Hi everyone,
I'm looking for some tips re: how to have a close, connected relationship with my wife who's asleep. We have been drifting further apart since I started waking up since November. Do any of you have a GOOD STRONG CONNNECTED relationship with your spouse who's asleep? Any tips?
I'm not looking for tips on how to wake her up because often my attempts to red-pill has caused even more disconnect. I'm looking for tips for how to have a GOOD STRONG CONNECTED relationship despite the awake vs. asleep difference.
For context of our difference, my wife was double-vaxxed ASAP and disregards my conclusions about anything when people in authoritative positions say otherwise. We're both Christians, but it's different now. I think I was spiritually woken up and I see the world differently. She's asleep and not interested in waking up and I feel like she wants me to fall back asleep in order to connect. Problem is.. I don't want to go back to sleep. Any tips are appreciated!
I think the vax disagreements have split people apart more than politics, because it’s very personal and related to a deep fear of illness and death.
If you want to connect with her more, I recommend setting aside your attempts to red pill her, and listen to her fears. Ask her, “What scares you about the world right now?” And really listen, don’t try to fix her fears. Don’t respond much, just be quiet and listen. Or say, “How are we doing? Are you feeling disconnected?” And listen, let her talk. If she opens up, give her comforting words like, “No matter what, or how we see things differently, I’m here for you and we will get through this time together.” This is a way to get closer. And consider yourself a man who is okay with letting his wife not know what’s going on in the world... she’s letting you know that she NEEDS to think things are normal like they used to be and therefore she needs you to PROTECT her from having to know about the nasty brutal things going on outside the home. On a deeper symbolic level, the home is the woman’s domain, and protecting it from the dangers out there is the mans domain. Modern women are so liberated, and they certainly can do it all, but when it comes to relationships, our ancestral archetypes often prevail. It’s wonderful to have a spouse you can talk about these things with, but since you don’t, it will help you to find friends to talk politics and vaccines with, so you can just talk about other stuff with her. And... once she feels you care about her, (and aren’t trying to push your scary crazy ideas on her) she will trust you more, and may eventually be more open to hearing your thoughts.
I’m a marriage counselor, and have long experience with this. Just my 2 cents for your consideration.
You sound like an excellent marriage counselor! I hope your wise advice is helpful to others on here with similar struggles.
Thanks for the tips. I think you're right about the need to talk to friends re: the stuff she doesn't want to talk about/the stuff that brings tension in our relationship.
Thanks for the sample scenario too. Will need to work on it!
^take this advice.
^^^THIS. Insightful. Thoughtful. Practical. Well said.
One time I gave my girlfriend a little bit of redpill about the cabal and it gave her horrifying nightmares that night. She's a very kind and compassionate soul I just don't think she's capable of emotionally handling that much information at once. She doesn't comprehend that people are capable of committing such horrors. Nowadays I don't really bother with going into too much details about stuff I know and the decisions I make, I just tell her to trust my guts and she usually just goes along with it. She's still 100% supportive of everything I do but there is just no way she is capable of dealing with knowing all the stuff I know. As men we just have to accept that during tough times we have to shoulder all the burden, even if our wives and kids don't fully understand what we're going through. Remember tough times create strong men.
And strong women...in my family I am the one that is awake and have been for MANY years, which has given our family a sense of marching to our own beat. Fortunately, my husband and married kids are very aware of things because of me but they still have to come to their own conclusion about how to think and what to do and I have to allow them that personal responsibility. I would like to say that works out 100% but it doesn't. I really don't mind being the main researcher because I would do so for myself anyway. Like you, I skip a lot of the details but try to keep everyone in the loop generally. We all have to be realistic and accepting of everyone else's difference in how they react to truth. I just do the best I can with what I've got.
Part of me wishes I was unaware that people are capable of committing heinous acts and worse so, that it is so prevalent in our society.
For many wives, it is best not to know many specifics. As another poster here has noted it can create nightmares and stress that is beyond most women's ability to handle. But it is good to at least know that these heinous acts do exist. I hope you have a godly husband who can be your protection, covering and guidance. Look to him. He will shoulder the difficult burden of knowing the depravity of humanity and will create a place of peace that will not overburden you.
That's how we got into this position.
The TRUTH will set you free.
Not faith.
Not a good husband.
Not belif in God.
The TRUTH.
If faith, God, and marriage are not TRUTH for you, there isn't any helping you. You are already lost and you understand Q only partially. This movement isn't simply some political action plan, it is a spiritual awakening.
If you think that lying to people "for their own good" is biblical then you should take a remedial English class.
Even taking into account the fact that you're wrong about the basic premise of your statement (e.g. that I think it's biblical to lie to people) it's still very ODD that you believe that a remedial English class is in order. One would think that a remedial THEOLOGY class would have been the more logical choice. Or perhaps you could have employed sarcasm and said, "You should take a remedial JERK class! Burn!"
I just can't get it out of my mind that you suggested a remedial English class. It's so very odd. But, maybe, it just so very.....you?
God.
Faith.
Marriage as ordained by God.
These things are good. They are biblical. They are not lies.
A remedial English class is best for people who spell "belief" as "belif", as you did.
Lying to your wife because of what you think she can or can't handle it is not biblical.
Telling the truth no matter how it hurts people is biblical.
You can tell the truth without sharing all the gory details.
But pretending there isn't evil so people feel better is how we got into this situation.
I had higher expectations when I chose the woman I'm spending the rest of eternity with. You're advising men to marry weak fools they don't respect. Just because it worked for you doesn't mean it's sound advice.
Those things, my friend, are the real "inconvenient truth" AL Gore should have spoken about. It's shitty and zaps one's faith in humanity sometimes.
Not that all people are like that, but that people like that are pulling the strings of power and most don't even entertain the idea while children suffer around the world. And they mock us.
It's important to know, and remember. As shitty as it is.
The way I've got it figured, the cabal is captured by and serving the monsters that they sacrifice children to. It seems the monsters need to work through the natives on this world, or else things would be different. We are not alone. It's the "best kept secret" of the military. Look at all the people Kerry Cassidy has interviewed on Project Camelot. Look at Stephen Greer's Disclosure Project from 2001. It's amazing how they can keep this information buried.
It becomes impossible to unsee or unhear the atrocities.
She needs to grow up because she's leading herself down into a dystopian hellscape.
I think you highlighted a very important truth. Many kind, sensitive, decent people struggle to grasp the fact that there really are people (particularky in places of authority) who are capable of the monstous evil we are seeing unfold. Their grid of understanding can't accommodate and process the worldwide scale of evil and often they reflexively dismiss it or look for ways to reject it (preserve their grid). It's predominately a subconscious (often very emotional) defensive response that can be absent of meaningful critical thinking.
In the thread that Zuby posted a couple of weeks ago about the 20 things he had learned/confirmed during the last year, the bonus item was that 'Most people are fairly compassionate and have good intentions (this is good) As a result, most people deeply struggle to understand that some people, including our 'leaders', CAN have malicious or perverse intentions (this is bad).'
I think this particular observation is a big hurdle for a lot of people who are having trouble waking up. It is the same mindset of people who cannot accept the fact that your partner - who is such a nice person publicly - is abusing you. Even though you are standing in front of them with a broken arm. They wouldn't do that! Ergo it must have been something you did.
(And we are starting to see that play out in real time. It is the fault of the unvaccinated.)
Good grief. Women need to WAKE UP!! I’m a woman and I LIKE knowing my husband is awake and the men on here are waking others up as well! (Women too!)
Since when are women defying their husbands wishes?? This world is a travesty. 🤭 Another reason the feminist movement was a DISASTER of an idea.
Good for you! So many women seem to be set on making their husbands into beta cuck laughingstocks instead of wanting an awakened and powerful man. There is no true marriage if a man does not have authority and respect in his own household. But many men, even on here, are programmed to simply accept their powerlessness. It is sad that even among anons there are SO MANY men who are content to be mocked and disrespected and just take it because they have given up on being anything but a beta. I admit that I'm surprised. I thought this group would have much less of that. I guess the feminist movement infiltrated more than I would ever have imagined!
Define "woman."
I was unaware I’d have to explain what a woman is on here 🤦🏼♀️
lol
Whatever you do, don’t back down and continue instead to guide her. Women want to follow and if you go back to sleep she will know it is you that are following her and she will resent you for it. Also remember this about women, they are remarkably strong/resilient/inclined when it comes to emotions and when you say something that is red pilled and she gets angry its actually OK. Strangely, you are making her FEEL something and even if it is bad, she feels alive. Conversely, if you were the perfect man that said all the perfect things she wanted to hear all the time, you would be boring to her and she would not FEEL anything and therefore feel dead inside. This is why women like bad boys and oddly stay with abusive partners. If you are too perfect and she gets bored, she will stir up her own energy to again get some kind of FEELINGS again; even negative - maybe pick a fight over nothing to see what kind of man you are (all subconsciously of course).
My point is that a woman being angry at you is actually a good sign if you don’t lay it on too thick. Let her FEEL YOU. Don’t control her with your attitudes but by all means, live authentically. When she gets mad at you as you are sure she will be, be “the mountain” and do not be emotional in response. Let her be “the weather” and let her rage as you remain “the mountain”. Treat her like she’s your kid sister when she expresses outrage at your Red Pill. Smile with amused mastery and just kind of be like a big brother in that moment. Don’t ever answer her emotion with emotion, that is a fail. Guide her. Forgive her. Be strong. Be authentic.
Thanks for the encouragement and perspective. I like the weather-to-the-mountain analogy.
I do too.
Haha the thought of a thunderstorm surrounding me while I smile in the rain while telling someone "that's my wife" is too much :P
Some excellent points though. Don't be a pushover, women like a man who knows what he stands for, not a "nice guy" that bows to her every whim.
Bowing is how you get left behind or "open marriages" to have someone fill the needs that you fail to cover.
My husband was asleep since I started falling down rabbit holes in 2007. He kind of just left me to my little autistic special interests (hence my username). Geopolitical stuff has always interested me whereas he’s more into gaming. We’ve been friends for nearly 27 years and have been together for 24 and although I no doubt bored him senseless he just listened when I’d waffle on. As time has gone on he’s seen more and more stuff that I was talking about being proven right and he’s now woken up totall and is off pursuing rabbit holes of his own. I never really bombarded him with stuff, I’d just mention stuff like the odd way the media fawned over Obama, which mirrored the way the UK press treated Tony Blair in 1997 (even the same nickname - Bambi). Then when GEOTUS announced his candidacy my gut said from the minute he came down the escalator “he’s going to win it” and I discovered The Donald and he sort of absorbed a lot by osmosis. With the pandemic stuff I have known from the get go it was BS & this whole thing has red pulled him so hard cos he’s a nurse, and so are a lot of his family so it directly affects us. I I’ve always had the approach that you can lead a horse to water. I don’t like arguing with people so I prefer to drop pills by asking questions and leaving folks to work out an answer. It’s worked with him, his dad (who famously once said to me -about GEOTUS - that media wouldn’t be allowed to publish stuff if it were false) and my nephew and our kids are questioning. I’ve always said when reading any information “consider the source” and although I am aware of a lot of information from this whole thing I don’t believe a lot of it (other than God) , I watch and wait and see how things shake out. If my husband hadn’t fell into this eventually as he has I’d still love him & he me. We are best friends and that’s above everything. If your other half isn’t onboard, go gently and drop questions rather than statements and let her navigate her way through.
I just found it better than trying to convince people, as sometimes their own ego will kind of block them from being receptive - no one likes to realise they are wrong after all. I found that if I asked questions, they’d go digging themselves and it would also prompt more conversations as they found out more info and made more connections.
My husband and I are best friends, too. I was awakened Nov. 22, 1963 as a child, but discovering Q about a month after the first post was explosive on the awakening curve! Even I never dreamed there was SO. MUCH. EVIL. And, committed by those we trust the most. Once I found out, all of the pieces fit together perfectly like an evil puzzle.
I have shared everything with him by reading the Q posts and research. He's good with everything except 9/11...he shuts down when I discuss the subject and so I no longer mention it. I feel for couples that aren't best friends.
I feel this is my path chosen for me by God; to learn and spread truth among family and friends and to pick up the pieces for those who are shattered when the truth is revealed.
If he hasn’t watched The Matrix, watch it with him. An avid gamer will relate and perhaps wake him up
Oh we’ve watched that a few times and our eldest 2 kids have watched it also
Thank you for sharing and for the advice.
Same here. 2x Vxd husband, very vocal about 'conspiracy theories', does not believe that the gvmt would harm us. We do not talk much at the moment and I have to self edit everything before I say a word. Why am I still with him? At heart he is a good man and has lived his life in service of others. He can not comprehend that there are evil people out there. I think it comes down to fear. He is afraid, of dying, I have no fear as I trust in God's plan for me. I have had to think long and hard about what to do at this point. I am not living my authentic self BUT i am holding on to the thought that one day, he will need me to help him navigate through, when The Truth unfolds. Currently, we exist together, like two radio sets but tuned in to different frequencies (quite literally). You must decide if you can live without your partner in your life or if it is just about tolerable, holding the hope that soon things will change for the better? I guess it comes down to LOVE, how much and how strong?
Okay sorry I'm just too curious, where does the name Goth_Mom come from? Do you dress like a goth?
It's my VERY OLD Twatter name. Was a Goth, still a Mom and now a Granny! Mainly dress in black (it worked for Jonny Cash!) but the make up has long gone. I now love God and wish that I was not quite as tattoo'd as I am, but I try to live the best life I can. It's just a username that's stuck with me really! Sorry! TMI!!!!!
Hey don't apologise, I did ask and I appreciate the honest answer! That makes sense.
If she’s asleep, then stand watch.
Let her get her beauty rest.
I’m sure she worries about things you never think of.
So keep ready, and stop crying wolf.
She’s sleeping cause she trusts you.
May her slumber be long and peaceful, and may your watch last the rest of your life.
If you can’t wake her up and you still love her and want to stay together, then I suggest you both agree not to speak to each other about all this. I really can’t think of another way for you both to stay away from further heartache down the road except not speaking about anything the other doesn’t like to talk about. Hope you two can work it out. My husband knows a lot of this stuff but only wants to talk about it when he brings it up, if I do he gets irritated. I think it’s because all of it pisses him off and he feels there’s nothing he can do, so there’s times he just doesn’t want to think about it. He’s the type of person who wants to fix problems and help but knows there are some things he can’t win with so he finds another way or goes in a different direction. Like if he doesn’t like an aspect of his job, his only options are to either quit or transfer to another area of his work. So that’s the position he’s in now, he’s getting ready to transfer to another area of work within the department where he will have the freedom to do the things he wants to do and his new supervisor is on the same page as my husband, so hopefully it will be a better fit for him and will be less stressful at work.
I'm sorry that your marriage is in such an upside-down state of affairs. Your husband should not be the beta who is always stressed and unable to handle problems. He is your spiritual covering and protector and you are under his authority. I do think, however, that not talking about it is a big problem. If he is in error, then he is not fulfilling his biblical obligations to you as the head of your household. Encourage him to assume the alpha position that God has created for him. Tell him how much you need his guidance and wisdom. Refer him to Ephesians 5 and Timothy 2.
When you hug or kiss her, close your eyes, think about how much you love her, and why you carry this burden for her until she's ready. Really feel it, hold her tight, like you want to push that love deep into her soul.
Hopefully she comes around.
My wife stays asleep. I show her some crazy stuff and she is not impressed. I learned that not everyone wants to wake up. My recommendation is to keep the marriage as primary. Treat the "waking" as a hobby. Dont push this stuff on her. U loved her before Q. Love her after. This stuff is still new to you. Us old timers know there are no dates. You could theoretically be arguing with her all the way up to 2024. You are just starting your research into what Q gave us. You are going to need to balance wife and Q info as 2 seperate things. When she is ready, she will tell you. Until then, you are just a crazy conspiracy nut lol.
My entire family calls me a conspiracy nut. But to their defense, i say some crazy stuff like democrats drink childrens blood, hollywood worships satan, follow the red shoes, biden will be arrested and the military will take over etc. Then one day right out of the blue in 2020, my sister posted in the group chat "everything you said was going to happen happened how did you know it was going to happen?" she asked. I replied with a smile.
Since your wife took both shots, my recommendation would be to learn what helps counteract the spike protien and help her through this winter if what we are seeing is true (vaxxed are gonna get really sick and unvaxxed will get blamed). Vitamin D and a bunch of herbals i think help out. I didnt look into it as hard and i really should. Ppl might come to me for help if its all true. Or chase me with fire and pitchforks lol.
WE DONT HAVE THE TIME TO TREAT WAKING PEOPLE UP AS A "HOBBY". The Reset is pushing ahead and if they can get these vax passports through whilst you're still playing your hobby, it's all over.
So tense. You need to relax. Waking ppl up is delicate. You cant just data dump everyone and think its done. You will loose ppl. They have to realize the truth themselves preferably. Especially if those that are new here are still learning the ropes.
Just as easy it is for them to put passports in place, it will be just as easy to get rid of them once the swampy creatures are removed. The only reason things take time is because of the swampy creatures.
As I say, we are running out of time. Running out the clock is their best strategy and it is to our destruction.
There are several "red pill" techniques, including:
Option 2) is more likely to succeed. Remember Q used the "Socratic Method" of asking questions as well.
Hmm. I go for #1 most of the time, because I'm usually out of patience with stupid people being to stupid to notice ANYTHING.
Option 2 never seems to lead anywhere with these blockheads.
I get it, I do, but how long do we have to wait for people......?
I feel your pain but, realistically, option 2 is the only way. The trick is to construct clever enough questions. It takes practice and patience.
So did Jesus, both for those who were at least open to what He had to say and those who were not. The idea is to get them thinking, whether or not they agree.
I started to wake up my wife since day ONE! Today, after 15 yrs of marriage we are on sinc!
Just love her. Women are not naturally inclined to deal with the shiat storm upon us. You are the steel cross member at this time.
My advice.
Tomorrow go out and buy her a flower. Bring it home and tell her how much you love her and that from this day forward, every month you will bring her another flower to show her, your love again.
Then do it.
Over time you can move her in regards to the reality as meant.
Until then, shower her with love.
You can't go back to sleep.
Blessing and a curse.
I just walked through an underground parking lot to another apartment building and my girlfriend is furious with me for not wearing a mask. She says I just want to be annoying and rebellious.
(no, I want to lead a military assault on all mask factories)
I'm in a country that demands it from the moment you set foot outside.
I'm with you on your assault.
Tell her, "because you believe in science, you can't wear the mask in good faith. The virus is too tiny to be filtered out, and the carbon dioxide and bacteria are proven through scientific tests."
Oh I have been since the beginning... She tolerates me, mostly... Lately though she usually just says "the only thing I think about now is that Trump says everyone should get the vaccine"
I've tried explaining that I'm not a blind follower of Trump and disagree strongly with him on that point, but that seems to be her killing blow...
Unfortunately, if a man is in a marriage where his wife is not awake, the problem began before the husband was red-pilled. She ALREADY has seen him as a beta and does not place herself under his spiritual authority and protection. That is a dangerous place for a woman. But if a man is willing to be a man, he will restore that part of the marriage first. Then, when she is in proper alignment, she will SEEK his wisdom and it will no longer be necessary to try to awaken her. If this cannot be done, the man will be a beta in his own home forever.
And he must then leave.
Truly. But God can make a way where there seems to be no way. Best to try that first.
One of The things that I’ve learned through the 12 steps program are the Serenity prayer:
Maybe you should accept that you can’t change her. My wife is also jabbed, and I’ve come to terms with it. I drip here a few pieces of info everyday, like more than half of health workers aren’t taking it, the protests in France, Italy etc.
These tidbits of info won’t awaken her, but she now has a nagging feelin that there’s more to this “pandemic” than state television is telling her.
Slow and steady wins the race, and I pray every night for both the jabbed and the “pure bloods”.
Yesterday I told her about the trials in the UK and USA where a certain amount of people have been given a placebo instead of the “vaccine”, and that these people will still be given a vaccine passport. We talked a bit about this, and I told her that I wonder if people here in Sweden are also part of these trials, and if some are given placebos? I told here to imagine the outrage if some people in the risk groups are given placebo, and start meeting people, and they get COVID and die?
Small questions to get her to doubt the propaganda, and if Q is right and there is a great awakening, she will be ready for the giant red pill.
You’re wife isn’t ready yet, and your job is to prepare her for the awakening, not necessarily to awaken her all by yourself. Find one piece of easy digestible news that are not covered by MSM every day, you want to prepare her, not scare her away. Small drips, maybe just a 20 second “did you know”,mor my favourite “Do you know what those tinfoil hats are discussing today?”
It’s important to give her the info, she will understand more later.
Thanks for pointing me to the Serenity prayer. I remember hearing it and some people through the course of my life have recited it.
Thanks for sharing and for your encouragement and advice.
Don't push her. Just be the best husband you can be. Let her come to you.
Just my .02. Got married at 22 and about to celebrated #27.
I wish I could give you hope, but, as I am in the same boat, I have given up. I am moving out, mainly for school, but to get away. I
Knowing others are in the same boat and feeling the same helps. I hope the other responses in this thread can give you encouragement and hope. God bless you and I pray that the hope He gives will uplift you!
I’m in the same boat too. Wife thinks I’m an alt right conspiracy theorist extremist (lol) but I’m really just a Christian patriot that wants the best for America. I’m thankful for this thread and will be considering a lot of the advice in here.
Cheers OP and good luck
I am also in the same boat.
Go downtown and while you’re down there keep thinking “trump is coming back trump is coming back trump is coming back”
I’m not kidding I just did it and it creates a pair bond no politics can break apart.
Hilarious. I have no poker face so my wife will ask me what I'm thinking about. Then when I tell her, she'll tell me I'm crazy and our date will then conclude in tense silence.
Date? His downtown was not a geographic location.
Cue the Vince McMahon meme
LOL. Trump, Billy Bush and Trump tower... Downtown will never be the same.
Answer in generalities rather than specifics. Hopefully this will satisfy her without stirring up tensions. Try to turn the focus onto her or a lighter subject as soon as possible.
have FAITH that you are where you need to be. Enjoy the time you have with them, regardless of what you think is coming. Relax about it. And speak your mind, when its appropriate. Worried people aren't inspiring. Fearless people are. Just be your happy unmasked unkabbed self, and let that be the example you set.
God Bless, fren. strange days indeed
Perfect perspective! Thank you.
Hope this helps:
1 Corinthians 16:13
"Be on the alert, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong."
My wife doesn't want to talk about these things.
That's perfectly okay with me ...
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"Divided you are weak." "Divided you fight each other." ... Q
If I alienate her she's not going to come to me when she has questions and all of our loved ones are going to have questions at some point.
If she's doesn't already come to you for wisdom there are pre-existing problems in the marriage. She obviously is not invested in godly wedlock if she does not see you as the spiritual head of your household. Unfortunately, Q is right, but you don't see that you and your spouse are ALREADY divided. It's vital that she be awakened but first she has to be awakened to biblical marriage precepts.
u/Sunnywindows is giving good advice, fren. And i can relate, and that same advice is how I've gotten my marriage back on track too.
I've been with my beloved wife for nearly 20 years (long engagement of 12 of those) with nary a fight over any topic that whole time. Then covid hit, and we couldnt talk about it with eachother rationally. Her colleagues started dying in india and just up north of us which shook her hard. I started getting blackpilled on the vaccines. She wound up getting astra vacs shot number 1, and i am still dead against having it. It was tearing us apart, any time one of us brought it up.
We only came through this by realising the fear was the bit pulling us apart. Since then we have been more conscious of talking about our fears more openly. We recognise we are on opposite sides of the fence here, and slowly she has started to come around to seeing it isnt all people are saying it is.
Shes against me getting the pfizer or moderna vacs now (which are the only ones available to me here), and is slowly seeing they are using this disease as a vector for control. Shes getting more and more redpilled on everything else by the day.
Love is what you must focus on. Dont watch any more fear porn on the vacs or the virus. And remember always, God wins. Im praying for my wife's protection before i fall asleep each night, and for God's will to be seen by everyone. Seems to be helping, at least thats what i think.
Thanks for sharing and for the tip of restricting fear porn on vacs/the virus!
It's amazing when the two of you came to realize what it truly was underlying each of your reactions.
My wife and I are in the middle part of your story right now. I think this thread helped a lot and by God's help--I'm sure we'll get out of this rut fairly soon.
My wife woke up on her own. You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink. Gently nudge as appropriate and pray every single day.
don't want to go back to sleep? pretty sure you can't bud :o
I understand this problem first hand as well. Now it’s not that my wife is entirely asleep - but mostly. However when she got her second shot it was a semi-wake-up - it hit her hard and she has said repeatedly that she never would have if she knew that was going to happen. She is extremely high risk regards to anything respiratory wise have two tracheal resections (look that up if you want to see some scary stuff - make sure to include “chin stitches” in a search if you do). My advise is this... compartmentalize. Not like that isn’t in about every guys nature anyways but seriously, it’s what I had to do - so I keep my GA scrolling away from her and just don’t talk to her about much of any of it unless she asks me a question directly. Good luck
women are mostly the same. You still have to make them feel protected and wanted. With all the Hollywood bullshit yes the women feel entitled to all kinds of endless bs but if you love your girl then you will do it to make her happy. She will then want to make you happy. Think of things that your spouse loves. (ie mine love random flowers, making sure I say she looks pretty all the time and meaning it, and also making sure she has queso pretty frequently) But that's ok bc I love queso too
Right! Thanks for the tip. I forgot about that woman wants LOVE and man wants RESPECT cycle. Gotta work on it...
This is true. Women lack the perspective to see through Hollywood "romance" stereotypes but there's nothing wrong with giving her some of the romantic things as a LARP. Basically, women are not as complicated or complex as men. There is no reason that a man should be a beta in his own home when a few flowers and the proper guidance and protection can ensure that she feels the fuzzy, cozy love she thinks she needs.
Double Vaxxed? Likely self-resolving problem.
Trump's return and a restoration of our Republic and representative governance will solve this issue.
Should none of that happen; then whatever perceived difficulties you are now experiencing will seem miniscule and be quickly forgotten.
I hope my gut feel is wrong about the vax. I'll work on some of the tips the others have provided...
My approach to the red pill is... It'll eventually come out and be undeniable.
my approach is about the same. i drop hints, ask questions (VERY gentle questions, ONLY at the right times. you DON'T want to set this woman off lol), answer when she asks...though i'm not sure my answers do much good. the last question she asked was "do you think 'elites' want to kill us off?" yes. "why? how?" blabbering conspiracy nonsense (to her ears). her eyes glaze over and then that conversation is done, my words swallowed in the void. i happen to know several of her friends are waking up (or already awake) and are being far more direct in their speech, which i LOVE. i think they can get her attention in ways i just can't. otherwise i'm trusting God/The Great Awakening Process to undo a lifetime of conditioning that i am ill equipped to do myself.
I will, along with my own, her 3 adult daughters, her whole family, 1/2 of my large family, and most of my friends.
I started to watch Stew Peters interviews in her presence (Peter McCullough, Sheri Tenpenny, Carrie Madej, Michael Yeadon, Judy Mikovitz, etc)... she's 90% awake now... knows that the coof is a spoof and these "vaccines" are bio-weapons... she even admits that 9/11 was a controlled demolition (watching the documentary about WTC7 helped get that red pill down)... she's a big Fox and Cucker Tarlson fan so I kept pointing out evidence that Faux News is controlled opposition and she eventually stopped watching and now she doesn't watch any MSM... I'm still trying to convince her that Nutflex is all propaganda but she's not budging... good luck fren
Great start! You've learned to have authority through wisdom and that is impressive. Hard to keep the ladies away from Bridgerton, but you've got a good beginning to showing her the reality of The Cabal and the power of The Plan. Very inspirational post.
Thanks fren
"I don't want to go back to sleep"
Even if you'd like to, I think it's simply impossible...
Faith in God.
I'm a woman and surrounded by loads of guys who are not just asleep, they are in REM sleep, their mouths are open and there is dribble coming out mid snore. I try to talk to them even just gently about HCQ and the unneccesary use for 'vax' they just glaze over.
My advice - don't try to protect her from it all. Don't wrap her up in her own ignorance. She needs to stand strong and deal with it. My experience with people is that they can't handle it but its too late for that - this is real and it is a real real threat and people united are much more effective for each other.
I have lost my best and closest friend - we are not the same. I could relax and just ignore the carnage going on around is when it comes to him. I won't, he has a teenage daughter who he would very happily sign up for the vax without informed consent. We argue constantly - but all through it he had doubts now, he never did before.
Show your truth, argue if you must but tell it how it is so she can carry the message forward also. Women are not that delicate believe me. Show her Katie Hopkins to give her the confidence x
We need quick, simple media to do this. Not ones 40 mins long with people yakking all the way through it. Punchy grab and go stuff that blows their minds.
Good luck fren - your love for her and for the truth is a light don't hide it!
This is EXACTLY RIGHT. I am literally shocked at how many betas are jumping on here to encourage other anons to make cucks of themselves in their own marriages!
What respect does a man have for his wife if he leaves her to keep participating in the anti-life vaxx culture of clown world?? Men's children and families are literally dying and they're preaching "it's cool, bruh. just let her figure it out in her own way. you don't have to have any responsibilities."
My grandfather's generation would vomit at these men and the disrespect and lies they tolerate.
I hear you, the women stood strong also in the old days. Can't stand that type of woman hiding from everything, anxious afraid even. Society right now encourages the victim mentality.
Testament to the guys allowing this for the sake of a quiet life but basically put they are enabling it and it wont change.
Time for all to stand strong, those asleep have to suck it up now and quick because they are after the children.
WWG1WGA
Yeah. Very well put. Very well said.
Yes, my husband is still asleep. Pushes back hard when I spew truth. It’s been rocky for our marriage over the last 5 years. Over the last year, instead of making it about political truth, I’ve learned to make it about truth in JC. Delving deeper into Christianity will open may doors to the truth. Pray for discernment and eyes wide open.
Pray together
The start: I asked my husband what he thought about George Bush using the IRS to openly target liberal groups. He was livid. When I said "fooled ya... That was Obama" and I had my receipts with Lois Lerner.... He was blown away. I pulled a similar "trick" in terms of Trump dismantling our 4th Amendment via the Patriot Act... Again, he was fuming... And then I showed him that it was OBAMA! He was absolutely shocked that he had NEVER heard about any of this... And I said " that's because you only watch sports and your family lives in a liberal bubble... And the media only painted Obama as a hero."
Needless to say, my marriage was suffering greatly until my husband found Jordan Peterson and Dave Smith (comedian, podcast: Part of the Problem) For some reason, he "heard" them better. I could say EXACTLY the same thing and he would find a way to argue, or counter my position. When he hears it from Peterson or Smith.... He understands it and is 100% on board. It used to bother me and I thought it was a lack of respect for me.... Now, I don't really care because we finally see eye to eye on politics and we fight less.
George W. Bush DID use the IRS to mess with liberal targets. That's a fact. Each administration is typically guilty of this. Your husband was right not to accept that as good behavior. It doesn't matter who does it. It's wrong.
Men have a way of communicating with each other that we ladies don't quite understand. (Same applies with women) We ladies tend to use more emotion when we speak, and because we are emotional about it, even if we have facts and logic, it is disregarded. It helps my husband and I when I use the "I feel...whatever" if I'm really dealing with feelings. If I have what I believe are facts about a situation, I'll say, I believe... this happened, and here is my evidence."