’t strike me as being assertive. And that’s the root of the problems he is talking about.
I was physically assaulted nearly daily until I turned thirteen and got heavy into the martial arts so I feel you I was also a Bible Boy. Though I never went to the teachers. Felt I had to take care of it myself.
So that’s not the situation we are discussing here. The OP is claiming a teacher basically bullied his kid in front of the class. That would not fly with me and that teacher and I would be having a recorded conversation in front of their administrator.
I just left California. A teacher can in no way belittle a child. In this case you can use that to your advantage. But it seems in this case the OP could not be bothered because, and I quote, her third grader asked her not to and she’s scared the teacher will take it out on her son.
Me too! Mine was never in to it ESP all the dirty details. Hes just angry about hearing any of it anymore! Found out today my parents got the vaccine :( i couldnt even properly vent! Haha. I was shaking.
Lol. You gave yourself away with the phrase, qanon. There is no such thing. Q said so in an actual Q post. Also, red pilling people is super easy now. Just red pilled another two neighbors last night. So now my whole street is awake.
Q refers to the poster. They/It posted on boards that spun of off 4chan. 4chan users have long called themselves "anon" because of the "anonymous" username that used to appear above basically every post. Q and Anon is two different things.
Im what's known as an "oldfag" because I fucks with 4chan since the Boxxy days.
All I know about Q for sure at this point is that Q people fucking hate pedophiles and anyone claiming to know what or who Q is is full of shit.
No, we are not qanons. There is no club. There are only anons. That’s the whole point. Shills are the ones that use the term qanon. You have to be very ignorant of this movement to not know that.
Yeah there are a few morons here who think everyone is the enemy. Say something wrong? Shill! Don’t agree with what I say? Shill!! Post a concern? Concernfag/shill! Just ignore them. Bottom line is it sucks to be awake, but I’d rather be awake and dealing with the sucky truth than still being retardedly asleep.
Probably still wearing your mask lol. It has already begun just because fucking orangeman isn't at the white house blasting YMCA does not mean you need to keep your mouth shut. You are the movement you are the change and you are willingly saying fuck it I give up. Take off the fucking mask and watch people stare. What do you think they are thinking? Why is this one ASSHOLE not supporting PATRIOTISIM like President-Elect Biden told us on the TV tube. OR maybe you'll get a few easy redpills getting your grocery's.
If anyone try's to enforce the mask bullshit. Hit em' with a "I have underlying health conditions". Normies brains are goop at this point.
I promise you commerce supersedes health every fucking time.
Get the textbooks from the school and teach him yourself.
Tell him he can play with his friend more often now, since the teacher invaded his privacy by asking him if he had a mask on or not - she did it on purpose to shame him. Treat him and his friend to a pizza afternoon or movie day - he will get over it. but stress that the TEACHER has no right to ask him anything about his activities at home.
3rd grade - he is old enough to be told that bad people will question him about your family activities, and if they decide to be mean, they could take him away from you and your wife. This is not a joke. I've never seen it this bad....some of the dumbest kids in college (NOT ALL) were the education majors - now they have a little power and they are using it.
I pulled my kid out of school for less than that. Pulled my kids from a Pediatrician for questions about guns to my kid behind my back.
With the communists in power, be very afraid.
This can't be said enough. you can be their friend when they are in their late teens-early twenties, but in the formative years, you are responsible for ensuring they understand the world, have morals, WISDOM and GRATITUDE especially. Many people miss this, but your child is not your peer, and they are not yours either. There is a question Dennis Prager throws out to parents, and many, many fail: He asks "which would bother you more as a parent, that your child smoked or cheated on tests?". So many parents chose smoking b/c "it's bad", you can always quit smoking but repairing morals is significantly a more difficult task once you have a firm footing on the road of compromise.
This. Kids are being spoiled in America because parents aren't following this. Why your son have more respect to peers than to his father? There is something for you to work there.
I talk to so many people that are in their 40's and 50's and their children are all grown and are brainwashed. They put them in the public school system to be indoctrinated.
Not only that, but the Common Core curriculum public schools use is SHAMEFUL. My sister's kids are in 8th and 6th grade. They don't know their multiplication tables, and they can barely read and write. Look into the spiral method of learning vs. the building method. It's horrendous. They are purposely making our children stupid so they will be easier to brainwash.
YOU are responsible for the education of your children. Not the state. Not the government. It is time for parents to step up and do what's best for their children. Get socialization through church, playdates, etc. My husband was homeschooled all the way up. He has an MBA and is doing excellent in life. School took 2 hours a day when he was little and 4 hours a day when he was older. My sister spends longer helping her kids with their homework than my husband's mom spent homeschooling all of her kids.
He had tons of time to be a kid and play and be a kid. School wastes SO much time and then sends kids home with hours of homework. It's lunacy. Please please consider it. I wish I was homeschooled growing up, and I grew up in a red state.
Stay away from the Spiral Method. That is common core crap. Focus on curriculum that uses phonics for learning how to read with SOME site words (the, she, is, at, etc.)
My best friend just started homeschooling her kids. She yanked them out of school (Kindergarten and Preschool) when the teacher read a book with lots of communist messaging in it to the class and was using that as a theme throughout the classroom. It was My Class is a Family. You can find it on Youtube. It's SUPER popular with teachers. They are teaching kids a lie and trying to undermine the importance of family and put a state institution as high of a level as the family in kids' brains so that they trust the authority of their teachers equal to that of their parents. Dangerous.
So she did a ton of research and she is using:
Reading: All About Reading
Spelling: All About Spelling
Math: Math U-See
History: Notgrass History
Science: Apologia
But do your own research and look into the different teaching methods, and make sure you agree with it for your kids. That's what's great about homeschooling. In Public school you are stuck with whatever curriculum THEY choose for your kids. She hasn't started on science/history yet since her kids are so little. But I know the science curriculum she chose is Creationist-based.
For 3rd grade you don’t need much for curriculum. The trick will be meeting CA’s requirements - when I homeschooled they were very hard to meet. Dunno what they are now. I pulled my daughter out in 7th grade and homeschooled her through junior year while I worked full time. There are sooo many resources out there now for homeschooling. There is a Homeschool Legal Defense group that has an awesome lawyer who fights to keep homeschooling open for each state. Just start researching. Start with CA’s requirements, what a student should know by the end of 3rd grade and just go. My kids wish I had homeschooled them in elementary school - they didn’t learn what they should (the youngest doesn’t have her multiplication tables memorized still as an engineer and she never learned cursive) - and they were in a good FL school district! Let me know if you have more questions. I’ve been done since 2012 but I learned a lot!
They are now due to Common Core. We got out just before it got really bad. And my girls became engineers so they weren’t subjected to all the elective classes (they used their AP credits for their Gen Ed) in the Florida state college system. I’m seriously thinking about diving into education during the Great Awakening. As a senior engineer it would be a huge pay cut but I’d love to do something meaningful for these kids that have been so screwed all these years...
There are some posted above in links, my brother kids did through local homeschool association, you can find online, montessori might have a curriculum, your church should have resources, or mindup might have something...
I would homeschool, though I understand the wife may be a problem if she doesn't share your views.
I would home Scholl primarily because of the sexual indoctrination that I would never accept exposing my children to normalizing sexual deviation from what is natural.
Why not share this site with her?
I am a wife and I am here because I saw my husband looking for hopium here after Voat closed.
I think there are a few women here if I am not mistaken.
You as his PARENTS are lovingly saving his life and health (as well as freedom!) and ...
SCHOOLS / TEACHERS need to realize asap that they are very likely LEGALLY and MORALLY LIABLE for any destructive short- and long-term effects of CO2 suffocation and severe O2/oxygen deprivation.
Don't worry. You will not have to wait much longer. Soon The Plan will come to fruition and all the normies will awaken! Including your son and wife!! THE GREAT AWAKENING IS UPON US!!! :)
You're always welcomed to vent! I've continued to think about very simple, plain tests that people can try to rationalize.
I don't know if there's a name for this one, so I'll just go with the "kitchen/cooking example". Just ask them to wear a mask as dinner is being made. I'd stand there enjoying the delicious smells of dinner. IF the mask worked, then they can't smell it. See if they start to think for themselves.
Also, my favorite reply now to maskers: "have you ever smelled a fart before? Jeans and underwear can't stop that from getting to your nose..."
Hmm, not trying to be an ass just trying to investigate. What you're saying seems to imply masks don't do anything. So do surgeons even need to wear masks? Just curious
I appreciate your question. For surgeons, who is in proximity of someone who might be sick to operate on them, then the protection of their surgical or N95 masks make sense. If we take that same logic and ASSUME that EVERYONE is sick with anything, then people can wear masks until the day they die in fear of catching something.
The loose definition that we have for what passes as a mask is the bigger issue. I'm seeing signs all over the place with, "Wear a mask. Save lives!" If people truly believe that this is an end-all respiratory disease as DRAMATIC as the MSM are making it out to be, then NO ONE would be outside. Given that politicians, athletes, essential workers, and so many more people are still out and about, the disease has never lived up to the scare that they are trying to convince us of.
The mask is a false sense of security for a disease that has a 99.5+% survival rate for the majority of the population. The usual masks that the typical normie is wearing might be a cloth mask. Multiple masks if it makes them feel better.
The viral particles are many times smaller than the holes on your average, "holier-than-thou" masks. The usual scientific explanation that I receive from people about those would be, "well, the viral load travels on water/air particles from your mouth, so the masks stops it from traveling FROM YOU to another person."
It can sound reasonable. So, if these masks DO work to stop/reduce this "oh-so-deadly respiratory virus", then wouldn't you just want to stop ANY particles from moving from one person to another? I bring up the smell example of invisible particles that travel THROUGH cloth to encourage people to question or think. Those particles most definitely got through a cloth mask.
That being said, I feel for you with the story that you shared. Within weeks of sharing with close friends that I voted for the first time ever and questioned what was going on around me, my IQ plummeted TO THEM since I decided to think and question for myself anything that's going on in the political arena. When you bring up any type of indoctrination, it's quite scary since the people who are conducting the indoctrination might not even be thinking on their own anymore.
He’s in grade 3 he shouldn’t be a Biden supporter or a Trump supporter. If he wants to wear a mask to fit in who cares? It sounds like you’re putting too much pressure on him. He’s just a kid. You don’t need to be talking his ear off about politics all of the time.
There will be a time when he is ready to think about politics. Grade 3 ain’t it
I know it’s everywhere but your pressure and expectations will do the opposite of what you’re intending. You’re putting him in a super stressful spot by him feeling like he is choosing between his cultural norm (in class) and not disappointing his father (who he probably looks up to).
Obviously we, as adults, know that this isn’t a big deal in the grand scheme of things because he has so much life ahead of him. But I can guarantee you that this is the most stressful thing in your sons life. Regular pressures from a sons father are stressful enough for a kid.
He will know he doesn’t need to be afraid when he sees his father (who he looks up to) not wearing a mask and also not being afraid. Its as simple as that. When you walk around unafraid, and he sees you don’t get sick, he will have a better understanding. Talking about it constantly does the opposite.
When he gets older he won’t even remember the presidency of Trump. It will be something he has to go back and research. So it’s even pointless to discuss IMO. Trump or Biden being president is so irrelevant to a kid (in their mind, not in their policies) that you’re probably speaking a different language to him. All he knows is that dads putting expectations on him that he knows he can’t meet.
There is always a counter culture and it’s usually in spite of being it forced. If you pressure your son he can counter your culture.
Thanks for writing that. No one is even thinking about the kid’s perspective. It’s all “move out” “man up” “live free or die” (what does that even mean for a 9 year old?) I even saw one guy comment and tell OP that he’s not leading his family and he’s a shit father. Like gee, thanks for the advice you cunt.
OP didn’t reply to my comment but I hope he reads it and it resonates with him
To the ones that are saying “homeschool” that’s not always possible or even probable. Your kid is in a tough spot and you are as well. With that being said I believe it is important for you to talk to your kid and let them know that they have done nothing wrong. You also should schedule a call with the teacher and the principle. The line is crossed and it becomes a slippery slope. Let this go with the teacher and the next thing you know they will be having your child question their gender.
I hope this helps. As a mom I get it - protect your child.
It is possible for most people, it just takes sacrifices. Downsizing, moving to a lower cost of living area, etc. Having one parent work from home, etc.
I agree it may be very difficult in California, but her son is already at home learning which means she must already be home with him. My husband was homeschooled all the way up. It only took 2 hours a day when he was little and 4 hours a day when he was in high school. And by high school, his mom didn't do a whole lot. He was given the books and materials and told to complete the assignments. He would go to her if he had any questions, but for the most part he said he was good learning on his own. They now have online classes, but you as a parent can pick the curriculum and what is being taught to your kids.
My sister spends more time doing homework with her kids than my husband's mom spent doing all of their schoolwork. And my husband now has an MBA and is so smart. His mom gave him a LOVE of learning and taught him HOW to learn and not just memorize information, so he is always learning new things. School is the biggest time waster there is. They spend half the day correcting kids behavior and teaching just utterly useless stuff. My niece and nephews can barely read and write and don't know their multiplication tables (6th and 8th grade). Common core is horrific.
It's wild how perceptive kids can be. He's clearly receiving conflicting info from different sources that he doesn't know how to reconcile. I'm not a parent so I don't really have advice on how to talk to him. But he seems sharp, he just doesn't want to deal with the madness of the real world. I know I sure don't.
So.... your son is afraid that his teacher won't think hes a Biden supporter? Where did he get that idea from? I would have a long talk with his teacher and ask them why they think its appropriate to discuss their politics in your sons class. Then I would shame the teacher the same way your son feels/felt shamed. Personally, I don't even think that's an appropriate question for the teacher to even ask in regards to your son if he wore a mask. I get your just venting, but I'm a different breed. I don't give a shit, even if it made my kids embarrassed, but I would start making waves. Your son will thank you for it later when hes older. Consider it a lesson in tough love. As a parent I empathize with you when you see your children cry when they want to fit in and shit, but I would ask him if he would rather be a leader or a follower, and if he wants to be a leader, I would continue doing what you're doing and lead by example and be that guy standing alone on the island. Eventually he will put 2 and 2 together. If he prefers to be a follower, then let him go be one and support his decision and treat him like a follower. I'll leave that up to your own interpretation. Don't let your son end up like that one piece of shit kid that turned his dad into the FBI for going to the capital.
Just let him know you care and often heroes stand alone. Many teachers unfortunately go into the field because they define themselves by the people that surround them. Peer pressure is hard to face and fighting against the tribal mindset can be lonely at times. However it's those that can stand up to others that can trust above the constant noise.
I'm not sure if the best solution, but in a world where hero's are seldomly found all anyone can do is try their best to be that hero in the life of others.
My best friend tried that with her son's teacher when she had some problems with what was being taught. All she got was a lot of condescension and excuses. Nothing changed, so she yanked her kids out and is now homeschooling them. She just started thinking if it was already that bad in kindergarten/preschool, how much worse would the ideology indoctrination get as they got older.
Her son was starting to argue with her about stuff his teacher was saying, and she saw a rebellious attitude in him and some bad behavior that he was obviously learning from other kids in class. Within a few weeks of being home, he went back to being her sweet boy and all the acting out went away. She said it was really crazy to see the difference. And her boys are excelling at home school. They love the curriculum she chose and are flying through it.
I’m sorry to hear that. ? I’d probably do the same if I ran out of options at the teacher or principal level. I’m glad to hear her son’s behavior has changed for the better.?
Yeah, she was so mad at the school. She sent me the emails the teacher sent her. They made my blood boil. They were so patronizing. Basically, I'm sorry you have a problem with it... no one else does.
She also had had a talk with the principal about how she didn't want her 5 year old being taught about transgenderism. She didn't think that was an age appropriate conversation, and she didn't want him being confused with talk that he could be a girl if he wanted to be. The principal also blew her off with some talk about how they try to be inclusive blah blah blah.
It was terrible. Once she saw that her concerns were not going to be taken seriously and the school was just going to keep doing whatever they wanted, she was done.
Id bitch at the principle or school board. My husband thinks masks are dumb but will wear them in stores. Says instead of bettering myself, im wasting time finding out whats going on in the world. Lol. My kid has to go to school for only 2 hours a day....in a mask. Its creepy. But otherwise she'd be home w me and a 2 year old all day everyday & no friends. We moved here not too long ago and know nobody
I wanted to keep her home nc of the masks but she sees zero other kids otherwise. Plus, id like to get a job and go back to work. A little harder with this bullshit schedule. Noon to 2! Wtf. Ive been inslecting the literature theyre teaching for some liberal brainwash bullshit but havent seen anything horrible yet. Cant believe what happened to your son. Wow!
I feel your pain Bro. Tensions are high everywhere and families are being divided quickly. Luckily my wife is on board with me but she's over it now, ready to submit. I refuse to mask up but because of that we barely go out anymore and even simple shopping can be difficult at times. The rest of the family thinks we're looney and trying to explain to people that they have believed a lie is about useless. Thoughts and prayers your way.
i had a very long heartfelt message for you and when i attempted to send wifi cut out and lost it all :(
gist was if you can't take him out of the school for another school or homeschooling, I'd have a stern talk with the "teacher" reminding them why they most likely are so protective of trans and gays...to ley them be themselves and not be shamed like they did disgustingly to your son. if teacher doesn't get it go to superior and demand they resolve it with new teacher or repercussions with teacher
and you should study more to be much more solid in your convictions. there are scientific studies to support no masks. more than exist to the contrary if any even exist. my favorite is study circa 2005 that included Anthony "Fauxi" Fauci and they found that the MAJORITY of deaths from the 1918 "pandemic" was the result of bacterial pneumonia FROM WEARING MASKS! let that sink in. give this study to teacher and school
there's also studies on how kids are nearly 100% immune and don't transmit
and studies on how masks vs no masks show no marked difference in transmission
studies on particulate size of virus vs what cloth and even N95 masks can stop
Just don't let your son become an obedient sheep. we all dealt with shaming and bullying growing up and while not ideal, we ended up better adjusted I'd say by a long shot, than kids that are overly coddled today
Homeschool your children.
You can do this through programs with no teaching experience. They will send you the materials. Listen to this man.
Not everyone can stay home with the kids either bc nothing is affordable
If the kid can do "Online School", he can be homeschooled.
If both parents have to work, when will they have time to spend a full school day teaching?
Only takes an hour or two hands-on, really. It can be done after hours, in between other tasks. You wouldn't believe how much time is wasted in school.
And sign up your wife as a student too. Sounds like she needs reeducated, no offense.
And believe it or not, the parents will learn too. Some thing we forget cause we stop using the knowledge. ?
That’s true.
Honestly yes, they are horrifically easy compared to my youth. It's the methods they teach today that breeds idiocy en masse to make people easier to control.
Honestly, probably cheaper than private school.
Teachers do not spend a full school day teaching.
Yeah not even close. Even at HS levels, theres a bout 10 minutes of actual learning per class.
Schools arent there to educate, but to get kids ready for a 40 hour work week while allowing their parents to work. Publicly funded day care.
Most of it is Indoctrinating.
A”full school day” is a joke. Homeschooled my two kids. Spent no more than a tenth of “teaching time” that the public schools do, yet my kids run circles around the typical public school student. You have no idea of how much of a school day is worthless bullshit.
Needing a full day is because in the school system teachers have classes of 30+ to teach. With homeschooling it's just you and the kid, you can focus and get more done in less time.
In 3rd grade, how hard is it? Not that hard and wouldn't take that long but would be well worth it.
Getting state education in CA should be grounds for social services removing your child tbqh.
I mean... except for the fact that CPS is implicated in stealing children for sex trafficking.
"I'm from the government, and I'm here to help."
Triggered a govt spy is my guess.
I would flee CA like the plague. Half his CA salary should be plenty in most small to medium cities.
Because there are shills among us.
How dare u make money and support yourself/family lol
It’s time to homeschool
This. With all respect as I have two kids myself. How important is your kid to you? Do you want to lose them to conformity and ignorance and servitude?
Both my kids are base. They go to private school. We talk. They know the importance of what is going on.
After 40+ years, the only debt I have is our mortgage, but because we've made a commitment to our kids, to raise them in private or homeschool, It's hard. Sometimes it sucks. We've gone without many times. Would I go back and change anything, make life easier?
No way.
Ignoring reality was never an option. My kids have thanked me.
In truth we've accrued some stares, wife and I agreed early to treat our kids with same respect as adults.
Imagine when you have company and a 4 year old comes up and says excuse me, and you stop your grown up conversation to have a quick talk with the kid.
Pissed off some people, got questions from others. The kids are now teens and imo are well adjusted, we're told by their teachers they are some of the best students they have, and most respectful.
We must have done something right I guess.
Based. Keep it up. ??
Good spot this. If you cant afford it, move. LA is sodding pricey for a growing family. Go texas or somewhere that iant full of commie health nazis.
I have. 10 years ago.
I think some areas have shared home school where a group of parents each take a day with a few kids so all the kids get more of a school setting and get the social setting as well , plus you can still have a job and teach you kids. So if you could find some other like minded parents It might be something that could work for you . I know most people can't just not goto work but could manage one less day of work.
Surely someone's wife would be willing to do it for a group of kids and the people can give them money for doing it.
Kinda like a job
Pandemic pods. I hope it takes off, and permanently.
Living in LA on one income is hard to do
Call the school and ask why the teacher is invading your sons privacy. As far as the fam goes. Everyone in the household needs to be respected, that includes you. The teacher should never be putting a child in that position. As far as parenting. I have always taught my kids not to pursue the "so I can fit in" routine. Get them to think for themselves. Like you have done.
I would definitely be calling that teacher to chew her ass out. How dare she pressure your kids actions outside of school.
Not to teach a man how to be a father... but YOU are in charge, not your son. Him crying and feeling bad about being an outsider is a strengthening moment for him unless.. you give in and let things be.
Keep fighting and don’t give up. He’s your son, not the teachers, so don’t lose the fight over his mind.
100% agree.
I have the address to my kids teachers homes.
I'll be knocking on their door if they even whisper any political bullshit.
Yeah, this story is fishy. I couldn’t imagine a teacher doing something like this and if one did, there would be a reckoning.
If it’s true then the fault lies with the dad in question. If you are not respected and the head of your household then you are not a man. This guy needs to fix himself before he could even hope to fix his family.
You have not been paying attention if you can't imagine this happening. There is absolutely zero fishy about this story.
Though I don't disagree with your second statement, there's got to be a middle ground.
We don't even know how to do this. The women hold all the power. "I'll divorce you and take the kids away."
I could imagine this happening, but his reaction makes it seem fishy. If a teacher bullied my kid in front of the class, I would very calmly and legally make that teacher never want to do that again.
He doesn’t strike me as being assertive. And that’s the root of the problems he is talking about.
In our state, teachers were asking kids what they did over Thanksgiving, did other people come to their house, etc.
I was physically assaulted nearly daily until I turned thirteen and got heavy into the martial arts so I feel you I was also a Bible Boy. Though I never went to the teachers. Felt I had to take care of it myself.
So that’s not the situation we are discussing here. The OP is claiming a teacher basically bullied his kid in front of the class. That would not fly with me and that teacher and I would be having a recorded conversation in front of their administrator.
I just left California. A teacher can in no way belittle a child. In this case you can use that to your advantage. But it seems in this case the OP could not be bothered because, and I quote, her third grader asked her not to and she’s scared the teacher will take it out on her son.
For Q and other conspiracies, yes. For mask usage, fuck that. Give the teacher an earful.
Yep even those closest to us dont even want to hear it.
Me too! Mine was never in to it ESP all the dirty details. Hes just angry about hearing any of it anymore! Found out today my parents got the vaccine :( i couldnt even properly vent! Haha. I was shaking.
Next time tell him his open mind = your open legs. Not negotiable. He’s a guy, he’ll come around. :) (jk jk :))
Lol. You gave yourself away with the phrase, qanon. There is no such thing. Q said so in an actual Q post. Also, red pilling people is super easy now. Just red pilled another two neighbors last night. So now my whole street is awake.
Q refers to the poster. They/It posted on boards that spun of off 4chan. 4chan users have long called themselves "anon" because of the "anonymous" username that used to appear above basically every post. Q and Anon is two different things.
Im what's known as an "oldfag" because I fucks with 4chan since the Boxxy days.
All I know about Q for sure at this point is that Q people fucking hate pedophiles and anyone claiming to know what or who Q is is full of shit.
No, we are not qanons. There is no club. There are only anons. That’s the whole point. Shills are the ones that use the term qanon. You have to be very ignorant of this movement to not know that.
Yeah there are a few morons here who think everyone is the enemy. Say something wrong? Shill! Don’t agree with what I say? Shill!! Post a concern? Concernfag/shill! Just ignore them. Bottom line is it sucks to be awake, but I’d rather be awake and dealing with the sucky truth than still being retardedly asleep.
https://youtu.be/k0NwzXQ18dc
The facts are on my side. I am more than willing to explain and show my children why I am right.
Probably still wearing your mask lol. It has already begun just because fucking orangeman isn't at the white house blasting YMCA does not mean you need to keep your mouth shut. You are the movement you are the change and you are willingly saying fuck it I give up. Take off the fucking mask and watch people stare. What do you think they are thinking? Why is this one ASSHOLE not supporting PATRIOTISIM like President-Elect Biden told us on the TV tube. OR maybe you'll get a few easy redpills getting your grocery's.
If anyone try's to enforce the mask bullshit. Hit em' with a "I have underlying health conditions". Normies brains are goop at this point.
I promise you commerce supersedes health every fucking time.
Get the textbooks from the school and teach him yourself.
Tell him he can play with his friend more often now, since the teacher invaded his privacy by asking him if he had a mask on or not - she did it on purpose to shame him. Treat him and his friend to a pizza afternoon or movie day - he will get over it. but stress that the TEACHER has no right to ask him anything about his activities at home.
3rd grade - he is old enough to be told that bad people will question him about your family activities, and if they decide to be mean, they could take him away from you and your wife. This is not a joke. I've never seen it this bad....some of the dumbest kids in college (NOT ALL) were the education majors - now they have a little power and they are using it.
I pulled my kid out of school for less than that. Pulled my kids from a Pediatrician for questions about guns to my kid behind my back. With the communists in power, be very afraid.
Just de-escalate the situation dad. Make a plan for your son on how to respond when this situation happens again. stand your ground. hold the line!
This can't be said enough. you can be their friend when they are in their late teens-early twenties, but in the formative years, you are responsible for ensuring they understand the world, have morals, WISDOM and GRATITUDE especially. Many people miss this, but your child is not your peer, and they are not yours either. There is a question Dennis Prager throws out to parents, and many, many fail: He asks "which would bother you more as a parent, that your child smoked or cheated on tests?". So many parents chose smoking b/c "it's bad", you can always quit smoking but repairing morals is significantly a more difficult task once you have a firm footing on the road of compromise.
This. Kids are being spoiled in America because parents aren't following this. Why your son have more respect to peers than to his father? There is something for you to work there.
HOMESCHOOL!
I talk to so many people that are in their 40's and 50's and their children are all grown and are brainwashed. They put them in the public school system to be indoctrinated.
Not only that, but the Common Core curriculum public schools use is SHAMEFUL. My sister's kids are in 8th and 6th grade. They don't know their multiplication tables, and they can barely read and write. Look into the spiral method of learning vs. the building method. It's horrendous. They are purposely making our children stupid so they will be easier to brainwash.
YOU are responsible for the education of your children. Not the state. Not the government. It is time for parents to step up and do what's best for their children. Get socialization through church, playdates, etc. My husband was homeschooled all the way up. He has an MBA and is doing excellent in life. School took 2 hours a day when he was little and 4 hours a day when he was older. My sister spends longer helping her kids with their homework than my husband's mom spent homeschooling all of her kids.
He had tons of time to be a kid and play and be a kid. School wastes SO much time and then sends kids home with hours of homework. It's lunacy. Please please consider it. I wish I was homeschooled growing up, and I grew up in a red state.
Stay away from the Spiral Method. That is common core crap. Focus on curriculum that uses phonics for learning how to read with SOME site words (the, she, is, at, etc.)
My best friend just started homeschooling her kids. She yanked them out of school (Kindergarten and Preschool) when the teacher read a book with lots of communist messaging in it to the class and was using that as a theme throughout the classroom. It was My Class is a Family. You can find it on Youtube. It's SUPER popular with teachers. They are teaching kids a lie and trying to undermine the importance of family and put a state institution as high of a level as the family in kids' brains so that they trust the authority of their teachers equal to that of their parents. Dangerous.
So she did a ton of research and she is using: Reading: All About Reading Spelling: All About Spelling Math: Math U-See
History: Notgrass History
Science: Apologia
But do your own research and look into the different teaching methods, and make sure you agree with it for your kids. That's what's great about homeschooling. In Public school you are stuck with whatever curriculum THEY choose for your kids. She hasn't started on science/history yet since her kids are so little. But I know the science curriculum she chose is Creationist-based.
Those are good materials
This is the best there is: https://fpeusa.org/
This seems too good to be true!
For 3rd grade you don’t need much for curriculum. The trick will be meeting CA’s requirements - when I homeschooled they were very hard to meet. Dunno what they are now. I pulled my daughter out in 7th grade and homeschooled her through junior year while I worked full time. There are sooo many resources out there now for homeschooling. There is a Homeschool Legal Defense group that has an awesome lawyer who fights to keep homeschooling open for each state. Just start researching. Start with CA’s requirements, what a student should know by the end of 3rd grade and just go. My kids wish I had homeschooled them in elementary school - they didn’t learn what they should (the youngest doesn’t have her multiplication tables memorized still as an engineer and she never learned cursive) - and they were in a good FL school district! Let me know if you have more questions. I’ve been done since 2012 but I learned a lot!
Oh, FL schools are a mess!
They are now due to Common Core. We got out just before it got really bad. And my girls became engineers so they weren’t subjected to all the elective classes (they used their AP credits for their Gen Ed) in the Florida state college system. I’m seriously thinking about diving into education during the Great Awakening. As a senior engineer it would be a huge pay cut but I’d love to do something meaningful for these kids that have been so screwed all these years...
Check out the charter schools in CA. Our daughters graduated from Sage Oak - 100% at home, we got to pick the curriculum, and the school paid for it.
There are some posted above in links, my brother kids did through local homeschool association, you can find online, montessori might have a curriculum, your church should have resources, or mindup might have something...
I would homeschool, though I understand the wife may be a problem if she doesn't share your views. I would home Scholl primarily because of the sexual indoctrination that I would never accept exposing my children to normalizing sexual deviation from what is natural.
Why not share this site with her? I am a wife and I am here because I saw my husband looking for hopium here after Voat closed. I think there are a few women here if I am not mistaken.
A few? Honey there are a shit ton of us here. :)
You as his PARENTS are lovingly saving his life and health (as well as freedom!) and ...
SCHOOLS / TEACHERS need to realize asap that they are very likely LEGALLY and MORALLY LIABLE for any destructive short- and long-term effects of CO2 suffocation and severe O2/oxygen deprivation.
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To forward if anyone wants to, it's shocking:
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t-AvIf_t0x8&feature=emb_logo
Face Mask Test - YouTube
by Constitutional Accountability
'I Completely and thoroughly test the face masks we see people wearing and explain the dangers about them!'
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(If the video gets scrubbed from YT, it's also embedded here:
http://greatawakening.win/p/12hRCDTU8e/masks-are-killing-you/c
MASKS ARE KILLING YOU!!!! - GreatAwakening.win )
Thank you for sharing this! I had no idea about this video!
A pleasure.
His research and video are awesome + potentially highly empowering, and these shocking test results need to be, well - 'viral'.
Plus it shows how much just one person can do, in this Information War.
Don't worry. You will not have to wait much longer. Soon The Plan will come to fruition and all the normies will awaken! Including your son and wife!! THE GREAT AWAKENING IS UPON US!!! :)
My wife was asked by the teacher why my seven year old keeps saying “the COMMS are down!!!” Every time there is some lag on the internet ??
You're always welcomed to vent! I've continued to think about very simple, plain tests that people can try to rationalize.
I don't know if there's a name for this one, so I'll just go with the "kitchen/cooking example". Just ask them to wear a mask as dinner is being made. I'd stand there enjoying the delicious smells of dinner. IF the mask worked, then they can't smell it. See if they start to think for themselves.
Also, my favorite reply now to maskers: "have you ever smelled a fart before? Jeans and underwear can't stop that from getting to your nose..."
Hmm, not trying to be an ass just trying to investigate. What you're saying seems to imply masks don't do anything. So do surgeons even need to wear masks? Just curious
Blood drops on the lips can be quite dangerous. If it can happen to a tattoo artist, it can definitely happen to surgeons.
I appreciate your question. For surgeons, who is in proximity of someone who might be sick to operate on them, then the protection of their surgical or N95 masks make sense. If we take that same logic and ASSUME that EVERYONE is sick with anything, then people can wear masks until the day they die in fear of catching something.
The loose definition that we have for what passes as a mask is the bigger issue. I'm seeing signs all over the place with, "Wear a mask. Save lives!" If people truly believe that this is an end-all respiratory disease as DRAMATIC as the MSM are making it out to be, then NO ONE would be outside. Given that politicians, athletes, essential workers, and so many more people are still out and about, the disease has never lived up to the scare that they are trying to convince us of.
The mask is a false sense of security for a disease that has a 99.5+% survival rate for the majority of the population. The usual masks that the typical normie is wearing might be a cloth mask. Multiple masks if it makes them feel better.
The viral particles are many times smaller than the holes on your average, "holier-than-thou" masks. The usual scientific explanation that I receive from people about those would be, "well, the viral load travels on water/air particles from your mouth, so the masks stops it from traveling FROM YOU to another person."
It can sound reasonable. So, if these masks DO work to stop/reduce this "oh-so-deadly respiratory virus", then wouldn't you just want to stop ANY particles from moving from one person to another? I bring up the smell example of invisible particles that travel THROUGH cloth to encourage people to question or think. Those particles most definitely got through a cloth mask.
That being said, I feel for you with the story that you shared. Within weeks of sharing with close friends that I voted for the first time ever and questioned what was going on around me, my IQ plummeted TO THEM since I decided to think and question for myself anything that's going on in the political arena. When you bring up any type of indoctrination, it's quite scary since the people who are conducting the indoctrination might not even be thinking on their own anymore.
Leave LA.
Scary how far down I had to scroll to find the correct answer.
Even if he homeschools, the neighborhood kids are Leftards. He will have to become a Leftard to fit in sooner or later. The community is everything.
He’s in grade 3 he shouldn’t be a Biden supporter or a Trump supporter. If he wants to wear a mask to fit in who cares? It sounds like you’re putting too much pressure on him. He’s just a kid. You don’t need to be talking his ear off about politics all of the time.
There will be a time when he is ready to think about politics. Grade 3 ain’t it
We're twins my fellow Angeleno. Hang in there. You aren't alone.m m We're SURROUNDED BY MASKED IDIOTS!!!
I know it’s everywhere but your pressure and expectations will do the opposite of what you’re intending. You’re putting him in a super stressful spot by him feeling like he is choosing between his cultural norm (in class) and not disappointing his father (who he probably looks up to).
Obviously we, as adults, know that this isn’t a big deal in the grand scheme of things because he has so much life ahead of him. But I can guarantee you that this is the most stressful thing in your sons life. Regular pressures from a sons father are stressful enough for a kid.
He will know he doesn’t need to be afraid when he sees his father (who he looks up to) not wearing a mask and also not being afraid. Its as simple as that. When you walk around unafraid, and he sees you don’t get sick, he will have a better understanding. Talking about it constantly does the opposite.
When he gets older he won’t even remember the presidency of Trump. It will be something he has to go back and research. So it’s even pointless to discuss IMO. Trump or Biden being president is so irrelevant to a kid (in their mind, not in their policies) that you’re probably speaking a different language to him. All he knows is that dads putting expectations on him that he knows he can’t meet.
There is always a counter culture and it’s usually in spite of being it forced. If you pressure your son he can counter your culture.
Thanks for writing that. No one is even thinking about the kid’s perspective. It’s all “move out” “man up” “live free or die” (what does that even mean for a 9 year old?) I even saw one guy comment and tell OP that he’s not leading his family and he’s a shit father. Like gee, thanks for the advice you cunt.
OP didn’t reply to my comment but I hope he reads it and it resonates with him
To the ones that are saying “homeschool” that’s not always possible or even probable. Your kid is in a tough spot and you are as well. With that being said I believe it is important for you to talk to your kid and let them know that they have done nothing wrong. You also should schedule a call with the teacher and the principle. The line is crossed and it becomes a slippery slope. Let this go with the teacher and the next thing you know they will be having your child question their gender.
I hope this helps. As a mom I get it - protect your child.
It is possible for most people, it just takes sacrifices. Downsizing, moving to a lower cost of living area, etc. Having one parent work from home, etc.
I agree it may be very difficult in California, but her son is already at home learning which means she must already be home with him. My husband was homeschooled all the way up. It only took 2 hours a day when he was little and 4 hours a day when he was in high school. And by high school, his mom didn't do a whole lot. He was given the books and materials and told to complete the assignments. He would go to her if he had any questions, but for the most part he said he was good learning on his own. They now have online classes, but you as a parent can pick the curriculum and what is being taught to your kids.
My sister spends more time doing homework with her kids than my husband's mom spent doing all of their schoolwork. And my husband now has an MBA and is so smart. His mom gave him a LOVE of learning and taught him HOW to learn and not just memorize information, so he is always learning new things. School is the biggest time waster there is. They spend half the day correcting kids behavior and teaching just utterly useless stuff. My niece and nephews can barely read and write and don't know their multiplication tables (6th and 8th grade). Common core is horrific.
Yeah I feel you. This is a very hard time for kids.
It’s not a great idea to totally redpill kids before they’re mature enough to handle what comes with that.
My advice to him would be to keep quiet and not volunteer extra info.
Fortunately we have sane teachers where I live.
It's wild how perceptive kids can be. He's clearly receiving conflicting info from different sources that he doesn't know how to reconcile. I'm not a parent so I don't really have advice on how to talk to him. But he seems sharp, he just doesn't want to deal with the madness of the real world. I know I sure don't.
So.... your son is afraid that his teacher won't think hes a Biden supporter? Where did he get that idea from? I would have a long talk with his teacher and ask them why they think its appropriate to discuss their politics in your sons class. Then I would shame the teacher the same way your son feels/felt shamed. Personally, I don't even think that's an appropriate question for the teacher to even ask in regards to your son if he wore a mask. I get your just venting, but I'm a different breed. I don't give a shit, even if it made my kids embarrassed, but I would start making waves. Your son will thank you for it later when hes older. Consider it a lesson in tough love. As a parent I empathize with you when you see your children cry when they want to fit in and shit, but I would ask him if he would rather be a leader or a follower, and if he wants to be a leader, I would continue doing what you're doing and lead by example and be that guy standing alone on the island. Eventually he will put 2 and 2 together. If he prefers to be a follower, then let him go be one and support his decision and treat him like a follower. I'll leave that up to your own interpretation. Don't let your son end up like that one piece of shit kid that turned his dad into the FBI for going to the capital.
You need to get the hell out of LA
Just let him know you care and often heroes stand alone. Many teachers unfortunately go into the field because they define themselves by the people that surround them. Peer pressure is hard to face and fighting against the tribal mindset can be lonely at times. However it's those that can stand up to others that can trust above the constant noise. I'm not sure if the best solution, but in a world where hero's are seldomly found all anyone can do is try their best to be that hero in the life of others.
Home School, .
It’s online classes.. with no Indoctrination.. we switched our son after a few weeks..
Ron Paul has a good home school program.
If this was my son's teacher, I'd schedule a phone call with her and have a long talk about how her ideologies are affecting my child.
My best friend tried that with her son's teacher when she had some problems with what was being taught. All she got was a lot of condescension and excuses. Nothing changed, so she yanked her kids out and is now homeschooling them. She just started thinking if it was already that bad in kindergarten/preschool, how much worse would the ideology indoctrination get as they got older.
Her son was starting to argue with her about stuff his teacher was saying, and she saw a rebellious attitude in him and some bad behavior that he was obviously learning from other kids in class. Within a few weeks of being home, he went back to being her sweet boy and all the acting out went away. She said it was really crazy to see the difference. And her boys are excelling at home school. They love the curriculum she chose and are flying through it.
I’m sorry to hear that. ? I’d probably do the same if I ran out of options at the teacher or principal level. I’m glad to hear her son’s behavior has changed for the better.?
Yeah, she was so mad at the school. She sent me the emails the teacher sent her. They made my blood boil. They were so patronizing. Basically, I'm sorry you have a problem with it... no one else does.
She also had had a talk with the principal about how she didn't want her 5 year old being taught about transgenderism. She didn't think that was an age appropriate conversation, and she didn't want him being confused with talk that he could be a girl if he wanted to be. The principal also blew her off with some talk about how they try to be inclusive blah blah blah.
It was terrible. Once she saw that her concerns were not going to be taken seriously and the school was just going to keep doing whatever they wanted, she was done.
I can't even imagine. I pray for receptive hearts for those you to talk and their eyes may be opened. It's a strenuous time. I'm sorry.
Id bitch at the principle or school board. My husband thinks masks are dumb but will wear them in stores. Says instead of bettering myself, im wasting time finding out whats going on in the world. Lol. My kid has to go to school for only 2 hours a day....in a mask. Its creepy. But otherwise she'd be home w me and a 2 year old all day everyday & no friends. We moved here not too long ago and know nobody
Actually CA as well. Up north in Chico. They have them going 2 hours a day and for the rest of the year now.
I wanted to keep her home nc of the masks but she sees zero other kids otherwise. Plus, id like to get a job and go back to work. A little harder with this bullshit schedule. Noon to 2! Wtf. Ive been inslecting the literature theyre teaching for some liberal brainwash bullshit but havent seen anything horrible yet. Cant believe what happened to your son. Wow!
“I live in LA”
Found the problem.
I feel your pain Bro. Tensions are high everywhere and families are being divided quickly. Luckily my wife is on board with me but she's over it now, ready to submit. I refuse to mask up but because of that we barely go out anymore and even simple shopping can be difficult at times. The rest of the family thinks we're looney and trying to explain to people that they have believed a lie is about useless. Thoughts and prayers your way.
Homeschool. Unschool. Anythything but that.
Call the teacher and raise hell fuck them
Send him to military school
fight that teacher. your kids not theirs. show the data on susceptible groups. kids immune systems are resilient.
Find a good Christian online home school curriculum, most children can work through the material on their own if they are self motivated.
That’s is brutal OP. My wife and I fight about it often. She would prefer I bury my head in the sand, as well.
FUCK THAT
You aren't the one rejecting him and hurting him. They are. He doesn't need their approval.
Let him cry...he needs to know the truth ??♀️
i had a very long heartfelt message for you and when i attempted to send wifi cut out and lost it all :(
gist was if you can't take him out of the school for another school or homeschooling, I'd have a stern talk with the "teacher" reminding them why they most likely are so protective of trans and gays...to ley them be themselves and not be shamed like they did disgustingly to your son. if teacher doesn't get it go to superior and demand they resolve it with new teacher or repercussions with teacher
and you should study more to be much more solid in your convictions. there are scientific studies to support no masks. more than exist to the contrary if any even exist. my favorite is study circa 2005 that included Anthony "Fauxi" Fauci and they found that the MAJORITY of deaths from the 1918 "pandemic" was the result of bacterial pneumonia FROM WEARING MASKS! let that sink in. give this study to teacher and school
there's also studies on how kids are nearly 100% immune and don't transmit
and studies on how masks vs no masks show no marked difference in transmission
studies on particulate size of virus vs what cloth and even N95 masks can stop
Just don't let your son become an obedient sheep. we all dealt with shaming and bullying growing up and while not ideal, we ended up better adjusted I'd say by a long shot, than kids that are overly coddled today
good luck friend